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Is dere any excuse on earth for a woman to hit a man?

ivolt:
Here lies the difference between humans and animals.
Human act rationally while animal acts impulsively.
I won't blame you same way I won't blame a snake
for biting people.

Rubbish, wait till they kill you,
Then people will still insult you that its woman that killed you.

Rubbish talk, try something wrong with me and c if u r not gonna get beaten

majekdom2:
No human is worth being beaten.. Male or female. This cheating cheating thing is very funny. See, why it seems like it's only men that do it is because we are open and free. Most women on the other hand are very secretive. Yes. They do It and hide. I know a few married women that have shown green light at sometime. Most men kiss and tell. Only a few women in Nigeria will.

You are right. That's y I keep saying marriage isn't by force. y wud u cheat on your spouse in the first place?

Yes, married women cheat. its so annoying.

still, no domestic violence. Divorce is the best if they can't tolerate each other.

Proudlyngwa:
Rubbish, wait till they kill you,
Then people will still insult you that its woman that killed you.

You are a coward if a woman kills you. Most people I know run from
real danger, not live with it and complain like kids.

Divorce is open to anybody but cowards won't go for it because they
can't survive on their own.

No excuse ke? She needs to stop talking.

Yinmu

ivolt:
You are a coward if a woman kills you. Most people I know run from
real danger, not live with it and complain like kids.

A woman is holding my shirt by the throat, and hitting me, kindly advise what should I do.


Oh u already advised, I should run.
Yeah am running












From your stupidity.

I support her on this. No matter what she said to you or act, just walk away and cool of somewhere. Am sure by the time you return, she would calm down too. If you kill her because of what she said, you will go to jail for it and think about it, would prison for the rest for Ur life worth it

They way some ladies run their mouth eh... You could take your life if your not strong..
No man should lay his hands on a woman... But if in self defense, or in the event to cause you your life, beat the light outta her. Why would you want to attack me when I didn't do you harm, I will beat you to lights out.

mhiztaNexy:
if you want to die,just touch my mom.

hehehehhe i feel you bro , she go think sey na molue jam ham . .


but some women no dey cross that line . .

i remember those days when i was growing up , when i do hear my parents quarel ,its only my father`s voice i hear , but late at night its both of them i hear trying to sort things out and my father is the one always apologizing for letting things go of out hand, sometimes we pretend to sleep so we can hear how they settle things.

they are so amazing . . .

but this days , its the woman`s voice you`d hear .they are very arrogant ,full of pride and most of them are not submissive . .

what is this one saying sef
I had an issue with my ex back then,I was the one who needed stitches on my face,chest and hands,so there's a reason/excuse for a woman to hit a man?

Proudlyngwa:
A woman is holding my shirt by the throat, and hitting me, kindly advise what should I do.


Oh u already advised, I should run.
Yeah am running

From your stupidity.

You are so dumb that you don't know the difference between
fighting and beating.
Even nursery school pupils know the difference.

sayentease:
I will if I find out that her Toto has decayed.

Women are natural liars, Leach and can nag ehn.




You surprise me today oo.. I nor sabi say you get sense before.. I mean, I have always doubted if you had something upstairs. You just proved me wrong

NairalandCS

Shut the fvck up you hoe!
If you hit me or my mum, I will personally kill you and use for rituals!

Selfdesign:
I support her on this. No matter what she said to you or act, just walk away and cool of somewhere. Am sure by the time you return, she would calm down too. If you kill her because of what she said, you will go to jail for it and think about it, would prison for the rest for Ur life worth it

anytime she acts , you leave the house ??

very soon you will leave the house for her and find peace in another woman`s place .

then he starts cheating on the wife . . .seriously men shouldn`t beat women,

but at what extent should a man keeps his cool

ivolt:
You are so dumb that you don't know the difference between
fighting and beating.
Even nursery school pupils know the difference.

So what is the aim of a fight and what usually happens during fighting.









I guess kissing.

For every reaction, there was an action. Can Tonto please tell ladies to be careful of what they say when they are angry?

I should seek therapy when someone is talking rubbish at me?...

hmmmmmn.....

Evablizin:
Tonto ladies should stop beating their husband with mouth because some men will speak with their hands

you are funny.All ladies are the same ,men should learn how to tolerate them.

Is that why you keep challenging your husband in every argument. Tonto, this is Africa where a woman is expected to respect the husband. No no to demostic violent but good wife is the source of happiness to the husband

vingeophysicist:
you are funny.All ladies are the same ,men should learn how to tolerate them.

Pure lie. All ladies are not the same. My wife is not like that. I don't know where she learnt it. She know when to keep quiet and I respect her for that and most of the time make me love her more.

pweetiedee:
You are right. That's y I keep saying marriage isn't by force. y wud u cheat on your spouse in the first place?

Yes, married women cheat. its so annoying.

still, no domestic violence. Divorce is the best if they can't tolerate each other.

I like the last part about divorce.....but like I always say, u dnt beat a child and tell d child how to cry, my rule is dnt provoke people to d point where they get rili angry, whether man or woman. women have d mindset of I can do anything whatsoever and he should not still hit me. it's right but dnt push ur luck.
I am all for divorce thou. better dan abuse wahala.

NwaAmaikpe:


I disagree...


There's always a reason for every action or decision to beat a woman.
Now some of those reasons may not be justified.

But women, are wired strangely...they claim to hate men who beat women but won't be loyal or respect those who don't.

When a woman calls you romantic, check yourself well...there's a 75% chance you are a sissy with her.

I swear

pweetiedee:
Women run mouth. I am.a woman and I know sometimes we can be very annoying and I'm.not saying "spoilt" and yes, some of us are very spoilt. But there are other ways to teach a woman lessons. Not beat her. Men that beat women are cowards. These men cannot face men like them when it comes to physical.

How can u beat the mother of your child. think about menstrual pain, all the sickness and discomfort that comes with pregnancy and then labour pain. and then taking care of the kids/kid. A man that beats a woman is cursed for life!

Its not like u men are not annoying. After all some husbands sleep with their wives friend, house girl, neighbor etc and women still take all these shit.

if we can take it, men should take our shit too and not beat us.

Any man wey touch me peke....well lemme just keep quiet.

@bold what will u do? U can only cry, nothing more...
U women are very selfish, that is why when u people talk about no one should hit a woman i just laugh...u think men are f00ls?
The root cause of physical abuse is verbal abuse. U women don't talk about this, because u people do it all time. Then it leaves me with only one answer that it is because u people don't have strength like the male folks, yours would have been worst...selfish things...

Oniranu, but you can beat other people's children because they are your house helps?

But there are many excuses to run your mouth at a guy.

This geh should just keep kwayet.

I am fully against beating women; men should respect themselves from the word go. Dont give ladies a meter, they would go a kilometer, and when they are upset they fly miles before they realise they're off the ground.

See the argument.. When she start nagging at you, leave the house " don't beat her, she will probably change. If not divorce her. Good!


Now, the question is,... Why would she be the one to start nagging and abuse, why not divorce the man if she doesn't love him anymore!

Don't abuse / beat man or woman
(including house help and maid)

stukinherdr1222:
hehehehhe i feel you bro , she go think sey na molue jam ham . .


but some women no dey cross that line . .

i remember those days when i was growing up , when i do hear my parents quarel ,its only my father`s voice i hear , but late at night its both of them i hear trying to sort things out and my father is the one always apologizing for letting things go of out hand, sometimes we pretend to sleep so we can hear how they settle things.

they are so amazing . . .

but this days , its the woman`s voice you`d hear .they are very arrogant ,full of pride and most of them are not submissive . .

Bros it seems you guys grew up in a "face me I face you" apartment

She is right only weak men beat women, our fathers don't beat our mothers up on every mistake they make that is why we think that our mothers are perfect for those of you that grew up in homes where your fathers beat your mothers on a daily basis how did you feel, same way your kids will feel when you beat their mothers too... A neighbor pulled his wife wrapper off exposing her naked body in the presence of a large crowd because of a misunderstanding she has left the house for 3days now he has been runing up and down gathering people to help him plead with her...violence is never and has never been a way out why not just walk out or walk away like you do with your fellow men...

eyeview:
No man should hit a lady. But if she is not a lady but a tout, please beat her like a tout.

If a lady in the course of an argument slaps the man first, please she is a tout. Treat her like one.
If she holds a man's shirt by the throat, she is a tout, please treat her like one.
If she goes on an uncontrollable destruction spree of your properties, she is a tout and vandal, beat her like a tout and her over to the police like a vandal.
If she is spoiling for a fight and daring the man to a fight if he is a man, ladies don't do that, only touts do, please grant her request.

Nonsense. It's not every being that was born a female is a lady

I tell you, when they're to hit a man you see the venom and desire to injure in their actions.
Respect to cool and lovely ladies out there but some are touts and devil incarnate

[author=LordKO post=58089665]Emotional abuse is worse than physical abuse. To avoid either, separation is the best route to follow.[/quote]It baffles me as how the society don't know what emotional abuse is capable of.
Check out a child beaten while growing and a child emotionally abused while growing up. They can never be the same.
The highest effect on the former will be stubbornness while the latter is timid, depressed, see him/herself as useless etc.
Emotional abuse is far worse dangerous

Evablizin:
Tonto ladies should stop beating their husband with mouth because some men will speak with their hands

It's very unfortunate. Especially intentional provocations.



Please people abuse of any kind is not good. Be it emotional or physical.

NwaAmaikpe:


I disagree...


There's always a reason for every action or decision to beat a woman.
Now some of those reasons may not be justified.

But women, are wired strangely...they claim to hate men who beat women but won't be loyal or respect those who don't.

When a woman calls you romantic, check yourself well...there's a 75% chance you are a sissy with her.



Well...I've hit a woman more than once; I had my reasons and the beatings were productive. I may not be proud of it and I don't by this endorse my belief in battery but I'm better than the male hypocrites who condemn beating women on forums as this.

When real life all they do is beat women.



Not up to 2 in 10men can honestly say they've never hit a woman...
Hypocrites!

I pity your mum