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Dontaskme:
Hello folks, this obviously isnt my real account.I love my privacy,but I just need to talk to someone.
I have been dating this girl (lets call her patience-not her real name),for about a year and half.It has been hell on earth but no doubt there are sweet moments.I promise to keep this short and not getting you bored with irrelevant epistles.I just need advice.

Let me quickly tell you about me, I am an introvert,very very reserved and quiet person.I don't get angry easily,when I do then it most have been a serious torment that lead to it.Even when I am angry the worst I would do is shout and sometimes cry after.I am a freelancer so i dont need to go out of the house, I work from home.I have being heart broken and dumped twice by ladies I was completely faithful and honest to.On the average i earn like 70-100k in a month.

Patience works salary job .We are both in our mid twenties, she is 3 months older(but it doesnt bother me) .Before we met I made a decision not to date anyone else due to my past experiences .When I met her first I kind of liked her,the first time me met she didn't have transport fare, she approached me and I paid for her(thats how we met).All i needed was a friend because as i said earlier I wasm very reserved,we exchanged numbers and we got talking.I fell in love with her asked her out,she turned me down.To avoid thinking of her too much,I cut off communication,after a while she started calling me and showing interest at that point I had lost interest and just wanted to prevent another heart break.

I went to regrettable lengths of asking her to leave my house, just to avoid somebody breaking up with me again, i always felt remorseful,i had to train myself to forget past experiences and give her a chance.I genuinely fell in love with her again.Its pertinent to note that she has also gone through the emotional trauma that I have gone through.

Fastforward.. I have great respect for women which is sometimes seen as weakness by some people, so even when she comes visiting i do all my chores myself including cooking,she always complains i dont allow her do anything.I had to bow to pressure and arguments (where the arguments started) to allow her assist.

Fastforward...I had an issue with my apartment,my friends and i did a kind of handover ,and you know how lagos Landlords are, he wanted to collect agreement and commission all over again from me, which i couldn't afford.

Just before the whole apartment saga, patience started behaving somehow ,she is always scared, insecure being afraid that i would leave her like the other guys.Then she started complaining about how tribalistic her parents are (which is true,you need to see how her mum was just giving pretentious smiles when i am around her family-even though she thinks we are just friends,but she suspects something is going on ) and how they wouldn't accept me,she is igbo and i am from the middle belt.She started going of and on, tell me she is breaking up with me today, come back tommorow,and she did it countless times.There was a particular long interval and i had given up on her already after trying to get her back.I started being free with other females making friends and I had sex with one of them (my first and only sexual experience-i was honestly waiting for marriage).She came back again and I told her of what happened ,she started ranting that I cheated on her, there and then she started becoming over protective .Checking my calls ,chats which doesnt bother me.

Back to the apartment saga,she opted to help get a new place and pay for me, which I was strongly against and she was like "if you dont take it then I am no longer your girlfriend".I had to take the offer and we agreed I was going to pay back.

She took her trouble to the next level when she saw my chat with other girls after a very long time and this chats took place during the periods of her fluctuations.Because she insists on spending a night sometimes this girl wont allow me sleep she would shout at the top of her voice in the house that I am a womanizer.

She would complain that I dont help her with chores(I started helping out, bear in mind she forced me to let her do it) , she would complain that I dont do anything for her, she would complain that I procastinate (she was right about this, so I adjusted and got a timetable for my activities).She lost her job briefly so i was supporting her and got her a new job through a friend. Now all she does is nag, gets me upset and when we have an argument all she does is scream about how she "picked me up when I had nothing and rented a house for me ",and she repeats it all the time. Bear in mind that I got her a new phone (after plenty abuse)I have been supporting both of us and given her transport to work everyday thats why i havent been able to pay her back her money.She would even go to the length of embarrassing me shouting that i should pay her money that she wants to leave my life.She talks anyhow and doesnt even mind the words that come out of her mouth, she sometimes curses me.She dropped a bomb recently saying that all the love she has been giving me from the beginning is just "eye service".With all this I would forgive her without hassles when ever she calms down and says she is sorry, but she repeats this rubbish all the time.When I try to report her to her friends to talk to her its another fight i am causing.She has once told me she would slap me and there is nothing i can do about it, she is right because all i do is shout and sometimes push her away when she starts all this rubbish.Trusts me what she does is more than what i wrote here.

She is now practically staying permanently in my apartment because she claims her parents are maltreating her, i cant send her away cos i still lover despite all she does and also because I am still owing her .
She has changed me, I now get provoked easily ,she has messed my Pysychology up, i recently got so angry that i tore her bag, this is me who couldnt hurt a fly before .one thing i have never done is to raise my hands on her. I am just tired i dont know what to do again.

First things first you have got to move out of that apartment even if it means squatting with friends because shes not going to stop and try your best to return atleast some of the financial assistance she provided for u if not all...

@Op, I just want to point one thing out. You said you can't leave cuz you still love her and owe her. Dude,trust me you don't love her. This is not love. What you feel for her is similar to Stockholm's syndrome. You ve become so used to her nonsense that you ve convinced yourself that it is love. To worsen it,you owe her money!

I am an introvert and I felt your pain when you said your psyche has been messed up. You have to leave this lady now and permanently. Forget the money thing. Just leave her for the sake of your sanity. Even if you have to live under the bridge,just leave. And when you do,cut off all communication with her. No forwarding address,no social media,screen her calls etc.... Absolute silence. If she knows where you work,let the security know she is not to be allowed in.

This relationship is a disaster,waiting to happen. This kind of scenario never ends well.

Dontaskme:
trust me, its short compared to the annoying things she does.

Incase,you need something to restore your mental state,you could teach me on how to become a freelancer and work from home

It will make you forget about her

Hope say I fit send pm?

Guy, OP, BREAK-UP from that relationship as fast as you can. You are extremely lucky not to have tied the knots with this lady. Go give thanks to God after dropping the bi.tch. She'll make your life miserable and saddled with regrets if you continue with her. #Speaking from experience!

You are owing her bros, pls stop giving her transport or gifts and focus on paying back the loan. Make her sign as she receives the money, do it with love and sweet words. When you are done paying her, free her abeg.

Dontaskme:
trust me, its short compared to the annoying things she does.

sorry but don't you love your life abi you don't want a bright future for yourself ni? biko dat babe has no good to offer you op; if she can't support you now Wat about your future? ain't you two going to have kids how will she train them?

"a nagging wife is worse than a poison cos she will wreck you physically nd emotionally. get a better woman for your self.........







btw are you d type dat run after hottest babes ? remember most of them don't make a good wife. " iwa lewa omo eniyan"

Was the apartment paid for in her name? If no, then you have no reason to move out. Just break up and send her packing with a promise to pay back her money in installments within a time frame. If she involves the police, they would be on your side, trust me.

emmyN:
Was the apartment paid for in her name? If no, then you have no reason to move out. Just break up and send her packing with a promise to pay back her money in installments within a time frame. If she involves the police, they would be on your side, trust me.

the receipt is in my name

Dontaskme:
the receipt is in my name

Alright just do as I've said, the apartment is legally yours. She may nag and throw all sort of tantrums, but just be firm in your resolve, she's not worth it. Good luck

Wheeeew!!!

Many people have spoken my mind already.


Nothing more to add

She is a devil pls quit the relationship

TheeDetective:
What sort of nansense is this again ? You are waiting for us to tell you that both of you are not compatible . Since she's making so much noise about the money she lent you, pay her back. If you can't pay all in one lump sum, then pay it in installments. Go your separate ways as you both will make a very big mistake if you eventually go down the lane of getting married to each other . There's a limit to what one should tolerate and put up with. If you insist on going ahead to marry her, don't come back here and cry us a river that my wife is this and that o, cos we dey warn you now say make you waka. It's not compulsory to settle down with someone that you can't stay happily with as marriage is not a bed of roses.

. U made my evening.

OP, you get sense at all? At what age have you entered this kind of katikati?

Annoyingly, you started the post with 'I am an introvert', does being an introvert impair good judgement?

If you are going to have this kind of headache, be married at least.

Dontaskme

You seem to be a nice person but you have issues (as you said) due to past experiences and so you have attracted a person with issues too.

Two unstable people cannot have a stable relationship.

Sort yourself out first. Get over the past. Drop your fears. Know your worth. Then and only then you will attract the right relationship into your life.

Mr. Man, she is abusing you both mentally and emotionally. Time to cut her lose.

And stop with all this financial openess thing you got going with her, time to save up and move out.

By the way, don't tell her your plans and also Incase of next time be careful before dating someone like her, I mean someone with baggages.

Fkforyou:
Mr. Man, she is abusing you both mentally and emotionally. Time to cut her lose.

And stop with all this financial openess thing you got going with her, time to save up and move out.

By the way, don't tell her your plans and also Incase of next time be careful before dating someone like her, I mean someone with baggages.

He has baggage as well. That's the problem.

Dontaskme:
Hello folks, this obviously isnt my real account.I love my privacy,but I just need to talk to someone.
I have been dating this girl (lets call her patience-not her real name),for about a year and half.It has been hell on earth but no doubt there are sweet moments.I promise to keep this short and not getting you bored with irrelevant epistles.I just need advice.

Let me quickly tell you about me, I am an introvert,very very reserved and quiet person.I don't get angry easily,when I do then it most have been a serious torment that lead to it.Even when I am angry the worst I would do is shout and sometimes cry after.I am a freelancer so i dont need to go out of the house, I work from home.I have being heart broken and dumped twice by ladies I was completely faithful and honest to.On the average i earn like 70-100k in a month.

Patience works salary job .We are both in our mid twenties, she is 3 months older(but it doesnt bother me) .Before we met I made a decision not to date anyone else due to my past experiences .When I met her first I kind of liked her,the first time me met she didn't have transport fare, she approached me and I paid for her(thats how we met).All i needed was a friend because as i said earlier I wasm very reserved,we exchanged numbers and we got talking.I fell in love with her asked her out,she turned me down.To avoid thinking of her too much,I cut off communication,after a while she started calling me and showing interest at that point I had lost interest and just wanted to prevent another heart break.

I went to regrettable lengths of asking her to leave my house, just to avoid somebody breaking up with me again, i always felt remorseful,i had to train myself to forget past experiences and give her a chance.I genuinely fell in love with her again.Its pertinent to note that she has also gone through the emotional trauma that I have gone through.

Fastforward.. I have great respect for women which is sometimes seen as weakness by some people, so even when she comes visiting i do all my chores myself including cooking,she always complains i dont allow her do anything.I had to bow to pressure and arguments (where the arguments started) to allow her assist.

Fastforward...I had an issue with my apartment,my friends and i did a kind of handover ,and you know how lagos Landlords are, he wanted to collect agreement and commission all over again from me, which i couldn't afford.

Just before the whole apartment saga, patience started behaving somehow ,she is always scared, insecure being afraid that i would leave her like the other guys.Then she started complaining about how tribalistic her parents are (which is true,you need to see how her mum was just giving pretentious smiles when i am around her family-even though she thinks we are just friends,but she suspects something is going on ) and how they wouldn't accept me,she is igbo and i am from the middle belt.She started going of and on, tell me she is breaking up with me today, come back tommorow,and she did it countless times.There was a particular long interval and i had given up on her already after trying to get her back.I started being free with other females making friends and I had sex with one of them (my first and only sexual experience-i was honestly waiting for marriage).She came back again and I told her of what happened ,she started ranting that I cheated on her, there and then she started becoming over protective .Checking my calls ,chats which doesnt bother me.

Back to the apartment saga,she opted to help get a new place and pay for me, which I was strongly against and she was like "if you dont take it then I am no longer your girlfriend".I had to take the offer and we agreed I was going to pay back.

She took her trouble to the next level when she saw my chat with other girls after a very long time and this chats took place during the periods of her fluctuations.Because she insists on spending a night sometimes this girl wont allow me sleep she would shout at the top of her voice in the house that I am a womanizer.

She would complain that I dont help her with chores(I started helping out, bear in mind she forced me to let her do it) , she would complain that I dont do anything for her, she would complain that I procastinate (she was right about this, so I adjusted and got a timetable for my activities).She lost her job briefly so i was supporting her and got her a new job through a friend. Now all she does is nag, gets me upset and when we have an argument all she does is scream about how she "picked me up when I had nothing and rented a house for me ",and she repeats it all the time. Bear in mind that I got her a new phone (after plenty abuse)I have been supporting both of us and given her transport to work everyday thats why i havent been able to pay her back her money.She would even go to the length of embarrassing me shouting that i should pay her money that she wants to leave my life.She talks anyhow and doesnt even mind the words that come out of her mouth, she sometimes curses me.She dropped a bomb recently saying that all the love she has been giving me from the beginning is just "eye service".With all this I would forgive her without hassles when ever she calms down and says she is sorry, but she repeats this rubbish all the time.When I try to report her to her friends to talk to her its another fight i am causing.She has once told me she would slap me and there is nothing i can do about it, she is right because all i do is shout and sometimes push her away when she starts all this rubbish.Trusts me what she does is more than what i wrote here.

She is now practically staying permanently in my apartment because she claims her parents are maltreating her, i cant send her away cos i still lover despite all she does and also because I am still owing her .
She has changed me, I now get provoked easily ,she has messed my Pysychology up, i recently got so angry that i tore her bag, this is me who couldnt hurt a fly before .one thing i have never done is to raise my hands on her. I am just tired i dont know what to do again.

Two attitudes i abhor in igbo girls....


Tribalism and sauciness.

Bros, this is my advice, if you don't want to have a high blood pressure before your thirtieth birthday, pls try and pay back her money then you can break up with her because if you marry her she will eventually kill you. That's my 2 cents !

Google emotionally intelligence and read up. See if it can be helpful.but I think you should pay her her money and send her outta your house.

Dontaskme:
Hello folks, this obviously isnt my real account.I love my privacy,but I just need to talk to someone.
I have been dating this girl (lets call her patience-not her real name),for about a year and half.It has been hell on earth but no doubt there are sweet moments.I promise to keep this short and not getting you bored with irrelevant epistles.I just need advice.

Let me quickly tell you about me, I am an introvert,very very reserved and quiet person.I don't get angry easily,when I do then it most have been a serious torment that lead to it.Even when I am angry the worst I would do is shout and sometimes cry after.I am a freelancer so i dont need to go out of the house, I work from home.I have being heart broken and dumped twice by ladies I was completely faithful and honest to.On the average i earn like 70-100k in a month.

Patience works salary job .We are both in our mid twenties, she is 3 months older(but it doesnt bother me) .Before we met I made a decision not to date anyone else due to my past experiences .When I met her first I kind of liked her,the first time me met she didn't have transport fare, she approached me and I paid for her(thats how we met).All i needed was a friend because as i said earlier I wasm very reserved,we exchanged numbers and we got talking.I fell in love with her asked her out,she turned me down.To avoid thinking of her too much,I cut off communication,after a while she started calling me and showing interest at that point I had lost interest and just wanted to prevent another heart break.

I went to regrettable lengths of asking her to leave my house, just to avoid somebody breaking up with me again, i always felt remorseful,i had to train myself to forget past experiences and give her a chance.I genuinely fell in love with her again.Its pertinent to note that she has also gone through the emotional trauma that I have gone through.

Fastforward.. I have great respect for women which is sometimes seen as weakness by some people, so even when she comes visiting i do all my chores myself including cooking,she always complains i dont allow her do anything.I had to bow to pressure and arguments (where the arguments started) to allow her assist.

Fastforward...I had an issue with my apartment,my friends and i did a kind of handover ,and you know how lagos Landlords are, he wanted to collect agreement and commission all over again from me, which i couldn't afford.

Just before the whole apartment saga, patience started behaving somehow ,she is always scared, insecure being afraid that i would leave her like the other guys.Then she started complaining about how tribalistic her parents are (which is true,you need to see how her mum was just giving pretentious smiles when i am around her family-even though she thinks we are just friends,but she suspects something is going on ) and how they wouldn't accept me,she is igbo and i am from the middle belt.She started going of and on, tell me she is breaking up with me today, come back tommorow,and she did it countless times.There was a particular long interval and i had given up on her already after trying to get her back.I started being free with other females making friends and I had sex with one of them (my first and only sexual experience-i was honestly waiting for marriage).She came back again and I told her of what happened ,she started ranting that I cheated on her, there and then she started becoming over protective .Checking my calls ,chats which doesnt bother me.

Back to the apartment saga,she opted to help get a new place and pay for me, which I was strongly against and she was like "if you dont take it then I am no longer your girlfriend".I had to take the offer and we agreed I was going to pay back.

She took her trouble to the next level when she saw my chat with other girls after a very long time and this chats took place during the periods of her fluctuations.Because she insists on spending a night sometimes this girl wont allow me sleep she would shout at the top of her voice in the house that I am a womanizer.

She would complain that I dont help her with chores(I started helping out, bear in mind she forced me to let her do it) , she would complain that I dont do anything for her, she would complain that I procastinate (she was right about this, so I adjusted and got a timetable for my activities).She lost her job briefly so i was supporting her and got her a new job through a friend. Now all she does is nag, gets me upset and when we have an argument all she does is scream about how she "picked me up when I had nothing and rented a house for me ",and she repeats it all the time. Bear in mind that I got her a new phone (after plenty abuse)I have been supporting both of us and given her transport to work everyday thats why i havent been able to pay her back her money.She would even go to the length of embarrassing me shouting that i should pay her money that she wants to leave my life.She talks anyhow and doesnt even mind the words that come out of her mouth, she sometimes curses me.She dropped a bomb recently saying that all the love she has been giving me from the beginning is just "eye service".With all this I would forgive her without hassles when ever she calms down and says she is sorry, but she repeats this rubbish all the time.When I try to report her to her friends to talk to her its another fight i am causing.She has once told me she would slap me and there is nothing i can do about it, she is right because all i do is shout and sometimes push her away when she starts all this rubbish.Trusts me what she does is more than what i wrote here.

She is now practically staying permanently in my apartment because she claims her parents are maltreating her, i cant send her away cos i still lover despite all she does and also because I am still owing her .
She has changed me, I now get provoked easily ,she has messed my Pysychology up, i recently got so angry that i tore her bag, this is me who couldnt hurt a fly before .one thing i have never done is to raise my hands on her. I am just tired i dont know what to do again.

Hi bro. First of all I want you to note the following

1. You are in torment and bondage.

2. That lady is ur tomentor.

3. You can be free from the torment. It will be hard...but its possible.

4. She was smarter than u. She had trapped u. By collecting that money from her for the house, you entered the first set of bondage.

4. You can be free. Find how to give her the money back. Eject her from ur life. Lick up cometly BECOS SHE WILL COME BK AND BEG YOU. TRUST ME. IVE MET THEIR TYPE BEFORE.


U CAN CHAT ME UP PRIVATELY IF U WANT. DO U?.

Foxyn:
try masturbating. it helps

how can tell ur fellow guy to try masturbating, does it mean that there are no more ladies out there.

1234onyekwe:
how can tell ur fellow guy to try masturbating, does it mean that there are no more ladies out there.

he refused to follow the other ideas

that was why I introduced that one to him

nnamdiosu:
Hi bro. First of all I want you to note the following

1. You are in torment and bondage.

2. That lady is ur tomentor.

3. You can be free from the torment. It will be hard...but its possible.

4. She was smarter than u. She had trapped u. By collecting that money from her for the house, you entered the first set of bondage.

4. You can be free. Find how to give her the money back. Eject her from ur life. Lick up cometly BECOS SHE WILL COME BK AND BEG YOU. TRUST ME. IVE MET THEIR TYPE BEFORE.


U CAN CHAT ME UP PRIVATELY IF U WANT. DO U?.

hmm chatting you up would reveal my identity which I am trying to cover,we can always talk here.Or do you want to help me with the pay back(I am not begging ),but if you want to help I would appreciate,I just need this burden off my neck.

Mindfulness:
He has baggage as well. That's the problem.

I have dropped the baggages a long long time ago

Mindfulness:
Dontaskme

You seem to be a nice person but you have issues (as you said) due to past experiences and so you have attracted a person with issues too.

Two unstable people cannot have a stable relationship.

Sort yourself out first. Get over the past. Drop your fears. Know your worth. Then and only then you will attract the right relationship into your life.

I have gotten over my past a long time ago,she is the one who hasnt actually,she still compares me with her exes anytime we have an argument.
All i need now is peace,when she knocks on the door ,when she is back from work, my heart skips.When the time for her to come back from work draws nearer fear grips me , because I know all the things that could possibly go wrong.

izzou:
Incase,you need something to restore your mental state,you could teach me on how to become a freelancer and work from home

It will make you forget about her

Hope say I fit send pm?

Business is not even moving well again sef ,because I am no longer in the right state of mind.Always destabilized .All is well

Bro... I don't comment on nairaland but your case was so similar to mine... Technically it seems you are a good guy but the good guy in you would destroy your future if you don't take time.... Was in your shoes some years back and I told myself that if I can't handle Ma babes character I prefer to end it because forever is too long a time to spend with all a lady who would make your life hell.... Leave the relationship and live your life

hush hush...boi u ain't tryin at all. ..a little b*tch is physically, verbally n emotionally abusing u...u are here asking what to do..ever since she lend u money...u never hear word...despite all d help you've been providing her....do u think she'll ever gonna change...don't u think this is the reason guys keep dumping her...can't u see she is nothing but a trash...she ain't worthy of ur love at all....u r there still askin what 2 do...u said u can't send her out...obviously u can't brk up with her because u r so 4kn blinded by love...no wonder she's playing soccer with ur scrotum...very soon that slap she promised u...u go collect am in front of ur friends...so tell me what advice do u wnt frm us now...u n i knows she ain't ever gonna change..this is who she is...
MY GUY MATCH THIS B*TCH COMOT FRM UR HOUSE b4 she carry belle frm one sharp guy come gv u...she doesn't luv u...she's just managing u because u r d only Nigerian dat can put up with her trashy attitude..n she's used to that.. so now stop being an over slacked pusssy...pay her up asap...but 1st fling her like a page of a novel....u r d legit owner of ur apartment even d police knows that...she can't do anything...no fear...u to weak...even white woman no fit tk half of wetin u de take...last time i checked...most 9ja gurls no de appreciate nice guys because dey treat them like fools (mugu) n weak guys..so be smart...no offence though...

Dontaskme:
hmm chatting you up would reveal my identity which I am trying to cover,we can always talk here.Or do you want to help me with the pay back(I am not begging ),but if you want to help I would appreciate,I just need this burden off my neck.

Its ok if u prefer us to chat here. And no I don't intend any pay back stuff. Please remove all thoughts of payback because the idea is to get her out of your life. Pay back will just be extending your grief.
The solution to this bondage is in two forms...in the following order.

1. ENSURE YOU GET THE WHOLE MONEY THAT YOU BORROWED FROM HER. IF YOU CANT DO THIS...IM SORRY YOUR BONDAGE CANT END YET. IF YOU CAN DO THIS, GET THE MONEY AND AT LEAST TWO WITNESS TO BE THERE WHEN YOU GIVE HER THE MONEY. PLUS SHE MUST ALSO SIGN THAT SHE GOT UT. IF POSSIBLE SECRETLY RECORD YOUR CONVERSATION AS YOU GIVE IT TO HER.
Now I bet you....she won't want to collect it. Because she knows if she does, she doesn't have any power over you. BUT YOU MUST INSIST. SHE MUST COLLECT IT. DO OR DIE. ENSURE YOU DONT SHOW HER SIGNS THAT YOU WANT TO DO STEP 2 BELOW.

2 AFTER SHE HAS COLLECTED IT MY BROTHER DONT WASTE TIME, IN THE PRESENCE OF THE TWO WITNESS (WHO WILL EVEN HELP YOU) , TELL HER TO TAKE HER THINGS AND LEAVE YOUR HOUSE. Bros, you must be adamant, don't pity her. Cause here she will start crying. By they are crocodile tears. If you tell her twice and she doesn't go, START PACKING HER THINGS AND THROW OUTSIDE. When and if you do this, you will see that the tears will automatically dry up and she can even start cursing or swearing for u. But don't bother. Ensure your phone recorder is still on to be recording still. Every thing belong to her must go. If she went to the toilet before u start and she hasn't yet flushed...pack her shit to and throw outside for her. Every single thing.

Bro this is the only way. Delete her number. Block her number. Unfriendo her.....in fact nothing must relate you with her. Only through this you will have peace ok.
Let me know your progress.

Dontaskme:
I have gotten over my past a long time ago,she is the one who hasnt actually,she still compares me with her exes anytime we have an argument.
All i need now is peace,when she knocks on the door ,when she is back from work, my heart skips.When the time for her to come back from work draws nearer fear grips me , because I know all the things that could possibly go wrong.

Your initial post says otherwise.

1234onyekwe:
how can tell ur fellow guy to try masturbating, does it mean that there are no more ladies out there.

Na wa o , you get powerto reply that guy

UPDATE
Whether you believe in God or not ,I the kind of person who can anticipate and see things before they happen .And have a very prophetic tongue .
Any time she is about to do something ,when it wont go well or my spirit is troubled about it ,I tell her .Some times she stubbornly disobeys and she always comes back home regretting.The same goes the other way round (when good stuffs are coming her way ,i tell her and it happens that way).

Recently again she wanted to repeat her stubbornness ,I reminded her of what always happens any time she disobeys me,the girl boldy told me I have evil spirit thats why I always .We had a long argument ,she even condemned the phone I bought for her "calling it rubbish",because her company gave her a new phone.

Today is her birthday,I wished her happy birthday when she woke up this morning ,she was Hot,disturbing me to have sex with her .I couldn't even look at her face because all I felt was disgust and anger coupled with regret.

I tried to have a heart to heart talk with her (for the 1 millionth time) telling her to PLEASE change her behavior of being rude and talking anyhow,telling her how perfect she would be if she just let go off her behavior of quick anger and talking rudely (I didn't mention it in the initial post,she also talks to outsiders rudely). I told her of how tired I was of everything and I just wanted peace of mind.As she always says (she started calling me names,broke man,she cant manage with a poor man etc),telling me of how tired she is of me and how I am not useful to her .

She busted out in anger as usual saying she would pack her things and leave ,this time around I boldy told her to GO ,she was like
" I would drop the phone you bought if you want "
I replied "If that is what you want no wahala"

Long story short :
She came back from work not too long ago,picked up her clothes and left,she also dropped the phone I bought for her.And inserted the SIM card into the new phone her company gave her (Its a more expensive phone).
I just pray she doesnt come back begging ,because that is what she always does ,after leaving for some days .
I also need your prayers folks .
Thanks for all the help

Prognose
Mindfulness
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