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Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by LeanonGOD(m): 6:58pm On Jun 01, 2017
Apostle of GOOD NEWS.
armadeo:
I went to boarding school.



My kids would never go to one.


Finito
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Heineken(m): 7:00pm On Jun 01, 2017
[quote author=chykes5000 post=57095413][/quote] correct.. Ya you should. They call me Ashman then.
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Heineken(m): 7:03pm On Jun 01, 2017
[quote author=chykes5000 post=57095413][/quote] correct. Ya you should. They call me Ashman then.
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Emanodimo(m): 7:13pm On Jun 01, 2017
U have raised some good points... Academically it allows one to be focused on one's study. Aside the academic point of view, it is no longer helpful... Lemme say it has outlive its purpose and needs... Infact in Lagos, some of those schools have rent out their hostels for tenants and warehouse.. I don't need to mention names here...
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by reiddecuti: 7:17pm On Jun 01, 2017
OK
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by gevans(m): 7:25pm On Jun 01, 2017
Godsate:
And I'm about to send two of my boys to boarding school by october. Though, most of the listedpoint may not be applicable as it's a private school.

The first is already 13 and going to ss1 while the second born is already 10 and going to jss2.

Day student in the same school and want to move them to boarding of the same school for my wife to have less to attend to in the house.

Op, i hope the move is not too bad. I want my wife to have more time for herself.


oga go ahead if the school is a good school, especially private school boarding. other wise, it's a no no
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Precious111(f): 7:25pm On Jun 01, 2017
I went to a boarding house and most of these things are true though I never engaged in negative vices. The most important thing is taking your child to a good boarding house.
I personally believe that any child who survives in a boarding will be able to withstand the storms of life. Boarding house is #cool#
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by creative11(m): 7:41pm On Jun 01, 2017
It is not the same child you sent to boarding school you will get back. i will never make the mistake of sending my children to boarding school. Thanks for this article that is why i love visiting www.dailyfamily.ng.
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by ImaIma1(f): 7:59pm On Jun 01, 2017
I went to a boarding school and I am sure i am closer to my family than many people that schooled from home. Most of this points are individual. A child that will spoil will still spoil in a day school.
Was it not here that we read about the SS3 day students in a school in ikoyi were sexually molesteing female students openly?
I will still send my children to boarding schools.
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by mikolo80: 8:04pm On Jun 01, 2017
Alitair:
Very true op. I remember my experiences back then. Was really horid. We drank rain water and our only source of water were the rivers around namely
*bee(because close to the stream there were lots of bee nests)
*tea(the colour of the stream)
*girls stream
*bridge(had a log bridge across)

Only drug in the school pharmacy was paracetamol
Bullying was free for all.....

I'm not angel but I would have been a much better person if i had not schooled there.... Even typing it makes me reminisce on the evil experiences...
You prolly wouldn't be as rugged as the nigerian environment demands
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by snowblaq(f): 8:48pm On Jun 01, 2017
Ramanto:
some boarding schools are hygienic. And you forgot to state that students in boarding schools are way more intelligent than their day student counterparts
And also very independent....
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by snowblaq(f): 8:51pm On Jun 01, 2017
rossyc:
Invalid points... Boarding school is still the best...I went to a boarding school and it brought out the best in me..Anybody can possess the above listed points doesn't necessarily matter whether they are boarders or not..The best thing is train ur child well and pray for them.
Simple and short......a spoilt child is a spoilt child...home or away.....boarding school brought out the best in me also...used to be a very timid child until i went to a boarding school and learnt not to always hide behind my mummy....

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Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by snowblaq(f): 8:53pm On Jun 01, 2017
Deicide:

Intelligence is not Determined by the School you go to
To some extent....it is
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Deicide: 8:56pm On Jun 01, 2017
snowblaq:

To some extent....it is
You do realize they are Different Types of Intelligence right?
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by snowblaq(f): 8:58pm On Jun 01, 2017
ivolt:

No parents ever know what really goes on with their kids in boarding
school, only the assistant parents, the senior students, know such secrets.
Your child can be with you 24/7 and you would still have no idea what goes on with them or in their minds...especially these generation kids....
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by richard16(m): 9:23pm On Jun 01, 2017
uruego:
My daughter is in boarding school, and I am happy she is there. The difference is clear. Intelligence, focused, not materialistic, read ofteN. Those traits u listed, I have not observed. So do your research well before spuring out trash, right!
This one got me laughing honestly grin
Ma children are smart! They can never show you that bad side of them if daz wat u are expecting...if i sit you down i tell you how life waz in boarding school, You wil think twice and monitor your child carefully,don't be deceived by wat you see, i attended boarding school in one of the prominent sec school in nigeria dat have produce top individuals in dis country...bt do u knw wat?? All dat waz listed der by the Op is all we saw in skul...there are many lesbians and homosexuals now is cox of boarding school, is it about wat we did in night prep...social gathering week days...dou the advantage is der also, you can study nd be competitive anywer u find ur self...both now in University do you know the most intelligent?? Boarders, the leaders in cult group both male nd female cult? Boarders! Dey tend 2 reunite dem selfs again wen dey meet in tertiary institution...so ma boarding is gud both dnt doubt any single tin listed up der! Be close 2 ur ward... Build a gud relationship wit her so she can confide in u any challenges she is facing nd give her gud advice...I belive wit dat she wil make u proud the way am doing now to my parents... Tanx!
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Alitair(m): 9:30pm On Jun 01, 2017
MrigweC:



The only person that can mention such streams is if u went to international secondary school uturu. I hail oh
ISSU/ABSU in the arable plains of uturu land. i site u my brother
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by trumpcoat(m): 9:39pm On Jun 01, 2017
The best thing is to pray that this children should have the fear of God in them be it boarding or day what ever will be will be ,parents should be friendly to their kids it will make them to always have them in mind and also remembers their parents wish and advice,but all the same private boarding schools are better than public :
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Alitair(m): 9:44pm On Jun 01, 2017
mikolo80:
You prolly wouldn't be as rugged as the nigerian environment demands

Hmmm.... Did u attend a boarding school?
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by ivolt: 10:05pm On Jun 01, 2017
snowblaq:

Your child can be with you 24/7 and you would still have no idea what goes on with them or in their minds...especially these generation kids....
You are right, but I think it is much worse when kids have other "parents"
with unlimited access to groom and influence them.
In parenting, little things can have grave consequences.
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Flintstone06(m): 10:06pm On Jun 01, 2017
DayDreamPictures:
who boarding school help

talking from experience.
I did my junior secondary Education at command boarding school, ipaja. Lagos

waste of precious years undecided

anyways, all mallam with him own kettle.
everyone with their individual opinions


Went to same school, I wouldn't trade my experience for anything! Senior days are the best....
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by chykes5000(m): 10:09pm On Jun 01, 2017
Heineken:
correct. Ya you should. They call me Ashman then.
. Hhhhhhhhny, I know you bro. Ash man koko. Unity house. Your clique were baruwa and olaosebikan
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Flintstone06(m): 10:23pm On Jun 01, 2017
omolorlarh:

I finished from there too but I don't consider it waste of precious years.I learnt a lot there.
proud ex-commando

Fellow ex comlag star sighted# 06
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Heineken(m): 10:24pm On Jun 01, 2017
chykes5000:
. Hhhhhhhhny, I know you bro. Ash man koko. Unity house. Your clique were baruwa and olaosebikan
lol.. You're very sharp boss. Na ur boy ashkoko. How thangs na?
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by omolorlarh: 10:36pm On Jun 01, 2017
Flintstone06:

Fellow ex comlag star sighted# 06
awww...Chop knuckle

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Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by chykes5000(m): 10:44pm On Jun 01, 2017
Heineken:
lol.. You're very sharp boss. Na ur boy ashkoko. How thangs na?
Hhhhhh I'm fine boss, check your facebook I have sent you a request
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Nobody: 4:02am On Jun 02, 2017
sukkot:
yeah fork boarding school mayne. terrorist senior boys sending me to fetch water everyday

grin grin

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Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Heineken(m): 5:13am On Jun 02, 2017
chykes5000:

Hhhhhh I'm fine boss, check your facebook I have sent you a request
nice one boss... Seen
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by sukkot: 11:21am On Jun 02, 2017
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by ayorhmeeday(m): 3:29pm On Jun 02, 2017
DayDreamPictures:


how was the experience for you?

for me bi ti bawo?? ahbi how was the experience FOR MY ELDER BROTHER.
lols!! the dude couldn't make it through a week in that school.
My parents were forced to withdraw him 4rm d school and enrol him at upright college. Then, at fatolu bustop, ipaja instead.

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Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by armadeo(m): 11:46pm On Jun 02, 2017
LeanonGOD:
Apostle of GOOD NEWS.

IMO.
Re: 13 Evils Of Boarding School, Why You Must Raise Your Children From Home by Princeemzzy(m): 7:05am On Jun 03, 2017
asuustrike2009:

Hahaaaaaaa but it's the Truth has highlighted by op
it is actually not the truth cos i went to a boarding school and turned out just fine without any of the aforementioned behaviours by op though i wouldn't know maybe it is because i went to a missionary boarding school. We don't bully ourselves in boarding school we are actually more united so as to take stands against seniors plus unity and co-operation keeps us going. For what it is worth my siblings went to government ones and also turned out just fine

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