utaarchie:
Hello! I'm new here. please can anyone help me with the recipe and preparations for Tom Brown. Thanks

Corn soyabean prawns dried unripe plantain ...fry the soyabean separately because the grinder will need to blow out the chaffs I replace groundnuts with unripe plantain for iron ( I hope you're ready for a chubby baby)

zaynie:




Let it all out! You'll feel better.
My friend of 14 years just called me crying and asking me to get her a teaching job cos she is tired of her time consuming job and little baby. We talked about it and we both felt better.
I let her know teaching job isn't moimoi. As a mother, you are bound to feel guilty until proven otherwise.

I totally feel your pain. I consider myself one of those stone cold kind of pple. it takes a lot for me to shed one drop of tear, not to talk of crying. But mehn, i no know when i begin dey weep for office yday.

My younger brother usually helps me pick my daughter up from school or is at home to receive her from the school bus at about 5pm.

Only for him to call me yday dat he will be home late as one of his lecturers fixed an evening tutorial class for 5pm to 7pm. I quickly called the her teacher and the teacher assured me that she will be in school till about quarter to 7 and will take care of her till i picked her up.

My madam for office then called me some minutes to 4 that she has some adhoc work for me. i said no problem, she should go ahead to send it. When i didnt get any email from her, i asked for it at 4pm, den 4:30 again, and she responded she will send it both times. When i didnt get anythg till 5:15, na so i shut down carry my kayah.

When she noticed i was leaving, she was like" dont tell me you are leaving, i thought i told you about some work i need you to work on", i responded, " i thought it wasnt urgent given that you have not sent it yet"

Thats how she said she will send it now and i cant leave. I explained that i need to go pick my daughter from school, and i dont have anyone to get her for me. She said i shld go and look for alternative oo, as she need me in the office.

I just started crying, saying but you are a mother too and while your kids school were in session, you leave this office latest 5:30 to go get them, Agreed that sometimes you take them home and come back to the office, but not all of us have that luxury of leaving very close to the office.

She didnt expect it, neither did i even plan to cry but its all just pent up aggression. Monday through thursday last week, the earliest i left the office was 10:30pm. Friday dat i insisted on closing to go see my daughter, na war.

I am just fed up of the situation. Its so bad that if i get another job with almost 100k less than what i earn i will beg them to employ me

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Thanks Zaynie and other mamas who replied. So its not just dh, myself and her that are at home. I have my mom, brother and househlep with me and she knows all of us, anyone outside that circle na so so cry cry.

I will try playdates also. infact i have decided that this easter we will go to the beach. She needs to know that the earth consists of more than just 5 people.

zimunachimdi:


my son does not like anybody to carry him. it was just us before but now we have started going out but he runs from people and cry unnecessary now. keep him to get something,he will cry,keep him to poo and bath,we will cry and shrink himself.


In fact,this child bearing matter tire me.

no matter what i eat,it doesn't show in my body. i dont know if it is breast feeding or wot but na only me dey breast feed??
there is a wedding coming up but my body no good at all. dh has sharply replaced the provisions that just finished but i know say e no end oo. this body has refused to add weight.


okk,e be like say na rant,
i feel better letting it out

I think this is a phase and very soon he will get over the crying episodes. It is also common with babies who are always with their mothers. See iomoge's suggestions above.

And stop ranting about that ur fine body o. A lot of mamas especially me wish i have that kain body, infact i gained 5 kg post pregnancy, plus pregnancy weight that has refused to go away. Take time o sis, enjoy it jor. All my size 12 clothes b4 preggy are wasting away, i am now wearing 16 to 18. But i still thank God and will embrace the experience again and again

You can get sebamed in large pharmacies and supermarket

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Also, if your lo is yet to start creche, take her to ur childrens Church if u are a Christian and let her mingle with other babies. My lo loves this

Jennykoko3009:


Thanks. Bt wat i want to knw is how to identify original ones

Its very clear like butter and doesn't have any stain at all, not even diets settled there

blank:


It's N2400. It doesn't foam at all but was really good on him. Its not really sustainable. You can try dove sensitive soap. It's about N200.

wait? 2400 for one tab?

wholesomegrace:


I think this is a phase and very soon he will get over the crying episodes. It is also common with babies who are always with their mothers. See iomoge's suggestions above.

And stop ranting about that ur fine body o. A lot of mamas especially me wish i have that kain body, infact i gained 5 kg post pregnancy, plus pregnancy weight that has refused to go away. Take time o sis, enjoy it jor. All my size 12 clothes b4 preggy are wasting away, i am now wearing 16 to 18. But i still thank God and will embrace the experience again and again

You can get sebamed in large pharmacies and supermarket

Thank u ma. i appreciate this. i am just asking for small weight,2kg wont be bad.my look is as if i am not feeding well. the other day,dh said lets go the hospital that malaria is worrying me. i said i might have malaria but no be malaria dey do this body oo.it is well sha.

mimibe:
yes you must get it

hahahahahaha,abi??
beyedew dear,we are cool.tx

good day mothers, pla does any1 know the current price of Johnson baby lotion (made in U.S)

zaynie:




Let it all out! You'll feel better.
My friend of 14 years just called me crying and asking me to get her a teaching job cos she is tired of her time consuming job and little baby. We talked about it and we both felt better.
I let her know teaching job isn't moimoi. As a mother, you are bound to feel guilty until proven otherwise.

thanks ma.

zimunachimdi:


ok dear,thanks. is just that one woman dey swear say funbact A go clear my baby's rashes.

how are you and baby ekene?
our baking baby nko?
trust things are good now. my regards dear.

E go clear.....because it's very strong...and that's my fears. I don't know if you may want to risk using it for maybe 2 or 3 days.
Baking baby dey oo. But I dey pity am small cos I don't think am taking care of him/her well ....Ekene is fine oo

zimunachimdi:


ok. heard Aveeno is good too.

Aveeno is good....but it's even costlier than Sebamed in my town. The baby cream is 4900.....

olatebony:

Its very clear like butter and doesn't have any stain at all, not even diets settled there

Thanks ma. I appreciate

zimunachimdi:


Mummy,I will get IT. It might tarry though.
during that dry skin episode,doctor asked me which soap i am using for my baby i said cusson. she now said it is just that sebamed is expensive,that she would have asked me to get it.

pls,do you know how much it is being sold?

The soap is 1700 for one in my town. The baby body milk is 2800 same with the powder. The liquid bath wash is 2500....

BritneyStacy:

E go clear.....because it's very strong...and that's my fears. I don't know if you may want to risk using it for maybe 2 or 3 days.
Baking baby dey oo. But I dey pity am small cos I don't think am taking care of him/her well ....Ekene is fine oo

pls take care of him/her well?.the future is bright? i fit try am small.tx.

why all ds soap dey cost like ds na?

zimunachimdi:


pls take care of him/her well?.the future is bright? i fit try am small.tx.

why all ds soap dey cost like ds na?

Because of Ekene's trouble, I miss my multivitamins too often. I hope he/she bakes well tho

zimunachimdi:


pls take care of him/her well?.the future is bright? i fit try am small.tx.

why all ds soap dey cost like ds na?

Thanks for the concern. We hope for a better tomorrow too.

BritneyStacy:

Because of Ekene's trouble, I miss my multivitamins too often. I hope he/she bakes well tho

Ekene dey worry you too? hahahaha.
anytime you remember just try and take it.

Good day Mamas and Papas

Been a while I came here, trust y'all are good.
My baby was six months last month and we started feeding her other stuffs, I bought NAN to mix with pap but she rejects pap and takes noodles very well. I eat carrot every evening and she cries for hers, I give her little and she uses it to soothe her gums


Please I need ideas of foods she can accept asides noodles which I don't want her to get too used to.

For teething, we've been using teething powder and few doses of Piccan for when she gives troubles, she attempts to crawl but her knees can't carry her yet so she just lies flat in the process...lol

The past 6 months + has been interesting for us and I thank you all for your advice and support

@helovesme, Ebunoluwa says hi

[quote author=ambient post=55243357]Mama in the house help Ooo
Ever since I gave birth I have been having red itchy rashes on my hands I always try hard not to scratch it.I have use a lot of anti bacteria cream but nothing,it have even change the color of my hands.some women say its caused by baby hair that if I stop breast feeding it will go,how true is that cause am always itchy. Help

I dont think its something to be worried about. My ds is 5 months plus and the same thing has been happening and nothing i applied had really worked but it leaves on its own sometimes and still returns after some while. I was also told they are OMUGWO rashes and will still stop in future so am hopeful

pheesayor:
Good day Mamas and Papas

Been a while I came here, trust y'all are good.
My baby was six months last month and we started feeding her other stuffs, I bought NAN to mix with pap but she rejects pap and takes noodles very well. I eat carrot every evening and she cries for hers, I give her little and she uses it to soothe her gums


Please I need ideas of foods she can accept asides noodles which I don't want her to get too used to.

For teething, we've been using teething powder and few doses of Piccan for when she gives troubles, she attempts to crawl but her knees can't carry her yet so she just lies flat in the process...lol

The past 6 months + has been interesting for us and I thank you all for your advice and support

@helovesme, Ebunoluwa says hi

Awwwww such cutness.... most adorable!

For weaning foods you can try here:

http://alphahandmaiden..co.uk/


i put together a few notes and ramblings on what has worked for me, you may find it useful.

Zimunachimdi, ranting over slim size wow, I don get my size mate for here but diff is I so love the size. Mama, I guess its the thing of the mind. Do you have adequate rest? Do you have any issues bothering you? These things can affect you as person including your outlook not necessarily your size now. You can be veryslim but fresh and facially "alive" if you get what I mean.
Do you take multivitamins too? It helps a lot. Cheers dear.

zimunachimdi:
mamas,pls can i apply funbact A or skineal on my son that has rashes? na this useless hot weather bring this one. he will be 10months in few days.

moju and rising no fit clear am.

Try calamine lotion. It'l help.

zimunachimdi:
mamas,pls can i apply funbact A or skineal on my son that has rashes? na this useless hot weather bring this one. he will be 10months in few days.

moju and rising no fit clear am.

Try calamine lotion. It helps

hotmomma:
Zimunachimdi, ranting over slim size wow, I don get my size mate for here but diff is I so love the size. Mama, I guess its the thing of the mind. Do you have adequate rest? Do you have any issues bothering you? These things can affect you as person including your outlook not necessarily your size now. You can be veryslim but fresh and facially "alive" if you get what I mean.
Do you take multivitamins too? It helps a lot. Cheers dear.

hotmomma,i get you dear. i get at least 6hrs sleep daily.
i dont have much worries.
to be honest,i am fresh but not facially 'alive'

i dont take multivitamins,guess i will start soon. which one will you recommend?

thanks dear.

dharmsexy:
Try calamine lotion. It helps

shey it is the one they use for measles? tx

Zimunachimdi, any multivitamin available and affordable is OK, even if its just folic acid and these brown hospital multivite is ok and also...



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zimunachimdi:


shey it is the one they use for measles? tx

yes,it works fr heat rashes too and is quite effective.

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hotmomma:
Zimunachimdi, any multivitamin available and affordable is OK, even if its just folic acid and these brown hospital multivite is ok and also...



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kikikikikkik. dat icecream got lol.

You are the real hotmomma not ds my yeye body. thanks sis.

mummy dharmsexy,thanks alot. i appreciate ur concern.