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Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by joey150(m): 12:15pm On Feb 14, 2017
Ebuka2016:
please what do u invest in? am looking to invest in something tangible not all these ponzi scheme
Depends on how much you have to invest.

Treaury bonds
Land
Business
E.t.c
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by whoisuche: 12:16pm On Feb 14, 2017
Vavana:
Good evening house,

Please talk to me. Please no INSULTS.

Is this a problem or obsession?

From my childhood I save money a lot, especially during those Xmas time when aunty n uncle give kids money.

Now am grown ooooo, people I still find it difficult to spend my money ooo oooo. My hard earned salary.

I drive joy in saving, saving n saving. In fact I shop for myself twice in a year. Though when am buying, I buy quality wears.

If I spend my own money, I will be angry. What sort of stupid life is this.

Even if someone gives me money, I still use it carefully.

Am not hear to earn online like.

Matured comments, please oooo.

Thanks.

It is good to save, but remember God loves a cheerful giver i don't know if you are Christian or not but if you are pay your tithe:The first tithe (Gen. 14:19–20) And he blessed him and said, “Blessed be Abram by God Most High, ... In gratitude to God's authority and blessing, Abram gives Melchizedek a tenth of his possessions. help the needy. Do things in the House of The Lord with your money and God in His Infinite Mercy will not make you lack, he will see you through. Also give God offerings.

ABOUT TITHE


Deuteronomy 14:22–29, Malachi 3:8–10
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Nobody: 12:18pm On Feb 14, 2017
[quote author=Vavana post=53699354][/quote]Look, its not that am against savings but claiming to have being saving over 80 percent of your personal income on monthly basis is ridiculous and exaggeratively misleading.
Although you refuse make clarifications on whether your income is fixed or not, your personal attribute of not usually having unruly obsession for expensive stuffs is highly commendable but it should not be detrimental to your welfare state. Extreme saving is a disease when you don't enjoy life they way you ought have on the basis of your income quota.
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Katyusha(m): 1:20pm On Feb 14, 2017
Vavana:
Good evening house,

Please talk to me. Please no INSULTS.

Is this a problem or obsession?

From my childhood I save money a lot, especially during those Xmas time when aunty n uncle give kids money.

Now am grown ooooo, people I still find it difficult to spend my money ooo oooo. My hard earned salary.

I drive joy in saving, saving n saving. In fact I shop for myself twice in a year. Though when am buying, I buy quality wears.

If I spend my own money, I will be angry. What sort of stupid life is this.

Even if someone gives me money, I still use it carefully.

Am not hear to earn online like.

Matured comments, please oooo.

Thanks.
Kai...see someone complaining over traits I wish I had...
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by mecussey(m): 3:21pm On Feb 14, 2017
Vavana:
My immediate elder brother is just like that, in fact he can squander 1million in a day without thinking of tomorrow.

His currently owning me 200k. I have told him I will never assist him again.I now give to either our first Son or the one I senior to trade with because they pay me back though without interest ooooo.
This case needs deliverance oo.....for some to drink under borrowed money...
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Nobody: 5:17pm On Feb 14, 2017
joey150:
Depends on how much you have to invest.

Treaury bonds
Land
Business
E.t.c
i dont have much. I want to invest just 20k dats all i have to invest for now. Can i invest in any of the above mentioned with 20k?
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by joey150(m): 5:47pm On Feb 14, 2017
Ebuka2016:
i dont have much. I want to invest just 20k dats all i have to invest for now. Can i invest in any of the above mentioned with 20k?
20k wont cut it...

Invest it on yourself. Learn something
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Nobody: 6:24pm On Feb 14, 2017
joey150:
20k wont cut it...

Invest it on yourself. Learn something
pls i dnt undersnd wat you mean by investing on myself. Am comfortable the way i am for now. Are u saying i should learn a skill so i can make more money? I have plans sha....but i need some time dats why i need to invest so dat the money wont be lying idle in the bank as i conclude my plan.
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by joey150(m): 7:15pm On Feb 14, 2017
Ebuka2016:
pls i dnt undersnd wat you mean by investing on myself. Am comfortable the way i am for now. Are u saying i should learn a skill so i can make more money? I have plans sha....but i need some time dats why i need to invest so dat the money wont be lying idle in the bank as i conclude my plan.
20k won't do much in terms of an investment. So you may want to learn something
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by pressplay411(m): 7:50pm On Feb 14, 2017
Vavana:
Good evening house,

Please talk to me. Please no INSULTS.

Is this a problem or obsession?

From my childhood I save money a lot, especially during those Xmas time when aunty n uncle give kids money.

Now am grown ooooo, people I still find it difficult to spend my money ooo oooo. My hard earned salary.

I drive joy in saving, saving n saving. In fact I shop for myself twice in a year. Though when am buying, I buy quality wears.

If I spend my own money, I will be angry. What sort of stupid life is this.

Even if someone gives me money, I still use it carefully.

Am not hear to earn online like.

Matured comments, please oooo.

Thanks.
Don't mind me asking, where do you worship?
I think you're too conservative. You don't believe in canal pleasures.
Or perhaps you shoulder too much family responsibilities as a first born?
Saving is a virtue but too much of anything becomes a vice.
Not judging you. I just hope you're not living in self deprivation in anticipation of a promised paradise.

Either way I believe Auditing is a good career choice for you.
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Nobody: 8:54pm On Feb 14, 2017
joey150:
20k won't do much in terms of an investment. So you may want to learn something
owk i understand sir. Please wat would you propose i learn?
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by Vavana(op): 8:59pm On Feb 14, 2017
pressplay411:
Don't mind me asking, where do you worship?
I think you're too conservative. You don't believe in canal pleasures.
Or perhaps you shoulder too much family responsibilities as a first born?
Saving is a virtue but too much of anything becomes a vice.
Not judging you. I just hope you're not living in self deprivation in anticipation of a promised paradise.



Either way I believe Auditing is a good career choice for you.
Am an Anglican. Forth child precisely.

I think my up bringing caused part of it. I left my parents at age 4 or 5 to live with my mom sister. But I was turned to nanny. So when i graduated n started working, I decided to save, save. Lol

You know how people treat kids that are not theirs. Human are really wicked. But in all I still thank God.

Cheers.

Problem shared is problem solved. Thank you all for your advice, for those that insulted n castigated me thanks too.
Remain Blessed.
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by onyeomanono24(f): 11:21pm On Feb 14, 2017
Thank God am not alone in this dreaded habit but I hate it as much as u do just that I can't imagine myself throwing my hard earned money on things dat don't worth it.
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by onyeomanono24(f): 11:26pm On Feb 14, 2017
pressplay411:
Don't mind me asking, where do you worship?
I think you're too conservative. You don't believe in canal pleasures.
Or perhaps you shoulder too much family responsibilities as a first born?
Saving is a virtue but too much of anything becomes a vice.
Not judging you. I just hope you're not living in self deprivation in anticipation of a promised paradise.

Either way I believe Auditing is a good career choice for you.
You nailed it, this is just me with much family responsibility from childhood as first born. I thank God for lifting me up.
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by pressplay411(m): 12:04am On Feb 15, 2017
onyeomanono24:
You nailed it, this is just me with much family responsibility from childhood as first born. I thank God for lifting me up.
Great. My advice, YOLO. Live a little (but not reckless spending).
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by sekem: 6:17am On Feb 15, 2017
greatnaija01:
wow you need a man whom you can help save his own cash too.... ladies like you can never be single for long. you are an asset auto programmed as a deliverer from this economic recession.... grin grin grin grin

but seriously, you should not complain its a gift... just get married to a man who loves to spend anyhow and you will be a true HELP MEET
by curbing him and helping his spending habits then he also will influence you and you will be balanced and your wonderful kids will always have wisdom of saving that their peers may never have.

YOU ARE A GIFT and YOU HAVE A RARE GIFT to master control over the impulse of spending.... dont ever complain about it... rather use it to become richer... If you are not yet in university you may need to take an AUDITING COURSE that can help you help companies minimize their wasteful spendings Also you can be the financial secretary in your church. WOW SO MANY OPPORTUNITIES FOR YOU. bless you o
Please stop praising her

Her inability to spend money is not a virtue in this case

In fact, it is a personality disorder

Clearly, by not being able to spend money even on herself, she is manifesting one of the symptoms of OBSESSIVE-COMPULSIVE PERSONALITY DISORDER!!!
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by WhiteNoise(m): 9:41am On Feb 15, 2017
Girl, do some treasury bills with your savings, all this one you're borrowing people, they'll not pay back. Tie down your savings in investments biko
Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by dj5naira(m): 8:36pm On Feb 15, 2017
I find it difficult to believe.
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