₦airaland Forum

KevinDein:
for a minute there one would forget we are talking about a cold blooded murderer of an innocent baby. How you managed to somehow make a murderer look like a victim is commendable.

While we are at it we can as well pray that Shekau and his boko Haram gang somehow find peace.

What options did this woman have. You're not a woman so you don't know how difficult it is for her. She's not a murderer, she's just a woman in a difficult emotional state. You won't understand anyway.

Wisdomval67:
I wonder how many abortion you have done. This lady

I recommend abortion than for women to go through hell and then dump a child in the cold

raayah:
What options did this woman have. You're not a woman so you don't know how difficult it is for her. [b]She's not a murderer, [/b]she's just a woman in a difficult emotional state. You won't understand anyway.

trust me dear, boko Haram and ISIS genuinely feel they aren't murderers. People always come up with ridiculous arguments to justify their evil ways but the fact remains that the child is dead. S(h)e has been denied the opportunity to LIFE. His mom denied him opportunity to LIFE. The mom has no right to take a life she didn't create.

She had options

1) Abstaining from sex
2) Morning after pills
3) Condom
4)Adoption

raayah:
What options did this woman have. You're not a woman so you don't know how difficult it is for her. She's not a murderer, she's just a woman in a difficult emotional state. You won't understand anyway.

raayah:
calling her evil or wicked will not change the fact that this will keep happening.

We need easy access to birth control (contraceptives for women), quicker access to plan B for emergencies and dedicated centers for medical or surgical abortions. We also need agencies where women can anonymously go and drop kids that they do not want. But lastly, we need to start implementing strong child support from fathers.

This poor woman must have had sex with very limited opportunities to purchase contraceptives when things went sour, then after getting pregnant, the man denies her, parents abandon her and she's left to cater for herself with no access to proper health or emotional support. She cannot go to the hospital because she has no money.

After the pain of birth , compounded with post partum depression, the woman is left with no choices. This situation will become a daily occurence until the government gets serious about women's health.

I hope the mother finds peace and is well.

But why suffer to go through 40weeks, push d baby and then abandon it? so disheartening, why not kuku abort earlier.

daretodiffer:
She had options

1) Abstaining from sex
2) Morning after pills
3) Condom
4)Adoption

How accessible is morning after pills? Did you teach your kids about emergency contraception ( some people don't know). How easy and accessible are adoption agencies in Nigeria.? Using a condom is almost entirely up to the man as most pharmacies I know dont carry female condoms. What if it breaks?

I support abstinence, but not everyone can be abstinent , so we need to have options for sexually active people!

BlossomedCherry:
But why suffer to go through 40weeks, push d baby and then abandon it? so disheartening, why not kuku abort earlier.

Because no other option for her. I don't think these women decide to abandon their babies, but post partum depression pushes them too.

A lot of women have actually killed their babies because of serious depression moreso for a woman with no support.

KevinDein:
trust me dear, boko Haram and ISIS genuinely feel they aren't murderers. People always come up with ridiculous arguments to justify their evil ways but the fact remains that the child is dead. S(h)e has been denied the opportunity to LIFE. His mom denied him opportunity to LIFE. The mom has no right to take a life she didn't create.

Comparing a woman's actions who's going through extreme emotional and physical distress with Isis killers just shows how extreme you're taking this. I can't reply to this

1) She could have abstained. You can't tell me that putting a baby in a sewage or getting pregnant is easier than abstinence.

2) If she couldn't abstain, it was up to her to seek information. Agreed, that she might not have had he opportunity to be educated but there is something called asking questions. It is definitely easier than puting a child in a sewage.

3) She could have insisted on no sex without condoms. If it had broken, she could have gone to a pharmacy or a visited a hospital. I can't believe there is a person out there who know that sex results to pregnancy and who with this knowledge, never wondered about how to prevent it.

There are otherethods other than condom

4) She could have given the baby up for adoption. I don't want to know if it is easy or hard. You got pregnant it is your job to fix it. The least she could have done is to put the baby in front of any orphanage or government agencies or on the street but no she chose a sewage!!! She is a murderer!!!

If she were considerate, she would have thought of what could be the consequences of her sexual escapades before having sex in the first place. That includes not having a bf, a close male friend and being a compromising situation.

raayah:
How accessible is morning after pills? Did you teach your kids about emergency contraception ( some people don't know). How easy and accessible are adoption agencies in Nigeria.? Using a condom is almost entirely up to the man as most pharmacies I know dont carry female condoms. What if it breaks?

I support abstinence, but not everyone can be abstinent , so we need to have options for sexually active people!

There is no proof to show that she had post partum depression

raayah:
Because no other option for her. I don't think these women decide to abandon their babies, but post partum depression pushes them too.

A lot of women have actually killed their babies because of serious depression moreso for a woman with no support.

daretodiffer:
There is no proof to show that she had post partum depression and I don't see women suffering from post partum depression dumping their babies in sewages. When they want to hurt their kids, they are very direct with their aggression.

There's no proof to show that she didn't. Seeing that 20℅ of women undergo postpartum depression, especially in this country. I'd say she probably did.

It is actually 4%

Besides it is Nigeria, I don't think she was suffering from postpartum. Women who suffer from post partum depression are more direct with their aggression.

raayah:
There's no proof to show that she didn't. Seeing that 20℅ of women undergo postpartum depression, especially in this country. I'd say she probably did.

raayah:
calling her evil or wicked will not change the fact that this will keep happening.

We need easy access to birth control (contraceptives for women), quicker access to plan B for emergencies and dedicated centers for medical or surgical abortions. We also need agencies where women can anonymously go and drop kids that they do not want. But lastly, we need to start implementing strong child support from fathers.

This poor woman must have had sex with very limited opportunities to purchase contraceptives when things went sour, then after getting pregnant, the man denies her, parents abandon her and she's left to cater for herself with no access to proper health or emotional support. She cannot go to the hospital because she has no money.

After the pain of birth , compounded with post partum depression, the woman is left with no choices. This situation will become a daily occurence until the government gets serious about women's health.

I hope the mother finds peace and is well.

must someone fvck if d person is not ready to take up d responsibility dat goes with it.?

raayah:
I recommend abortion than for women to go through hell and then dump a child in the cold

You so tall and hot..i love ur height.

Good morning raayah


#YOLO

how I wish Adamu Buhari and
Zulaihat Buhari did exactly the same thing on 17 December 1942 they would have save us a whole lot of stress...