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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Championlaw200(m): 2:08pm On Jul 05, 2017
BUT??
Craven:


You don't have any right to tell her what choices to make regarding her life. She has made it clear she is in an abusive marriage. If she needs to leave, she should be supported and empowered so she can support herself and her kid. Please don't encourage her to stay in a marriage that seems to make her unhappy. A lifetime of unhappiness is a vile thing to expect a human being to endure. Jesus did not die on the cross for us to be maltreated by mere humans. This woman has her whole life ahead of her, she has a baby to look after, and she seems ready to take back control of that life and provide for her baby. Please don't encourage her to stay in a marriage that might cut that life short! An abusive marriage will ruin a person's mental and/or physical health and also that of their child. And what use is she to her child if she has poor health? In fact, an abusive marriage is no place for a baby to grow up in—can you imagine growing up in a place where your mother is constantly tortured psychologically and/or physically? Oftentimes, we hear cases of women being killed by their spouses; please don't make this the case for this woman. This woman has everything to live for, she has her child to live for. Her life and the life of her child is more important than what you or what society thinks about divorce. She deserves peace of mind even if she has to find it on her own—plus she wouldn't even be alone; she has a child with her who I believe would be her motivation to make it everyday. God did not bless us with life for us to throw it away living in the shadow of a vile human being and being made to endure all sorts of torture.

You are a woman yourself. In a way, this woman is your sister. Help her by providing her with opportunities to improve her life, don't give her recipes that might end it.
Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by safetyatmaketin(m): 2:22pm On Jul 05, 2017
Craven:


Hello! I just sent you an email request. Please respond.

I admire your courage to want to make something for yourself and your kid. Not many people are that strong to take back control of their lives!




don't leave your marriage ok

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Craven: 3:20pm On Jul 05, 2017
olas24u:


I read you reply and never wanted to reply because it could derail the motive of the lady,but the truth is that you support single motherhood.

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Craven: 3:23pm On Jul 05, 2017
Kondomatic:
I am not doubting you my dear, that comment was directed to someone and the reason I did not quote the person is to avoid derailing your post.

Forgive me if I made you feel bad, it wasn't intentional.

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by dilini(m): 3:28pm On Jul 05, 2017
Craven:


You don't have any right to tell her what choices to make regarding her life. She has made it clear she is in an abusive marriage. If she needs to leave, she should be supported and empowered so she can support herself and her kid. Please don't encourage her to stay in a marriage that seems to make her unhappy. A lifetime of unhappiness is a vile thing to expect a human being to endure. Jesus did not die on the cross for us to be maltreated by mere humans. This woman has her whole life ahead of her, she has a baby to look after, and she seems ready to take back control of that life and provide for her baby. Please don't encourage her to stay in a marriage that might cut that life short! An abusive marriage will ruin a person's mental and/or physical health and also that of their child. And what use is she to her child if she has poor health? In fact, an abusive marriage is no place for a baby to grow up in—can you imagine growing up in a place where your mother is constantly tortured psychologically and/or physically? Oftentimes, we hear cases of women being killed by their spouses; please don't make this the case for this woman. This woman has everything to live for, she has her child to live for. Her life and the life of her child is more important than what you or what society thinks about divorce. She deserves peace of mind even if she has to find it on her own—plus she wouldn't even be alone; she has a child with her who I believe would be her motivation to make it everyday. God did not bless us with life for us to throw it away living in the shadow of a vile human being and being made to endure all sorts of torture.

You are a woman yourself. In a way, this woman is your sister. Help her by providing her with opportunities to improve her life, don't give her recipes that might end it.

Na wa o! Too much sauce...

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Craven: 3:35pm On Jul 05, 2017
dilini:


Na wa o! Too much sauce...

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by dilini(m): 3:41pm On Jul 05, 2017
Craven:


Too much juice. wink

Kudos to you for helping the lady. I admire your kindness. God bless you..

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Efewestern: 3:58pm On Jul 05, 2017
Pearlyshobor:
Please help me with a job. I'm a graduate with 3 years working experience but had to resign after I got pregnant with my baby. Please any job will do for now because I need something that will sustain me when I leave my marriage which I need to do now. Thank you

you could as well state your profession, and location so people who wanna help will know were to start from.

which you all the best
Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by kweenkong(f): 4:36pm On Jul 05, 2017
olas24u:


I read you reply and never wanted to reply because it could derail the motive of the lady,but the truth is that you support single motherhood.

And you support dead Mrs abi kwantinue,i pray you never experience DV.

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by kweenkong(f): 4:39pm On Jul 05, 2017
safetyatmaketin:





don't leave your marriage ok

Even if it erodes her peace of mind. I am not in support of divorce but when it threatens your state of mind, peace and physical well being then you need to take yourself away from the environment. It's her choice don't make it for her and encourage nonsense. Until something bad happens. Enuff said!

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by fohlarp: 5:42pm On Jul 05, 2017
If any job is available in Ibadan,wld appreciate ma.folaswell48@yahoo.com
Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by AJVC(f): 8:37pm On Jul 05, 2017
Contact me through my email if you can..
Chidimma_juliet@yahoo.com
I have an offer for you since you are based in Lagos.

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Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by iykofias(m): 9:41pm On Jul 05, 2017
careercoach:
send your CV to me result_orientedprofessional@yahoo.com indicating who you are on the title page.

I am helping you for you to be empowered financially in your challenge and not for you to leave your marriage. God hates divorce.
come n see o; so person dey help person for this yeye forum; adonbelivit!
Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Ganjafama(m): 9:46pm On Jul 05, 2017
IAMEE:


pls can I forward mine too. I need job seriously too, help pls
Create your own thread and ask for help. Don't spoil her chances.
Re: Urgently In Need Of A Job! Need To Leave An Abusive Marriage, Pls Help Me by Rooneyboy(m): 10:20pm On Jul 05, 2017
Pearlyshobor:
I am in Lagos state, lagos mainland central is okay because of my 8 months old baby. Thank you

And how do you intend coping with an eight month old baby if you finally get the job
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