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Barren Wife Allows Hubby Have Sex With Another Lady.

April 18, 2017 naaijan PEOPLE 0

SOMETIMES, YOU WILL NOT GET ANY SLEEP AT NIGHT NO MATTER HOW WELL YOU HAD WANTED IT.

This happened to me last night. Around 2am, as I was about to relocate to my bedroom to finish up the work, a woman inboxed me. She is 7-months pregnant. She has been in a very awkward relationship. The man responsible for her pregnancy is a married man. But the pregnancy was not an accident.

The man’s wife of many years could not bear a child and ...
http://www.naaija.com/barren-wife-allows-hubby-have-sex-out/

Lalasticlala

villagecraft:
Lalasticlala

This cannot make front page

Smh

Couples can adopt children.....if it was the man that has azospermia....will he agree for his wife to be impregnated by another man....and she bring the children.........Africans should start seeing adoption as a solution when all efforts to have children have proved abortive

doyinbaby:
Couples can adopt children.....if it was the man that has azospermia....will he agree for his wife to be impregnated by another man....and she bring the children.........Africans should start seeing adoption as a solution when all efforts to have children have proved abortive

You're good. Thanks and Good day.

Emmaesty:
You must be inept to think that this will make front page.

Smh

Gratitude

Emmaesty:
You must be inept to think that this will make front page.

Smh

You don't have to insult to pass your message across. It doesn't make you look any smarter.

To the topic, well I guess sarah (in the bible) allowed something like this.

TheBatman:
You don't have to insult to pass your message across. It doesn't make you look any smarter.

To the topic, well I guess sarah (in the bible) allowed something like this.

True, the only reason I said that was because he added two pictures with one of a naked lady in her undies.

Since he has removed the image, I will modify my statement. Thanks

Emmaesty:
True, the only reason I said that was because he added two pictures with one of a naked lady in her undies.

Since he has removed the image, I will modify my statement. Thanks

okay now I understand you. cheers.

Married to an Adulterer?
How can the law help you?
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The law provides remedies for victims of extra marital affairs
In recent times, allegations of adultery by public personalities have occupied the social media. This no doubt changed the fact that many married persons are married to adulterous spouses. While some are aware of this fact, many are ignorant of the situation. This publication considers adultery under the Matrimonial Causes Act, how it is proved and the remedy available to a spouse who has been a victim of adultery.

The Court of Appeal in IBEABUCHI v. IBEABUCHI reported as (2016) LPELR-41268(CA) defined Adultery as consensual intercourse between two persons of opposite sexes, at least one of whom is married to a person other than the one with whom the intercourse is had, and since the celebration of the marriage.

Establishing adultery in a court of law is not as easy as it is in the cultural system. In law seeing your spouse hanging out with an opposite sex on a date with nothing more may not amount to sufficient proof of adultery. To successfully establish adultery, there must be sexual intercourse and the sexual intercourse must be voluntary and at least one of the parties must be married. Rape does not amount to adultery.

Adultery is one of the grounds permitted by law for the dissolution of marriages provided the adultery has not been condoned by the spouse. Adultery is difficult to be proved, judging by the fact that adulterers usually exercise extreme secrecy during the act. The law however allows it to be proved by inference from circumstances where it cannot be proved by direct evidence.

Proving adultery is not as easy as alleging adultery, the co-adulterer must be joined in the petition, under Islamic law, an allegation of adultery leveled against a woman must be proved by the testimonies of four unimpeachable Muslims who must have seen the adulterous act. However, in the secular court which applies the Matrimonial Causes Act, direct evidence which is very rare can be given, adultery can also be proved by circumstantial evidence that could be in various forms e.g. If the victim can prove that the spouse had contacted a sexually transmitted disease from a third party during the marriage, this will give rise to a presumption of adultery; If the victim proves that the spouse visits a brothel with an opposite sex, it will be presumed that such a spouse has committed adultery; confessions of spouse; birth of a child outside wedlock etc.

The law is that, a party to a marriage whether husband or wife may, in a petition for a decree of dissolution of the marriage alleging that the other party to the marriage has committed adultery with a person claim damages from that person who has committed adultery with his/her spouse. You can sue your husband's girlfriend and get damages, likewise husbands can get damages from their wives' boyfriends.


The purpose of the damages for adultery are not to compensate for the loss which the victim has suffered, even though the Court may consider matters such as damage done to the victim by the blow to his/her honour, the hurt to his/her family life and injury to his/her feelings, the court may give directives with regards the manner in which the damages awarded shall be paid or applied and may, if the circumstances warrant, direct that the damages be settled for the benefit of the victim or the children of the marriage.

It must be noted that, the Court will not grant damages in respect of an act of adultery committed more than three years before the date of the petition. To learn more or ask questions about marriages, divorce and the law, please send us an email via lawcandles@gmail.com or olivesandcandles@yahoo.com


Engaging in adultery cost us religious benefits and can also make us pay huge sums in damages. So when next you receive a proposal from a married person, think twice or better still, confide in a lawyer.

extracted from https://www.smore.com/scgxr