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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 1:42pm On Jul 30, 2017
Femlexx:

Its not poor reasoning

-Every child has a purpose, have you ever seen a 'creation' that doesnt have a purpose?
Then what's the purpose of children who are born and die of hunger 6 months later?

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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jul 30, 2017
ahhdah:
Come on..
Any Child brought into this world has a purpose of his or her existence.. So if a child is conceived whether by mistake or whatever, it's not the baby's fault..
Such babies most times end up winners
this is a wrong assertion. A lot of 'purposeful' kids are littered on the streets, garage and dumpings.

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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 1:49pm On Jul 30, 2017
Ontarget:

Then what's the purpose of children who are born and die of hunger 6 months later?
thats not their (the child's) fault, and just coz someone couldnt fufill a purpose doesnt mean he/she doesnt have...and bout kids dying out of hunger, the parents reproductive organs ought to be removed...they are not responsible...why is it that, it is the child that die of hunger and not them.
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by claremont(m): 1:55pm On Jul 30, 2017
darioNaharis:


Also if you give birth to a badly disabled child(dwarfs, limbless, etc) ,put him out of his misery --I mean terminate him--

But then we all should wise up undecided
How many disabled people actually make it in life (can't be more than 1%)
How sure are you that yours will fall into the "1%" category

This is very poor reasoning and it's unfortunate, but I'm not surprised that as an average Nigerian living in Nigeria, you reason this way.

An overwhelming amount of research have proven that true development in every modern society is measured by the way and manner the society treats its weak, disabled and vulnerable. The views a lot of people have expressed on this thread regarding disabled people fill me with despair on the future prospects of Nigeria. I could write a whole page on this, but I just don't fancy having a debate with barely-lettered, ignorant 'human beings' that prefer to terminate disabled people. I would much rather enjoy my Sunday beer.

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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 1:55pm On Jul 30, 2017
yettymuse:
this is a wrong assertion. A lot of 'purposeful' kids are littered on the streets, garage and dumpings.
Someone got them there...and for them to leave and become something, somebody will have to help them...so my sister, you should try your utmost to help kids like that...i think our problem here is coz we dont help each other...if we did, there will be less of this
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 1:56pm On Jul 30, 2017
Femlexx:

Steve hawking

albert einstein

franklin delano roosevelt

ralph braun

john hockenberry

marlee matlin

stevie wonder

frida kahlo

helen keller

lenin moreno

sudha chandran

bethany hamilton

maria runyan

ludwig van beethoven

christopher reeve

john nash

vincent van gogh

nick vujicic

Even if you dont know all this pple...dont you watch paralympics...if these pple parent has put them out of what that guy called 'misery', they wouldnt have gotten the chance to do what they did.

Christopher reeve was never disabled, he had an accident which made him start using a wheelchair.

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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 2:00pm On Jul 30, 2017
Sacluxpaint:


Christopher reeve was never disabled, he had an accident which made him start using a wheelchair.
Yes he wasnt born like that...what will you call someone that uses wheelchair even if the person wasnt using it before...i dont know if english have another word for disabled that werent born like that
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by CocoaOla: 2:01pm On Jul 30, 2017
Honestly our rising population is not sustainable

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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 2:02pm On Jul 30, 2017
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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by jydeskill1(m): 2:09pm On Jul 30, 2017
claremont:


This is very poor reasoning and it's unfortunate, but I'm not surprised that as an average Nigerian living in Nigeria, you reason this way.

An overwhelming amount of research have proven that true development in every modern society is measured by the way and manner the society treats its weak, disabled and vulnerable. The views a lot of people have expressed on this thread regarding disabled people fill me with despair on the future prospects of Nigeria. I could write a whole page on this, but I just don't fancy having a debate with barely-lettered, ignorant 'human beings' that prefer to terminate disabled people. I would much rather enjoy my Sunday beer.
there is a natural law guiding our life which will continue to remain a mystery. Everyone in a community or society can't be well to do. No matter how u use condom. We still need shoe makers, barbers, road artisans refuse carriers. And who says you will be able to give ur Child the best even when it's just one or two. Planning is good but only God is the master planner. Don't forget there's a mystery called destiny. Some of our class mate in school who are always on top are now struggling to survive the so called back benchers are busy opening filling stations every where.

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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nov6(m): 2:11pm On Jul 30, 2017
I guess so many are derailing from the topic/issue/subject@hand...

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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by oweniwe(m): 2:13pm On Jul 30, 2017
Femlexx:

Steve hawking

albert einstein

franklin delano roosevelt

ralph braun

john hockenberry

marlee matlin

stevie wonder

frida kahlo

helen keller

lenin moreno

sudha chandran

bethany hamilton

maria runyan

ludwig van beethoven

christopher reeve

john nash

vincent van gogh

nick vujicic

Even if you dont know all this pple...dont you watch paralympics...if these pple parent has put them out of what that guy called 'misery', they wouldnt have gotten the chance to do what they did.

Those are onyibo ...

Mention Africans​ or Nigerians​.

The clime/socio-economical environment plays a big role in anyone's success. If Albert Einstein were a Nigerian nko?

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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by OvaSabi1(f): 2:19pm On Jul 30, 2017
Femlexx:

Steve hawking

albert einstein

franklin delano roosevelt

ralph braun

john hockenberry

marlee matlin

stevie wonder

frida kahlo

helen keller

lenin moreno

sudha chandran

bethany hamilton

maria runyan

ludwig van beethoven

christopher
reeve

john nash

vincent van gogh

nick vujicic

Even if you dont know all this pple...dont you watch paralympics...if these pple parent has put them out of what that guy called 'misery', they wouldnt have gotten the chance to do what they did.
Uncle, you went and did copy and paste. What disability did Einstein have? How many people have a shot at paralympics? Do you know how much politics you have to do before they even look at you?

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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 2:21pm On Jul 30, 2017
oweniwe:


Those are onyibo ...

Mention Africans​ or Nigerians​.

The clime/socio-economical environment plays a big role in anyone's success. If Albert Einstein were a Nigerian nko?

Cohbams

go and watch paralympics and you would be amazed by what this rare people can do...sorry in advance to the pple concerned, but i will choose the disabled nigerian paralympians over the able ones
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 2:26pm On Jul 30, 2017
OvaSabi1:

Uncle, you went and did copy and paste. What disability did Einstein have? How many people have a shot at paralympics? Do you know how much politics you have to do before they even look at you?
Uncle ke lol

and u for talk say make i mention them for head coz them b my relatives

Einstein had a learning disability

bout the paralympics own, thats part of what im saying...people dont give them chance, they rule them off coz they are a little different and thats bad

and politics is everywhere bro.

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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by OvaSabi1(f): 2:26pm On Jul 30, 2017
free2ryhme:


these people you are screaming about dont have phone that browse so how can dey see your scream

There are many nairalanders that believe children bring blessings on their own.

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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 2:27pm On Jul 30, 2017
A mallam once told me, "I never born fikin finish"

I asked "who would take care of them?"

He replied: "Allah go frovide"

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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by condomuser: 2:29pm On Jul 30, 2017
Firstly, living in Nigeria with a disability is like ordering a barbecue suya from hell but living with disability in countries like Australia and the UK is like living with King Solomon.

The disabled in Nigeria suffer today due to bad government.

A child Charlie was born in the UK a few months ago with disability, his parents tried and raised £1.3 million for him to be treated in the US, the funds came from public donors who support their own, unfortunately the little Charlie has passed on and his parents are left with £1.3mlilion cash.

Everytime a child with a disability is born in a developed country, more resources such as increased funding in R& D is being channeled towards the cure for that ailment, but in Nigeria, you leave them to roam tbe streets, do you know the money the state of Arizona or the borough of kensington spends on one disabled can feed 100 disabled people in Nigeria?

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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 2:33pm On Jul 30, 2017
Femlexx:

Yes he wasnt born like that...what will you call someone that uses wheelchair even if the person wasnt using it before...i dont know if english have another word for disabled that werent born like that

The post is referring to people born disabled.

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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 2:34pm On Jul 30, 2017
bravesoul247:
I'm not a fan of poor couples giving birth to countless children cos those kids end up being thst street urchins that terrorise the neighbourhood. And please if you have a child that is disabled its better you give the child up for adoption than putting the child out of his/her "misery".


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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by OvaSabi1(f): 2:35pm On Jul 30, 2017
Femlexx:

Uncle ke lol

and u for talk say make i mention them for head coz them b my relatives

Einstein had a learning disability

bout the paralympics own, thats part of what im saying...people dont give them chance, they rule them off coz they are a little different and thats bad

and politics is everywhere bro.
These are all outliers. Deaf, dumb and blind Helen Keller had her own personal teacher who took the pains and many years to teach her how to speak and write. Her parents moved them to a separate house. They have disabled access in all buildings and public transport in these countries. They give them disability benefits. They can actually afford to have as many children as possible. Einstein's "disability" is still under serious debate. So all disabled people should go and join paralympics that is every 4 years or so? How many games are they playing that they will all join sports events?

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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 2:41pm On Jul 30, 2017
OvaSabi1:

These are all outliers. Deaf, dumb and blind Helen Keller had her own personal teacher who took the pains and many years to teach her how to speak and write. Her parents moved them to a separate house. They have disabled access in all buildings and public transport in these countries. They give them disability benefits. They can actually afford to have as many children as possible. Einstein's "disability" is still under serious debate. So all disabled people should go and join paralympics that is every 4 years or so? How many games are they playing that they will all join sports events?
What i'm saying is that they didnt rule/cast them off...and the important thing is the individual, like i said earlier, if they dont limit themselves, they can acheive anything with help from the environment
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 2:45pm On Jul 30, 2017
Sacluxpaint:


The post is referring to people born disabled.
Someone asked for 'disabled famous pple' and i searched for it...you cant possibly expect me to search the name 1 by 1 to know, if they were born with it or not...and there are pple born disabled in that list
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by humbleme99(f): 2:47pm On Jul 30, 2017
Femlexx:
A person becomes "disable" when his/her brain stop working or the person stop using...thats the real disability


For this truth you just said, I degree that the month of August shall be a miracle month for you.
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 2:51pm On Jul 30, 2017
humbleme99:



For this truth you just said, I decree that the month of August shall be a miracle month for you.
Amen and for you too
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Bestlily(f): 2:51pm On Jul 30, 2017
goingape1:
apart from condom you can use hormone implant on ya shoulder. is just 600naira for 3month and about 1000 for a year and you can fùck your woman without worry about condom undecided

Gist me about this?
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by JosephSnr01(m): 2:57pm On Jul 30, 2017
ahhdah:
Come on..
Any Child brought into this world has a purpose of his or her existence.. So if a child is conceived whether by mistake or whatever, it's not the baby's fault..
Such babies most times end up winners

You as a parent or still looking forward to be sumday, shud not based your thinking on this fake fact.

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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by OTEGA1: 2:58pm On Jul 30, 2017
I blame ladies for bringing kids to suffer.. If u insist on condom he will use it or better still use drugs to save d situation..

Ladies will know fully well day the man is not capable to handle more kids based on d finance but will still go ahead to carry pregnancy..

I feel like flogging suck ladies....

Many ladies don't think at all

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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by ahhdah(f): 3:01pm On Jul 30, 2017
JosephSnr01:


You as a parent or still looking forward to be sumday, shud not based your thinking on this fake fact.
Anugom..
So if a woman gets pregnant even after all the precautions.. She should remove it
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Sarang(f): 3:16pm On Jul 30, 2017
Durentt:
Most Nigerians are stupid. They can't use common condom. I don't know where the useless opinion that if you marry, you should start forming babies quickly. No planning, nothing. Rubbish

Exactly. Some will be complaining of money but will still start having kids. How stupid can someone be?! No ordinary common sense

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