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I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Vavana(f): 7:16pm On Feb 13, 2017
Good evening house,

Please talk to me. Please no INSULTS.

Is this a problem or obsession?

From my childhood I save money a lot, especially during those Xmas time when aunty n uncle give kids money.

Now am grown ooooo, people I still find it difficult to spend my money ooo oooo. My hard earned salary.

I drive joy in saving, saving n saving. In fact I shop for myself twice in a year. Though when am buying, I buy quality wears.

If I spend my own money, I will be angry. What sort of stupid life is this.

Even if someone gives me money, I still use it carefully.

Am not hear to earn online like.

Matured comments, please oooo.

Thanks.

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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Nobody: 7:16pm On Feb 13, 2017
Good for you
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Vavana(f): 7:22pm On Feb 13, 2017
xstry:
Good for you

Good bawo, I don't like it. Am siblings especially the guys are taking advantage of it, borrow n will delay in paying me back.

Parents have to come in n resolve money matter.
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Udehpaschal1(m): 7:24pm On Feb 13, 2017
Bring it. Lemme spend it on kiss

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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by greatnaija01: 7:25pm On Feb 13, 2017
wow you need a man whom you can help save his own cash too.... ladies like you can never be single for long. you are an asset auto programmed as a deliverer from this economic recession.... grin grin grin grin

but seriously, you should not complain its a gift... just get married to a man who loves to spend anyhow and you will be a true HELP MEET
by curbing him and helping his spending habits then he also will influence you and you will be balanced and your wonderful kids will always have wisdom of saving that their peers may never have.

YOU ARE A GIFT and YOU HAVE A RARE GIFT to master control over the impulse of spending.... dont ever complain about it... rather use it to become richer... If you are not yet in university you may need to take an AUDITING COURSE that can help you help companies minimize their wasteful spendings Also you can be the financial secretary in your church. WOW SO MANY OPPORTUNITIES FOR YOU. bless you o

Vavana:


Good bawo, I don't like it. Am siblings especially the guys are taking advantage of it, borrow n will delay in paying me back.

Parents have to come in n resolve money matter.

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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Nobody: 7:26pm On Feb 13, 2017
Vavana:


Good bawo, I don't like it. Am siblings especially the guys are taking advantage of it, borrow n will delay in paying me back.

Parents have to come in n resolve money matter.
then don't let them know you have it, you're very lucky you know. saving money has been one of the hardest things for me

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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by HARDDON: 7:28pm On Feb 13, 2017
U aint alone gurl, ask urs sisters across dah street.


Chai, ****thinking, if she cant spend on her self, bf wudnt even see d usual singlet n boxers ! sad angry

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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Kentura(m): 7:31pm On Feb 13, 2017
Bae, you are a wife material... Keep it up

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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by slimthugchimee(m): 7:32pm On Feb 13, 2017
HARDDON:
U aint alone gurl, ask urs sisters across dah street.


Chai, ****thinking, if she cant spent on her self, bf wudnt even see d usual singlet n boxers ! sad angry

what is this one saying sef undecided

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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Nobody: 7:32pm On Feb 13, 2017
Op. Nothing is wrong with you. You are just the same as me. I can save 40k out of 50k consistently for two years (and I will get by just fine). People don't usually realize how much can be saved by curbing unnecessary spending.
As I said earlier. Nothing do you

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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by HARDDON: 7:38pm On Feb 13, 2017
slimthugchimee:
what is this one saying sef undecided


For a start, Name is Don not " this one " .

Secondly, itz no biz of mine u lack basic comprehension capacity.

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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Vavana(f): 7:39pm On Feb 13, 2017
[quote author=Udehpaschal1 post=53683436]Bring it. Lemme spend it on kiss[/quot

Funny you.
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Vavana(f): 7:41pm On Feb 13, 2017
alexistaiwo:
Op. Nothing is wrong with you. You are just the same as me. I can save 40k out of 50k consistently for two years (and I will get by just fine). People don't usually realize how much can be saved by curbing unnecessary spending.
As I said earlier. Nothing do you

OK. Thanks. Even in our organization cooperative am one of the highest saver. I hate to borrow too. Shame
of calling me onigbese hahahaha.
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Vavana(f): 7:44pm On Feb 13, 2017
greatnaija01:
wow you need a man whom you can help save his own cash too.... ladies like you can never be single for long. you are an asset auto programmed as a deliverer from this economic recession.... grin grin grin grin

but seriously, you should not complain its a gift... just get married to a man who loves to spend anyhow and you will be a true HELP MEET
by curbing him and helping his spending habits then he also will influence you and you will be balanced and your wonderful kids will always have wisdom of saving that their peers may never have.

YOU ARE A GIFT and YOU HAVE A RARE GIFT to master control over the impulse of spending.... dont ever complain about it... rather use it to become richer... If you are not yet in university you may need to take an AUDITING COURSE that can help you help companies minimize their wasteful spendings Also you can be the financial secretary in your church. WOW SO MANY OPPORTUNITIES FOR YOU. bless you o


But someone have told me that is only men that should behave that way. That why am I behaving like a man.

Hmmmm I was tired with that statement. So I have to come on no to ask this question.
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by greatnaija01: 7:46pm On Feb 13, 2017
the person is wrong. follow what i posted and you will have peace in yourself. LADIES who spend n hope a guy will later re-fill their account are simply retarded and very poor in character and there are not HOME-MAKERS. keep on keeping on o

Vavana:


But someone have told me that is only men that should behave that way. That why am I behaving like a man.

Hmmmm I was tired with that statement. So I have to come on no to ask this question.

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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by wiggle: 7:48pm On Feb 13, 2017
Hummmmm.. The fear of poverty is the beginning of wisdom
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Vavana(f): 7:54pm On Feb 13, 2017
wiggle:
Hummmmm.. The fear of poverty is the beginning of wisdom

If you know me in person, dear you will respect yourself.

Am financially stable. Our last born now on his nysc have to post my picture on his fb account to appreciate me, even did mtn caller tune for me. I give out more than I give to myself.

I don't waste my hard earned salary.

Am an accounting graduate, currently in my ICAN final level. I work with my budget.

Remain Blessed.

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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Nobody: 7:57pm On Feb 13, 2017
Stingy to yourself smiley
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Vavana(f): 8:04pm On Feb 13, 2017
Mzpurity:
Stingy to yourself smiley

Really?

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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by hazan041(m): 8:26pm On Feb 13, 2017
Vavana:
Good evening house,

Please talk to me. Please no INSULTS.

Is this a problem or obsession?

From my childhood I save money a lot, especially during those Xmas time when aunty n uncle give kids money.

Now am grown ooooo, people I still find it difficult to spend my money ooo oooo. My hard earned salary.

I drive joy in saving, saving n saving. In fact I shop for myself twice in a year. Though when am buying, I buy quality wears.

If I spend my own money, I will be angry. What sort of stupid life is this.

Even if someone gives me money, I still use it carefully.

Am not hear to earn online like.

Matured comments, please oooo.

Thanks.



Just transfer it to someone like me I go spend am for u I think that's d solution
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by PqsMike: 8:26pm On Feb 13, 2017
Really


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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Nobody: 8:26pm On Feb 13, 2017
I think you are either stingy or too busy or just old school

Mostly grannies that have this problem tongue

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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Nobody: 8:27pm On Feb 13, 2017
I find it easy to spend money. We should get together dear. Seems we fit perfectly.

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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by bettercreature(m): 8:27pm On Feb 13, 2017
Vavana:


Really?
It's stinginess,its hereditary you can not change it

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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Nobody: 8:27pm On Feb 13, 2017
Greedy
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Nobody: 8:27pm On Feb 13, 2017
keep on saving .....somebody else may end up spending it on your behalf

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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by slurryeye: 8:27pm On Feb 13, 2017
Vavana:
Good evening house,

Please talk to me. Please no INSULTS.

Is this a problem or obsession?

From my childhood I save money a lot, especially during those Xmas time when aunty n uncle give kids money.

Now am grown ooooo, people I still find it difficult to spend my money ooo oooo. My hard earned salary.

I drive joy in saving, saving n saving. In fact I shop for myself twice in a year. Though when am buying, I buy quality wears.

If I spend my own money, I will be angry. What sort of stupid life is this.

Even if someone gives me money, I still use it carefully.

Am not hear to earn online like.

Matured comments, please oooo.

Thanks.


The attribute you are showing is not strange at all, as a matter of fact it is something that is lacking in western world these days. According to stat, annual household savings in most of these countries are below 5% of total income because almost everything is obtained on credit. Can you see that your saving habit is something many people will kill to have?
The only thing I think you need to work on is feeling bad when you spend your money. I believe a way to solve that problem is to change your outlook to life generally. You don't become rich by saving, you become rich by making the money you saved works for you.

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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by steppin: 8:28pm On Feb 13, 2017
Vavana:
Good evening house,

Please talk to me. Please no INSULTS.

Is this a problem or obsession?

From my childhood I save money a lot, especially during those Xmas time when aunty n uncle give kids money.

Now am grown ooooo, people I still find it difficult to spend my money ooo oooo. My hard earned salary.

I drive joy in saving, saving n saving. In fact I shop for myself twice in a year. Though when am buying, I buy quality wears.

If I spend my own money, I will be angry. What sort of stupid life is this.

Even if someone gives me money, I still use it carefully.

Am not hear to earn online like.

Matured comments, please oooo.

Thanks.



My uncle in a woman's flesh.

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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by sod09(m): 8:28pm On Feb 13, 2017
just comot face nd spend naso e day be if u suffer for d money...e day hard to spend
but dont let money drive nd u con be conductor

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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Nobody: 8:28pm On Feb 13, 2017
bettercreature:
It's stinginess,its hereditary you can not change it
cheesy
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Bisjosh(f): 8:28pm On Feb 13, 2017
In otherwords, ahun ni e grin
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by vivaciousvivi(f): 8:29pm On Feb 13, 2017
Vavana as a fellow lady,i say kudos to you.
In an age that glorifies spend spend spend! Especially when it's shoved in your face via print, electronic and visual media...you truly have a gift. I need to learn from u

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