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Fellow Nairalanders, kindly provide insights on why my friend's wife keeps packs of three(3) pieces of condom in his office/laptop bag. The guy in question never had sex until they married Dec. 12, 2015.

How should he handle/react to this act?

Thanks.

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She is encouraging him to use it

Really?

ImaIma1:
She is encouraging him to use it

1. It could be trust issues
2. It could be safety measures cos no one is above temptations.
3. It's actually a wrong step. If your a man is secretly cheating on the wife, he regards her. But, in this case, she's disregarding herself.

She doesn't trust him.
And she's eventually going to spoil him into using it.
She has grown up with the firm belief that "all men cheat".

A. She doesn't trust him.
B. She bought (or has finally bought) the all men cheat mantra.
C. Your friend has been involved in an act that made her lose trust in him (e.g, a disturbing phone chat with a female).
D. Your friend has shown signs he is going to cheat soon (e.g) Flirting with a female colleague.

A woman won't wake up one day to start putting condoms in her husband's bag, something she didn't do when they just got married.

There is something your friend and his wife are not telling.

How should he react? By talking it over with his wife of course. COMMUNICATION.

Putting condoms in his bag won't make him use it _if he isn't that type of man. It's only going to make him very angry with her, this would affect their marriage negatively.

PaperLace:
A. She doesn't trust him.
B. She bought (or has finally bought) the all men cheat mantra.
C. Your friend has been involved in an act that made her lose trust in him (e.g, a disturbing phone chat with a female).
D. Your friend has shown signs he is going to cheat soon (e.g) Flirting with a female colleague.

A woman won't wake up one day to start putting condoms in her husband's bag, something she didn't do when they just got married.

There is something your friend and his wife are not telling.

How should he react? By talking it over with his wife of course. COMMUNICATION.

Putting condoms in his bag won't make him use it _if he isn't that type of man. It's only going to make him very angry with her, this would affect their marriage negatively.

Question
What do you do when communication doesn't work? You keep proving to your woman that you aren't a cheat but she just doesn't listen? I'd like to hear a female's perspective on the matter.

Exactly the scenario here, I just think she feels insecure seeing her husband relating with female friends/colleagues (even her sisters o). She 'ransack' his phone every time he returns from office/official trip, and if she finds nothing she concludes my friend has deleted chats/call logs.

Prognose:
Question
What do you do when communication doesn't work? You keep proving to your woman that you aren't a cheat but she just doesn't listen? I'd like to hear a female's perspective on the matter.

TheShepherd:
Really?

Why else then?