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| Help: My Friend Needs Serious Advice. by freelancer10(op): 1:17pm On Jun 27, 2017*. Modified: 2:28pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Good day to u all. My friend is in a serious dilema. I won't bore u guys with a long epistle but please take time to read and drop one advice or two for my friend. It all started 2013 when He met his heart-rob at the NYSC where he served, from there they started dating. Their love became stronger & was to lead to marriage but due to delay in getting a good job, they had to continue waiting and believing God for a breakthrough. My friend later got a Job late 2015, started saving & planning on getting accomodation with other things when the company disengaged him after 8months thus making him to start from zero again. Also in the same year, his girl "was told that her fiance isn't the right one that he will leave her for someone else after 2Children", they later went to see the Prophet and were told "only if they are ready to pray against it together that there's nothing impossible for God". After seeking God's face he ventured into his own business and now he's doing fine presently, gotten an apartment & planning on going to go see his heartrob's people for introduction but his girl just told him that she's afraid that the relationship may not work again because she was told by her Mum by a Prophet where She went to pray for her business that "the guy her daughter is presently dating is not meant for her and that who did she consult before going into such relationship, that she should back out of the relationship", making it the third time, She had once told my friend that the mum was given similar message by a friend. Meanwhile they both went for 3days prayers and both came back on Saturday, while in the programme the Pastor told them that 've both got great Glories together but that they should abstain from sex if they want to see God's hands in their lives. He said he later went to see the Prophet and he said if he wants to get the best of her, that he shouldn't fornicate with her again, that if they can't bear it, he should go see the girls people. My friend has been so depressed that he has refused to go home since yesterday saying his house reminds him of his girl because they pratically shopped for everything in the house together. I have told him to go and pray about it to see if he will see or hear anything about it directly from God, but he said he's so afraid of the outcome. Ogas in the house abeg make una help put mouth for the matter O! |
| Re: Help: My Friend Needs Serious Advice. by godfrey01(m): 1:26pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
don't have something to say. tell him that marriage way mama and papa nor put hand nor dey work |
| Re: Help: My Friend Needs Serious Advice. by Zither(m): 1:45pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
The signs are there. She has been warned repeatedly through prophecy that the guy is not her true future partner. That guy should leave that girl because he will hurt her seriously in the future despite all his confessions of love for her now. She will be foolish to go ahead and marry him love or not. The guy should just move on and look for his missing rib elsewhere. Some peeps here parading the banner of Reason are naturally opposed to my religious opinion just as I am to theirs so please do not quote me in that regard as it is a gross waste of ink. I speak to spiritual minds, not carnal ones. |
| Re: Help: My Friend Needs Serious Advice. by freelancer10(op): 2:08pm On Jun 27, 2017*. Modified: 2:29pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Zither:The question is who are these Prophets to determine what will happen in a man's life, even the Holy bible said; who will say a thing & it comes to pass when the Lord hasn't commanded it so...? I 've told him to seek God's face instead of some prophet that keep giving them nightmare for prophecies... 1 Like |
| Re: Help: My Friend Needs Serious Advice. by Zither(m): 2:57pm On Jun 27, 2017*. Modified: 5:46pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
freelancer10:I agree with you about the guy in question seeking God for himself. However, the fivefold ministry gifts are not cosmetic gifts of the Body of Christ. They are there to edify, exhort, and guide the people of God. True servants of God do not give you their opinion on such matters and even if they do it is Only after they have given you God's opinion or will on the matter. Remember, Christians are exhorted not to despise prophecies. Not all men of God are genuine. He should make efforts to confirm the truth from two or three genuine and trusted servants of God and should couple it with the witness God gives him as he seeks Him for answer then he will know the direction to take. The lady should also ask God to reveal His mind to her concerning the matter to confirm what the Prophets said. In the mouth of two or three witnesses a word is confirmed. |
| Re: Help: My Friend Needs Serious Advice. by realtem(m): 3:54pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Geez... What is wrong with you people  |
| Re: Help: My Friend Needs Serious Advice. by freelancer10(op): 3:56pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
realtem:Drop ur own advice bro... |
| Re: Help: My Friend Needs Serious Advice. by realtem(m): 4:19pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
freelancer10:See, your friend has no problems so he doesn't need any advice. All is see is some businessmen trying to bring more growth to their investment. I mean your friend didn't even mention the girl showing any strange characters.  |
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