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Good day to u all. My friend is in a serious dilema. I won't bore u guys with a long epistle but please take time to read and drop one advice or two for my friend. It all started 2013 when He met his heart-rob at the NYSC where he served, from there they started dating. Their love became stronger & was to lead to marriage but due to delay in getting a good job, they had to continue waiting and believing God for a breakthrough.

My friend later got a Job late 2015, started saving & planning on getting accomodation with other things when the company disengaged him after 8months thus making him to start from zero again. Also in the same year, his girl "was told, that her fiance isn't the right one that he will leave her for someone else after 2Children", they later went to see the Prophet and were told "only if they are ready to pray against it together that there's nothing impossible for God".

After seeking God's face he ventured into his own business and now he's doing fine presently, gotten an apartment & planning on going to go see his heartrob's people for introduction but his girl just told him that she's afraid that the relationship may not work again because her Mum told her that a Prophet where She went to pray for her business said that "the guy her daughter is presently dating is not meant for her and that who did she consult before going into such relationship, that she should back out of the relationship", making it the third time, She had once told my friend that the mum was given similar message by a friend.

Meanwhile they both went for 3days prayers and came back on Saturday, while in the programme the Pastor told them that 've both got great Glories together but that they should abstain from sex if they want to see God's hands in their lives. He said he later went to see the Prophet and he said if he wants to get the best of her, that he shouldn't fornicate with her again, that if they can't bear it, he should go see the girl's people. My friend has been so depressed that he has refused to go home since yesterday saying his house reminds him of his girl because they pratically shopped for everything in the house together.

I have told him to go and pray about it to see if he will see or hear anything about it directly from God, but he said he's so afraid of the outcome. Ogas in the house abeg make una help put mouth for the matter O!

Prophet A,prophet B.......etc
What kind of spiritual foundation do they have themselves?Are they going g to keep going from one prophet to the other like sheep without shepherd?

There's really no advice one can give here that might change anything.Your friend's relationship is controlled by 'too many cooks'.

If she wants to opt out,there's little he can do.He will be heartbroken no doubt but next time develop a relationship with someone you both can go in the same direction spiritually.

thorpido:
Prophet A,prophet B.......etc
What kind of spiritual foundation do they have themselves?Are they going g to keep going from one prophet to the other like sheep without shepherd?

There's really no advice one can give here that might change anything.Your friend's relationship is controlled by 'too many cooks'.

If she wants to opt out,there's little he can do.He will be heartbroken no doubt but next time develop a relationship with someone you both can go in the same direction spiritually.

I believe they are doing their best spiritually as no one is perfect. My anger is he has refused to go to God in prayer about this, with the excuse of "what if he gets the same answer"...?

That's always the problem.. Let them go into prayer and ask God for revelation, whether they are meant together or not, and they can work on the answers themselves. Your friend should brace up, if he is to move on, he should do and stop crying on it, a failed relationship is better than a failed marriage.

freelancer10:
I believe they are doing their best spiritually as no one is perfect. My anger is he has refused to go to God in prayer about this, with the excuse of "what if he gets the same answer"...?

If he gets the same answer,then it is God's will.Why won't he accept that if it is God's will?

Have you prayed too to know if God wants both if you together?