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Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by Eddygourdo(m): 6:26am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Jennifer89:and what is wrong with anal sex. Do I smell fear borne out of ignorance ? 2 Likes |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by legalintern1(m): 6:34am On Feb 18, 2017 |
DIKEnaWAR: You are right, when it has to do what girlfriends but this is his WIFE we are talking of I don't think there's anything wrong in going the extra mile for his better half. According to laNre olushola a certified life Coach the number one Cause of divorce is Sexx related issues before MONEY If women are told to go the extra mile to please their husband why Can't the Men The only problem here is her dishonesty Op is one in a millionn |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by zynzyn(m): 6:36am On Feb 18, 2017 |
darsool500: This is a warning to guys who believe they must do EVERYTHING to please a woman!! If a woman is not excited abt u the way God created u, LEAVE HER THE BLEEP ALONE! Let her go after the B-G D--K bastards that will never respect her because the have many depraved women lusting after their D--ks anyways Why did she choose to marry YOU and not her 11 incher? Because u thought she loved u! Eiyaaah !! Now u are worried she will cheat on u. I worry along with u. I just advice u to be ready for regular DNA testing! 4 Likes |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by speed99: 6:38am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Fear dey catch me ooo. Truly, Most ladies have done unimaginable things with sex. Funny thing is that we know an olosho when we see one, but get confused with realities and fantasies. What they have experimented with sex leaves so much to be imagined. Op dey measure inches with ruler and buy extension sef? Who come be the toy? 4 Likes |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by NaijaBlend: 6:45am On Feb 18, 2017 |
You see why premarital sex is bad? God created the vag.ina to expand to the extent of only one man's di.ck size. But when the woman keeps attending to all di.ck sizes, it creates more and more problems to the final consumer and the entire marriage. Women should understand this! Meanwhile, ladies should learn to appreciate the man who takes them to the altar. Such a man is worth respecting and dying for. If marriage is about di.ck size and bu.tt? why didn't her ex marry her? Ladies think again! On your question about cheating... How long have you been married now? Does the BIG di.ck still call? Does she still ask you to pick the calls? Are there still some funny calls coming in, probably unsaved names? Do you have access to her phone 24/7, or are you both one of the couples that have a lot to hide? Finally, you must know that going out of your way to please a woman does not guarantee her fidelity. A woman can cheat for many reasons, including di.ck size. She can cheat for unsatisfied sex (obviously, your wife is not satisfied) She can cheat for money, affection, time, friendship, job opportunity, lecturer's marks for the olodos who can't read, and even because a guy is simply cute! Summary, DONT KILL YOURSELF FOR ANY WOMAN! 4 Likes |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by OMEGA009(m): 6:50am On Feb 18, 2017 |
So you mean that your wife's kpekus have chop alignment and you are looking for advice? Hmmmn. If you ask me, na who I go ask? The matter you see so, e tay way e start. No be me go talk am, e heavy for mouth. So if you ask me the matter for ground, na who I go ask?
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Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by AngelicBeing: 6:57am On Feb 18, 2017 |
lastpage:Well said @ lastpage |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by zynzyn(m): 6:59am On Feb 18, 2017 |
NaijaBlend: This is why I don't entirely blame young men of nowadays who shun marriage and may settle for the baby mama! We agreed with women that they were oppressed and suppressed when the culture made them submissive, forgetting that even in that state, they had a lot of power. Now that they have the same freedom, the devil has corrupted most of them such that they now feel guys should submit to them!! They cannot handle the temptations freedom brings and many of them are now more depraved than guys! I remember one day sitting beside a female corper who was addicted to watching guys penetrate one another sexually! I was aghast because I myself cannot watch that!! And the annoying thing is these girls feel they must marry by force and will be looking for a mugu to decieve because the sharp guys will only use them but will never commit!! 1 Like |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by ReubenE(m): 7:08am On Feb 18, 2017 |
darsool500:I advice you lock the toy up in a confidential place, or if not safe like that, go to work with it. It will be very embarrassing for people to learn that it is what assists you in grinding your wife to satisfaction. Though, there is nothing wrong in using it as most people would think it is, it is just a matter of civilization. The idea of throwing it away will not help you. It is just a matter of time she will begin to mourn it then go look for it somewhere she can find it. I believe you know what I mean. OP, forgive me if I am wrong, you alleged that your lady is careless with the toy after usage, my question is how come, When you are the one using it on her. Do you leave it in her possession after the drama? Do you allow her to use it in your absence? I think you are careless with the whole thing too. I pray and hope you find a lasting solution to this problem created by the man in her life before you... 2 Likes |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by TerrorSquad147: 7:11am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Dyt:are we drilling for oil in your well?? 2 Likes |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by Originalsly: 7:16am On Feb 18, 2017 |
After claiming you got skills and stamina to satisfy any woman... this shouldn't be a problem. You need to understand women and learn to read between the lines.... she has been sleeping with her ex. You claiming the extension does this and that to her is garbage.... has she ever asked you to use it?.... she leaving it around the house is her way of telling you get rid of it. Bro... forget the hype or what the woman mouth be saying....size matters....always. |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by anytexy: 7:20am On Feb 18, 2017 |
darsool500:How can one get the stuff pls? |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by VitaminB12(m): 7:25am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Abiagirl777:They can only moan in pain if the anus is not well lubricated. I do lubricate it with KY gel to give her the satisfaction and she begs for more. If you study the anatomy of the feminine anus, there s what is called the A-spot that is stimulated to give that rush of orgasm, just like with the vaginal center of gravity. Let me send you good anal videos with explosive orgasms where the woman is squirting from the pussy and still begging for more anal thrusting. Ever heard of Victoria Cakes? Quit watching gays, that's why you not getting the essence. I just pm you 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by MaziOmenuko: 7:43am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Juxtapose this thread with your first thread where you complain your wife is always leaving her job for the nanny and lying to you about where she went to, then you have an answer to your question. Someone pointed that out at the first page and you acted violently; maybe you already know the answer you seek. 4 Likes |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by VitaminB12(m): 7:43am On Feb 18, 2017 |
montezz:I see you will love anal and other crazies too. I don see my paddy. Lol. Let's roll babe, I have got the size we don't need toys. I just pm you |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by psychu: 7:46am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Some peeps either don't finish reading a post or have poor comprehension abilities. .... Bros, when you slipped or fail into the anus during your courtship, someone with a huge cock was actively banging the anus. She probably settled for you because you were ready to marry and the other was not. The anus felt normal because she stopped banging the person after your marriage. There is no anus or even vagina (no muscle) that expands and normalises when it likes, it only adjusts to what you throw at it! If you like kill yourself, you cannot satisfy her. Simple psychology! Nothing, no love, no toy can erase the sexcapades that she has had. It can only be archived with deliberate efforts. As you can see she tried to forget and keep her marriage, but has been unable to. She is also careless with the toys, says much about values, personal traits and your handling of the issue. Again, from your previous post, in most cases her whereabouts is a mystery and she is liar. So use your teeth to count your teeth. I don't see this ending well unless you are proactive and you think this through. So far you have not been taking charge, instead you have added fuel to her fantasies. Satisfy your conscience that she is not cheating.. Take a day off, make up something that you will come late or the next morning, camp nearby and track her when she leaves. If she is cheating... handle as such. If she is not cheating, stop overdoing yourself and have a serious conversation, stop experimenting with toys, you will only end up buying bigger ones and loose your self-esteem. The more toys you use, the less likely that your dick will satisfy her. Think deep and confront her with some hard truths, let her know you're aware of her every single move she made, you love her that's why you have had to tolerate, you also do not want to doubt her love. Most women will want to keep their family. And bros, keep tabs on your wife get her involved in things, she is too idle! Take charge of your marriage! With time, she will adjust to YOU. 6 Likes |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by AuroraB(f): 7:48am On Feb 18, 2017 |
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Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by toogbasky(m): 7:50am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Just make sure u go deep on romance b4 actual penetration, it helps women wit high sexual limbido, the romance might even get to satisfy dem if its intense |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by fatemmy(f): 7:51am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Ladies keep yourself till marriage so you won't go through the stress of comparing the size of ------------ men stop sexiing them if you won't marry them,pity their future husband like op...my one kobo 2 Likes |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by KevinDein: 7:51am On Feb 18, 2017 |
What I find amazing after reading this thread and the comments that followed is that most ladies don't seem surprised by the whole picture painted by the op. In fact they are urging the op to ram the artificial diiick much harder or at least just keep being the sex slave that he's already is to his wife. Ramming an 8 inch diiick up an assss sounds perfectly normal to them. These ladies are more freaks than we give them credit 3 Likes |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by Nobody: 7:52am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Eddygourdo: I recall you telling someone sometime around April last year that "cancer of the anus is real" |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by Nobody: 7:56am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Check the DNA of your kids mahn 2 Likes |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by honourable356(m): 7:59am On Feb 18, 2017 |
adadike281:hehehehehe... |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by Eddygourdo(m): 8:02am On Feb 18, 2017 |
woodcook:some studies point fingers to multiple sex partners being a contributory factor to cervical cancer. Isn't that cancer via the vagina ? Or does the cervix exist in the rectum ? Every sexual act has its negative effects and none is wworse off. Safe sex irrespective of the act or medium is key to longetivity not the sexual act. It annoys me when people who don't know something about a subject or even practise it say and make claims borne out of ignorance or google posts. Dats whyy I asked her dat question. Anal sex is a sex choice millions of people enjoy and have enjoyed for centuries without any reprercussions. I also made dat reference to a gay. Cos dats a whole lot of bullshit |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by LeanonGOD(m): 8:05am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Luke 16 vs29 - For Christ's Sake follow the advise of Moses and the Prophets pasted below; By Abiagirl777, nkea dikwa risky,anal sex is demonic.I've tried to watch anal sex videos and seen how men moan in pain,there's nothing stimulating and enjoyable there rather anal sphincter prolapse, haermorrhoids,anal fissure and transmission of STDs. biko let's not accept everything the western world sells to us,what is bad is bad. By ToriBlue, One get quite a lot of infections through anal sex. Anus is filled with bacteria. By MummyIMadeIt, SEX THIS.... SEX THAT.... SEX THERE.... SEX WHO.....SEX WHAT..... I JUST TIRE WITH THE WAY OUR GENERATION CARRY THIS SEX ISSUE ON TOP THERE HEAD LIKE SWEET BANANA. ABSTINENCE IS THE KEY TO GOOD LIVING...... VIRGINITY IS THE JOY OF THE HUMAN SOUL; SEX NEVER SATISFIES EITHER A MAN NOR A WOMAN THOUGH IT MAY LAST A TIME BUT WHAT HAPPENS AFTER THAT FEW MINUTES PLEASURE. IMAGINE READING DAY IN AND DAY OUT ABOUT THE DEATH OF MEN WHO KILLED THEMSELVES ON THE VERGE OF SATISFYING THEIR MATE WHO SEX EPP!! HAVE NEVA SEEN A PORN STAR CELEBRATED GLOBALLY, NEIDA BECOMING THE 100 RICHEST PERSONS ON EARTH OP I GAT FEW WORDS FOR YOU AND THAT IS "IF THE FOUNDATION BE FAULTY WHAT CAN THE RIGHTEOUS DO". YOU NEED TO START ALL OVER FROM THE SCRATCH TO REFORMING YOUR MARRIAGE, ELSE YOU ARE IN FOR THE WORSE. SEEK OUT A BIBLE BELIEVING CHURCH FOR COUNSELLING ASAP... ALSO YOU NEED CHRIST IN YOUR HOME MAN... By Ajsmart, Wow! You're in huge trouble if your wife can handle 8" anal. I hope y'all are tested periodically cos anal sex is one of the easiest ways to contact STDS and other infections. You mentioned she opened up more a year into the marriage. How long have you been married? The fact that she leaves the intimacy gadget around carelessly multiple times shows she lacks respect for privacy even around the kids or possible guests. Sex is private especially with kids in the house. In my opinion, these sexual issues will eventually cause major problems down the line in your marriage. Those who have tasted and love anal never go back normal (which is why she confessed her cravings a year into the marriage). I think she's reached a point that's difficult to reverse in terms of her sexual experiences and I doubt she can be ever satisfied with whatever you have to offer here on out. Her chances of eventually cheating is pretty high in my opinion. By moshino, You and your wife have joined bad gang. The anus is an exit point, not an entrance, so do not enter from there, ever! If you don't believe me, ask your Priest/Pastor, or ask your family members. Report this same issue to them, they will collaborate what I said. By aviationguy, I will give my words as follows: 1.You failed to really understanding the woman before marriage. 2.Marriage is not to re-build a man rather is an institution to further cope with one and another, because you can never get a change woman after marriage rather you gets a change woman from old ways before marriage. 3.You failed to understand sex satisfaction of the woman before marriage, dick size is not the problem rather is the contempt that you have a loving husband that matters. 4.Solution,take the woman to well believing & deliverance church e.g M.F.M for deliverance and also go for counseling in Happy home ministry both in MFM. By lastpage.[/color] Something tells me (if this story is not made-up!), that this guy has started something he cant finish! Op will likely die, trying to fulfil the sexual fantasy of his wife........and it still wont be enough! Though sex is important in marriage but please, it is just one of the things that makes marriage work, not even the most important! TRUST! LOVE!! COMMITMENT!!! CONTENTMENT!!!! DEDICATION!!!! SELFLESSNESS!!!! COMMUNICATION!!!!! e.t.c are even much more important than sex, in later life of any marriage. A time will come when even your body cant cope with the energy required for all these romp sex that you need to wear "attachment" to do! Your wife should be contented with the size and performance of your manhood, just like you should be contented with the size of her punny. That is commitment in a marriage. Anyway, if you have a cardiac arrest while trying to "do pass yourself" all in the name of l want to show her l can satisfy her, that "Ex" with a 10" co.ck is still not far away. Who knows if the bagga is even doing top-up when you return late from work! Sex is good but should not be the focus of any matured marriage. You will get over it one day....... [color=#990000]or die trying! By The Word of God Finally - Proverbs 14 vs. 12, There is a way that appears to be right, but in the end it leads to DEATH. Jesus is THE ANSWER 3 Likes |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by Dera25(m): 8:06am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Op this your wife is up to something, your formal post is an indication to that 1 Like |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by Dera25(m): 8:07am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Dera25:How Can One Handle The Issue Of Trust? by darsool500 : 8:16am On Feb 10 Nairalanders, Please quote me if I am wrong. Kindly be subtle in your judgement and avoid irrational talk. I have a wife whose job is a serious one. She runs a creche with as well as 12kids in a small but well compact space. She has just one single Nanny that assist which to me and her isnt enough hands to cater for the effective well being of the kids. Plus we have our own 2kids that would resume to the same creche after school hours. My problem here is, once she leaves home for work, she tends to leave the creche to far distances and leave the lone nanny to follow up with so many children. I even stylishly asked the Nanny that how often does she stay at work, she said she does not have issues attending to all the kids, but that my wife goes out alot, though she saying she has no problem doing it all is not the issue, but the parents of the kids, if they come around, they express their discomfort about it.Its a risky venture which I have complained over the months about. And when asked where she went to, she'll say she went to a distance to get something she can easily get close by without having to waste too much time. And I for one knows she the kind of woman that cannot fend for herself if anything arises. LASTMAN, POLICE yawa, she'll have to rise me to the scene from wherever I am, that being the case, I have always advise to contact me if shes going far so I can at least know her location and whereabout, I feel some peeps might say am insecured, but thats not the case here, everybody have different families, and different we run ours. Just last week here, she called me from my office saying she was in serious trouble, I asked what happened, and she said LASTMA removed her plate number, I asked where, she said IKORODU, almost an hour and the half journey without letting me know her whereabout and she left work as well, yall can imagine if something happened, How would I know her whereabout if she was unable to reach me on the phone? And just some few days ago, which really sparked my intention of posting about this issue here, she told me she was going to a particular nearby market to get things, days later she mistakenly said 'they told me at iyaba market they sell that stuff, and I was like, it was not Yaba you told me you went to, it was the other market just nearby here, she was like well, I only told you I bought food stuffs at the nearby market, I went to Iyaba to get my wig, but people, she told me about the wig, in which she said she bought at the nearby market. I cannot have a wife that is not straight with me. Are there wives like this in your home MEN And ladies what do you feel about her not being straight with me? To me, a woman that cannot be straight with something as simple as what I have explained gives me a very deep impression of general mistrust. I am not talking about cheating here, but when a woman is not being truth and straight, it could be a very difficult situation in many areas. I need intelligent and mature advise on what I can do straighten things out wit her. (Quote ) ( Report) (Like ) 1 Share ( Share |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by Nobody: 8:08am On Feb 18, 2017 |
gozzlin:if every guy marries a Virgin like u said,Whose gonna marry the Non virgin? |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by Nobody: 8:09am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Mayflowa: Guy forget that matter of curiosity, I know people have fantasies, but in my own opinion, if she fit keep her self till marriage, refused to Explore curiosity then I don't see why any sane girl will decide to be promiscious after marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by elpochas: 8:13am On Feb 18, 2017 |
mr man u have a wife DAT most men will do anything to have.she is ur wife so its ur duty to satisfy her.women don't play wit men DAT satisfy them on bed.so if going d extra mile will make her happy do it.its ur duty and her right.I bet u she won't cheat on u. |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by Rockcalvary(m): 8:21am On Feb 18, 2017 |
usually i dont do this but, bro i feel your pain. Not like I've been in your position before, but when i reason the matter i kinda realized whats up. The fact that you find your toy in different locations in your house shows that your wife probably uses it to pleasure herself when you're away. There's nothing wrong about that. Just means she's got more need for it than you know. My suggestion is; get her own toy for her. A good sized Love Machine so she stays off your penile extension and can pleasure herself whenever she wants. Next, keep your toy away from reach. When you're done with it lock it up in a bed side drawer or something. About the trusting part... Trusting someone is a choice. If you know you're giving her all she needs and more + attention too, then i see no reason why you cannot trust her. Trust her and get your mind of it. It'll help you concentrate better on other things and even help your relationship. Hope this helps. Goodluck ....and boss enjoy your marriage. It's the one thing that could determine the quality of your life. 1 Like |
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by KevinDein: 8:23am On Feb 18, 2017 |
M3Guy:the guys that disvirgined them. 3 Likes |
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