Despirited:
But most of the time, ladies mouth run faster than their brain. Why are they not coward when their mouths are running

very true ladies run their mouths out of anger. And i think the best reply the guy can give her is the silent treatment, just ignore her and walk away .

shizzy7:
I don't think so, if the guy can't keep quiet, then he should walk out.
Sometimes, women argue about petty, irrelevant things that even me as a lady can't stand talk less of a guy.

This is where I disagree with most women. Why should he walk out? for how long?
Can't the woman learn to control her tongue.


Real men don't hit women and real women don't use their tongues to chase their husbands out their house.

PapiSmith:
All women will start claiming feminist now meanwhile they are the ones busy abusing the guy, calling him names, cursing his parents and all sort of bullshìt.

A man should never lay his hands on a lady IF she don't try it first... I believe in gender equality

Good talk do men beat woman for no reason? some women lack respect, manners, and promiscuous in their ways.

Tynasparks:
first of all i dont talk anyhow ... Secondly its really absurd to think the only solution available to stop a lady from running her mouth is to hit her... What ever happened to giving a nagging lady the silent treatment ?

We can't control the reaction of another person to our actions which is the reason why i said ladies should control their mouth so as to d devils that live in some people.

Lloydfolarin:


Control your mouth first...

If you run your mouth and got beaten, that's your problem.

Stop pushing someone to the cliff and expect him to walk away. Control yourself first...

2 wrongs cant make a right .

How will he not beat you when you go about showing your boobies to any guy that needs to see it? So a man will wake up and say to himself: "today, I am going to beat my woman". Is that how it works?

Tynasparks:
Any guy that beats a lady is a coward. If you feel like punching someone look for Anthony Joshua .

Stop trying to play the victim card. its becoming overused. Receive sense.

So all abusive relationships are male aggressors.

What can you say about the following real life stories.

1) Lady Stabs Her Boyfriend To Death In Opobo, Rivers State
https://www.nairaland.com/3792216/lady-stabs-boyfriend-death-opobo

2) More than 40% of domestic violence victims are male, report reveals
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2010/sep/05/men-victims-domestic-violence

3) Domestic violence against men soars to record levels as number of cases treble in past decade
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/1802863/domestic-violence-against-men-soars-to-record-levels-as-number-of-cases-treble-in-past-decade/

4) Domestic violence against men: Know the signs
http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/domestic-violence-against-men/art-20045149

5) 11 facts everyone should know about domestic violence against men
https://www.domesticshelters.org/domestic-violence-articles-information/men-can-be-abused-too#.WRRQCTe1tO0

6) Domestic abuse against men: Know the signs
http://metro.co.uk/2016/06/08/domestic-abuse-against-men-know-the-signs-5931125/

7) etc

Women should treat their husbands...............the way they want women to treat their sons.......Men should treat their wives.................the way they want men to treat their daughters

Domestic violence and abuse is unacceptable.......think ........what if........she / he dies when you hit her/him.....you become a murderer......and rot in jail....because of anger....



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JS0z6SQdqC8


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5rCV8W7J-to

stuffs4me:



Stop trying to play the victim card. its becoming overused. Receive sense.

So all abusive relationships are male aggressors.

What can you say about the following real life stories.

1) Lady Stabs Her Boyfriend To Death In Opobo, Rivers State
https://www.nairaland.com/3792216/lady-stabs-boyfriend-death-opobo

2) More than 40% of domestic violence victims are male, report reveals
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2010/sep/05/men-victims-domestic-violence

3) Domestic violence against men soars to record levels as number of cases treble in past decade
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/1802863/domestic-violence-against-men-soars-to-record-levels-as-number-of-cases-treble-in-past-decade/

4) Domestic violence against men: Know the signs
http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/domestic-violence-against-men/art-20045149

5) 11 facts everyone should know about domestic violence against men
https://www.domesticshelters.org/domestic-violence-articles-information/men-can-be-abused-too#.WRRQCTe1tO0

6) Domestic abuse against men: Know the signs
http://metro.co.uk/2016/06/08/domestic-abuse-against-men-know-the-signs-5931125/

7) etc

ignored

Kondomatic:
This is where I disagree with most women. Why should he walk out? for how long?
Can't the woman learn to control her tongue.


Real men don't hit women and real women don't use their tongues to chase their husbands out their house.

Just find your own real woman.

Things are happening, people are different, behavior /characters are totally different.
Level of tolerance for people also differs.
To top it all, Civilization has made some people lose their basic sense of reasoning.

portaableg:
This is becoming very uncontrollably rampant.
If you know you have that habit or has ever raised your hand on a lady, and you are here in Nairaland ...in the name of the God you serve recieve your deliverance......Amen
#NotKidding

To a demented one like you, all victims of domestic violence are men abi..


well chock on these..

So all abusive relationships are male aggressors.

What can you say about the following real life stories.

1) Lady Stabs Her Boyfriend To Death In Opobo, Rivers State
https://www.nairaland.com/3792216/lady-stabs-boyfriend-death-opobo

2) More than 40% of domestic violence victims are male, report reveals
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2010/sep/05/men-victims-domestic-violence

3) Domestic violence against men soars to record levels as number of cases treble in past decade
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/1802863/domestic-violence-against-men-soars-to-record-levels-as-number-of-cases-treble-in-past-decade/

4) Domestic violence against men: Know the signs
http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/domestic-violence-against-men/art-20045149

5) 11 facts everyone should know about domestic violence against men
https://www.domesticshelters.org/domestic-violence-articles-information/men-can-be-abused-too#.WRRQCTe1tO0

6) Domestic abuse against men: Know the signs
http://metro.co.uk/2016/06/08/domestic-abuse-against-men-know-the-signs-5931125/

7) etc

Tynasparks:
ignored

This one has shamelessly ignored the fact that over 40% of the victims of domestic violence are men..

Shame on you hypocrite.

stuffs4me:



This one has shamelessly ignored the fact that over 40% of the victims of domestic violence are men..

Shame on you hypocrite.

thumbs up niggar

Tynasparks:
thumbs up niggar

Isn't this one of the things we are talking about. Why use such a derogatory and taboo remark in a civilized discussion. Women have terrible and evil mouths that can turn a gentle saint into the devil. Do you even know that domestic violence goes beyond physical battery if you had used such a word on your boyfriend/husband it would have been termed as domestic violence. And if your boyfriend had reacted violently to it, you would be the first to come out and claim domestic violence while shedding crocodile tears to your sympathy party.

stuffs4me:



Isn't this one of the things we are talking about. Why use such a derogatory and taboo remark in a civilized discussion. Women have terrible and evil mouths that can turn a gentle saint into the devil. Do you even know that domestic violence goes beyond physical battery if you had used such a word on your boyfriend/husband it would have been termed as domestic violence. And if your boyfriend had reacted violently to it, you would be the first to come out and claim domestic violence while shedding crocodile tears to your sympathy party.

awww did i hurt your feelings You think its alright to call someone a hypocrite?

Tynasparks:
awww did i hurt your feeling You think its alright to call someone a hypocrite?

You are not fit to hurt my feelings. On the other hand, I feel sorry for you and the unfortunate man that will marry you.

stuffs4me:



You are not fit to hurt my feelings. On the other hand, I feel sorry for you and the unfortunate man that will marry you.

same wishes dear...

If she nags too much. Pls redesign her face. Rearrange her dentition
Just joking o.

Tynasparks:
ignored

of course why won't you ignore?
two wrongs don't make a right my foot. if you like go and be abusing men and expect them to "walk away" for you. the beating you go collect go get season 1-6

stuffs4me:



You are not fit to hurt my feelings. On the other hand, I feel sorry for you and the unfortunate man that will marry you.

see as you just dey expose her empty head for public. Please stop replying her, na small pikin that one be.

Tynasparks:
very true ladies run their mouths out of anger. And i think the best reply the guy can give her is the silent treatment, just ignore her and walk away .

how convenient , why cant the bitch stop running her mouth too. Why is it only the guy that should exercise restraint

IyfeNamikaze:
of course why won't you ignore?
two wrongs don't make a right my foot. if you like go and be abusing men and expect them to "walk away" for you. the beating you go collect go get season 1-6

holy cow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Guy take a chill pill. I dont have the strength to talk recklessly or abuse anybody, its really draining.

revolt:
how convenient , why cant the bitch stop running her mouth too. Why is it only the guy that should exercise restraint

i wasn't saying its alright for ladies to run their mouth and guys to walk away, to let peace reign its only advisable for a party to walk away. Besides everybody is entitled to their own opinion.

No man should ever raise his hand to beat a woman


If u really pained, poison her silently without traces

My wife came home late, when I asked her where was she? She said she was with her friends. I accepted and after about 20 minutes she told me to help her check what went wrong with her phone behold a message came from someone I had suspected being her boyfriend the message is ( had it been you were still with me we would've had more sex) I went mad I gave her hot three slaps.fight ensued between us. My question is did I did wrong by slapping the idiot?

Tynasparks:
Any gubeats a lady is a coward. If you feel like punching someone look for Anthony Joshua .

Modified: For all those quoting me, i am not saying it is right for the lady to talk recklessly. I am only saying it is best the guy gives her a silent treatment more like ignoring her and walking away for sometime to get fresh air, because 2 wrongs can never make a right.

Tynasparks:
Any guy that beats a lady is a coward. If you feel like punching someone look for Anthony Joshua .

Modified: For all those quoting me, i am not saying it is right for the lady to talk recklessly. I am only saying it is best the guy gives her a silent treatment more like ignoring her and walking away for sometime to get fresh air, because 2 wrongs can never make a right.

I still think it's very wise for people especially ladies to find the history of a man before they jump into commitment...

in Mercy's case, I believe she wasn't the first wife, and am sure she didn't look into his life but just accepted the physical appearance she saw...

eniwhy:
My wife came home late, when I asked her where was she? She said she was with her friends. I obliged and after about 20 minutes she told me to help her check what went wrong with her phone behold a message came from someone I had suspected being her boyfriend the message is ( had been you were still with me we would've had more sex) I went mad I gave her hot three slaps.fight ensued between us. My question is did I did wrong by slapping the idiot?

in a way no. But there are also other ways to have handled the situation. My opinion though

Tynasparks:
Any guy that beats a lady is a coward. If you feel like punching someone look for Anthony Joshua .

Modified: For all those quoting me, i am not saying it is right for the lady to talk recklessly. I am only saying it is best the guy gives her a silent treatment more like ignoring her and walking away for sometime to get fresh air, because 2 wrongs can never make a right.

Y not tell her to shut d fvck up too sometimes so peace can reign...if d husband walks out every time n one day becomes swallowed by all these lala's pythons nko? Abi u no dey see how big those snakes are?

fynex:


I still think it's very wise for people especially ladies to find the history of a man before they jump into commitment...

in Mercy's case, I believe she wasn't the first wife, and am sure she didn't look into his life but just accepted the physical appearance she saw...

i kinda concur with you.....

luminouz:

Y not tell her to shut d fvck up too sometimes so peace can reign...if d husband walks out every time n one day becomes swallowed by all these lala's pythons nko? Abi u no dey see how big those snakes are?

lol

[color=#990000][/color][i][/i] am not really a follower of domestic violence shit but all I can say is what if the bitch slapped the nigger first and the guy has anger issues then he gave her a resetting slap the her face swell up like paw paw is that domestic violence or 50 50 because if me I see u and I tell u say baby I love u (toasting you) and pami shack u, u slap me amma give u a super power to see the future with my hand qote me if ya a real nigger

shizzy7:
Girls actually have wahala..... And sometimes it's complicating to deal with them, beating is never an option abeggg....

Apparently, your silence hurts some women more, when they keep nagging and you dont say anything or just walk out, it's punishment to some ooo.

Its d best punishment ever! Am using it on an olosho babe who is tryna get fresh with me for d past 2 months.....I almost felt sorry for her anytime she sees me n I behave as if she be ghost!