₦airaland Forum

alexialin:
I won't keep the advice to myself!

My aunt married at the age of 43 to a goodlooking divorcee based in the US. She shuttles to and fro three times a year. And she is not as rich as Rita. Everyone thought it was over for her but that's Everyone opinion! When God says its not over? Trust me its truly not over!
Shes heavily pregnant and expecting her first child with him

So carry your craze advice out of my mentions!

attackgat:
What is it with this crazy Nigerians? Whenever they see someone who is later 30's or early 40's they will shouting

"Settle down", "you are getting old", "get married". Na by force?

Rita Dominic is having the time of her life and the only advice some people can give her is to marry a man that might break her neck tomorow. Other actresses like Tonto Dike who got married, what happend?

Marriage and kids is not for everyone. There are many people who have both but are not happy.

GistFullGround:
No HUSBAND... What is she celebrating when she has no CROWN over her head?
She needs to remove pride and "what will my friends say" mentality and run to SCOAN for special prayers and before a year she will be married.

Coldfeets:
Your aunty was just lucky, okay?

How many young bloods out there will go for a 43 year old woman if not for sugarmommy purposes?

After forming miss independent and aunty feminist and madam my-career-comes-first, for so many years, then out of desperation most likely, she had to settle for a divorcee who probably decided to show her some mercy for her sorry situation.

See let me tell you, any woman who fails to use her youth or prime years to attract and keep a man has herself to blame.

There's no two ways about that.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
that's because they think that marriage is for everyone. But marriage is not for everyone. That's whyvsone go in today and come out tomorrow.
That's how they pushed Tonto into it and now that she's out, they are the same people abusing her. Most people think that a woman can only find happiness if she's under a man. Forgetting that marriage could be a death sentence to many, both male and female.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Childish comment. So you think husband is her problem now?
Besides, how has her single status prevented to from living out your dream?

alexialin:
Lol

Show her mercy indeed! She married 50years old rich divorcee with 2kids.

She travels and shops round the world, he bought her a brand new SUV and stays in his duplex home in Lagos and u r saying he took pity on her?

U are simply pained she is enjoying her life to the fullest at such age.

How many younger girls married to some guys av such privilege.

U dont even know how she lived her life.

U are just wailing like an idioot! Rambling without a grain of sense.

Dont go and make money u hear. Keep consoling yur Impoverished life. Ode!

Keep wailing!

swegiedon:
till 80 mayne

Coldfeets:
Seriously, please don't make me laugh.

What on earth makes you think I'm pained over the success of this your so called aunty?

No wonder you guys are so happy for her, most especially when you guys thought it was over for her.

I guess you must be really enjoying the proceeds of her gold digging antics?

If you think the reason I need to make money is so that I could get married to a 43 year old old cargo, then you must be really really sick in the head.

GistFullGround:
When a lady sees no man to marry her, she claims, "Husband is not my problem, I am already successful"
Will you pray for your sister to have no man at 42? If you wish this, then you be WITCH!
Husband is the CROWN. What dream can a woman have without a husband?

chisco82:
Go and read your Bible, marriage is for everyone.
Except those who are born Eunuch or choose to make themself one(consecreated themselve for God).
Genesis 2:18 KJV
And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
Genesis 2:22-24 KJV
And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. [23] And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. [24] Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
There always an Adam that you are made for.
Possibly the Man is yet to find her.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
have you finished doing all the things the bible said you should do? And have you avoided all the things the bible said you should avoid?
Her sins are not greater than yours because you are married or because you are lucky to settle down with a spouse before her.