Hmmmmm. I realized I made the worst and gravest mistake of my life by marrying a man who neither care or value me. To him am just one of his acquired property. He doesn't share opinions with me. I am just married but living a lonely and miserable life, honestly I have been good to this man but I discovered recently that he's after other women(not one but plenty) I wouldn't mind if he's showing my own affection and respect but he don't just care if I exist. I already have a son for him so I can't leave my son and walk away. That's the only thing holding me back. My son is my world, he's the only thing I have on Earth. But am dying slowly each day, thinking to finish off the life. What is life without affection, what is life without who you can share your thought with, what is life with living with the wrong man, what is life if all I do everyday is cry myself to sleep, what is life with a serial cheating husband who don't care about me? What is life with a man who only come to me any time he need sex and will just raise my gown and dip his di.ck like he's fvcking a prostitute? Does the life really worth it? No it doesn't. I will end it soon
If this is what marriage is all about then in my next world I want to remain single forever

Sorry dear. Suicide is not the answer. At least think about your son, if you die now, who all care for him? is it a wicked step mum?

Wow!! Never give up.









Are you really writing neco,gce or waec this coming one? Pls come to http://onlysage.tk so we can learn by answering and questioning ourself....
Dont get stucked with nairaland.

immature decision

Hv u seat him down nd talk to him?
If u take yr life who will take care of yr son?
Hw did u guys started this relationship befor marriage?

Lastly in marriage there are two tin
1. For better for worst till death
2. U work out of it.
Think of other way out instead of suicide

You need an affection? Tell him

You need attention? Tell Him


You need love? Tell him



You need care? Tell him




Are you unhappy? Tell him

Speak up Woman!! Or forever remain silent.

If you kill yourself, you'll leave your son behind. Your husband remarries and only God knows what the new wifey would do to your son.

P.S. Don't bring your sh!t to Nairaland. I don't care about you and believe me, Nobody here does.

You married him for his money.

Leave him for your own safety, and that of your son.

Lol

You claim you can't walk away from the marriage cos you already have a son for him, giving us the impression that you are a caring and loving mother who cannot afford to abandon her own child but at the same time you can afford to take ur own life hence (still) abandoning ur son and at the same time making what is left of his life miserable forever.

Honestly your reasoning and thinking is terribly warped.

Get a divorce ma'am if you can't cope with the marriage any longer while making sure you claim custody of your son.

A dead man feels no pain,only the living (which in these case is your son ) does.

Pls do not destroy that young boys life by leaving him with such a stigma. He isn't responsible for your pain and shouldn't b made to suffer for it.

Peace

There are starving children in Somalia that do not have food to eat and whose bones are weaker than sticks.
There are people with one leg and one hand struggling to make ends meet.
There are the blind, the deaf, the mute, the poor, the sick.
All of these people have not killed themselves yet, and it is you who has everything, you that your only problem is because one useless man doesn't love you, you are the one contemplating suicide?

Please, do us a favor and kill yourself. The day of judgment will tell you how stupid you are.

Madam go n shark otapiapia or sniper n stoping disturbin..d world is too populated

You say you are in the marriage for your son. Yet you will die because of your husband and leave your son to his own fate? This does not make sense. Please find your parents house and go. You are in the marriage because you so desperately want to be married to a man that does not care for you.

Don't do anything stupid, yhu hear.

Rather than die for your Hubby's love, live for your son.

Rather than kill yourself over his women, you better outsource for some crazy good d!kc of ur own that'd screw you silly.

OR better still, reach out to him, get help and pray.

Ok, killing yourself because your husband isn't giving you attention is not only selfish, but stupid.
You cannot control anyone, especially your husband by the threats of suicide.
You sound as though you don't have a job. Why not start with getting one? Get busy.
Dust your CV, and start looking for what to do. Start a business, contact your old classmates and stay in touch with them.
Didn't you have a life before getting married? Join a gym, and start regular exercise. Build a network of friends, learn how to make beads/hair/tailoring. Just get busy, and after a busy day, and an even busier schedule for the next day, the last thing on your mind would be a philandering man's affections.

Most times, people live for what the society will say forgetting that the society will be the first to blame em for not making a move when the chips were down.

Why end the life whn u can end the marriage.
U just have to be strong, bold nd walk out of the marriage with u head held high believing that there are better days ahead.
Suicide has never been d solution to any problem. Rather it makes u look like a coward.
So if u end d life, what happens to ur son?
The best thing to do is to leave d marriage.

I'm not trying to judge you, but didn't you see these traces in him before you went ahead to marry him


That said, you want to kill yourself because of loveless marriage,, are you from a loveless family as well

Why have you decided to punish yourself with suicide because of another person's misconducts?

Why don't you think of others who has always been showing you love like your son, your parents, your siblings and so on
Sorry, but you sound selfish and unappreciative towards those who truly love you!

The man you married is your decision, which you can and decisions van be modified!
If you're not engaged, find something doing to get busy and that will help a great deal in reducing the time for unnecessary brooding!
God wisdom to you, I pray!

justwant2bhappy:
Hmmmmm. I realized I made the worst and gravest mistake of my life by marrying a man who neither care or value me. To him am just one of his acquired property. He doesn't share opinions with me. I am just married but living a lonely and miserable life, honestly I have been good to this man but I discovered recently that he's after other women(not one but plenty) I wouldn't mind if he's showing my own affection and respect but he don't just care if I exist. I already have a son for him so I can't leave my son and walk away. That's the only thing holding me back. My son is my world, he's the only thing I have on Earth. But am dying slowly each day, thinking to finish off the life. What is life without affection, what is life without who you can share your thought with, what is life with living with the wrong man, what is life if all I do everyday is cry myself to sleep, what is life with a serial cheating husband who don't care about me? What is life with a man who only come to me any time he need sex and will just raise my gown and dip his di.ck like he's fvcking a prostitute? Does the life really worth it? No it doesn't. I will end it soon
If this is what marriage is all about then in my next world I want to remain single forever

You want to die because of a man? If you do, Godforbid! He will bring one of those mistresses to the house probably the most diabolic and wicked one and then your son will be enslaved in his own fathers house. Ever think of that Selfish lady!

You want to break the hearts of those who love you just because one useless man you call husband doesn't Or don't you have family members who love and care about you? It will be very selfish and foolish of you to end your life because of one man.

Get a divorce and move on with your life madam. You deserve to be happy. This world belongs to all of us, you should have your own share of the happiness it brings.

She can't leave him cos he is rich. She'd rather die in his house to send him a warped message.

I'd like to call you a gold digger and a psychopath for thinking such thought, imagine leaving your BELOVED child behind.

Why do I find this funny?


Permit me to laugh pls

Seriously?
You want to end your life cos of a man?
Buhahahahahahahahaha

SirVintageCock:
She can't leave him cos he is rich. She'd rather die in his house to send him a warped message.

I'd like to call you a gold digger and a psychopath for thinking such thought, imagine leaving your BELOVED child behind.

Hmmmmm. Funny enough, he has nothing. He's just a man living a normal life. Some people ask why I married him, It was because of some prophecy from fake prophets and prophetess (now I know they are fake). I listened to them instead of following my mind. Though we courted for just 5months and I was busy with work (I worked in bank then)
So there was no time for me to know him. He was putting pressure on me for marriage and when I contacted those prophet and prophetess they told me to go ahead that the future is OK. Why are you now blaming me? If you are in my shoe, won't you do the same?

justwant2bhappy:

Hmmmmm. Funny enough, he has nothing. He's just a man living a normal life. Some people ask why I married him, It was because of some prophecy from fake prophets and prophetess (now I know they are fake). I listened to them instead of following my mind. Though we courted for just 5months and I was busy with work (I worked in bank then)
So there was no time for me to know him. He was putting pressure on me for marriage and when I contacted those prophet and prophetess they told me to go ahead that the future is OK. Why are you now blaming me? If you are in my shoe, won't you do the same?

Babe if I am in your shoe I will run. No time.

justwant2bhappy:

Hmmmmm. Funny enough, he has nothing. He's just a man living a normal life. Some people ask why I married him, It was because of some prophecy from fake prophets and prophetess (now I know they are fake). I listened to them instead of following my mind. Though we courted for just 5months and I was busy with work (I worked in bank then)
So there was no time for me to know him. He was putting pressure on me for marriage and when I contacted those prophet and prophetess they told me to go ahead that the future is OK. Why are you now blaming me? If you are in my shoe, won't you do the same?

Loool..

Abeg Just get out of the house and move out.

Why call a prophet fake, Is these the future??

When they say future is good u would have to ask them which future

is it old age??

Is it like immediately we get married??

There are many sides to a prophecy.

Even David he had to wait to be after been anointed for while to become king.

So stop categorizing a prophecy has fake...

Even taking a prophecy hooks line and sinker speaks volume about the kind of christian you are.

A prophet is suppose to confirm what you already know or give clarity to something you confused about not direct your life like a remote and when they do self if you not convince in your spirit go back to God for more clarity,instructions and directions as the case may be.

Stop blaming another person for your lack of spiritual insight.

For your marriage my advise is move out.

Cos if you kill yourself the torment in hell is worse than what you think you passing through in your husband's house.

SirVintageCock:
She can't leave him cos he is rich. She'd rather die in his house to send him a warped message.

I'd like to call you a gold digger and a psychopath for thinking such thought, imagine leaving your BELOVED child behind.

How broke are you? Do you have a thing against wealth? Poor men abuse women just the same as wealthy men.
She is probably depressed that's why she is considering suicide, and if she was actually going to she won't talk about it.
And don't quote me to spew rubbish. I pray you have daughters and they don't end up with someone like you.

justwant2bhappy:

Hmmmmm. Funny enough, he has nothing. He's just a man living a normal life. Some people ask why I married him, It was because of some prophecy from fake prophets and prophetess (now I know they are fake). I listened to them instead of following my mind. Though we courted for just 5months and I was busy with work (I worked in bank then)
So there was no time for me to know him. He was putting pressure on me for marriage and when I contacted those prophet and prophetess they told me to go ahead that the future is OK. Why are you now blaming me? If you are in my shoe, won't you do the same?

I'm sorry you are going through this, but please don't kill yourself. Please don't leave your child motherless. If you don't feel you can go on, wouldn't it be better to leave that to take your life? If you take your life your husband will still have other ladies and marry another wife. How will it help you? Another woman will be raising your child. Don't let anyone steal your joy. I wish we would stop believing everything a religious person says. Many of them are liars and just looking to get money. Religion has caused brain rot in Nigeria. If you just need someone to talk with, you can always talk with me.

FortuneTeller:


I'm sorry you are going through this, but please don't kill yourself. Please don't leave your child motherless. If you don't feel you can go on, wouldn't it be better to leave that to take your life? If you take your life your husband will still have other ladies and marry another wife. How will it help you? Another woman will be raising your child. Don't let anyone steal your joy. I wish we would stop believing everything a religious person says. Many of them are liars and just looking to get money. Religion has caused brain rot in Nigeria. If you just need someone to talk with, you can always talk with me.

God bless you my sister

So sorry for your pain my sister!

You don't need to kill yourself as that will make your husband girlfriend (s) happier and may even end your child life or truncate her destiny.

What I think you need to do is to call your husband tell him what you are going through and the fact that you are contemplating suicide because of his actions. Watch his reactions to what you are going through. If he is less concern and doesn't even care if you kill yourself please leave the house for him and consider living singly.

You only have a child so it doesn't stop your dream in any way.
Believe in yourself. If you had live your life successfully for years before meeting this man how dare you place so much value on a man that doesn't worth more than a dick!

Please you are of more value that what you are painting of yourself.
Stand before the mirror and laugh out loud. If he asked why u are laughing so heartily tell him it's because of your glorious future.

Above all learn to fight for what belong to you.
Prayer turn things around. Visit this site for prayer www.firesprings.com.
Should you wish to speak to someone and a little assistance/encouragement, you may PM me.

It is well with you in Jesus name!

I believe suicide isn't a selfish act. Most people die via suicide when they feel they're no other options. I'm one of those people and I'm confident my end will come in the near future.

Coming to you, my advice for you is to do whatever you possibly can to solve your problem. It could be either by discussing with your husband to change his behaviors or by getting divorce from him and live for the sake of your son.

There are no such things as God/gods/Satan/Angels/heaven/hell/afterlife/luck/miracle/written destiny, so don't expect to live another life.

Since, I'm seriously suicidal myself, I truly understand how you are feeling. I hope you succeed in whatever direction you went.

Peace!

chiddyok:

How broke are you? Do you have a thing against wealth? Poor men abuse women just the same as wealthy men.
She is probably depressed that's why she is considering suicide, and if she was actually going to she won't talk about it.
And don't quote me to spew rubbish. I pray you have daughters and they don't end up with someone like you.

You shouldn't have wasted yovr time quoting me. what da hell. And amen to your prayers cos i am not bad at all.

justwant2bhappy:
Hmmmmm. I realized I made the worst and gravest mistake of my life by marrying a man who neither care or value me. To him am just one of his acquired property. He doesn't share opinions with me. I am just married but living a lonely and miserable life, honestly I have been good to this man but I discovered recently that he's after other women(not one but plenty) I wouldn't mind if he's showing my own affection and respect but he don't just care if I exist. I already have a son for him so I can't leave my son and walk away. That's the only thing holding me back. My son is my world, he's the only thing I have on Earth. But am dying slowly each day, thinking to finish off the life. What is life without affection, what is life without who you can share your thought with, what is life with living with the wrong man, what is life if all I do everyday is cry myself to sleep, what is life with a serial cheating husband who don't care about me? What is life with a man who only come to me any time he need sex and will just raise my gown and dip his di.ck like he's fvcking a prostitute? Does the life really worth it? No it doesn't. I will end it soon
If this is what marriage is all about then in my next world I want to remain single forever

Suicide ke? Pls don't o. There are other options like seperation

Hati13:
I believe suicide isn't a selfish act. Most people die via suicide when they feel they're no other options. I'm one of those people and I'm confident my end will come in the near future.

Coming to you, my advice for you is to do whatever you possibly can to solve your problem. It could be either by discussing with your husband to change his behaviors or by getting divorce from him and live for the sake of your son.

There are no such things as God/gods/Satan/Angels/heaven/hell/afterlife/luck/miracle/written destiny, so don't expect to live another life.

Since, I'm seriously suicidal myself, I truly understand how you are feeling. I hope you succeed in whatever direction you went.

Peace!

Have we reached this level Even if you don't believe in God, did you give yourself life? What of your parents? Please do not take your life or encourage others to do so. Seek counseling if you are depressed. Find the good in your situation. How many people are able to freely use the internet like you are doing at this moment. There is always something positive to look forward to in life.