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Please advise him but codedly.

He might also be wondering about their paternity but does not know what to do.

OP abeg leave Matter for Matthias! The man did not enlist your help.

A wife that will boldly say that to her husband is a wicked soul. Abeg, dont go and bring another man's devil into you own life. If he wants to do the test, he will find who will help him with it.

Something tells me you are even more interested in knowing the paternity than the two illiterates.

am so shocked how you guys think, how will you all advice the man suffer to raise kids that are not his? that's so wrongly wired!

Guy find a way to send him a letter with anonymous address but with good reason for him to act now that he still has time,
he can even start with simple blood group test and the for sure bet the DNA,

That Man may be dying slowly, and the lady does not deserve mercy, she may know that he can not produce and went outside to get kids,
she may one day leave him high and dry, better still he can go for child adaption and leave with that, than hope on the woman who will betray him at last,when he is too old to act. she will even engineer the kids against this man and my brother will die a painful death.

just find ways to give him info and options via anonymous letters

peace!

Na op get those kids

You need this OP

Greenbullet:
I live in a house with three flats and in one flat I have this couple who are my friends, the man is fairly educated and his wife is an illiterate. The both of them quarrel regularly and since I am not a busybody , I do not interfere , all I do is listen but something has got me worried when listening to their quarrel, the woman always use the child's paternity to insult the man, some of the insults go like this
"Idiot man"
"Lazy man"
"Okobo"
"Leave my children, nor be you get them, I go carry them go meet who born them"
"Nor touch my children ooo,leave them for their papa"
Surely this insults infuriate the man and his sometimes beat his wife, I myself who is more reasonable think his three children are not really his, The wife is a trader and comes home at irregular times which also lead to quarrels , the children also do not have some facial characteristics of the said man.

I want to advise the man to do a DNA test ( only God knows if he knows what it means), but do you guys think this man is really the father or the wife is saying these things to spite him ?

whatever it is, its non of ur business

amebo mind your business

Make una see Mr Solo Makinde wey no dey interfere, but get a lot of time to dey listen to their quarrels all the time, abi you be Minister for home affairs? A person wey no get work wey dey jobless

Benita27:
Mind your business. Them no dey put mouth for husband and wife matter. He may or may not be the father of the kids but it's not your call to tell him what to do. BTW, I thought you said he's fairly educated?, why won't he know what paternity test is?.

gbam!

Greenbullet:
pry4 dropout

Ode!

About 10% of men are impotent! Yes out of every 100 men, about 10 of them are impotent!!! Unfortunately you hang around with those dudes everyday and you won't know it.
In some cultures, it is completely normal for the man to send the wife to get pregnanted by another man; either a stranger or family member.

Am not saying this is the case here; but it's a possibility.
The woman didn't say it behind him
The man you claimed is faily well educated

What's your own

I'll advice you to mind your business ,because the man is aware that the children doesn't belong to him.

o boy! op done enter one chance. see bashing

Benita27:
Mind your business. Them no dey put mouth for husband and wife matter. He may or may not be the father of the kids but it's not your call to tell him what to do. BTW, I thought you said he's fairly educated?, why won't he know what paternity test is?.

Lol!!! It know it's only a lady that ll give such senseless advice.

Hoes everywhere you go

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Greenbullet:
I live in a house with three flats and in one flat I have this couple who are my friends, the man is fairly educated and his wife is an illiterate. The both of them quarrel regularly and since I am not a busybody , I do not interfere , all I do is listen but something has got me worried when listening to their quarrel, the woman always use the child's paternity to insult the man, some of the insults go like this
"Idiot man"
"Lazy man"
"Okobo"
"Leave my children, nor be you get them, I go carry them go meet who born them"
"Nor touch my children ooo,leave them for their papa"
Surely this insults infuriate the man and his sometimes beat his wife, I myself who is more reasonable think his three children are not really his, The wife is a trader and comes home at irregular times which also lead to quarrels , the children also do not have some facial characteristics of the said man.

I want to advise the man to do a DNA test ( only God knows if he knows what it means), but do you guys think this man is really the father or the wife is saying these things to spite him ?

Why do you want to put somebody problem on top of your head, amebo

Wetin concern u op?

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Greenbullet:
I live in a house with three flats and in one flat I have this couple who are my friends, the man is fairly educated and his wife is an illiterate. The both of them quarrel regularly and since I am not a busybody , I do not interfere , all I do is listen but something has got me worried when listening to their quarrel, the woman always use the child's paternity to insult the man, some of the insults go like this
"Idiot man"
"Lazy man"
"Okobo"
"Leave my children, nor be you get them, I go carry them go meet who born them"
"Nor touch my children ooo,leave them for their papa"
Surely this insults infuriate the man and his sometimes beat his wife, I myself who is more reasonable think his three children are not really his, The wife is a trader and comes home at irregular times which also lead to quarrels , the children also do not have some facial characteristics of the said man.

I want to advise the man to do a DNA test ( only God knows if he knows what it means), but do you guys think this man is really the father or the wife is saying these things to spite him ?

Bros, please tell the man don't mind what all these people are saying. TELL HIM

Why are Nigerians so wicked? Just imagine all these stupid advices being shunned out from pit of hell called mouths

I now understand why they say 98% of Nigerians are nothing but bastards.

Back to the topic, sometimes, an advice from a total stranger could change d destiny of a man. Who knows what the man in question is going through in his head? The man in question is probably going through a whole lot of shit in his life and feel less concern or conscious of his wife's pronouncement in d midst of fight

Op, be diplomatic about it if your conscience tells you to go ahead.

Addicted2Women:
This guy above me sounds like O.P's neighbor he was talking about
You should advise yourself to go buy a brand new used brain
These are the only 2 insults women use to hurt me.
1. They're not your kids
2. You have a small dick

*smiles....has any lady told you...you've a small dick before?

MisterGrace:
Oh! Shut it already... What kind of heart do you have?
This trend of "mind your business" stup1d.

Maybe you can keep such from your husband, I don't know.

Op! Go ahead and advise the man to do the needful. Don't let him die a miserable man.

He may start afresh again and have his own God given children.

Don't mind them

That's why 98% of them are bastards

What do you expect?

kaziblake:
Ode!

Aunty, please are u insulting me or the man ?

larrypourl:
Wetin concern u op?


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Can't you guys upgrade your 1765 machines since to at least year 2001?

The best spots to sell these Ngbekwe loafers are Born Again Christian forum(some brothers are badoos, they wear Gucci and Prada), people with Leprosy; their communities, Sabo.

It's obvious the op is jobless. He has too much idle time.

Benita27:
You're stupid but you've not realised that yet.

Help him tell the man. Good samaritan.

It goes to show the kind of girl you are. You are a hoe, an idiot, a bastard and a vulture.
Always using curse words.

Don't worry, I will find you, it's promise. What nonsense!

When trouble sleep yanga go wake am.. OP you are less concerned.. if have nothing doing can you engaged yourself in a better sleep ?

Op the same people telling you to mind your business will be the same ones to castigate you when you take pictures of a woman being beaten by her husband.

Like someone said write an anonymous letter to the husband advicing to do DNA test on the kids

MisterGrace:
It goes to show the kind of girl you are. You are a hoe, an idiot, a bastard and a vulture.
Always using curse words.

Don't worry, I will find you, it's promise. What nonsense!

Now you know. Next time respect yourself while quoting me and I'll return the favour.

Op,ki lo kan e?ki ni ti e?... D man myt be sterile.d couple seem to av reached a compromise cus i don't understand how a wife will say dat to d husband's face nd go scotfree

Lloydfolarin:
Made in Aba

Can't you guys upgrade your 1765 machines since to at least year 2001?

The best spots to sell these Ngbekwe loafers are Born Again Christian forum(some brothers are badoos, they wear Gucci and Prada), people with Leprosy; their communities, Sabo.

I'm not ready to battle with you. So please go your way in God's name. Those are imported loafers made with genuine leather. Enjoy the rest of the night Sir.

Greenbullet:
I live in a house with three flats and in one flat I have this couple who are my friends, the man is fairly educated and his wife is an illiterate. The both of them quarrel regularly and since I am not a busybody , I do not interfere , all I do is listen but something has got me worried when listening to their quarrel, the woman always use the child's paternity to insult the man, some of the insults go like this
"Idiot man"
"Lazy man"
"Okobo"
"Leave my children, nor be you get them, I go carry them go meet who born them"
"Nor touch my children ooo,leave them for their papa"
Surely this insults infuriate the man and his sometimes beat his wife, I myself who is more reasonable think his three children are not really his, The wife is a trader and comes home at irregular times which also lead to quarrels , the children also do not have some facial characteristics of the said man.

I want to advise the man to do a DNA test ( only God knows if he knows what it means), but do you guys think this man is really the father or the wife is saying these things to spite him ?

DNA test is not malaria test! Are you gonna also pay for it? Why don't you just mind your business? People say all sorts in the heat of anger.

Use your energy and time to pray for their home.

EmpressEnnie:
Op,ki lo kan e?ki ni ti e?... D man myt be sterile.d couple seem to av reached a compromise cus i don't understand how a wife will say dat to d husband's face nd go scotfree

I didn't think such a problem would arise before i chose this name scotfree. Now anytime someone says scotfree, il be notified.

For the sake of God, let's go to the dictionary and look for an alternate word to use