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South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by ebusfav(op): 7:07am On Aug 11, 2017
A 26-year-old South African lady, Aviwe Jam Jam has been found dead in Khayelitsha, Cape Town, few months after escaping her abusive boyfriend.

Aviwe who is suspected to have been beaten to death, was identified by her family on Tuesday after it was found at the Vygieskraal Stadium, Athlone, on July 29, roughly 24km from her home.

According to Captain FC van Wyk, though the post mortem still needed to be concluded however her boyfriend was arrested last week in connection with "several other cases", and is being investigated in connection with her murder.

Speaking to newsmen, Aviwe's aunt Nondumiso Zizi said her niece had told her mother that she had left for Pretoria and that she should not look for her because she was hiding from her boyfriend of several years and father of her 2-year-old child. 

"Aviwe was in an abusive relationship with this boyfriend. Aviwe’s mother tried to warn Aviwe of this, but she wouldn't listen. She loved [her] boyfriend, so there was nothing we could do about it."
"Aviwe’s mother suspected that Aviwe won’t come [back] alive because the way the boyfriend was treating her."

Zizi further disclosed that Aviwe's boyfriend had come to their home, looking for Aviwe and had attacked her stepfather with a panga who had to get 12 stitches after the attack, because he thought the family was hiding Aviwe.


"He [the stepfather] was bleeding and the whole yard was full of blood because of them and the boyfriend climbed on top of him and said they should kill him."

The boyfriend was arrested shortly after for assaulting the stepfather, said Mbalula.

During the visit, Aviwe’s mother Nomthandazo Jam Jam, 56, proudly showed journalists a photo of Aviwe at her graduation.

http://www.lailasblog.com/south-african-lady-who-escaped-abusive-boyfriend-murdered/

Lalasticlala

Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by taylor88(m): 7:12am On Aug 11, 2017
beauty gone







she even died with her pvssy so painful






this a lesson to other chicks out there





give it randomly while u still have the opportunity
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by nairayouthcom(m):
the heart of man is indeed Made up of evil things

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Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by smartty68(m): 7:13am On Aug 11, 2017
Agbero on hard drugs took her life

RIP
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by Twaci(f): 7:17am On Aug 11, 2017
This is what happens when one goes into a relationship with an irresponsible and immature human. Just compare and contrast their looks and you'll see just how young minded he is.

RIP pretty girl.
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by smartty68(m): 7:17am On Aug 11, 2017
taylor88:
beauty gone







she even died with her pvssy so painful






this a lesson to other chicks out there





give it randomly while u still have the opportunity

Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by slex(m): 8:17am On Aug 11, 2017
Obviously the girl was following a young gang boy..money is the reason she stayed with him I think.

Rip jam jam.

Taylor88 pls try to speak with sense next time.
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by marooh: 12:00pm On Aug 11, 2017
No matter what
Arewa and Afonja are still elders in killing biz grin in africa
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by ImpressionsNG: 12:50pm On Aug 11, 2017
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Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by speezyWears: 12:50pm On Aug 11, 2017
Iku ti Kpa..

Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by ekensi01: 12:51pm On Aug 11, 2017
And who killed her if not the boyfriend. (what many would say)
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by benuejosh: 12:51pm On Aug 11, 2017
See his head like...
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by Nobody: 12:51pm On Aug 11, 2017
taylor88:
beauty gone







she even died with her pvssy so painful






this a lesson to other chicks out there





give it randomly while u still have the opportunity
Tell that to your sisters on daily basis. I'm sure you'll pride in that.
Neminc:
Kudos to this brave young man for treating the fvck up of a promiscuous slay queen. She can go and continue her slaying on the other side. Some cowardly men will do nothing while their spouse sleeps around with every tom, dick and harry. This young man decided to stand and fight to restore the dignity and honour of himself and all men around the world. He is a hero and he should be given a national award for his bravery
So he's brave for taking a life?. Seun should do well to ban accounts of people who should be locked up in a mental facility and have the keys thrown away.

Smh.
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by LoveMatchmaker: 12:52pm On Aug 11, 2017
That is terrible

If you are in an abusive relationship or marriage - Please get out of it

Run fast !

You can always find a kind and loving partner that wants marriage on http://lostrib.com?afmc=36a


Whatever you do - Stay alive
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by samuelpolo:
weird happenings

Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by Nobody: 12:52pm On Aug 11, 2017
"Aviwe’s mother tried to warn Aviwe of this, but she wouldn't listen. She loved [her] boyfriend, so there was nothing we could do about it."

Buhari sef sad sad
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by Jabioro: 12:53pm On Aug 11, 2017
The wicked one had help her escape to other side.....
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by Nobody: 12:53pm On Aug 11, 2017
Neminc:
Kudos to this brave young man for treating the fvck up of a promiscuous slay queen. She can go and continue her slaying on the other side. Some cowardly men will do nothing while their spouse sleeps around with every tom, dick and harry. This young man decided to stand and fight to restore the dignity and honour of himself and all men around the world. He is a hero and he should be given a national award for his bravery
Your father failed! embarassed embarassed.....He did not raise you well
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by pellummy(m): 12:53pm On Aug 11, 2017
marooh:
No matter what Arewa and Afonja are still elders in killing biz grin in africa
lMAO...recieve sense
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by MhizzAJ(f): 12:54pm On Aug 11, 2017
RIP
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by Divay22(f): 12:54pm On Aug 11, 2017
Neminc:
Kudos to this brave young man for treating the fvck up of a promiscuous slay queen. She can go and continue her slaying on the other side. Some cowardly men will do nothing while their spouse sleeps around with every tom, dick and harry. This young man decided to stand and fight to restore the dignity and honour of himself and all men around the world. He is a hero and he should be given a national award for his bravery
With this crap up here, you think you made sense abi..

Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by Thobiy(m): 12:54pm On Aug 11, 2017
hmnnn, RIP
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by Dexema(m): 12:55pm On Aug 11, 2017
Twaci:
This is what happens when one goes into a relationship with an irresponsible and immature human. Just compare and contrast their looks and you'll see just how young minded he is.

RIP pretty girl.
But I thought you ladies like "bad boys" or "real men".
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by Nobody: 12:55pm On Aug 11, 2017
So sad. RIP
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by MhizzAJ(f): 12:56pm On Aug 11, 2017
Neminc:
Kudos to this brave young man for treating the fvck up of a promiscuous slay queen. She can go and continue her slaying on the other side. Some cowardly men will do nothing while their spouse sleeps around with every tom, dick and harry. This young man decided to stand and fight to restore the dignity and honour of himself and all men around the world. He is a hero and he should be given a national award for his bravery
Are u okay?
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by FroshJaynex(m): 12:56pm On Aug 11, 2017
Neminc:
Kudos to this brave young man for treating the fvck up of a promiscuous slay queen. She can go and continue her slaying on the other side. Some cowardly men will do nothing while their spouse sleeps around with every tom, dick and harry. This young man decided to stand and fight to restore the dignity and honour of himself and all men around the world. He is a hero and he should be given a national award for his bravery
Are you normal bro??
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by madridguy(m): 12:57pm On Aug 11, 2017
Brilliant submission.

Twaci:
This is what happens when one goes into a relationship with an irresponsible and immature human. Just compare and contrast their looks and you'll see just how young minded he is.

RIP pretty girl.
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by agrovick(m): 12:57pm On Aug 11, 2017
Unfortunately the price paid for her phoolishness is pains for her family
Re: South African Lady Who Escaped Abusive Boyfriend, Murdered by GloryCardinal(m): 12:58pm On Aug 11, 2017
Her bad mouth don kill her maybe she go abuse person wey get mind pass her man.

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