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Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by hotspec(m): 2:14pm On Dec 28, 2016

Glory12345, were u a virgin when u got married, if u have. Have u never been guilty of any of those things u listed?

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by mediocre(m): 2:14pm On Dec 28, 2016

EbukaLive:
Looking at your DP. I don't think you would have a problem keeping your virginity or purity for a VERY long time...

This is savage grin

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Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Nobody: 2:15pm On Dec 28, 2016

Some even go as far as giving blow jobs and receiving same. One even boasts of having anal sex just to protect her hymen. That kind virginity. Kikikiki abegiii. Hypocrisy bad *continues turning eba

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Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by shadeyinka(m): 2:15pm On Dec 28, 2016

OP,
I respect this your post. A challenge to purity rather than window dressing.

A girl had phone-sex with her boyfriend and it became a deliverance case. If a man looks lustfully at a woman, Jesus says they have done it.

The bottom line is this, "do NOT wake up love until it pleases". Don't start a relationship until you are ready for Marriage.

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Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Emeks008(m): 2:15pm On Dec 28, 2016

How can one abstain from all what u av listed above? Phonograph is so rampant, indecent dressing among the ladies etc.

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Nobody: 2:16pm On Dec 28, 2016

Nice one OP..

God help us. Especially when u have had premarital sex and willing to disengage from it! That d hardest!

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by samadream(m): 2:16pm On Dec 28, 2016

purify your mind, virgin or having been disvirging,a task this days full of temptations though still achievable

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Nobody: 2:16pm On Dec 28, 2016

EbukaLive:
Looking at your DP. I don't think you would have a problem keeping your virginity or purity for a VERY long time...

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by daneni1(m): 2:17pm On Dec 28, 2016

Berlynn:
Thank God i am still a virgin and i am still pure

Quote me and fart all day pffffft

Say it again.

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by bettercreature(m): 2:18pm On Dec 28, 2016

favourmic:
What is this one talking about now

It's beyond my understanding my brother

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Nobody: 2:18pm On Dec 28, 2016

So you in that display pic is telling me, you a virgin?
So tell me, i guess being a virgin is pointless since there is no purity?

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by andreiose: 2:19pm On Dec 28, 2016

Berlynn:
Thank God i am still a virgin and i am still pure

Quote me and fart all day pffffft

you?? virgin?? impossible,, infact come to my house, lemme check if you're telling d truth

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Nobody: 2:20pm On Dec 28, 2016

Emeks008:
How can one abstain from all what u av listed above? Phonograph is so rampant, indecent dressing among the ladies etc.

I tire o, in the days of old, how many waited till their 30s to get married?

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by muyibaba222(m): 2:20pm On Dec 28, 2016

hmmm

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by classical15(m): 2:21pm On Dec 28, 2016

Glory you've said it right. Haters of truth can go and hug transformer.

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Chukazu: 2:23pm On Dec 28, 2016

What a" master piece! " one of the best I have read on Nairaland far.. And this pertains to me... am a Virgin by all means, but far from purity.. Lord have mercy!

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Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Malakh: 2:25pm On Dec 28, 2016

scriptures said who can find a virtuous woman, the question is rhetorical, there was/is only one virtuous "woman" mind you a man can be a woman in a figurative sense.so you are right being a natural virgin means nothing to the most High.if you read lamentations a lot of virgins were cut-off.

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Chukazu: 2:27pm On Dec 28, 2016

What a" master piece! " one of the best I have read on Nairaland far.. And this pertains to me... am a Virgin by all means, but far from purity.. Lord have mercy!

even PATORANKING be preaching against kissing and touching, but me no heed

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by mengho(m): 2:27pm On Dec 28, 2016

I agree with the pretty young lady
I will strive 4 dat perfect purity since I already got the V part intact

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Nobody: 2:29pm On Dec 28, 2016

Glory12345:
There are so many teachings today about virginity! One guy was telling me the other time how he so much desired to marry a lady that is a virgin like himself, as good as that sounds, it is not the ultimate! I have written a lot about the need to preserve sex for marriage, and wait till you are married before having sex, the truth is that singles should abstain from premarital sex, and the married should abstain from extra-marital affairs, they are not man-made rules, they are commands from God written in the Holy Scriptures! Run from sexual sin! No other sin clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body (1Cor 6:18) and Proverb 6: 32 says But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself. So I’m not in any way undermining the sanctity of virginity!

But unfortunately, more emphasis has been laid on virginity at the detriment of purity! Lots of young people believe that virginity and purity are synonymous! Thinking if you are a virgin then you are sexually pure! Hear this! You can be a VIRGIN and STILL BE A FORNICATOR! You can be a virgin and still be guilty of sexual immorality, in other words, YOUR VIRGINITY CAN BE INTACT, whereas YOUR PURITY IS LOST!
Read what Jesus said: But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart (Mathew 5:28), so you discovered that the issue of fornication/adultery has gone pass virginity! The sin is committed in the heart before the outward manifestation!

Purity is not just about whether you’ve had sex before or not, Purity is about being sexually pure inwardly and outwardly, PURITY IS NOT AN EVENT, IT’S A LIFESTYLE!
So many youths are only concerned about keeping their virginity (which is good) but less concerned about what they do with their body, so many are still involved in pornography,Watching blue films on the Infinix Zero 4 dry-humping (caressing their bodies with clothes on), masturbating, lustful kissing, homosexuality,
sexual imaginations etc… All those sexual activities render you impure, regardless of whether you are a virgin or not!
If you are a virgin, strive not to lose your virginity to anyone other than your husband or wife, if you’ve lost your virginity, strive not to continue in premarital sex! But above all STRIVE TO BE SEXUALLY PURE AND LIVE A LIFE OF HOLINESS IN ALL RAMIFICATIONS! PURITY............

I agree with all your points except the bolded part. Sexual pleasure is NOT sought by one who is sexually fantasising, rather a hormonal rush. So no lust is involved thus far.
If the fantasiser is not imagining sinful acts, no lust is involved at all. It's perfectly normal and natural to think about such things. The sexual experience is one of the most emotionally satisfying and pleasurable experiences that we will have in this lifetime. Such though should not be engaged in without restraint. I do believe we are called by God to control ourselves in all areas of life.

Whenever you find yourself having these thoughts, it's probably better to acknowledge them as pleasurable and good, then let them pass on through. Dwelling on them can only lead to trouble.

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Blurr(m): 2:30pm On Dec 28, 2016

Mtchew..wu ur virginity epp?

huh

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by rosalieene(f): 2:30pm On Dec 28, 2016

Op true talk

God should give us the grace
Its not easy at all, Its easier said than done

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by chuksville(m): 2:30pm On Dec 28, 2016

I Just Dey Look You With One Eye...

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Nobody: 2:32pm On Dec 28, 2016

can someone summarize it for me

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Ten12(m): 2:34pm On Dec 28, 2016

Making same point over nd over

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Nobody: 2:34pm On Dec 28, 2016

favourmic:
What is this one talking about now

her view

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by meggi4(m): 2:39pm On Dec 28, 2016

and so abegi its party time P.A.R.T.Y cuz i gota

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Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Divay22(f): 2:42pm On Dec 28, 2016

No comment

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Nobody: 2:47pm On Dec 28, 2016

Hmmmm... OP but this is the 21st century SO

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Nobody: 2:48pm On Dec 28, 2016

Miss op.... after checking out your dp.... all i can say is you don't know what you are saying... you can't say you keeping your body pure and still put all that make up on ur face...you can't enter heaven with another person's hair on your head

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Nobody: 2:49pm On Dec 28, 2016*

Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by dhardline(m): 2:50pm On Dec 28, 2016

Glory12345:
There are so many teachings today about virginity! One guy was telling me the other time how he so much desired to marry a lady that is a virgin like himself, as good as that sounds, it is not the ultimate! I have written a lot about the need to preserve sex for marriage, and wait till you are married before having sex, the truth is that singles should abstain from premarital sex, and the married should abstain from extra-marital affairs, they are not man-made rules, they are commands from God written in the Holy Scriptures! Run from sexual sin! No other sin clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body (1Cor 6:18) and Proverb 6: 32 says But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself. So I’m not in any way undermining the sanctity of virginity!

But unfortunately, more emphasis has been laid on virginity at the detriment of purity! Lots of young people believe that virginity and purity are synonymous! Thinking if you are a virgin then you are sexually pure! Hear this! You can be a VIRGIN and STILL BE A FORNICATOR! You can be a virgin and still be guilty of sexual immorality, in other words, YOUR VIRGINITY CAN BE INTACT, whereas YOUR PURITY IS LOST!
Read what Jesus said: But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart (Mathew 5:28), so you discovered that the issue of fornication/adultery has gone pass virginity! The sin is committed in the heart before the outward manifestation!

Purity is not just about whether you’ve had sex before or not, Purity is about being sexually pure inwardly and outwardly, PURITY IS NOT AN EVENT, IT’S A LIFESTYLE!
So many youths are only concerned about keeping their virginity (which is good) but less concerned about what they do with their body, so many are still involved in pornography,Watching blue films on the Infinix Zero 4 dry-humping (caressing their bodies with clothes on), masturbating, lustful kissing, homosexuality, sexual imaginations etc… All those sexual activities render you impure, regardless of whether you are a virgin or not!
If you are a virgin, strive not to lose your virginity to anyone other than your husband or wife, if you’ve lost your virginity, strive not to continue in premarital sex! But above all STRIVE TO BE SEXUALLY PURE AND LIVE A LIFE OF HOLINESS IN ALL RAMIFICATIONS! PURITY............

Beautiful piece and a needed reminder to me.

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