enemyofprogress:
looking at you, your HIV+,don't bother going to check,just go and start your medication

going by ur user name,u av nothing positive in life so no need of wasting time to respond

Meanwhile,l know u need this desperately...

Oboy wetin carry you go do HIV test ?na death sentence u don cause for yourself .All man must die ,so keep calm and enjoy yourself.

lafflaff123:
This is my opinion.

Some will come here to say take heart brother,and blah blah blah.

Hypocrites.

The truth is,there are rewards or consequences for everything we do in life. You contacted it due to your reckless nature, so deal with it.

Now, i hope you don't start distrubuting it.

Others learn from him. Especially the online/real liferuns girls and slay mama's.

I can understand your frustrations especially if you've not taken time to access the number of people living with more dreaded diseases that is incurable, you can't even diagnose what their ailment is - here is my advice ,life has not ended for you ,it has only taught you a lesson probably a bitter one for that matter. How about folks that have lost their sight before or after their 25th birthday ? How about those that woke up with strokes they never planned for ? How about those that died without even any sign of illness , How about those that are missing without anyone knowing if they are alive or dead ? How about those that have never ever been well medically ever since they came into this life ?

I can go on and on without pausing - Life is full of ups and downs and non of us here is aware of what awaits us in the future .Do not give up on yourself right now ,dust yourself and start another phase of your life -You just lost one battle and not your life .With the proper attitude and counseling you can live a productive life for yourself and others around you. Stand up tall and say to yourself ' yes I have made mistakes but this another me now' Nobody's pity or 'sorry' will change where you've found yourself right now and most people won't even care except for some family members who truly love you deeply.

I have learnt one dangerous habit after the things I have seen and it is simple nothing should be too important or too serious to be taken too seriously in this life. Live your life and when you fall stand up again and again and if you can't just pretend you're already standing tall for your own sake and those who you love dearly. As you're their frustrated about your predicament someone very healthy just gave up the ghost in this same planet - Do not give up until you close those eyes forever.

Nigga your own don be

Anyway, HIV is not that deadly if well maintained.

Go back to the hospital & you will be placed on drugs to help you maintain crises

CHESTER48:

I know how difficult it can be. Actually I don't know. But I haven't had sex that much.. Cause I'm so scared to get hiv. Right now I'm having unprotected sex with one single person. My gf. I broke her myself. And that just her.. If I get Hot i usually masturbate. I think it's better than going to have sex with sex worker. When I'm masturbating I'm sure I never get disease or something. I'm a medical student and I know how to protect my self. Sex can be attained by masturbating also. For others if u have kids, teach them about masturbating too. It will help them..

I want to believe you are yet to know the likely aftermath of masturbation, medically. Kindly read it up before being its advocate. Thanks

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Faith is the basis for all miracles and all mysteries which cannot be analyse by science.
Faith is the only antidote for failure
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Calm bro, it's not the end of the world, I once read somewhere dat, "when you stop worrying about your problem, you kill that problem. But where you think and meditate over such problem day and night, that's when it bcomes a killer.

My advise is this, use your drugs, live a normal life and forget or take away d impression that you have contacted HIV, and let faith filled your heart.

GeneralNass:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders, some few days ago i created a thread here https://www.nairaland.com/4044625/slept-180-prostitutes-4-years concerning my strong addition with engaging with different prostitutes, i also saw same topic on yabaleft and gossip mill pages, in which i saw so many thousands of insults not replies and also i made mention of quitting totally from it in which i vowed and swore with my life to God Almighty that the last time i went will forever be my last, i swore never to engage and risks my life and sleeping with different prostitutes, and also i mentioned something like going for an hiv test the next day which is this past monday.

To cut the long story short i summoned courage and went for the text first thing that Monday morning before going to work.

When i arrived at the test center i sat and waited a little while because others were there before me, they all came to do their own different tests, then it got to my turn and my blood sample was taken, and i waited with shaky legs and a racing heart, just a few minutes and the result came in the woman in charge then handled it to me and i glanced through it and behold the unthinkable happened it came out positive (i was HIV positive +v) i just keeps staring at it like a doll, i don't know what to do or say at that moment, the woman was still standing looking at me, then she utter her first words something like it's not the end of the world that i should follow her that she wants to take me to someone for counseling, i was so filled with rage and regrets that i went out at once with so much anger and frustrations, i just went straight home and didn't bother to go to work that day, even up till today i had not gone to work, am just here lying lifeless, that same monday i logged in to nairaland and i saw many mentions urging me to update how the test result went, i don't have any intentions of opening a new topic concerning it, so i replied one of the mentions that it came out positive, since then i haven't logged in to nairaland until now, in which i logged in to read replies on the last page of my previous thread, in which i saw so many replies urging me to create a topic concerning it so that others will be able to learn from my experience.

Sincerely speaking i don't really knows how and where i wants to start in advising those engaging with prostitutes, and also those having sex without condoms. smh

If only u guys really knows how regretful and sorrowful am currently feeling , if only i could turn back the Sands of time, but it's too late to cry before the head is off, it's not worth it.

All because of 10 - 15 minutes pleasures, i used my own hand and money to destroy my life, so many thoughts on my mind right now i don't really knows what to do, am so confused, so i will start living on drugs daily for the rest of my life, me that don't knows how to take drugs also am always feeling the side effects of mostly all drugs i always took, just a little self control would have avoided all this mess i got myself into, i really feels like the ground should just open up and swallow me right now, what will my family say if they eventually finds out, the first son and father of the family, and also the most quiet and cool headed of them all has been infected with hiv virus, none will ever belive that i had ever kissed a girl before talk more of sleeping with different prostitutes, i don't really knows what to do or say anymore, i feels so weak and tired right now, am really so confused and frustrated, i really so messed up right now, i must say that everything in this life has his consequences, the icing of the cake is very sweet so it's the diabetes it could give u will be very bitter, nothing goes for nothing in this life, i must say to u guys my friends and my family that abstinence is the best, if u can't abstain at least use a condom, never u have sex using a condom when u are drunk it's too fatal, sex is sweet so it's the consequences of it is very disastrous if u inventually ran out of luck, the thought of living on drugs for the rests of my life is making me semi_mental, am so fed up with life right now, me that don't knows how to take drugs, me that am always feeling the side effects of taking any drugs all because of sexual pleasures my life has been ruined i can't actually believe that this is really happening, so am now hiv positive, so i have contracted the dreaded hiv virus.


When i was doing it jumping from one girl / prostitutes to the other, i thought i was enjoying life, i thought i was feeling and Banging a soft feminine body, i didn't knew that the feminine body is what will end me, i didn't knew that it's the same feminine body that is going to ruin my life, i didn't knew that it was not worth it, the cons smartly outweighs the pros. I really so full of anger, regrets and frustrations right now, what could easily be avoided, i allowed my stinking sexual urges to be controlling me all this while, all the sex i have had all this while what have i gained? Nothing.
What really pained me most is that all through my life since when i was born i had never and ever had sex without condom and am 100% certain i contracted this from condom breakage, just some little minutes that condom broke before i later noticed, i mentioned it earlier on my first threat that condom had busted about 5times since i started having sex, i definitely knew for sure that was how i contracted this, i have never enjoyed the feeling for once of normal skin to skin sex, i always use condom when ever am having sex, never have i had sex without using condom.

I don't think my life will ever remained as it was before again, just when i have made up my mind about quitting with different prostitutes

Am feeling so weak and tired right now, i can't type anymore, i wants to sleep now.
Goodnight and God's speed be with you all.

God is not interested in your status, He is interested in your change of heart to live the old ways. You need to forgive yourself regrets and despair might lead to self destruction.

There is a difference btw freedom(Calculated responsibility) and free-dom. Give God the chance to heal your broken heart. He (God) loves you more than you can ever imagine. DON'T PRAY FOR HEALING, PRAY FOR MERCY.

Not nice, it could be u and mind u there are so many ways to contact it not just sex.

LadyGoddiva:
I told you so! All those mumu people telling you typhoid and malaria, where are they ? Fucklicant! Ashawo thread patrons, take note.

idupaul:
Why do I have a feeling this thread was intentionally opened by a HIV awareness advocacy group to help spread the word ..any which way it's working because people are learning

God bless you. You are very wise. HIV ko, HIV ni.

The OP doesn't have HIV. The thread is a hoax.

phintohlar:
Haaaa my God,so painful. But den can u pls be kind enough and show me ur real face.

is it that you dont want to give him again or you dont want him to patronize you?

you better stop the business n give ur life to christ or suffer same faith n even more coz all what u could think is for him to show his face instead of u to console him smh
fucking piece of shit

. some people think. virgins are soo old school, at least they will never encounter dis kind problem

Counseling centers, don't give result to patients b4 counseling. u are counseled b4 the result is given to u I believe the lady that gave u the result is an untrained person when it comes to handling HIV/Aids patients. well bro it's not the end of the world at least there are drugs for the management.

Ebios:
back to sender

Cc obontami, abbebyology , sunnymornin and other ashewoboys make una go do test o. I go do my own nextweek

this is the reward for not keeping your joy-stick in one place. moving after anything putting on skirt, you see your life now? i have zero pity for you, this should serve as lesson to the wise once.
Do yourself good by not spreading the disease, it's only God that know how many innocent girls have contracted the disease from you already before your test.

Alcatraz005:


God bless you. You are very wise. HIV ko, HIV ni.

The OP doesn't have HIV. The thread is a hoax.

Omo as I dey see this thread e real o.. Fear don dey catch me sef

I went for lab test in one yeye hospital they tested me and results said I was positive I nearly died of heart attack 5 days later I went to a federal hospital to confirm low and behold 4different types of hiv test was conducted for me which came out negative

Though even before I went for the lab I wasn't sexual active for 8months

I stopped sex from there no more plugging my fuse to a socket

You carry ooh you die you nor carry ooh you die
Never let anything break you down in Life because at the end of the day we all gonna die anyway so 4uck life

HIV comes NOT only through frivolities. I hope you will find strength to live adequately and get over ur present state of mind. be aware that death rarely comes through HIV; it is the state of mind of the carrier that kills more easily.
Many of us are guilty of condom break, nobody holy...I just hope all is well with all of us!

Joeblack01:
Op i honestly don't know what to advise you. Because I don't know half of what you are going through now.

But on a second thought confess your sins and give your life to jesus christ. Allow the holy Spirit to dwell in so that he can vitalise your Body and regenerate your spirit man.
a regenerated man can receive a regenerated health.

Romans 8 : 11

And if the Spirit of Him Who raised up Jesus from the dead dwells in you, [then] He Who raised up Christ Jesus from the dead will also restore to life your mortal (short-lived, perishable) bodies through His Spirit Who dwells in you.

Draw closer to God
He can change your story if only you will allow and have faith in him.

Op,just take these advice.These the best your could get here on nairaland.Though ,I'm not a church type,but seriously,God is what u need now & Him can heal u .
Secondly,please & please,don't spread it ! I know u could get angry to the extend u want to pay back to every lady u meet hence forth,but please OP,I'm on my kneels if that will convince u,please let go ! It's tough,I know,but please,the revenge mission is not worth it.
Third,don't allow depression & frustration to get the better of you.I can feel ur pains bro,but those ( anger,depression & frustration) are u ultimate enemies now,just fight then with whatever u got ! They kill more than even the HIV itself.
And lastly,always remember ur drugs .There are as important to you now as a true good friend will be when u need them.

Wish u the very Best in life sir.#CaringDad.

I'm really sorry about your predicament.

Men who say they're polygamous in nature, can you now see the result? There is a way that seemeth right unto men but the end thereof is destruction.

All because of 10 minutes enjoyment

Reading the other day from University of Ibadan that seroconversion took place in 6 hiv +
subjects who consumed aqueous extract of Nigella sativa aka Black seed daily for 6 months.

OP, take note of this before starting any drug regime.

OkuFaba:
The deed has been done bro.....

I'm still grateful that i've slept with up to 8 differnt girls without condoms minus those i use rubber on. But i don do sex peddlers...

I do test every 3months since its free in hospitals

Just stay healthy and keep taking ur drugs.

I have a friend like you. He doesn't even have infections sef. It appears it's luck but please use protection from now on!

Brother fact that you still alive , means there is still hope for for you . you will become a voice for something great . I would like to speak with you .

phintohlar:
Haaaa my God,so painful. But den can u pls be kind enough and show me ur real face.

so u be runs gal

taoheedoriloye:
. You can rage from now till tomorrow that won't stop the bad new because you were careless ,reckless and not smart enough.
Sorry bro.
Thank god am sharp enough. No sex till marriage. I love my life more than amarababe!

Even in marriage you can still contact it, stop sounding like a fool.

You brought it to yourself but try to check it off your mind so that you will not die of heart attack. Just the feeling that you have the virus is enuf to disorganize your life and health but remaining confident will make you live your life to the fullnest as long as you are taking your drugs and diets.

People engaging in indiscriminate sexual behavior should know that condom is not reliable and abstinence is the best for unmarried while sticking to your partner for the married.

I want to tell you that HIV/AIDS is not the worst disease on earth. There are more deadly diseases like Tuberculosis,cancer of all sorts,Hepatitis B and C,Syphilis,Kidney failure,Diabetes and High blood pressure etc that kills faster than HiV,so don't see your case as the worst,endeavour to visit a government hospital to register with them and start takin your drugs judiciously,you will live longer than you expect provided you don't default with your drugs..Takia of u

U are still among the living. If there is a mouth to pray then there is a God to answer. TB Joshua, Mercy Land and other miracle churches still exist, do find one for your healing and have faith, if I were u I will just relax my case to God through prayers and from his prophets. Call me I can help if u have the finance. 07039120394. In 4months its cured, just that USAID and WHO are delaying the facts my Indian medics have discovered.