sharliz:
awesome story keep it up

Thanks dear*smile*

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thanks for the dedication dear,,more ink to ur pen,,the guy don see one sugar mummy wey dey give him money naw,,all he is after now is ha body

nikz:
Hmm tanx for the dedication.
I think she should just forget about tunde and move on sometimes we make unfavourable plans for ourselves while God is busy thinking and planning good for us. @rachealfst: exceptional writer and I like the fact that you carry your readers along.

Hmm...."sometimes we make unfavourable plans for ourselves while God is busy thinking and planning good for us" I love this, thanks so much for your contribution. God bless you.

queenitee:
Pamilerin made a mistake,but that isn't the end of the world. I don't understand why she's still in d relationship,one that brings her nothing but pain and sadness..
It's not easy to leave but its better..Tunde obviously does not love her anymore

I love your comments, the question some people ask themselves is.."if I leave, where will I start from" Forgetting that when a door closes another opens. Thanks so much sis.

rachealfst:
I love your comments, the question some people ask themselves is.."if I leave, where will I start from" Forgetting that when a door closes another opens. Thanks so much sis.

I'm honoured,but you are the one doing a great job here..The good Lord will continue to bless you

I'd like to chirp in one or two things before I post the next episode, you are free to contribute as well. Thanks

Dedication:
Atayis, nikz, sulaimanabolanl, queenitee(Thanks for your wonderful contributions)

And to everyone who comments on this thread, thank you all.


Excerpt from Episode 7&8(Case Study:Pamilerin)
To all the Ladies in the house.

If you are been abuse either physically or emotionally, please don’t patch things up, don’t make excuses for him or even defend his actions.

If you are in any abusive relationships, please get out of that relationship.
You know you are not the only one he’s dating and you still held on to the relationship or you caught your boyfriend/fiancé in the act but you decided to let it go because he apologized.
I think it’s time we stop this crazy things we do for love.

Do you think if you leave him, you won’t get someone else? Hell No!
Don’t say he will change, you can’t change a guy who is not willing to change.

Atayis pointed out something in his comment. “If a guy fool you once, he is a fool. But if he fools you twice then you are the biggest fool”

nikz says"We make unfavourable plans for ourselves while God is busy thinking and planning good for us" Yes! God's ways are not our ways neither His thoughts our thoughts.

queenitee says" It's not easy to leave but its better to leave a relationship that gives you pain and sadness"

The question some people ask themselves is.."if I leave, where will I start from" Forgetting that when a door closes another opens.

Relationship is not a do or die affair. You deserve to be happy in any relationship you find yourself in.

If he doesn’t treat you like a lady while you are dating, then don’t expect him to treat you like a queen when you are married ( that’s if he even end up marrying you)

Don’t give your love to someone who doesn’t deserve you.
Make sure you love yourself, if you love yourself, you won’t allow a guy treat you like a door mat.

Babsopey's signature says “To whom head is given, Brain is expected and to whom Brain is given, Sense is expected.

Lastly the Bible says “ Wisdom is the principal thing, therefore Get Wisdom and in all thy getting get Understanding.
Proverbs 4:7

Shallom!

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Some still choose to stay in such relationship with the hope and slogan of- 'he'll change OR it'll get better'.
I was ONCE in a relationship,where i was being abused emotionally...and trust me,it wasn't funny. I always walk around with the slogan in my head..until i had to wake up!.
Never have i being so happy and free(till date) the day i took that ONE BIG STEP. Though it wasn't easy...but i've never been more stronger. And i told myself- "babe...neva eva try wetin u jst do so"..lolzz. And i never did!.
Lemme not come and go and derail biko....lolzz.
Nice work rachealfst. God will bless you plentifuly.
#following#

rachealfst:
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Thanks for the mention......lemme goan quickly read the story before I comment my reserve !!!

rachealfst:


Hmm...."sometimes we make unfavourable plans for ourselves while God is busy thinking and planning good for us" I love this, thanks so much for your contribution. God bless you.

God bless u too. Just love ur work! Kip it up.

rachealfst:
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I am an introvert. ...

someone has already crucified us here ..

now u called me out and calls for me to acknowledge dat am loving d story. been impressed with your story and language use.

where do I drop constructive criticism?

For doz crucifying Pamilerin cos she went bak to Tunde on his request after some distance created. It doesn't look like u av loved someone u r afraid to lose. genuine love I mean.

wow!!! Am speechless right now...........Rachel keep it up.......,I believe this is not an ordinary story,its a medium used to pass an information to every ladies out there that Do Not Force Yourself To Be In A Violent Relationship. ......SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!!!

In my own perspective, I believe Tunde trully loves pamilerin at the onset of their affair, but the way she presented herself make her vulnerable to the bait of the guy. There is a proverb that says ' what will don't work for, will not last in our hands'. So from this, I believe that after Tunde has known everything in the pack, so there is no value there again, after he had done to her what he could not do with an harlot. For this reason, let the manipulation countinues as she progressingly pays the price of her folly

rachealfst:
I'd like to chirp in one or two things before I post the next episode, you are free to contribute as well. Thanks

Dedication:
Atayis, nikz, sulaimanabolanl, queenitee(Thanks for your wonderful contributions)

And to everyone who comments on this thread, thank you all.


Excerpt from Episode 7&8(Case Study:Pamilerin)
To all the Ladies in the house.

If you are been abuse either physically or emotionally, please don’t patch things up, don’t make excuses for him or even defend his actions.

If you are in any abusive relationships, please get out of that relationship.
You know you are not the only one he’s dating and you still held on to the relationship or you caught your boyfriend/fiancé in the act but you decided to let it go because he apologized.
I think it’s time we stop this crazy things we do for love.

Do you think if you leave him, you won’t get someone else? Hell No!
Don’t say he will change, you can’t change a guy who is not willing to change.

Atayis pointed out something in his comment. “If a guy fool you once, he is a fool. But if he fools you twice then you are the biggest fool”

nikz says"We make unfavourable plans for ourselves while God is busy thinking and planning good for us" Yes! God's ways are not our ways neither His thoughts our thoughts.

queenitee says" It's not easy to leave but its better to leave a relationship that gives you pain and sadness"

The question some people ask themselves is.."if I leave, where will I start from" Forgetting that when a door closes another opens.

Relationship is not a do or die affair. You deserve to be happy in any relationship you find yourself in.

If he doesn’t treat you like a lady while you are dating, then don’t expect him to treat you like a queen when you are married ( that’s if he even end up marrying you)

Don’t give your love to someone who doesn’t deserve you.
Make sure you love yourself, if you love yourself, you won’t allow a guy treat you like a door mat.

Babsopey's signature says “To whom head is given, Brain is expected and to whom Brain is given, Sense is expected.

Lastly the Bible says “ Wisdom is the principal thing, therefore Get Wisdom and in all thy getting get Understanding.
Proverbs 4:7

Shallom!

@debdave Thanks so much sis for sharing your personal experience. God bless you and thanks for following.

rachealfst:
@debdave Thanks so much sis for sharing your personal experience. God bless you and thanks for following.

You're welcome.
God bless you more o jare..

opeano:



where do I drop constructive criticism?

.

Drop it here, thanks.Welcome to the thread.

rachealfst:
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PRESENT! !!!!!
thanks bebe for the mention. .....
lemme quickly read...

ladySuperb:
wow!!! Am speechless right now...........Rachel keep it up.......,I believe this is not an ordinary story,its a medium used to pass an information to every ladies out there that Do Not Force Yourself To Be In A Violent Relationship. ......SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!!!

I believe we should not just read for the fun of it or to just while away time but instead to educate and motive ourselves. Thanks so much sis. It's good to have you here.

hmmmm, lovely update.
I used to behave like pemilerin i.e thinking m not qualified to call God when I commit a sin be it light or grevous ) until I discovered that God looks at the sobriety, and willingness to learn n forsake our sins before He can have His way.
I like d fact that rachealfst chips in deep sayings n Bible verses in d write ups.
Permit me rachealfst, I'll likely be looking at this post from a spiritual angle......
lovely post.
more strength to your thumb n data to ur fone.

Pls continue when u r chanced ma [color=#770077][/color]

Atayis:
In my own perspective, I believe Tunde trully loves pamilerin at the onset of their affair, but the way she presented herself make her vulnerable to the bait of the guy. There is a proverb that says ' what will don't work for, will not last in our hands'. So from this, I believe that after Tunde has known everything in the pack, so there is no value there again, after he had done to her what he could not do with an harlot. For this reason, let the manipulation countinues as she progressingly pays the price of her folly

Exactly,he loves her at the beginning of the relationship but the way she presented her self is too cheap..Fine he had sex with her,but that isnt a reason for her to become his slave,it isn't a reason for her not to have a say in the relationship anymore,its not a reason to allow him have his way..Although she already had sex an aborted for him but she can still boost her self esteem and dignity..

Good job rachealfst,I love this story

rachealfst:
I'd like to chirp in one or two things before I post the next episode, you are free to contribute as well. Thanks


Excerpt from Episode 7&8(Case Study:Pamilerin)
To all the Ladies in the house.

If you are been abuse either physically or emotionally, please don’t patch things up, don’t make excuses for him or even defend his actions.

If you are in any abusive relationships, please get out of that relationship.
You know you are not the only one he’s dating and you still held on to the relationship or *you caught your boyfriend/fiancé in the act but you decided to let it go because he apologized.*
I think it’s time we stop this crazy things we do for love.

Do you think if you leave him, you won’t get someone else? Hell No!
Don’t say he will change, you can’t change a guy who is not willing to change.

Atayis pointed out something in his comment. “If a guy fool you once, he is a fool. But if he fools you twice then you are the biggest fool”

nikz says"We make unfavourable plans for ourselves while God is busy thinking and planning good for us" Yes! God's ways are not our ways neither His thoughts our thoughts.

Shallom!

I do not quite agree with you on that aspect I starred.
I was once there and even though it was due to carelessness. I was forgiven and I can't joke with her now. I love her so much for d big heart she displayed and it made our love stronger

rachealfst:
Hmm! What will people say....as if you owe them an explanation for what's going on in your life. Thanks, I like this.

NYC work ma

opeano:

I am an introvert. ...

someone has already crucified us here ..

now u called me out and calls for me to acknowledge dat am loving d story. been impressed with your story and language use.

where do I drop constructive criticism?

For doz crucifying Pamilerin cos she went bak to Tunde on his request after some distance created. It doesn't look like u av loved someone u r afraid to lose. genuine love I mean.

I understand you,but she's not afraid to leave cos she loved him genuinely,she's afraid to leave cos she thinks after all she has done for/with him,she's not worthy of any other person love anymore,she feels if she should leave,the secret will be out or she wouldn't find love anymore

rachealfst:
I believe we should not just read for the fun of it or to just while away time but instead to educate and motive ourselves. Thanks so much sis. It's good to have you here.

*smiles* *in jenifas voice* u is welcome!!

opeano:


I do not quite agree with you on that aspect I starred.
I was once there and even though it was due to carelessness. I was forgiven and I can't joke with her now. I love her so much for d big heart she displayed and it made our love stronger

It is only one out of hundreds that have this chance bro.... That why a lady have to use her brain here! The pamilerin described in this story has First Class in her field of study but failed woefully in her relationship life.

Nice piece ma'am.... quite educative

opeano:


I do not quite agree with you on that aspect I starred.
I was once there and even though it was due to carelessness. I was forgiven and I can't joke with her now. I love her so much for d big heart she displayed and it made our love stronger

Yes! everyone deserves a second Chance, I don't dispute that, but what happens when this mistake is repeated?

There are some ladies who knew their partners to be a serial cheater, do we still advice them to forgive?

I quoted someone earlier." Fool me once you are the fool but fool me twice, then I'm the fool.

I'm glad you realized your mistake and changed for the better. Thanks for sharing your personal experience, I appreciate. God bless you.

rachealfst:
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tnx for the mention didnt know how I unfollowed the topic before twas ur mention dah brought me back......more grease to ur elbow @rachealfst

Thanks for the mention, I'll start reading it once I'm less busy

Nice work you are doing here, rachealfst. Pls try and post lengthier updates, biko.