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Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by ivolt: 2:10pm On Jun 01, 2017
Ramanto:
compare performance in jamb and waec
Can you show me the data you used for your comparison ?

Note that comparing Orile community grammar school's
waec and jamb results with that of Kings college is misleading
and any inference made from it will be invalid at best.

The best comparison can only be made by comparing
the results of day and boarding students of the same
school. Furnish me with such data if you have it.
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by LeanonGOD(m): 2:12pm On Jun 01, 2017
Good for you.
ibawon:
Although you have your points , going to a boring School has it's PRO & CONS., But still I thank God my Parents Sent me to a boarding school it has helped in shaping me in most ways today.
G.C.Ikorodu
PS Some of my old school mates sef dey here wink
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Nobody: 2:13pm On Jun 01, 2017
o.p,yes Bleep you and your fuckery ...for all those saying you cant send your kids to boarding schools,fams fcukz yo bluds !!
boarding school made me ....it thougt me essentials of life at a young age ,something day goers dont have ....

And the bond formed in boarding schools are pure and straight from the heart ......it gives you brothers for life ......guys who have grown to love you even after all the fights you two experienced ....i tell you nothing beats that feeling dawgs ...

Boarding school is not easy initially but when it grows on you,it grows on you.
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by LeanonGOD(m): 2:15pm On Jun 01, 2017
Gospel truth.
brunofarad:
If you can ,by all means let ur kids live at home and attend school from home ,BOARDING school is another influence of its own
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by sweetilicious(f): 2:16pm On Jun 01, 2017
All you listed op made me a young lady today.All thanks to my Alma mater. All that I will become in future is as a result of my Alma mater.Boarding school helps teenagers.They only disadvantage is that parents don't usually add up to the work preparations it gives to teenagers
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by LeanonGOD(m): 2:21pm On Jun 01, 2017
Provide your evidence.
nairalandfreak:
Liar! undecided sad
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by LeanonGOD(m): 2:28pm On Jun 01, 2017
The indecent languages in your post is an evidence of your GREAT boarding school achievement. Up boarding school.
hardwerk:
o.p,yes Bleep you and your fuckery ...for all those saying you cant send your kids to boarding schools,fams fcukz yo bluds !!
boarding school made me ....it thougt me essentials of life at a young age ,something day goers dont have ....

And the bond formed in boarding schools are pure and straight from the heart ......it gives you brothers for life ......guys who have grown to love you even after all the fights you two experienced ....i tell you nothing beats that feeling dawgs ...

Boarding school is not easy initially but when it grows on you,it grows on you.
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Nobody: 2:29pm On Jun 01, 2017
Please boarding schools is a no no no no no no no no no no
a product of one is advising here
my life is well admired, so to my classmates but i knw whats inside of us.
some times is not all about survival, money skills, pretenses
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by kevoh(m): 2:29pm On Jun 01, 2017
Till you become a parent, you do not have a say in the matter. Most parents will do what's best/ convenient for them in the circumstance after all they are paying the fees.
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by LeanonGOD(m): 2:31pm On Jun 01, 2017
I beg don't kill man with laugh.
sukkot:
yeah fork boarding school mayne. terrorist senior boys sending me to fetch water everyday
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Heineken(m): 2:31pm On Jun 01, 2017
Boarding school no too good. E fit make person craze. Omo I suffered then. That bastard danger boy wan finish us.. Mehn the bullying was crazy.
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Malawian(m): 2:36pm On Jun 01, 2017
I ONLY READ YOUR HEADING, I DID NOT BOTHER MYSELF READING YOUR EPISTLES. LET ME SAY THIS, BOARDING SCHOOL IS THE BEST THING YOU CAN OFFER YOUR KID. THE KIND OF SELF RELIANCE YOU GAIN THERE, APART FROM THE FACT THAT YOUR CLASSMATES AUTHOMATICALLY BECOMES YOUR "AGE GRADE" PEEPS AFTERWARDS. SAME GENDER BOARDING SCHOOL IS STILL A NO FOR ME SHA. NO INYA OKU THERE. angry angry
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Nobody: 2:37pm On Jun 01, 2017
omolorlarh:
I finished from there too but I don't consider it waste of precious years.I learnt a lot there.
proud ex-commando
well its a different story for you then
me no likey..
hard labour
Maltreatment and oppression
No care and support.
and for someone of my temperament (melancholy) and my age (10 years old in jss1) they were hard times.
I got no good memories or love for the school jare
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Kelly2713(m): 2:38pm On Jun 01, 2017
what is he saying?

Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Nobody: 2:46pm On Jun 01, 2017
IhateAfonjas:

I've told you to stop doing drugs

This is the most brain damaging thread I've read in my life

You wasted my precious time trying to read and comprehend this fuckery, i need my 5 minutes back

Believe this rubbish at your own detriment
Seconded!!
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by chykes5000(m): 2:47pm On Jun 01, 2017
Heineken:
Boarding school no too good. E fit make person craze. Omo I suffered then. That bastard danger boy wan finish us.. Mehn the bullying was crazy.
FGC ilorin. Danger vs Monite
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by bonna4u(m): 2:50pm On Jun 01, 2017
If you train your child well and teach him good and bad from age 0-10, you need not fear sending your child to the boarding school. But, I must warn that if your child is timid and doesn't have a mind of his/her own, strap her/him to your arm and drive him/her to school everyday. I attended a boarding school and it rocks.
My kids would attend boarding schools unless they are timid and lack minds of their own.
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by omolorlarh: 2:51pm On Jun 01, 2017
DayDreamPictures:
well its a different story for you then
me no likey..
hard labour
Maltreatment and oppression
No care and support.
and for someone of my temperament (melancholy) and my age (10 years old in jss1) they were hard times.
I got no good memories or love for the school jare
Oh,I get.Was 10 years old when I got in. Finished 2009
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by preshdawesome(m): 2:52pm On Jun 01, 2017

Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Nobody: 2:53pm On Jun 01, 2017
LeanonGOD:
The indecent languages in your post is an evidence of your GREAT boarding school achievement. Up boarding school.
up up upper boarding school.....my indecent language is what i felt like using .....hang yourself if you dont like it
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by 1metre: 2:57pm On Jun 01, 2017
Sensual:
No, I don't believe that mindset.
A child who has been trained from his or her parents on core and basic values will less likely go astray than a child who was dumped in the boarding school for other people to train.

Train up a child the way he should grow. start when they are little and they will not go astray.
only 4 out of 10 home trained kids end up spoiled.
I don't disagree with you sis,but still remember that no matter the basic training acquired from home by a child, boarding influence can damage all u hv laboured to inculcate in a child. Remember u only visit, u are not there all the time to checkmate the child.
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by slinkman(m): 2:57pm On Jun 01, 2017
ModsWillKillNL:
I disagree with the OP!

Boarding school prepares a child for the real world.

Any child that can hold his own in a boarding school can hold his own anywhere in the world anytime anyday.

Yes, it's a tough, training experience; but by the time you are out, you will be ever grateful that you went through it. cool

The only 2 mistakes any parent can make as regards sending their children to boarding school are:

1. Sending a child to a secular boarding house. A secular boarding house is a no-no anytime anyday.

2. Sending babies to a boarding house. The minimum age for a child to be in the boarding house is 11.


When I was in boarding school, I saw a number of fellow students indulge in a number of vices. But I never joined them. I always remembered the home I was coming from. Also, my parents had warned me beforehand to never mind the deviants or join them. grin
bullcrap. Remembering home you were from indeed.
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by abani1(m): 2:58pm On Jun 01, 2017
I concur my brother.
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Heavance(m): 3:01pm On Jun 01, 2017
This present boarding house, I will not agree with o...
I rep Govt college ketu, Epe... few private secondary schools could stand the quality we got under Otunba A.B. Obajimi.... in education, we had the best teachers in Lagos state then, we didn't lack in sport at all, clean environment and personal hygiene was another watch word.
Nothing beats the experience, you had to be very sharp, smart, intelligent. The boarding house experience ehn, was the best. Though as a boarder, you will dislike school from junior class 1-3, but from senior class 1, you have just two sets of seniors, you start to get stronger by then.

personally, if you have to pick a boarding house tight now, you must inspect it before sending your wards there. But personally, I will love for my children to attend one, it prepares them for life in the university.
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Fesirb111: 3:06pm On Jun 01, 2017
rossyc:
Invalid points... Boarding school is still the best...I went to a boarding school and it brought out the best in me..Anybody can possess the above listed points doesn't necessarily matter whether they are boarders or not..The best thing is train ur child well and pray for them.
Thank God you said it yourself 'Train your child' So, is there enough time to train such child knowing that he/she spends most of the time in school and what training are you referring to, if it is home training, my brother teachers can only try to some extent.
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Sterope(f): 3:10pm On Jun 01, 2017
I was not a boarder but I have a couple of friends that went to boarding school, so far I haven't encountered a vice that is common with boarding students. However ensure you put them in very good schools. Call them often and try to be a friend to them. You will want them to feel comfortable with you, so that they would be able to confide in you.

Godsate:
And I'm about to send two of my boys to boarding school by october. Though, most of the listedpoint may not be applicable as it's a private school.

The first is already 13 and going to ss1 while the second born is already 10 and going to jss2.

Day student in the same school and want to move them to boarding of the same school for my wife to have less to attend to in the house.

Op, i hope the move is not too bad. I want my wife to have more time for herself.
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Nobody: 3:12pm On Jun 01, 2017
creative11:
-By Oba Samuel




http://www.dailyfamily.ng/13-evils-of-boarding-school-why-you-must-raise-your-children-from-home/
It all depends on the boarding school you attended in your days. There are boarding schools that are devoid of those points raised in Nigeria. I don't want to start mentioning names so people wouldn't say I'm advertising here.
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by FearlessDapsin(m): 3:16pm On Jun 01, 2017
Never have I seen a thread full of fuckery than this! Trash! Trash!! Trash!!! Going to a boarding school is the best thing that ever happened to me! angry I rep Airforce Comprehensive School, Ibadan! Many were called, few were chosen,only the fittest among us survived cool
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by rossyc(f): 3:23pm On Jun 01, 2017
Fesirb111:
Thank God you said it yourself 'Train your child' So, is there enough time to train such child knowing that he/she spends most of the time in school and what training are you referring to, if it is home training, my brother teachers can only try to some extent.
Yes train them before u send them to a secondary boarding school. Make out time for them when they are home for holidays. Going to school from ur house doesn't guarantee a good behaviour, some people that go from d house are even worse compared to the boarders..
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by LeanonGOD(m): 3:25pm On Jun 01, 2017
I pray that your children will not emulate your ghetto tongue. May the Good Lord Bless you with All that is missing in your life - a lot is missing, Jesus is the ANSWER.
hardwerk:
up up upper boarding school.....my indecent language is what i felt like using .....hang yourself if you dont like it
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Neozy(m): 3:27pm On Jun 01, 2017
IhateAfonjas:

I've told you to stop doing drugs

This is the most brain damaging thread I've read in my life

You wasted my precious time trying to read and comprehend this fuckery, i need my 5 minutes back

Believe this rubbish at your own detriment
Judging from your moniker and your comment, I'm convinced that you're the dumbest person on nairaland.
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