We left UNIBEN and were supposed to head for Warri, but then we thought, have we truly come to Benin if we haven't visited the palace?


So off we went to the palace that has housed the kings of the city for centuries.

AT THE PALACE
The first gate of the palace is accessible to just about anybody.

As long as you're not wearing black, like I almost did a few days ago. Or you're not a baby less than three months old.

We had no idea who took speak to, so we approached a policeman we found at the gate house and told him why we were there, and he laughed.

He laughed at our “we'd like to see around the palace.”

So he took us to a palace worker who seemed to know his way around. This guy, let's call him Wilfred, told us stuff we'll probably never forget.

THE OMUEDA.

In the palace are dedicated virgin boys and men, who volunteer to serve their Kingdom at the Palace. Some of them dedicate their lives to the throne for as long as 14 years.

In that time, they won't be able to touch women physically, not even their own mothers.

We asked him to show us around a little, to see where is permissible for people like us. He asked us to drop all of our bags and phones. No photos.

Meeting an Omueda.

He smiled a lot and even tolerated all of our foolish questions. Let's call him Osaro.

Like why he decided to spend over 11 years of his life in the palace.

“I am proud to serve my kingdom” he said with so much ease.

He wore a light brown sleeveless shirt and matching shorts. Around his neck were tiny white beads, and on his ankles were metal bangles.

He hasn't been outside the palace since he signed up 9 years ago.

I asked about people forbidden from entering the palace. Like people dressed in black.

“It is an abomination. You can't try it. The security at the gate will stop You.”

Okay, but let's paint a hypothetical scenario. What if someone forces himself and makes way to the office of the Oba.

He laughed. He laughed well.

“It depends on the Oba’s mood,” he said. “If he's in a good mood, the punishment will be mild. If not, whatever the person sees, let him take it.”

He said it so gently that we didn't bother to ask what type of punishment.

“What about your mum,” we asked. “How did she feel?”

“She was happy. Don't you understand?”

We didn't.

“It's a thing of pride and prestige for someone in your family to serve the kingdom. Every day little boys come here trying to get in.”

But what exactly do the Omueda do, we asked.

“They are like the eyes of the king. Everywhere the king goes, they always precede him, carrying the symbols of his authority.”

There had to be more, so we asked.

Osaro just smiled. A smile that told us there are a gazillion things we'd never know because we were just random passersby.

By the time we were leaving, it was no longer the “Oba’s Palace’ to me. It had become a fortress. One that has survived for over 800 years.

One that, despite the fast-changing world outside, has managed to keep the traditions thriving. Not thriving in the sense of completely abandoning new ways.

They simply take from the outside, solely to increase the power and influence of the throne.

I noticed that throughout our conversation, the past Obas weren't referred to as dead. They simply said, “They went to join their ancestors.”



It's like when Benin people say ‘Oba Ghato Kpe e’ (Long live the king), they don't just say it as a greeting. They say it because they mean it.

Obas don't die. They just return to their ancestors.

obialfa:
Zoo tinz

PointZerom:
Yeye dey smell

7footre:
wow.... not a mean feat if you ask me, what do you do with your life after wasting 14 long years in servitude? how do you make it in life? unless there is more to the story, its not something i will encourage but then again its not my business so dont mind my rantings

EdoNation:


They go to school in the palace and are sponsored through out the university onwards

GQman:
Shhhh.
Oba of Benin, raping little Bini boys since 20 BC!
Why would a virgin boy serve the Oba for 14yrs?


Just like the homosexual king of the historical/mythical Buganda Kingdom in today's Uganda.
https://www.lifesitenews.com/opinion/ugandas-martyrs-were-murdered-for-spurning-a-homosexual-king-shhhh

7footre:


oh, ok. thats nice then. the article didnt say so, so pardon me

AmoryBlacq:
One thing I love about the benin Kingdom is their rich cultural heritage

So many other ethnic groups today have their roots to the binis or once being ruled by the binis

Yoruba for instance, no matter how they try to deny it

Benin was the first city visited in Nigeria by the europeans

Ruy de Sequeira 1472

and later Affonso de Aviero 1484

so sad their powers could not withstand the crown firing arms in 1897


long live the great Oba of Benin

mars123:
It is very sad now when we see the outcome of the dubious British invasion and amalgamation of North and south protectorates.

As a Benin man, I'm filled with pride when I remember the great Benin empire, the great wall of Benin, recorded as the greatest earth moving work ever constructed by man in Guinness records book. Mind you, it is also the largest running military defensive network ever built by man with a length of 20,000km.

It is ironic that such great people are now grouped along minority lines in the modern day Nigeria.

GQman:


[s]Iwould look real close at that policy of the Oba of Benin. No joke!
Its similar to how the Catholic church priests molested impressionable young men for ages.
I see no reason why only pre-pubescent males should serve the Oba, and for as long as 14 years.
And it wont be the first time we has homosexual kings in Africa, as the King of Buganda demonstrates.
Its ridiculous, something is fishy
![/s]

KingOvoramwen1:




If you read the article you will have noted Boys and Men .... But no you had to jump on and relate Rome to Benin empire because in you gugugaga mind they are opposite each other on your gugugagaga street!!.....