₦airaland Forum

so nobody get yaba left number?

Born throwaway!

As your parents trained you when you were small and helpless, that is the same way as child is to train his parents when they are old and weak !

What do you expect,when you turn your back for a man to have intercourse with u.

PaperLace:
I am sure people insulting him didn't read his write up_they read only the heading, but it's normal for Nairalanders .

Truth is bitter, very bitter...
He was a bit hard, went off at some point but he made some sense.

PaperLace:
I am sure people insulting him didn't read his write up_they read only the heading, but it's normal for Nairalanders .

Truth is bitter, very bitter...
He was a bit hard, went off at some point but he made some sense.

PaperLace:
I am sure people insulting him didn't read his write up_they read only the heading, but it's normal for Nairalanders .

Truth is bitter, very bitter...
He was a bit hard, went off at some point but he made some sense.

Birds of the same feather...mtcheew

Smellymouth:
You are welcome Mon Ami..

Dalu French fellow. Mon Ami is ....?

This one na human being

Been a gay can affect someone's brain so l don't blame him.

Rule number uno ;Don't ever take Family/marital advise from a N*gga who gets f#cked in the A$$.

eyinjuege:
Every parent should have a plan for their old age and not rely on their children, for their children are also human and can always disappoint you at any time.
Raise your children right, do your best for them, but also have a retirement plan, and not rely on them. Invest in yourself and your old age. Have only the no of children you can afford to raise, and at the same time save for your old age.
Some children will support their parents, some won't. Some parents will still continue to support their children who are married depending on the size of their pockets, No size fits all. Family dynamics differ.

very well said

Suko110:
U give ur parents money dem reject am what else would d poor guy do or say . #Faustrarion #

why won't they, when he is disgracing them

Some times parents will be in the village waiting for their son who is not sending home anything. The parents think the child is doing well and being stingy, meanwhile the guy is struggling to feed himself and pay rent. And this how witchcraft come.

If the parents have a good pension fund to take care of them in old age they will not eye their children.

Even those who have pension are not enjoying it. Some state governments are owing pensioners up to 10 months. Ask governor Rochas Okorocha.

Many have died waiting for the payment of their pensions.

biko nu wats wrong wit dix guy self?? na person pikin be dix ehh kwa

Why is the media making this bastard popular

xynerise:
Only a prodigal and cursed child will have this mentality.

So if your parents are suffering and you are financially buoyant, you will tell them this?

i understand what you're tranna say. A cursed child indeed. But that's not what bisi is trying to say; he is talking for both sides. In simple words parents should have a lay out plan for their old age while young people (children) should not necessarily work all their life tranna feed their parents. That's not the case anyway.

Bastard son of a thousand fathers.

Honestly speaking! He's right. And this is why the rich get richer and poor get poorer ..

I help my parent alot when I was single . But, as soon as I start having my own family wife and kids too. They asked me to stop!

Now, I have to take care of my own family.. which is obviously understandable.

I have a friend who works almost like Monday - Sunday ! Just to take care of his family here abroad wife and 2 kids! And also his parent back home in Nigeria. At the end of the month he has no savings even to save for his two kids for university in future. I fell sad for him everyday he work very hard but, they still always complain and ask him for money everytime ... not knowing this guy work almost 320 days in a year.. he as no Life of his own! Living for others

Dis dude must be mentally unstable

xynerise:
Only a prodigal and cursed child will have this mentality.

So if your parents are suffering and you are financially buoyant, you will tell them this?

Didn't you read this? Only do it if you can and have the resources to... Ode

OfficialNNB:
Nigerian gay activist, Bisi Alimi, has written an epistle telling Nigerians that it is not their responsibility to take care of their parents, neither is it the right of their parents. According to him, a child owes his/her parent nothing, as he/she never begged them to have sex.

He went further to disclose that a child, is not an old age pension scheme. He went further to tell Nigerians not to succumb to emotional blackmail from their parents, or they will milk them dry.

Here's what he wrote;

"Nigerians, doomed financial vicious circle is when your parents brought you up so you can be their cow to milk, while you look forward to doing same to your children.
I understand that the system is bleeped, pension money is being embezzled by stupid greedy politicians, the same ones you worship and bow to, and there is no guarantee for old age, but Bleep, the system won't fix itself. If you don't resist, you will be consumed.


The idea that it is the responsibility of the struggling young to take care of the struggling old is a myth sold to you by the corrupt politicians who have stolen the resources of your commonwealth.


Remember, one rich man among 100 poor men will eventually end up being poor.
You only have two commitments in life; yourself and your children and that's until they are old enough to be kicked out of the house.

You do not, I repeat, you do not owe your parents any pay back unless you are still living with them, which means get the Bleep out or start paying rent and bills.

Remember, you didn't beg them to have sex, they wanted to have children, it's their choice, you should not be their old age pension scheme.
Only do it if you can and have the resources to, but even with that, know the limit or they will emotionally blackmail you and milk you dry."

Craze dey worry you, fucking asshole gay

xynerise:
Only a prodigal and cursed child will have this mentality.

So if your parents are suffering and you are financially buoyant, you will tell them this?

I guess you didn't read the post, He never implied that, toward the end of the post he advice to help if you only have the resources.

ok


now he needs to go to rehab

This guy is simply drained....in all ramifications!

TrapQueen77:


How i wish i can do that, but i cant...this type of character he is emphasizing was adopted from the western..

You wish? Really?

He reasons through his anus

ijayebonyi:
Dalu French fellow. Mon Ami is ....?

My friend.

Even now that l still live with my parents and I'm in full time education, I still find something to give my parents from by fortnightly education allowance. I can never repay them enough for what they went through to get me where I am today. All the sacrifices, it's not easy. Giving to them is out of the love I have for them! They don't have to ask me, and if they do I give them. This kind of mentality is disgusting, but who knows, he's probably bitter from whatever his experience as a child was like

He is absolutes right!!!

xynerise:
Only a prodigal and cursed child will have this mentality.

So if your parents are suffering and you are financially buoyant, you will tell them this?

I don't quite agree 100% with him but sometimes there's sense in nonsense.

God forbid that I abandon my parents financially even though they still hold I still give. However today's parents should learn to plan before producing. Give birth to the number of children you can comfortably raise and still be able to set something aside for retirement. Problem is that African parents don't retire till they enter grave. They make too much sacrifices in raising children thereby short-changing themselves. Truth is that this is avoidable only if they plan.

As for me I can't come and go and kill myself. I must plan for my retirement and not hope on some kid you may make all the sacrifices for and at the end of the day you become a burden to him/her. God forbid!

You my friend, pls plan on something to fall back on upon old age even if you are a business man. Don't think of doing that business until you enter grave. Work with a certain age in mind to retire and strive to do so exactly at that age. Life is sweetest in old age. Nothing is satisfying as seeing your grant kids play outdoors and even go outing with you cos you are ageing gracefully cos of having done the right thing.

What else do u expect from a man who thinks that the only place to derive joy is through the anus of his fellow man?


Whether he likes it or not, it is my responsibility to take care of my parents.


If he doesn't want to take care of his, na him know, but telling people not to is very wrong.

This is why I dislike Gays, they think with their Anus.

Asidiq23:
Craze dey worry you, fucking asshole gay

A gay activist does not necessarily have to be a gay.

Gay has finally twist these one brain..I pray you find solace