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The world and the devil fights against God’s Kingdom Order. If you are having trouble with your marriage, with your children, with the people in your church, with the boss, with your co-workers then this applies to you.

Consider this. Is my life structured under God’s Kingdom Order? The Bible has provided us with some advice to live a fulfilled life.

These are the Qualities of a Sound Church. It also defines a Healthy Family (Titus 2)

Men:
We should be SOBER (not given to strong drink) – Don’t be a drunkard. You Ruin Your life!
We should be REVERENT – Dignified, sensible, honoring God
We should SOUND in LOVE, FAITH & PATIENCE – Healthy and strong in these areas (Go to church. Be a leader. Be patient with our wives and kids. We do not lay hands on our own blood.)
We should remain CHASTE if we are unmarried – NO FORNICATION! NO CHEATING! Married - NO CHEATING! NO FORNICATION!

Young Men:
We too should be SOBER – Act sensibly young man! Work hard for what you want. Don’t envy other people stuff. Don’t kill for what is not yours.
We should DO GOOD
We should have SOUND SPEECH – Be blameless. People should not say bad things about you
We should be OBEDIENT – Be a good listener. Stay committed
We should be Men of Integrity – Be of good character
We should be CHASTE – Not married yet? Keep yourself together! NO FORNICATION!

What about the Women and Young Women?

Check out the full article at my blog:
http://theway-church..com/2017/03/having-relationship-issues-this-is-must.html

Blessings!

The average naija man only knows the part of their bible or Qur'an where God asks wives to endure, submit and remain steadfast even in faith. They do not believe religious laws are strongly binding towards men.

This topic will have almost no likes, views or comments because........
You are positively advicing men instead of insulting women.

Hello, I respectfully disagree. If you read my entire article (hopefully you visited the blog) you will notice
advice is given to both men and women. In God's Kingdom, both are equal. We all submit to God's plan
and will for our lives. If you look at this through the lens of the world, most often, Biblical text will be seen as
harsh. Biblical doctrine will never be understood by those outside the kingdom. Here is why - "For since, in the wisdom of God, the world did not know God through wisdom, it pleased God through the folly of what we preach to save those who believe (1 Corinthians 1:21).This teaching is only for those who accept Christ as Lord. It is they that will listen
and follow. If an unbeliever accepts, Praise Jesus! He came to save those who are lost, so that they can find hope.
Blessings!

ministerk:
Hello, I respectfully disagree. If you read my entire article (hopefully you visited the blog) you will notice
advice is given to both men and women. In God's Kingdom, both are equal. We all submit to God's plan
and will for our lives. If you look at this through the lens of the world, most often, Biblical text will be seen as
harsh. Biblical doctrine will never be understood by those outside the kingdom. Here is why - "For since, in the wisdom of God, the world did not know God through wisdom, it pleased God through the folly of what we preach to save those who believe (1 Corinthians 1:21).This teaching is only for those who accept Christ as Lord. It is they that will listen
ad follow. If an unbeliever accepts, Praise Jesus! He came to save those who are lost, so that they can find hope.
Blessings!

I did not say you were wrong, I said this is not the type of Topic that sells on NL. They prefer topics that tell ONLY women to be good in marriage no matter what or just outrightly insult women. Topics like that would have blown your post off the chart

I appreciate that.... Thanks. Still, part of my calling is to permeate the Gospel in what my seem to be resistant territory.
It will be a labor of love...Hopefully someone will find peace and hope through the Power of the Gospel.