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Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by SmellingAnus(m): 8:29am On Dec 09, 2016
What Are The Reasons For Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women During Nysc Camp


While on camp at Umuna Bende Nysc Orientation camp in Abia state I noticed the way some married women flirt with male corps members... The kind of flirting I saw with my eyes was worse than what some singles would have done there... Infact on camp, the married once behaved as if they are unmarried while the unmarried ones behaved even more responsible...

There was this incident that happened on camp about a married woman that was caught with another guy having sex at the big field there at night.. The husband of the woman was sent for to see his disgraceful wife.. The man simply removed his ring and gave it to the boy that slept with his wife and left the camp...

Sad indeed but such cases of sexual promiscuity seems to be the order of the day when ever there is a functional NYSC Orientation camp...

So I ask a question for discussion and contributions... Those married women caught on different occassions for sex related offenses during NYSC Orientation camp... Were they sex starved or are they sex addicts that can't endure for just three weeks without sex?

Please also share other sex related offenses committed during NYSC Orientation Camp...

(Shout out to all Jesus Corpers... I love this family of God...) The above write up was experienced in July 2010 NYSC Batch B Orientation Camp in Umuna Bende in Abia State...

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by Nobody: 8:38am On Dec 09, 2016
sex starved I guess. grin

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by Young03(m): 8:38am On Dec 09, 2016
Them won enjoy what the unmarried ones are enjoying in camp

They heard that life in camp is sweet

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by SmellingAnus(m): 8:43am On Dec 09, 2016
IamJix:
sex starved I guess.
grin
hahaha that's serious o... But I use to believe that the females can stay longer than their male counterparts without sex lipsrsealed

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by SmellingAnus(m): 8:45am On Dec 09, 2016
Young03:
Them won enjoy what the unmarried ones are enjoying in camp


They heard that life in camp is sweet
Lol... I guess it's a matter of the new found freedom to mingle without possibly being caught especially by their husbands grin

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by Nobody: 8:47am On Dec 09, 2016
SmellingAnus:
hahaha that's serious o... But I use to believe that the females can stay longer than their male counterparts without sex lipsrsealed
yes they can but.
it varies from person to person.
high libido.
There are some men who can't go a day without sex.
same issue/thing applicable to some women.

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by Young03(m): 8:49am On Dec 09, 2016
SmellingAnus:
Lol... I guess it's a matter of the new found freedom to mingle without possibly being caught Esperanto by their husbands grin



them won use the only opportunity they get

but its bad

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by delishpot: 8:50am On Dec 09, 2016
SmellingAnus:
hahaha that's serious o... But I use to believe that the females can stay longer than their male counterparts without sex lipsrsealed

Wrong assumption. Society just demands and enforces the lifestyle.



@TOPIC, why would NYSC call her husband na? Would they have called the wife/wives if the husband was caught sleeping with a woman he was not married to?
They handled this thing badly in my opinion.

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by SmellingAnus(m): 8:58am On Dec 09, 2016
delishpot:


Wrong assumption. Society just demands and enforces the lifestyle.



@TOPIC, why would NYSC call her husband? Do they also include family morality duties in the NYSC programme? Would they have called the wife/wives if the husband was caught sleeping with a woman he was not married to?
They handled this thing badly in my opinion.
exactly my thoughts and the the thoughts of some other corps members during that period... A home was broken... However, maybe it was just Nemesis catching up with the woman...

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by SmellingAnus(m): 9:01am On Dec 09, 2016
delishpot:


Wrong assumption. Society just demands and enforces the lifestyle.



@TOPIC, why would NYSC call her husband? Do they also include family morality duties in the NYSC programme? Would they have called the wife/wives if the husband was caught sleeping with a woman he was not married to?
They handled this thing badly in my opinion.
exactly my thoughts and the the thoughts of some other corps members during that period... A home was broken... However, maybe it was just Nemesis catching up with the woman...

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by SmellingAnus(m): 9:06am On Dec 09, 2016
IamJix:

yes they can but.
it varies from person to person.
high libido.
There are some men who can't go a day without sex.
same issue thing applicable to some women.
true... Let's assume your girlfriend is going for her NYSC, will you be scared or what? Or you will trust her that she can't mess up grin
Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by SmellingAnus(m): 9:09am On Dec 09, 2016
IamJix:

yes they can but.
it varies from person to person.
high libido.
There are some men who can't go a day without sex.
same issue/thing applicable to some women.
true... Let's assume your girlfriend is going for her NYSC, will you be scared or what? Or you will trust her that she can't mess up grin

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by Nobody: 9:11am On Dec 09, 2016
SmellingAnus:
true... Let's assume your girlfriend is going for her NYSC, will you be scared or what? Or you will trust her that she can't mess up grin
I have never trusted myself in the case of konji nahim I go trust another person??
grin

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by SmellingAnus(m): 9:11am On Dec 09, 2016
Young03:




them won use the only opportunity they get

but its bad
hahahah yes o... But if your madam wan go for her NYSC hope say you go trust her say she no go cheat on you grin
Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by SmellingAnus(m): 9:14am On Dec 09, 2016
IamJix:

I have never trusted myself in the case of konji nahim I go trust another person??
grin
hahahhahahah sharp guy... Good to be true to yourself... Nice one cool

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by Young03(m): 9:15am On Dec 09, 2016
SmellingAnus:
hahahah yes o... But if your madam wan go for her NYSC hope say you go trust her say she no go cheat on you grin

I will only resort to fate

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by SmellingAnus(m): 9:15am On Dec 09, 2016
IamJix:

I have never trusted myself in the case of konji nahim I go trust another person??
grin
hahahhahahah sharp guy... Good to be true to yourself... Nice one cool
Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by SmellingAnus(m): 9:15am On Dec 09, 2016
Young03:


I will only resort to fate
same thing I will do bro cool cool
Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by Lastking147(m): 9:20am On Dec 09, 2016
I think this study can be filed under mucho-depressing.gov/sadness. A woman's sex life is her own business and she has the right to pursue pleasure wherever she wants, from a sex dungeon in Berlin to a Player's party in Palm Springs. My life philosophy can be summarized simply as, "Get that dick, girl!" Just kidding, kind of.

However I have to admit that I kind of understand why girls would be wary of getting very close to a promiscuous woman. I know it sounds super judgy but let me explain. I had a best friend in high-school who slept with a ton of dudes. Married guys? Check. Drug dealers? Check. Somebody's dad? Check. She did it for attention, she did it for validation, she did it to escape her awful family life. But the point is she did it...a lot. The worst part was that she did it with guys I was in love with. She kissed the high school love-of-my-life at my birthday party. That friendship totally destroyed me but it also taught me a valuable lesson: You can't be close to a girl who is desperate for male attention. You will get hurt.

The lead author of the Cornell study Zhana Vrangalova validates my point. She proposes that "evolutionary concerns may be leading men and women to disapprove of their bed-hopping peers as friends. They may actually be seeking to guard their mates from a threat to their relationship." If someone has a voracious sexual appetite it's easy to feel threatend. What if she tries to charm my husband? What if she flirts with my boyfriend? It's not crazy to be worried about that. However, I realize that there is a difference between someone who sleeps around a lot and a disloyal person.

The Cornell study which is called, "Birds of a Feather? Not When it Comes to Sexual Permissiveness," finds that "such social isolation may place promiscuous women at greater risk for poor psychological and physical health outcomes." It makes me think of the tragic suicide of Felicia Garcia, a 15-year-old girl who was literally slut-shamed to death. After allegedly sleeping with four football players on the same night at a party, she was aggressively bullied at school. According to an article on Jezebel, "two days before she killed herself, Garcia tweeted, "I can't, I'm done, I give up."

Slut-shaming is a very real problem and as women we have got to support each other through this battle. Women like Sandra Fluke, who spoke in Congress in defense of birth control, and Katelyn Campbell, a high school student who fought against abstience-only education, were both called "sluts" and "prostitutes" by media figures. I think what these people meant to call them was "inspirational heroes." Oh, semantics.

On a more practical note, I would advise ladies who like to sleep with a large variety of partners and don't have a lot of female friends: If you're trying to make new amigas, make sure to prove to them that your sex life is not a threat to them. Show them you are trust-worthy and have excellent boundaries.
Cc SmellingAnus
Culled from Cosmopolitan

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by SmellingAnus(m): 9:43am On Dec 09, 2016
Lastking147:
I think this study can be filed under mucho-depressing.gov/sadness. A woman's sex life is her own business and she has the right to pursue pleasure wherever she wants, from a sex dungeon in Berlin to a Player's party in Palm Springs. My life philosophy can be summarized simply as, "Get that dick, girl!" Just kidding, kind of.

However I have to admit that I kind of understand why girls would be wary of getting very close to a promiscuous woman. I know it sounds super judgy but let me explain. I had a best friend in high-school who slept with a ton of dudes. Married guys? Check. Drug dealers? Check. Somebody's dad? Check. She did it for attention, she did it for validation, she did it to escape her awful family life. But the point is she did it...a lot. The worst part was that she did it with guys I was in love with. She kissed the high school love-of-my-life at my birthday party. That friendship totally destroyed me but it also taught me a valuable lesson: You can't be close to a girl who is desperate for male attention. You will get hurt.

The lead author of the Cornell study Zhana Vrangalova validates my point. She proposes that "evolutionary concerns may be leading men and women to disapprove of their bed-hopping peers as friends. They may actually be seeking to guard their mates from a threat to their relationship." If someone has a voracious sexual appetite it's easy to feel threatend. What if she tries to charm my husband? What if she flirts with my boyfriend? It's not crazy to be worried about that. However, I realize that there is a difference between someone who sleeps around a lot and a disloyal person.

The Cornell study which is called, "Birds of a Feather? Not When it Comes to Sexual Permissiveness," finds that "such social isolation may place promiscuous women at greater risk for poor psychological and physical health outcomes." It makes me think of the tragic suicide of Felicia Garcia, a 15-year-old girl who was literally slut-shamed to death. After allegedly sleeping with four football players on the same night at a party, she was aggressively bullied at school. According to an article on Jezebel, "two days before she killed herself, Garcia tweeted, "I can't, I'm done, I give up."

Slut-shaming is a very real problem and as women we have got to support each other through this battle. Women like Sandra Fluke, who spoke in Congress in defense of birth control, and Katelyn Campbell, a high school student who fought against abstience-only education, were both called "sluts" and "prostitutes" by media figures. I think what these people meant to call them was "inspirational heroes." Oh, semantics.

On a more practical note, I would advise ladies who like to sleep with a large variety of partners and don't have a lot of female friends: If you're trying to make new amigas, make sure to prove to them that your sex life is not a threat to them. Show them you are trust-worthy and have excellent boundaries.
Cc SmellingAnus
Culled from Cosmopolitan
I actually read everything and I must say that it's quite educating/informative... Infact it brought about several dimensions/factors I didn't even consider while writing on this topic... Much thanks, I actually learnt a whole lot in this article cool but the lady in question broke camp rules... It's possible that her husband was her next of kin so maybe they felt it was appropriate to notify her next of kin...

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by herzern(m): 12:53pm On Dec 09, 2016

Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by eleojo23: 12:53pm On Dec 09, 2016
It shows a very low level of self control for someone to have intercourse in NYSC camp of all places.

It's such an uncomfortable place that the only thought on one's mind is how to get done with the whole exercise and get out of the camp as soon as possible.

And some people will be busy looking for how to mess up! Come on!

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by Nobody: 12:54pm On Dec 09, 2016
APKAKO MASTRESS!!!
Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by etinanguy(m): 12:54pm On Dec 09, 2016
If I hear!!






That same guy

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by iykedare(m): 12:54pm On Dec 09, 2016
Generally,african women are promiscuous. Sex seem to be the only thing they take so serious. That is their only contribution to humanity.

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by ednut1(m): 12:55pm On Dec 09, 2016
Some many of us will marry ashis, ex runs babes and cheerful giver grin, signs of end times

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by Nobody: 12:56pm On Dec 09, 2016
People actually have sex in those filth ridden camps?

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by MizOmalicha(f): 12:58pm On Dec 09, 2016
SmellingAnus:
What Are The Reasons For Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women During Nysc Camp


While on camp at Umuna Bende Nysc Orientation camp in Abia state I noticed the way some married women flirt with male corps members... The kind of flirting I saw with my eyes was worse than what some singles would have done there... Infact on camp, the married once behaved as if they are unmarried while the unmarried ones behaved even more responsible...

There was this incident that happened on camp about a married woman that was caught with another guy having sex at the big field there at night.. The husband of the woman was sent for to see his disgraceful wife.. The man simply removed his ring and gave it to the boy that slept with his wife and left the camp...

Sad indeed but such cases of sexual promiscuity seems to be the order of the day when ever there is a functional NYSC Orientation camp...

So I ask a question for discussion and contributions... Those married women caught on different occassions for sex related offenses during NYSC Orientation camp... Were they sex starved or are they sex addicts that can't endure for just three weeks without sex?

Please also share other sex related offenses committed during NYSC Orientation Camp...

(Shout out to all Jesus Corpers... I love this family of God...) The above write up was experienced in July 2010 NYSC Batch B Orientation Camp in Umuna Bende in Abia State...
Lie! It never happened in abia camp... what a lie

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by Olasco93: 12:58pm On Dec 09, 2016
The women simply met younger guys who are Experts in Flirting and the Koko, than their so called husby... And those fresh graduate's swagger are Second to none, even when they don't have a dime in their pocket the Words coming out from their Mouth is sweeter than Honey Comb and Soothing like you're in the Garden of Eden on Earth. FEAR MALE OTONDOS, expecially Deltans and Edolites... They are Dope, they dont joke with free punna... If you know what I mean. So my Cecelias, becareful of those punna hunters...
No matter how evil you think money is, don't think being broke is holiness.

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by esuLAAROYE(m): 12:58pm On Dec 09, 2016
Ok
Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by MizOmalicha(f): 12:59pm On Dec 09, 2016
delishpot:


Wrong assumption. Society just demands and enforces the lifestyle.



@TOPIC, why would NYSC call her husband? Do they also include family morality duties in the NYSC programme? Would they have called the wife/wives if the husband was caught sleeping with a woman he was not married to?
They handled this thing badly in my opinion.
God bless u for dis..

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Re: Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women At NYSC Camps by Nobody: 12:59pm On Dec 09, 2016
What about the nysc married men that does the same thing?

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