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| Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by kilokeys(op): 7:00am On Jan 05, 2017 |
I saw a post on fp. It is catchy and well composed, a good write up... but lacking sense I really want to live in an ideal world where all sexes will be treated equally. BUT, UNFORTUNATELY THE LADIES WANT TO EAT THEIR CAKES AND HAVE IT I have met single ladies (26 to 33) say '' i am tired of taking care of myself, i need to be pampered''... i know thats the general thought of ladies, even Linda ikeji on some days. its just genetics... We love to do the pampering, you love being pampered.. so whats the biggie? we are physiologically different, we dont have wombs, we do not get to menopause , we dont have cramps, we have higher testosterone , we sweat more, we have more muscle mass, we are more logical, sex is not as emotional, we aren't experts at using words..so when u verbally abuse us, we might physically abuse you.. ( all forms of abuse are wrong, you have the mouth , we have the muscles) abeg if u are a fine lady, ready for marriage, a feminist, that wants gender equality..... please come lets get married... i can even bear ur surname if u want as long as, 1. we split bills equally. 2. I am a chef, so we could take turns at cooking 3. I love kids, house chores is no biggie 4. You can also put on the generator , wash the cars, change the bulbs and do some manual repairs like me 5. Drive me same way i drive you.. come sit out with me as i barb my hair sme times 6. Shower me with gifts same as i do to you. 7. please me in bed, pre-intimacy is also fun for us guys... ill do the same 8. Get me my toiletries, veet, razors. colognes etc. etc. I WILL BE SO GLAD TO HAVE YOU AS MY WIFE... U CAN EVEN BE THE HUSBAND... OR WE TAKE TURNS.. I DONT CARE. where is that lady o 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by Edwinmason(m): 7:07am On Jan 05, 2017 |
the poster look over desperate 1 Like |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by yomi007k(m): 7:07am On Jan 05, 2017 |
 Wa sere... Kilo....make sure u plait ur hair so dt u go tey well well for salon. Nice post. |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by DozieInc(m): 7:13am On Jan 05, 2017 |
Role swapping. |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by Kingxway: 7:14am On Jan 05, 2017 |
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| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by pocohantas(f): 7:22am On Jan 05, 2017 |
You all are beginning to sound like broken records, both the whining females and the males. Go for what works for you, if you're a traditional man, get a traditional wife and run a traditional home. If you're a man who loves the whole 50:50 thing, get a woman who loves that too. Not only women want to be pampered, even men want to be pampered. You hear woman say they want to be pampered? You have never heard men enter their empty kitchens and say "I need to get married?"...why is he saying that, if not because he wants a woman to come take that responsibility from him by pampering him. Those things you highlighted are no big deals, doesn't make any one a feminist, that's how it should be all things being equal. It's pretty shallow that any revolt from females even misguided ones is looked upon as feminism. There are women in the village who exhibit gross misbehaviour and they have never heard of the word feminism. Please, don't tell me all ladies are parasitic. If you haven't met independent ladies, change your circle or yourself...you're mixing with the wrong set or not deserving of such treatment. 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by Nobody: 9:21am On Jan 05, 2017 |
The Truth Is Most Women Who Clamour For Feminism Dont Even Know What Feminism Is. They Have No Idea Of The History Of Feminism. |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by babasolution: 9:31am On Jan 05, 2017 |
very true,most women dont know the history or origin of feminism,feminism is not helping women,its just degrading them.western society is gradually collapsing but african women would not observe and retrace their steps,women can do whatever they want,but they should stop using platforms created by men to whine and complain always. |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by Nobody: 4:10pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
I can't stop laughing.  The hustle is real. |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by jashar(f): 8:50pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
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| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by yedidiah(m): 11:44pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
jashar:the upright! that's my former moniker before Nairaland was attacked and I lost it. Good to see someone reviving it. Bless your soul sister. |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by yedidiah(m): 11:49pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
Well, that can't happen because we were designed differently even though we are the same. Male and female. One was formed from the dust, the other from a rib bone. Forget about all those feminism talk. It is grossly misunderstood and inconsistent. So do your work as man and let the woman do hers. We are all built for our works. Sadly, Pampering is part of hers |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by saintade01(m): 6:11am On Jan 06, 2017 |
[quote author=yedidiah post=52569340) Forget about all those feminism talk. It is grossly misunderstood and inconsistent. So do your work as man and let the woman do hers.[/quote]My point exactly. |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by WHOcarex: 6:38am On Jan 06, 2017 |
Does asking for a fair treatment makes one a feminist? Sadly, that is the case in Nigeria. |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by jashar(f): 7:18am On Jan 06, 2017 |
yedidiah:Bless you too Beloved of the Most High God..... |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by cococandy(f): 8:22am On Jan 06, 2017 |
WHOcarex:There's nothing sad about it. That's what feminism is all about 2 Likes |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by Nobody: 8:32am On Jan 06, 2017 |
and hope you will get pregnant, share the morning sicknesses and monthly cramps, take of the kids, cook our meals (morning afternoon evening),go to the market, make sure the house is always looking neat, put the kids to bed, get ready to wake up in the middle of the night wen the baby of the house screams and call for attention, drink hot and peppery water with us after child birth...hope you are ready for all this and many more Mr Op 1 Like |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by Nobody: 8:47am On Jan 06, 2017 |
deb303:lol, this one is sweet pepper soup na with Good Cat fish ! besides when women are pregnant, they can request for anything they feel like eating at any moment of the day. Your husband has to go look for it whether its possible or not. When used to live with my Sis some years ago, I did all you mentioned above for many years lol, except sharing morning sicknesses and monthly cramps. No big deal abeg ! |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by Nobody: 8:55am On Jan 06, 2017 |
yedidiah:We are all from the dust lol  |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by WHOcarex: 10:18am On Jan 06, 2017 |
cococandy:Then, there is nothing bad about feminism. |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by Nobody: 12:08pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
Op you go wait taya. |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by kilokeys(op): 1:38pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
deb303:hahahahaha.. we walk around with the gallon.. just two drops and y'all wanna faint. to carry such powerful balls around no easy too. |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by Nobody: 1:39pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
cococandy:Feminism is fair treatment and equal opportunities to women egalitarianism is both sexiam but ideally feminisms was ensuring women rights and freedom were the same as men and no discrimination but feminazi the ones you see on TV or internet are quite different. |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by Afam4eva(m): 1:41pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
WHOcarex:Can you define what you mean by fair treatment. Does it mean the same thing as equality? How would you define equality? |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by Afam4eva(m): 1:43pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
deb303:You don't seem to get the Ops point. Why fight for equality when we know we were built differently. What we should be fighting for is equal opportunities for everyone that is qualified and not for some feminazis trying to take the position of the man when it suits them. |
| Re: Are Women Being Fair To Us, Men? by Nobody: 2:31pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
kilokeys:lolx...funny u |
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