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Advising Nigerian women to stop making cheating an issue, Nollywood actress Funke Adesiyan has taken to Instagram to tell women that cheating doesn’t make your male partner a bad person, but only validates him as a man.

According to the actress, women should look beyond the flaw of cheating, and focus on the way their men treat them. Here’s what she wrote;

“Leaving a man because he cheats is like relocating from Nigeria to America because of rain. News flash: it rains everywhere. Find a good man who loves you and appreciates you. Every other thing can be worked on. Men are naturally born to cheat. Look beyond this flaw and focus on how he treats you.”

She went further to write;

“Good morning guys. I read many comments from my last post and I couldn’t stop laughing. It’s funny that it’s women who are answering for their men that the men don’t cheat on them. My sisters, let the men answer for themselves. The truth is a bitter pill to swallow.
You cannot answer for people. I stand by my position 100%. I know that as a modern woman, we aim to break away from the norm and be as westernised as possible but believe me, it happens everywhere. It’s only those who got caught that are referred to as offenders. Not many men can sincerely say they have been with only their partner for 10yrs without “playing”. It doesn’t make them bad people, it just makes them men.
#factfile #nofilter #skingoals”

http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/06/cheating-doesnt-make-husband-bad-person-validates-man-actress-funke-adesiyan.html

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PrexyD:
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wash!!!!a good man that TRULY loves and respects a lady will not cheat on her so the actress is wrong ,take it or leave it,....and the statement "men are naturally born cheats" is the most foolish hasty generalization ....all this low self esteem ladies sef.....looking for validation...the irony of it is that such ladies like the actress are always the ones that will quickly condemn their husband on social media if they discover he is cheating and that moment they will forget to practice what they preach..:hypocrisy

Hmmmm this woman has heart....you mean you can allow your hubby have a pass with another woman and you won't mind...

Hotshawarma:
wash!!!!a good man that TRULY loves and respects a lady will not cheat on her so the actress is wrong ,take it or leave it,....and the statement "men are naturally born cheats" is the most foolish hasty generalization ....all this low self esteem ladies sef.....looking for validation...the irony of it is that such ladies like the actress are always the ones that will quickly condemn their husband on social media if they discover he is cheating and that moment they will forget to practice what they preach..:hypocrisy

my dear one thing about this life is that it is like an ocean sometimes its calm while sometimes it roars to the waves and current so always pray that nothing makes you experience the negative side of life for that is when you realize that change is a constant variable.

maybe your disciplined enough to be faithfully you now generalize every man as yourself its not and can never be so just pray that you find a virtuous woman that would give you cause to have the knowledge of storms in marriage.