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Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Sarang(f): 3:19pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
elantraceey: Me too 5years or 6. And if he can't or refuse to care for that one child, it's seperation straight. No one is playing jinx with my child.. women should wise up. 1 Like |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 3:30pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
elantraceey: Its better to stay single and keep courting. What you just wrote here is unrealistic. You speaking as if its in your power to bring children into this world. 1 Like |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 3:37pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Femlexx: Our population is too much bro, check the density and you'd be amazed, the whole land area of Nigeria is not up to 1 million sq km, and we're already having a population of over 200 million, I tell you it's not good. The projections is even more scary, we'll be the 4th most populous country in another 2 decades, at the rate we're multiplying, and we're not even in the first 30 in land mass, and just so you know, I used land as a base of reference to just mean the basic human need, shelter, I don't want to think that these population still has to feed, cloth, etc, while I think the Chinese law is a little extreme, I think a version of it is needed in Nigeria, don't give birth to kids you don't have the resources to Carter for, it's inhuman. 3 Likes |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by obstead200(m): 3:38pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
darioNaharis:frankly, I agree fully with u. When I say this, pple say am heartless. But we need to be realistic 3 Likes |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by obstead200(m): 3:39pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Femlexx:nonsense 3 Likes |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by free2ryhme: 3:41pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
OvaSabi1: becos nairalanders believ that children brings blessings is not to jump into conclusions that nairalanders also gives birth to children they cant cater for |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 3:43pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
elantraceey: Your head dey there, I'd be always be an unapologetic advocate of family planning, and I'll surely practice what I preach, can't give birth to more than two kids no matter how much my hustle pays off, well spaced too, no pressure at all, empower them adequately to add something to the human experience not leaving them to the mercy of chance. 1 Like |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 3:46pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
obstead200:I dey hear...share your view |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by bravesoul247(m): 3:46pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
frenzyduchess:if you be woman I go dash you. |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 3:53pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
truthsayer009: It's not in our power to bring children into the world I agree, but all things being equal, God has given us the choice to decide when, and how many, use that choice well. 1 Like |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by skolab4(m): 3:54pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
as for me, there is nothing bad in reproducing, though it should be base on calculation and agreement by the couple, if u r very cautious u won't produce more than what you can cater for,also going for abortion should not be seen as a means or killing a disabled baby will be too harsh, wicked and cruel, EVERYONE ON EARTH HAS A ROLE TO PLAY, literate or illiterate, drop out or graduate, able or disable. Parents do the upbringing while the individual choose the direction to follow"the good way or the bad way". mind you, even those whose parents are financially buoyant or a graduate can end up as a terrorist or a criminal...income and child upbringing are different,,,,, most parents did not just leave their children to suffer because of their level of income/numbers (say 6 ) but because they r not ready for the children well-being.. |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by elantraceey(f): 3:54pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
truthsayer009: To you it's unrealistic but to me that's standard and I won't settle for anything less. 1 Like |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Validcode: 3:57pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
I'm an early years teacher, working in a nursery and primary school. On a daily basis, I see and play with many children including the normal children and the ones with special needs and disabilities. Meanwhile, I am also a woman who is trying to conceive, every time I pray that God bless me with fruit of the womb I also include prayers for healthy normal children. Believe me it is more challenging to teach children with special needs and also very expensive for the parents and sometimes it is scary, they often behave more irrationally than other children. 1 Like |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Validcode: 4:07pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
I always say that I would never have more children than the number I can single handedly raise comfortably. I want to be able to shower my children with love and give them a luxurious life. Sponsor their education, if my child decides s/he wants to be a PhD holder by age 30, I would love to be able to sponsor that education. I have seen children that are brilliant dropping out of school cause their parents can't pay their fees. Lets all choose wisely. 1 Like |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 4:08pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
brandydaniells:you just made a thread for something that I've always been crying about, shouting so that people will hear. Poor people shouldn't be allowed to have kids. If you can't cater for a child, you should be jailed for giving birth to one 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 4:11pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Femlexx:ha ha ha .... Guy u dumb |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 4:15pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Favybloom:poor people shouldnt be allowed to have kids? wrong what hope will they have on getting out of poverty child = hope there are public pry/sec sch, and federal higher instituion that pay low fees so a poor person that priortize education will be able to send 1 child through those lvl...dont say that pls |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 4:15pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
ahhdah:Okay, it's confirmed that you're part of the problem we are talking about. Nobody said the children are the problem, we are touched by what these kids have to go through and that's why we are saying "DON'T BREED KIDS WHEN YOU CAN'T RAISE THEM"! it's never the child's fault, the child didn't ask to be born, nobody asked to be born and nobody should bring a child into this world to suffer cos the child couldn't say no to being born. It's just pure selfishness, I could never do that to an innocent child, gamble with their life like that. It's wickedness 3 Likes |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Fingerprinter(m): 4:16pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
ahhdah:That's the rubbish you guys keep saying until you populate the world with the Evans of this world. Purpose ni, purpose ko 3 Likes |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 4:17pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
bravesoul247:I be woman na,I am no impersonator o,and I am damn serious o, been inlove with the phone since it came out. if you dash me i promise to create my first thread and dedicate it to you |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 4:17pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Favybloom:Thank you for the nice compliment...so help your brother, teach me. why do u say that |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by ahhdah(f): 4:18pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Favybloom:My point is.. What if these parents av made the mistake.. What is the way out.. Not talking trash n saying unrealistic things |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by ahhdah(f): 4:20pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Fingerprinter:Uncle.. What if the deed has been done. Belle don enter.. Whats the way out.. Stop brewing rubbish.. Am not saying parents should keep reproducing.. I said what if the deed has been done.. The child can't be thrown away can it?? |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by oweniwe(m): 4:21pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Femlexx: Talk is cheap. You're looking it from the outsider​ point... Observer point of view. Paralympians are competing against themselves, not again able-bodied athletes. If it is case of disabled competing against abled for jobs or resources... In Nigeria ... It's tough 1 Like |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 4:23pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Femlexx:Selfishness and wickedness is the only reason why a poor man that is too lazy to work will give birth to a child for the sole purpose of alleviating poverty from his life! What will happen if you die after giving birth to that your "hope"? Oh wait! Yea right, the child will be left in the hands of pple who will use him/her as a slave and leave them to suffer the fate of the 12 year old girl OP was crying about. You are a bastard for even thinking that it's okay to gamble with a child's life like that. When you have trust funds for your kids and you're wise enough to protect it by law, they'll never suffer even if you die unexpectedly. Wise up and leave village mentality alone. Work hard so that your kids won't have to be your means to wealth. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Fingerprinter(m): 4:26pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
ahhdah:If the deed has been done, terminate the pregnancy at the early stage when there won't be complications. Is that too difficult a task to do? 1 Like |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Ezzybazz(m): 4:27pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
God said; Go into the world and MULTIPLY....Not go into the world and OVER-POPULATE 1 Like |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by bravesoul247(m): 4:30pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
frenzyduchess:na so. Wetin I wan use thread dedication do? Lol. Don't worry just partake in a competition and you might win something. Follow @TECNOMobileNG on twitter and say your favourite part of the camon cx with the hashtag #MyFavouritePartofCamonCX |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 4:30pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Femlexx:you and your religious fanaticism should get the fvck outta here. This thread is for logical and reasonable people not religious whimps without their own reasoning or opinion 3 Likes |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 4:31pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
oweniwe:Did i ever say it was easy...what really brought about this, a guy said they should put kid with disabilities out of their misery...thats what im against and bout the paralympians there's a race, blind pple running, each of them tied to some that can see, my point is, some of them run faster than their eyes and some blind people run faster than pple with 2/4 eyes and if u av ever watch what im talking you should understand My point is they are human, they shouldnt be cast off or look down upon...they can also do what people with able bodies does |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Nobody: 4:32pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
ahhdah:This thread is about the prevention of the problem not the problem itself. Prevention is always better than cure that's why we are begging people to be reasonable and considerate. Nigeria clearly has no plan for kids like these, even the developed world that has got plans in place for these type of kids, they still end up useless most times. Let's just tackle the root cause of the problem 5 Likes |
Re: Income Vs Children: You Can Use Condom With Your Wife by Gerrard59(m): 4:36pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
So there are persons who agree with me? I said same here a year ago: https://www.nairaland.com/3450586/poor-un-intelligent-people-should-not I should be awarded a Nobel Prize in Soothsaying . People should procreate child(ren) they can ADEQUATELY take PROPER care of. Talking about condom, OP, there is the vaginal ring, which takes care of preventing pregancy by circa 99%. http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/contraception-guide/Pages/vaginal-ring.aspx Good to know people are learning. "Giving birth is cheap, raising them is expensive" (Gerrard59, 2016) 1 Like |
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