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He should please try and raise money for a room,a single room is worth more than the troubles that will come later.......when there is too much familiarities like this within inlaws poo do happen,just a few are really mature enough to accomodate fully....A man immediately begins to earn his respect when he leaves his family house......My candid advice though...

Didn't you discuss all these during the dating period?

You would get what is coming to you. How can a man not be buoyant? Start with one room at worst.

Never a good idea to squat with in-laws after wedding, the relationship always turn sour after some time and the wife is always at the recieving end of insults.

Attention seeking thread.

EfemenaXY:
Attention seeking thread.

What made you think so Ma/Sir?

If both man and woman cannot rent a place between them, then they have no business getting married.

Not even one comment here supported it. its ok.

It most likely won't end well

Polygamous setting again.

Go and rent one room.

I started out with my hubby in his father's house but we were given a flat from the house to stay. And we stayed for 5 years before going to ours. My mother inlaw was like my own mom. We never had any quarrel that last up to a whole day. I think in my situation its because my in laws were a nuclear family and also a born again christian.

In the case of the poster my advice is for them to try and get a room at least and rent. The family is too large for her to handle, no matter how calm and good she is, there will always be someone that will get on her nerves.

Someone ran mad because of this

Pidgin2:
Someone ran mad because of this

You're about sitting on a keg of gunpowder. Enough said!

Thanks everybody for your suggestions