kajsa08:

Permit me rachealfst, I'll likely be looking at this post from a spiritual angle......

No problem sis, I'd love that. Good to have you here. Thanks for sharing your experience.

Pamilerin does not know how to think. It is axiomatic that she is emotionally weak and the guy used that to manipulate her whenever he wants to satisfy his enormous sexual urge. Then, if a person can treat his fiancee like a LovePeddler, then where is her dignity with the said guy as you have claim she had?

queenitee:

Exactly,he loves her at the beginning of the relationship but the way she presented her self is too cheap..Fine he had sex with her,but that isnt a reason for her to become his slave,it isn't a reason for her not to have a say in the relationship anymore,its not a reason to allow him have his way..Although she already had sex an aborted for him but she can still boost her self esteem and dignity..

Good job rachealfst,I love this story

Atayis:
Pamilerin does not know how to think. It is axiomatic that she is emotionally weak and the guy used that to manipulate her whenever he wants to satisfy his enormous sexual urge. Then, if a person can treat his fiancee like a LovePeddler, then where is her dignity with the said guy as you have claim she had?

That's my point,she has lost her dignity

[quote author=rachealfst post=52697647]No problem sis, I'd love that. Good to have you here. Thanks for sharing your experience.[/quote

uwc bebe.

Dedication:
opeano, ladysuperb, debdave, kaysa08, iOluwaMicheal, Chubbiehills, Mztemmy.



Wrong No: Episode 9

Next weekend came, and he didn’t show up. I cried uncontrollably till I was exhausted, I felt so worse because I got my hopes up, thinking he’ll come and apologize and start things afresh.

So for him not eventually showing up shattered those hopes. And he did not even have the courtesy of calling to apologize for not coming.


Some weeks later, I had an interview to attend, so I took permission from the school principal.

On my way back from the interview, I ran into one of our friends, we graduated from the same school. We chatted for a while and he congratulated me on Tunde's new job in an oil company.

I was shocked to the bone, but I quickly put myself together, I smiled and thanked him.

“I heard he now lives in banana Island, I’m happy for you guys. We are waiting for your wedding invitation o” he said gleefully.

“Thank you very much, sure we’ll invite you for the wedding once we fixed a date” I said with a fake smile.

The guy left and I was yet to recover from the shock. Tunde now works in an oil company and I knew nothing about it!

I took the BRT bus and went straight home. I know I’m useless for that day, even if I return to school, I know I won’t be able to concentrate.
I called one of the staff and told her I won’t be coming back to school that very day.

On Saturday, I went to Tunde's old house to see his neighbor. I’m very sure he’ll know where he stays in Banana Island.

Luckily for me I met the guy at home. I told him what I found out about Tunde’s new job and house.

He told me he doesn’t know where he stays. I begged him in tears to tell me because I’m very sure Tunde can’t move out without telling him.

He was moved by my tears, I could see it in his eyes. He picked a pen and paper and wrote the address down and handed it over to me.
“Please he mustn’t know that I gave you the address”

“I promise I won’t tell him” I assured him.

“Pamilerin! He called out as I was about to leave”

“Yes” I answered

“I think you deserve better”

I did not understand what he meant by that statement. I thanked him and left.
I did not have enough money on me to take me to and fro to the place, so I stopped by a bank and use the ATM machine to withdraw some money.

I located the house and I still find it hard to believe that my boyfriend now leave in luxury.
I knocked at the gate and the gateman opened the door, after serious questionings he decided to call his Oga using the intercom.

He told me his Oga is not in. I couldn’t believe my ears, I begged him to let me in but he declined.

I brought out my phone from my hand bag, I called His line for like 10times, it rings severally but he refused to pick up. I then sent him a text.

“Please let me in, if not for anything, but for old time sake”
I pleaded

I stood in front of the gate, waiting for his reply.

This tory is getting interesting and taking a new twist

more popcorn for you op

as in ehnnn... pamilerin rili tried... Buh she was too foolish for love sake, I guess if she was more closer to God she wouldn't have been in this mess in the first place.

Well as for Mr tunde... He will surely regret it I pray... Seriously I can't wait for u to finish dis story.... As in ehnn... (lemme stop here for nw... Since its just fiction).

Aunt Rachel.... More strength, wisdom to u... Am really enjoying your story as well as learning from it.. Thks..

anyone with a tissue here. . This is getting emotional for me.

rachealfst thanks alot.

Thanks for the dedication....... Tunde is surely going to regret his action.....feeling pity for pamilerin

Pamilerin is not stupid, she was suffering because of love and trust she had in Him,Lets chill and hear the reasons why the Guy behaved like that.... 6ta Rachealfst we r anxiously waiting God is ur strenght Ma

Pamilerin is not stupid, she was suffering because of love and trust she had in Him,Lets chill and hear the reasons whyvd Guy behaved like that.... 6ta Rachealfst we r anxiously waiting God is ur strenght Ma

swanky47:

Aunt Rachel.... More strength, wisdom to u... Am really enjoying your story as well as learning from it.. Thks..

Amen,Thanks so much dear.*smile*

alegbeleye:
anyone with a tissue here. . This is getting emotional for me.

Oh oh...pls don't cry.lol. Thanks for reading.

So emotional . This Tunde is a bast*rd. Pamilerin surely deserve someone better than that Tunde the betrayer. That Tunde wicked. You deflowered and impregnated her!!.....Well, karma is a b*tch na. So sorry for Pamilerin...e pain me ooo.

Thanks for the update ma'am.

@ Rachealfst....kudos..your story is da bomb and it's blowing my mind now.So Emotional.......
What's is Pamilerin's offense?? Why is the guy treating her that way....na wa o

First timer.... Captivating story...

cool...I'v b33n xpecting diz ting to drop since!

rachealfst:
Oh oh...pls don't cry.lol. Thanks for reading.

God bless you my dear sister. its been a privileged to be one of the readers of this story.

Hw culd men b so heartless?

Oh What A Bad Luck In Love...Its So Touchy.It Made Me Cry.Dat Tunde Of A Guy Is So Heartless....because He Lives In Luxury For Im Mind Now He Has Arrived.He Shd Beta Take Tym.Oh Poor Pamilerin.Just Feel Pity For Her.Just Hope She Does Nt Go Insane Cus Of Dis Shock Dat Guy Has Caused Her......U Really Are A Great Author, God Bless U And Increase Ur Knowlege And Gv U Interesting Ideas.Pls Do Mention Me In The Next Episode.I Cnt Just Wait.Ma Body Dey Market Market

Rahmoney:
First timer.... Captivating story...

Welcome to the thread, thanks for following.

Chumzypinky:
Hw culd men b so heartless?

Shi*t happens. How was your day ma?

Blecool:
Pls Do Mention Me In The Next Episode.

Sure I will, thanks for following.

rachealfst:
Cc:
swanky47, jagugu88li, ladySuperb, Amry, nebular, kajsa08, debdave, Pranaya sekem, Donlexino, Mztemmy

Present! Thanks for the mention.

rachaelfst,,,cant u put me into dis story,,I need to knock some senses into ha

Thanks for the dedication rachealfst. I feel honoured .
Okay...IMO-she shouldn't have bothered going to check on him in his new place. Since he didn't tell her when he got the new job and new place...why is she bothering herself biko. Guess she wants to see things for herself..afterall,seeing is believing .
But this Tunde kala oo. Even if he's tired of her and the whole thing. Why not be a man and tell her to your face! :@ instead of acting like an idiot. And im even chop the last kpomo..abi nah last supper we go call dat one ni before relocating... Chai!. Bad guy

rachealfst:
I'd like to chirp in one or two things before I post the next episode, you are free to contribute as well. Thanks

Dedication:
Atayis, nikz, sulaimanabolanl, queenitee(Thanks for your wonderful contributions)

And to everyone who comments on this thread, thank you all.


Excerpt from Episode 7&8(Case Study:Pamilerin)
To all the Ladies in the house.

If you are been abuse either physically or emotionally, please don’t patch things up, don’t make excuses for him or even defend his actions.

If you are in any abusive relationships, please get out of that relationship.
You know you are not the only one he’s dating and you still held on to the relationship or you caught your boyfriend/fiancé in the act but you decided to let it go because he apologized.
I think it’s time we stop this crazy things we do for love.

Do you think if you leave him, you won’t get someone else? Hell No!
Don’t say he will change, you can’t change a guy who is not willing to change.

Atayis pointed out something in his comment. “If a guy fool you once, he is a fool. But if he fools you twice then you are the biggest fool”

nikz says"We make unfavourable plans for ourselves while God is busy thinking and planning good for us" Yes! God's ways are not our ways neither His thoughts our thoughts.

queenitee says" It's not easy to leave but its better to leave a relationship that gives you pain and sadness"

The question some people ask themselves is.."if I leave, where will I start from" Forgetting that when a door closes another opens.

Relationship is not a do or die affair. You deserve to be happy in any relationship you find yourself in.

If he doesn’t treat you like a lady while you are dating, then don’t expect him to treat you like a queen when you are married ( that’s if he even end up marrying you)

Don’t give your love to someone who doesn’t deserve you.
Make sure you love yourself, if you love yourself, you won’t allow a guy treat you like a door mat.

Babsopey's signature says “To whom head is given, Brain is expected and to whom Brain is given, Sense is expected.

Lastly the Bible says “ Wisdom is the principal thing, therefore Get Wisdom and in all thy getting get Understanding.
Proverbs 4:7

Shallom!

And i say:-
you don't have to force anyone to av affection & u don't av to fight for d attention of ur partner, if it's not give to u freely and effortlessly. Then that person does not worth d stress, so if u eva see urself fighting for d luv, affection or attention of ur patner. Then look no further, u are definitely not d main luver. It's either u are a fall back lover, get back lover or u are a pass time lover.. If u can't work it out plsss quit..
And u also can't be desperate and have a good relationship, cool down & allow things to heal naturally, if it doesn't heal then i tink it was neva mean't 2 b in d first place... ( by babsobey in perfect rejection)...

rachealfst:
Cc:
sw@nky47, jagugu88li, ladySupeb, @mry, nebular, kajs@08, d£bdave, Pranay@ sek£m, Donl£xino, Mzt£mmy

7th page and I'm only getting the call now.........Issokay. Maybe you dialed the wrong number

jagugu88li:
7th page and I'm only getting the call now.........Issokay. Maybe you dialed the wrong number

I'm so...so... sorry dear sis. Im sorry i called late. Hope I'm forgiven?

@olatex25 Thanks for your contribution bro.

rachealfst:
Shi*t happens. How was your day ma?

abi oo? Sh*t happens....piss happens, evn purge happens...my day ws ok n u?