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Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Pearlyshobor: 1:11am On Jul 05, 2017
Please help me with a job. I'm a graduate with 3 years working experience but had to resign after I got pregnant with my baby. Please any job will do for now because I need something that will sustain me when I leave my marriage which I need to do now. Thank you
Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Collins4u1(m): 1:16am On Jul 05, 2017
FTC
someone should call admin please to push the page

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Nobody: 1:18am On Jul 05, 2017
State your location or the location you'd like a job.

It will help faster.

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Pearlyshobor: 1:20am On Jul 05, 2017
I am in Lagos state, lagos mainland central is okay because of my 8 months old baby. Thank you
Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Sleekydee(m): 5:55am On Jul 05, 2017
Pearlyshobor:
Please help me with a job. I'm a graduate with 3 years working experience but had to resign after I got pregnant with my baby. Please any job will do for now because I need something that will sustain me when I leave my marriage which I need to do now. Thank you

haaaaa eleyi gidi gan...dis wan is srong
Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by adewumiopeyemi(m): 5:59am On Jul 05, 2017
cry

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by careercoach(f): 6:10am On Jul 05, 2017
send your CV to me result_orientedprofessional@yahoo.com indicating who you are on the title page.

I am helping you for you to be empowered financially in your challenge and not for you to leave your marriage. God hates divorce.

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by IAMEE: 6:35am On Jul 05, 2017
careercoach:
send your CV to me result_orientedprofessional@yahoo.com indicating who you are on the title page.

I am helping you for you to be empowered financially in your challenge and not for you to leave your marriage. God hates divorce.

pls can I forward mine too. I need job seriously too, help pls
Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Craven: 7:13am On Jul 05, 2017
careercoach:
send your CV to me result_orientedprofessional@yahoo.com indicating who you are on the title page.

I am helping you for you to be empowered financially in your challenge and not for you to leave your marriage. God hates divorce.

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by olas24u(f): 7:17am On Jul 05, 2017
Craven:


You don't have any right to tell her what choices to make regarding her life. She has made it clear she is in an abusive marriage. If she needs to leave, she should be supported and empowered so she can support herself and her kid. Please don't encourage her to stay in a marriage that seems to make her unhappy. A lifetime of unhappiness is a vile thing to expect a human being to endure. Jesus did not die on the cross for us to be maltreated by mere humans. This woman has her whole life ahead of her, she has a baby to look after, and she seems ready to take back control of that life and provide for her baby. Please don't encourage her to stay in a marriage that might cut that life short! An abusive marriage would ruin a person's mental and/or physical health and also that of their child. And what use is she to her child if she has poor health? In fact, an abusive marriage is no place for a baby to grow up in—can you imagine growing up in a place where your mother is constantly tortured psychologically and/or physically? Oftentimes, we hear cases of women being killed by their spouses; plesse don't make this the case of this woman. This woman has everything to live for, she has her child to live for. Her life and the life of her child is more important than what you or what society thinks about divorce. She deserves peace of mind even if she has to find it on her own—plus she wouldn't even be alone; she has a child with her who I believe would be her motivation to make it everyday. God did not bless us with life for us to throw it away living in the shadow of a vile human being and being made to endure all sorts of torture.

You are a woman yourself. In a way, this woman is your sister. Help her by providing her with opportunities to improve her life, don't give her recipes that might end it.
Why are you doing over sabi?the lady wrote something nice and does not like divorce,why all the drama of an essay.

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Craven: 7:18am On Jul 05, 2017
Pearlyshobor:
Please help me with a job. I'm a graduate with 3 years working experience but had to resign after I got pregnant with my baby. Please any job will do for now because I need something that will sustain me when I leave my marriage which I need to do now. Thank you

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Craven: 7:20am On Jul 05, 2017
olas24u:

Why are you doing over sabi?the lady wrote something nice and does not like divorce,why all the drama of an essay.

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Nobody: 8:22am On Jul 05, 2017
kennygee:
State your location or the location you'd like a job.

It will help faster.
Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Nobody: 8:22am On Jul 05, 2017
kennygee:
State your location or the location you'd like a job.

It will help faster.
Hi Kenny G I reside in Kaduna pls do kindly
help a bro with a job if any thanks.
Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by pweetiedee(m): 8:42am On Jul 05, 2017
olas24u:

Why are you doing over sabi?the lady wrote something nice and does not like divorce,why all the drama of an essay.

this is not over sabi. I expect u to understand cos you are a woman

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by pweetiedee(m): 8:44am On Jul 05, 2017
Craven:


Domestic abuse isn't something to be taken lightly. It's not something that we can shrug off with "God does not like divorce." Many people have lost their lives believing this and choosing to remain in such marriages. And what use are they to their kids if they are dead?

I didn't feel it was right to dismiss this woman's problems with "God does not like divorce." Hence, my response.

I will not apologize for my lengthy post because I feel it is important. If you're unwilling to read, please ignore.

you don't need to apologize, you said the right thing.

Please someone should help the Op....please. OP, may God see you through and keep your baby for you.

God bless you.

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Handsomecole(m): 8:48am On Jul 05, 2017
"God hates divorce" This is how you people will be advising women to stay in abusive marriage until they finally die. If you want to help her help her, you want her to die in her marriage ni??
careercoach:
send your CV to me result_orientedprofessional@yahoo.com indicating who you are on the title page.

I am helping you for you to be empowered financially in your challenge and not for you to leave your marriage. God hates divorce.

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by meemeetruth(f): 9:13am On Jul 05, 2017
Craven:


You don't have any right to tell her what choices to make regarding her life. She has made it clear she is in an abusive marriage. If she needs to leave, she should be supported and empowered so she can support herself and her kid. Please don't encourage her to stay in a marriage that seems to make her unhappy. A lifetime of unhappiness is a vile thing to expect a human being to endure. Jesus did not die on the cross for us to be maltreated by mere humans. This woman has her whole life ahead of her, she has a baby to look after, and she seems ready to take back control of that life and provide for her baby. Please don't encourage her to stay in a marriage that might cut that life short! An abusive marriage will ruin a person's mental and/or physical health and also that of their child. And what use is she to her child if she has poor health? In fact, an abusive marriage is no place for a baby to grow up in—can you imagine growing up in a place where your mother is constantly tortured psychologically and/or physically? Oftentimes, we hear cases of women being killed by their spouses; please don't make this the case for this woman. This woman has everything to live for, she has her child to live for. Her life and the life of her child is more important than what you or what society thinks about divorce. She deserves peace of mind even if she has to find it on her own—plus she wouldn't even be alone; she has a child with her who I believe would be her motivation to make it everyday. God did not bless us with life for us to throw it away living in the shadow of a vile human being and being made to endure all sorts of torture.

You are a woman yourself. In a way, this woman is your sister. Help her by providing her with opportunities to improve her life, don't give her recipes that might end it.
. Na u dem dey talk to Abi ur talkin bout ur own abusive marriage

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Ifeshyne(f): 9:30am On Jul 05, 2017
careercoach:
send your CV to me result_orientedprofessional@yahoo.com indicating who you are on the title page.

I am helping you for you to be empowered financially in your challenge and not for you to leave your marriage. God hates divorce.
God hates divorce, so she should die there abii. You clearly did not see the part where she says she's in an abusive marriage.

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Craven: 9:34am On Jul 05, 2017
meemeetruth:
. Na u dem dey talk to Abi ur talkin bout ur own abusive marriage

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Nobody: 10:15am On Jul 05, 2017
kennygee:
State your location or the location you'd like a job.

It will help faster.
mine is kwara state. I can relocate to anywhere
Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Nobody: 10:21am On Jul 05, 2017
careercoach:
send your CV to me result_orientedprofessional@yahoo.com indicating who you are on the title page.

I am helping you for you to be empowered financially in your challenge and not for you to leave your marriage. God hates divorce.
mine is kwara state. I can relocate to anywhere
Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Nobody: 11:28am On Jul 05, 2017
Abusive Marriage? How did it start Op, why not speak more of this matter that troubles you, so you can get more assistance from people

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by In2systemsTech(m): 11:28am On Jul 05, 2017
Craven:


You don't have any right to tell her what choices to make regarding her life. She has made it clear she is in an abusive marriage. If she needs to leave, she should be supported and empowered so she can support herself and her kid. Please don't encourage her to stay in a marriage that seems to make her unhappy. A lifetime of unhappiness is a vile thing to expect a human being to endure. Jesus did not die on the cross for us to be maltreated by mere humans. This woman has her whole life ahead of her, she has a baby to look after, and she seems ready to take back control of that life and provide for her baby. Please don't encourage her to stay in a marriage that might cut that life short! An abusive marriage will ruin a person's mental and/or physical health and also that of their child. And what use is she to her child if she has poor health? In fact, an abusive marriage is no place for a baby to grow up in—can you imagine growing up in a place where your mother is constantly tortured psychologically and/or physically? Oftentimes, we hear cases of women being killed by their spouses; please don't make this the case for this woman. This woman has everything to live for, she has her child to live for. Her life and the life of her child is more important than what you or what society thinks about divorce. She deserves peace of mind even if she has to find it on her own—plus she wouldn't even be alone; she has a child with her who I believe would be her motivation to make it everyday. God did not bless us with life for us to throw it away living in the shadow of a vile human being and being made to endure all sorts of torture.

You are a woman yourself. In a way, this woman is your sister. Help her by providing her with opportunities to improve her life, don't give her recipes that might end it.

I swear you carry grudges from a previous relationship

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Generaloluseye: 11:41am On Jul 05, 2017
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I reside in.ado ekiti. i can.relocate anywhere. thanks. my email is sessy002@yahoo.com
Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Craven: 12:04pm On Jul 05, 2017
In2systemsTech:


I swear you carry grudges from a previous relationship

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Kondomatic(m): 12:37pm On Jul 05, 2017
All these talk about domestic violence is for what?

The woman needs help(you're not helping)

Someone who wants to help gave his reasons for helping and you're attacking him, who you epp?

He wants to empower the woman and that's enough, once empowered she will be able to stand for her right.

What causes the abuse in her marriage? It could be poverty sef, poverty is bastard so empowerment is the key.

How are we even sure she's in abusive marriage? Anybody could say that to get public sympathy.

The way you folks jump to conclusions when you hear abusive relationship/marriage is the reason celebrities will kill their husbands backdoor then come out to tell lies, cause you all will believe them.

This woman needs help not your opinion so shove it up your asses for now.

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Pearlyshobor: 12:48pm On Jul 05, 2017
Thank you so much, just for clarification, the reason for my unfortunate situation is not due to poverty, I'm not lying, it's an emotional abuse, I need to be strong for my baby, my husband is very well to do. However I resigned from my work due to my pregnancy which was termed high risk. I was an independent woman before I got married. I need a sustaining job for me to stand my ground and walk out of the marriage.
Kondomatic:
All these talk about domestic violence is for what?

The woman needs help(you're not helping)

Someone who wants to help gave his reasons for helping and you're attacking him, who you epp?

He wants to empower the woman and that's enough, once empowered she will be able to stand for her right.

What causes the abuse in her marriage? It could be poverty sef, poverty is bastard so empowerment is the key.

How are we even sure she's in abusive marriage? Anybody could say that to get public sympathy.

The way you folks jump to conclusions when you hear abusive relationship/marriage is the reason celebrities will kill their husbands backdoor then come out to tell lies, cause you all will believe them.

This woman needs help not your opinion so shove it up your asses for now.
Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by gentlemafia(m): 1:08pm On Jul 05, 2017
kennygee:
State your location or the location you'd like a job.

It will help faster.

Sis if It's an Abuja job, dnt hesitate pls
Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Kondomatic(m): 1:18pm On Jul 05, 2017
Pearlyshobor:
Thank you so much, just for clarification, the reason for my unfortunate situation is not due to poverty, I'm not lying, it's an emotional abuse, I need to be strong for my baby, my husband is very well to do. However I resigned from my work due to my pregnancy which was termed high risk. I was an independent woman before I got married. I need a sustaining job for me to stand my ground and walk out of the marriage.
I am not doubting you my dear, that comment was directed to someone and the reason I did not quote the person is to avoid derailing your post.

Forgive me if I made you feel bad, it wasn't intentional.

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by olas24u(f): 1:36pm On Jul 05, 2017
Craven:


Domestic abuse isn't something to be taken lightly. It's not something that we can shrug off with "God does not like divorce." Many people have lost their lives believing this and choosing to remain in such marriages. And what use are they to their kids if they are dead?

I didn't feel it was right to dismiss this woman's problems with "God does not like divorce." Hence, my response.

I will not apologize for my lengthy post because I feel it is important. If you're unwilling to read, please ignore.

I read you reply and never wanted to reply because it could derail the motive of the lady,but the truth is that you support single motherhood.
Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Nobody: 2:05pm On Jul 05, 2017
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