₦airaland Forum

hedonistic:
Mr man, get lost with this your kperekure advocacy. How do you determine that a man raped his wife? Merely by the oral testimony of the so-called wife and her obviously biased relatives? So if a woman has an axe to grind with her husband and decides to lie against him, then he is finished? Without concrete evidence? Is that justice? What is "normal" about that? This is why I NEVER entertain ANY rape accusation that boils down to mere oral testimony by the woman, without concrete audio-visual evidence.. Especially when there is already an intimate relationship between both parties. It's simply idiotic to believe the woman merely on the strength of her word.

You think you're enlightened and smart, but you have no idea how ignorant you are.

My best advice to you is to not leave Nigeria. Just stay there else you will spend a long time in prison with this mentality of yours. Did you even read the topic? The guy assaulted his wife. You think this is Nigeria where investigations aren't done? Let me educate you. I am a SHARP Rep so i know a thing or two about this. When a woman is raped, the very first thing she does is go to the hospital where a thorough medical is done. This includes photos taken of her entire body. How does a woman consent to sex when she is bruised up from head to toe? (2) When a woman or man says "NO", guy, it means no. there is no she's playing hard to get as is the common norm in Nigeria. (3) A woman/man cannot consent when intoxicated. Like i said, just stay in Nigeria with that mentality. For your own good.

sllylie:
he looks like a rapist seff

You look like a seductress with this ur cleavage advertising dp white & madness.

NwaAmaikpe:
Na wa for this feminist craze o.

A good judge once said....

You can't rape your own wife.

RAPE is a Sexual Act done without Your Consent! So Yes you can Rape your wife except you are saying you Bought and Own her like a piece of Clothes to do as you like with her. In that case she is no longer human but property that can be used and discard as will. No Judge on earth would make that pronouncement ever!

banmee:
My best advice to you is to not leave Nigeria. Just stay there else you will spend a long time in prison with this mentality of yours. Did you even read the topic? The guy assaulted his wife. You think this is Nigeria where investigations aren't done? Let me educate you. I am a SHARP Rep so i know a thing or two about this. When a woman is raped, the very first thing she does is go to the hospital where a thorough medical is done. This included photos taken of her entire body. How does a woman consent to sex when she is bruised up from head to toe? (2) When a woman or man says "NO", guy, it means no. there is no she's playing hard to get as is the common norm in Nigeria. (3) A woman/man cannot consent when intoxicated. Like i said, just stay in Nigeria with that mentality. For your own good.

Thanks lets hope some will be Educated by your post cos they always see things from their Naija point of View that is why they get in trouble when they travel out. Of cause Police, Medical Doctors will all be part of the investigation and not only Word of Mouth

Maybe a marriage counsellor can throw more light to that... However, if that's true... Then wives can be equally charged for raping their husbands....#Iampurple #50/50.

Please how can a married man rape his wife?

Hmmmmn! How do you identify a rappist

sllylie:
he looks like a rapist seff

NwaAmaikpe:
Na wa for this feminist craze o.
A good judge once said....

You can't rape your own wife.

my dear sir, yes... It's possible

banmee:
The rule of thumb in "normal thinking countries" is, no one is property. No matter if they are in a relationship or not. If a partner is not fulfilling your sexual needs it is then too simple. Leave the person. That shouldn't be a problem now. The reason you think this way is in your mind you paid thousands of naira for another human being as bride price. Guy, you can't own another human being.

And what happens when a woman fails in her 'marital duties'? Is there any penalty for her as well? Will she be said to be guilty of any crime had the man gone to the court first?

Respect55:
And what happens when a woman fails in her 'marital duties'? Is there any penalty for her as well? Will she be said to be guilty of any crime had the man gone to the court first?

It's called divorce. Look it up.

banmee:
It's called divorce. Look it up.

Something dsnt just add up here

Respect55:
Something dsnt just add up here

Actually it does.

banmee:
Actually it does.

Lol. Alright. All gud. Are u pursuing the course of the feminists in any way?

Respect55:
Lol. Alright. All gud. Are u pursuing the course of the feminists in any way?

No. I'm pushing the cause of human decency and common sense. You guys must stay In Nigeria because there is no way you can survive anywhere else. Absolutely no way.

banmee:
No. I'm pushing the cause of human decency and common sense. You guys must stay In Nigeria because there is no way you can survive anywhere else. Absolutely no way.

Thays how some senators went to disgrace themselves... grabbing waitresses the way they do here in Nigeria and everyone thinks its okay.
This is the only country where the victims of rape are blamed for being raped

Jaqenhghar:
Thays how some senators went to disgrace themselves... grabbing waitresses the way they do here in Nigeria and everyone thinks its okay.
This is the only country where the victims of rape are blamed for being raped

I wish there was a way to surgically alter one's mentality. Most Nigerians need it.

banmee:
I wish there was a way to surgically alter one's mentality. Most Nigerians need it.

Honestly if such a technology existed it would be needed here most. But then they will tell you they dint need it

banmee:
No. I'm pushing the cause of human decency and common sense. You guys must stay In Nigeria because there is no way you can survive anywhere else. Absolutely no way.

With due respect sir, ur statement sounds derogatory n hurts my sensitivity. U just said u r 'pushing the cause of human decency and common sense' yet u aren't decent in ur write up, isn't that contradictory? We here in Nigeria are decent and have common sense in abundance and it won't go down well with me if u see us as otherwise.

Respect55:
With due respect sir, ur statement sounds derogatory n hurts my sensitivity. U just said u r 'pushing the cause of human decency and common sense' yet u aren't decent in ur write up, isn't that contradictory? We here in Nigeria are decent and have common sense in abundance and it won't go down well with me if u see us as otherwise.

Go outside look around you and come back to re write your opinion about decency.

banmee:
Go outside look around you and come back to re write your opinion about decency.

And where are u typing from

Respect55:
And where are u typing from

Definitely not from Nigeria. God forbid.

banmee:
Definitely not from Nigeria. God forbid.

Sorry but when last were you in Naija?

Jaqenhghar:
Sorry but when last were you in Naija?

7 years ago. And from what I see and the comments on Nairaland alone, it is getting worse in that hell hole.

banmee:
Definitely not from Nigeria. God forbid.

I'm not surprised

banmee:
Definitely not from Nigeria. God forbid.

I'm not surprised. U argue in ignorance.

banmee:
7 years ago. And from what I see and the comments on Nairaland alone, it is getting worse in that hell hole.

My sisyer visited after 10 years. In her words "Its worse than they say it is"

Respect55:
I'm not surprised. U argue in ignorance.

Ignorance? Ok. Just hearing you talk confirms everything. A country with no security. No infrastructure, that is dirty as phuck, that is corrupt as crazy, where jungle justice is the norm, etc. Guy, you are used to rubbish which is why you don't see a problem. If you disagree, give five things nigeria can boast off. And I don't want to hear about having the best jollof rice either.

Jaqenhghar:
My sisyer visited after 10 years. In her words "Its worse than they say it is"

Meanwhile Respect55 says nigeria is not that bad. Smh.

banmee:
Meanwhile Respect55 says nigeria is not that bad. Smh.

Nigerians will never admit there is a problem. Living in denial is the order of the day. When Richard Quest came to Nigeria he said if you stop any Nigerian and tell them corruption is the major problem, they will deny saying "oh its not that bad" , and "Oh you westerners like to exaggerate" But when you get a group of the same Nigerians together and ask what is the major problem Nigeria faces, they will all agree (unanimously) that it's corruption.
So you can see how we think over here

banmee:
Ignorance? Ok. Just hearing you talk confirms everything. A country with no security. No infrastructure, that is dirty as phuck, that is corrupt as crazy, where jungle justice is the norm, etc. Guy, you are used to rubbish which is why you don't see a problem. If you disagree, give five things nigeria can boast off. And I don't want to hear about having the best jollof rice either.

Jollof rice eh

Respect55:
I'm not surprised. U argue in ignorance.

Brother we need to stop getting offended and really accept that this cesspit os what it is (a cesspit) for only when we agree that Nigeria is fùcked up will we begin to take steps towards correcting that which is bad

Jaqenhghar:
Brother we need to stop getting offended and really accept that this cesspit os what it is (a cesspit) for only when we agree that Nigeria is fùcked up will we begin to take steps towards correcting that which is bad

What are u even typing?