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Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by HARDDON: 7:12pm On Jan 12, 2013
safeLove:
I hate hearing these rubbish about a man"getting it elsewhere". Have you seen a 9months pregnant woman before? Looks like something about to pop and you can't control your damn hormones? Instead you want to "get it elsewhere". Well,be my guest. After the baby comes we'll settle that score.

Its this kind of husband that will go on a skirt chasing rampage when the wife gives birth with the stwepid excuse that "she got fat".

Arrant madness. Isi mebie kwa unu!!

Wow wow wow,

Nne biko kulo temper. Enu go?

He isn't goin no where. Not after he put you in tat state.

And you know he vowed to ß by your side tru all seasons . So plz chilax Oº°˚˚°ºK ? ℓ☺ℓz

All we try to d here is educate so that all is kept in shape and in line .

ß there ƒoя each oda . And ofcos, after giving birth, a karing husby shld help Ʊ burn out d excess and Kip fit ƒoя him and health wise.

Regards

D
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by Nobody: 7:17pm On Jan 12, 2013
Hard don, make you no go catch sh.i.it.t.t.t when you go doing it through the back door..you better stick to your wan.k.in.ig..... And leave that woman alone.

cheesy
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by HARDDON: 7:41pm On Jan 12, 2013
Vikin: Hard don, make you no go catch sh.i.it.t.t.t when you go doing it through the back door..you better stick to your wan.k.in.ig..... And leave that woman alone.

cheesy

Rodflmfao!

Comon naw VKkkkkk!

Be civil. ℓ☺ℓz

And hey, a gud fisher man knows exactly where to cast his nets. Hehehe
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by Nobody: 8:01pm On Jan 12, 2013
HARDDON:

Rodflmfao!

Comon naw VKkkkkk!

Be civil. ℓ☺ℓz

And hey, a gud fisher man knows exactly where to cast his nets. Hehehe

You better not cast the net where you will catch crabs or snake fish! grin

You better stick with the popular fish.
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by oseiwe(m): 9:27pm On Jan 12, 2013
I read HARDDON's first reply and I am forced to comment. He must be a warri boy!
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by ninamyers: 10:02pm On Jan 12, 2013
sex is important in pregnancy, it helps, read every woman it's der, jus as long as it's not rough, did it all thru my pregnancy wif my 1st child, really helps @ d later stages in preg. Cos one's pregnant doesn't mean u stop having sex. Wat of ur man's needs, or wld u rather he gets it outside, haba 9months ain't easy without sex, so she shld stop complaining n do it, unless oda wise as per medical reasons, complications den....... coolsex is important in pregnancy, it helps, read every woman it's der, jus as long as it's not rough, did it all thru my pregnancy wif my 1st child, really helps @ d later stages in preg. Cos one's pregnant doesn't mean u stop having sex. Wat of ur man's needs, or wld u rather he gets it outside, haba 9months ain't easy without sex, so she shld stop complaining n do it, unless oda wise as per medical reasons, complications den.......

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Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by HARDDON: 10:05pm On Jan 12, 2013
oseiwe: I read HARDDON's first reply and I am forced to comment. He must be a warri boy!
oseiwe: I read HARDDON's first reply and I am forced to comment. He must be a warri boy!
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by HARDDON: 10:19pm On Jan 12, 2013
nina myers: sex is important in pregnancy, it helps, read every woman it's der, jus as long as it's not rough, did it all thru my pregnancy wif my 1st child, really helps @ d later stages in preg. Cos one's pregnant doesn't mean u stop having sex. Wat of ur man's needs, or wld u rather he gets it outside, haba 9months ain't easy without sex, so she shld stop complaining n do it, unless oda wise as per medical reasons, complications den....... coolsex is important in pregnancy, it helps, read every woman it's der, jus as long as it's not rough, did it all thru my pregnancy wif my 1st child, really helps @ d later stages in preg. Cos one's pregnant doesn't mean u stop having sex. Wat of ur man's needs, or wld u rather he gets it outside, haba 9months ain't easy without sex, so she shld stop complaining n do it, unless oda wise as per medical reasons, complications den.......

Ʈ♓ªƞƘ§ Nina

And ehmm where is that Vk guy. Come and read and get ready ƒoя the future. ℓ☺ℓz
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by Nobody: 11:29pm On Jan 12, 2013
safeLove:
I hate hearing these rubbish about a man"getting it elsewhere". Have you seen a 9months pregnant woman before? Looks like something about to pop and you can't control your damn hormones? Instead you want to "get it elsewhere". Well,be my guest. After the baby comes we'll settle that score.

Its this kind of husband that will go on a skirt chasing rampage when the wife gives birth with the stwepid excuse that "she got fat".

Arrant madness. Isi mebie kwa unu!!



O nkita ga alacha ha anya!!!!.Some men are hopelessly selfish.

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Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by Nobody: 11:35pm On Jan 12, 2013
Please not every preg lady can attempt a BJ.The thought of doing it alone can provoke vomitting in some preg ladies.Please plead with your hubby to empathize with u.Pregnancy no easyooooo.Do the ones u can,invite him each time the pain subsides.I wish you safe delivery.

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Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by Nobody: 11:48pm On Jan 12, 2013
nina myers: sex is important in pregnancy, it helps, read every woman it's der, jus as long as it's not rough, did it all thru my pregnancy wif my 1st child, really helps @ d later stages in preg. Cos one's pregnant doesn't mean u stop having sex. Wat of ur man's needs, or wld u rather he gets it outside, haba 9months ain't easy without sex, so she shld stop complaining n do it, unless oda wise as per medical reasons, complications den....... coolsex is important in pregnancy, it helps, read every woman it's der, jus as long as it's not rough, did it all thru my pregnancy wif my 1st child, really helps @ d later stages in preg. Cos one's pregnant doesn't mean u stop having sex. Wat of ur man's needs, or wld u rather he gets it outside, haba 9months ain't easy without sex, so she shld stop complaining n do it, unless oda wise as per medical reasons, complications den.......




True talk sister. I don't have problem with sex while preg too but some women actually feel pain once the stomach is big.A friend of mine started bleeding at 6months due to over activity from hubby.I think every woman's body is different.May be the Op feels extreme pain.
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by Whobedatte(m): 1:58am On Jan 13, 2013
LISTEN TO FOLA THE BOSS LADY ON NIGERIA INFO 99.3 SHE IS AN EXPERT IN ISSUES LIKE THIS, AND IM SURE SHE HAS TREATED SIMILAR TOPICS IN HER PROGRAMME. BUT WE MEN SHA, CANT WE EVEN SACRIFICE SOME FEW MONTHS SEEING UR WIFE IN HEAVY TOMMY , COMPLAINING OF CRAMPS AND STILL WANTING TO PENETRATE HER? CHEI WOMEN DON SUFFER OOO kiss cry

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Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by Nobody: 8:46am On Jan 13, 2013
HARDDON: ℓ☺ℓz @ Sanchez.

@ OP, love making isn't all about penetration. There r oda angles.

If he is d active type, he shld have discovered ways to ease out his tension by naw.

If he hasnt, here goes:

1) mouth action : this was what Sanchez was tryina relate in a sarcastic way. She cud help him out tru dis method . Work d beast until it succumbs. And while @ it, run ha hands down his spine, squeeze em nips and generally get him waga. While he ofcos must concentrate n touch ha too. So that it does not wear ha out
Tho it takes an experienced gurl to roll dis lane.

2) boobzz knead: dere is a great succulent deep btw d two mounds of liberty. Boobzz is not only ƒoя sucking. Wen d going down d southern hemisphere gets RED, sharps guys turn to dese succulent manCHESters foя deliverance. Wheda Ʊ sit and she kneels inbtw ür legs, place d hot dog inbtw d soft orbs and knead away. Or otherwise. Explore. bliv ♏ԑ, d story is S̶̲̥̅w̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣ε̲̣̣†er with som nice huge jogzz

3) Arsezz to d rescue: if she is blessed with big bootyzz, she can lie on ha side, the guy lies behind( after d hawt romance ofcos) part d bootyzz, place d joyrod, and ride away. D joyrod is a blind baga. It enjoys soft feelings that tend to grip it. So give it all d softness you can afford ånd it wud assume itz d main tin! Hehehe

4) if she does not ĸпoω haw to work wonders with ha mouth, the hands can do it . She cud suck d nips while ha hand grips and stroke d joyrod. NB: joyrod loves hard grip.

A whole lota ways out there! Just make sure you kip your man @ home! This is a very trying time in younger marriages. D way dey handle dis cud bond dεм more, or break dem! And once d guy's head gets tilted out cos d wify isn't responding to his advances, he wudnt just end with oηε undergraduate, he wud explore more!

Regards,

H D
orisirisi! Pervert!

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Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by Nobody: 8:50am On Jan 13, 2013
Whobedatte: LISTEN TO FOLA THE BOSS LADY ON NIGERIA INFO 99.3 SHE IS AN EXPERT IN ISSUES LIKE THIS, AND IM SURE SHE HAS TREATED SIMILAR TOPICS IN HER PROGRAMME. BUT WE MEN SHA, CANT WE EVEN SACRIFICE SOME FEW MONTHS SEEING UR WIFE IN HEAVY TOMMY , COMPLAINING OF CRAMPS AND STILL WANTING TO PENETRATE HER? CHEI WOMEN DON SUFFER OOO kiss cry
abi o.i used to wonder.but some women have extraordinarily high libido when they are pregnant.women differ sha,just like i am always Hot when am menstrating and loose apetite for sex when am not menstrating
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by Nobody: 9:20am On Jan 13, 2013
nina myers: sex is important in pregnancy, it helps, read every woman it's der, jus as long as it's not rough, did it all thru my pregnancy wif my 1st child, really helps @ d later stages in preg. Cos one's pregnant doesn't mean u stop having sex. Wat of ur man's needs, or wld u rather he gets it outside, haba 9months ain't easy without sex, so she shld stop complaining n do it, unless oda wise as per medical reasons, complications den....... coolsex is important in pregnancy, it helps, read every woman it's der, jus as long as it's not rough, did it all thru my pregnancy wif my 1st child, really helps @ d later stages in preg. Cos one's pregnant doesn't mean u stop having sex. Wat of ur man's needs, or wld u rather he gets it outside, haba 9months ain't easy without sex, so she shld stop complaining n do it, unless oda wise as per medical reasons, complications den.......

My dear, just as sex is important, your health also matters. You succeeded in getting it does not mean others will. You based yours on what your man needs( in this case WANT) and your are lucky to succeed.

Clearly the poster is worried because she is not comfortable. Maybe is not a smooth ride for her as pregnancy is different from people. Just like you mentioned....those are likely her reasons. So, you are not in the position to tell her to stop complaining. Haba! Pity the lady na?
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by Nobody: 9:29am On Jan 13, 2013
HARDDON:

Ʈ♓ªƞƘ§ Nina

And ehmm where is that Vk guy. Come and read and get ready ƒoя the future. ℓ☺ℓz

Lol, you should get ready for future not me! grin

Don't console yourself as clearly she Nina wasn't talking about Men with xtra lage 16" arrow co.o.r.k.k. Like you! You Berra do something about that your weapon of mass distraction. grin grin
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by tishat(f): 4:33pm On Jan 13, 2013
She even need the sex more now she is due,sexis one of the ways to help open up the cervix fast.

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Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by HARDDON: 6:38pm On Jan 13, 2013
Vikin:

Lol, you should get ready for future not me! grin

Don't console yourself as clearly she Nina wasn't talking about Men with xtra lage 16" arrow co.o.r.k.k. Like you! You Berra do something about that your weapon of mass distraction. grin grin

V! ℓ☺ℓz

Be civil . Dere r alota kids running arnd on here.

And ehmm , you cudnt ß so sure abt my :x :p

And hey? ∂at cudnt be Ʊ on uя ₯? ....and to fink i'v bin refering to Ʊ as a guy?
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by Nobody: 6:49pm On Jan 13, 2013
HARDDON:

V! ℓ☺ℓz

Be civil . Dere r alota kids running arnd on here.

And ehmm , you cudnt ß so sure abt my :x :p

And hey? ∂at cudnt be Ʊ on uя ₯? ....and to fink i'v bin refering to Ʊ as a guy?




You are not the first to refer to me as a guy! I forgive you!

And...

You shouldn't be the one to tell me to be civil after your listed steps of drilling a well unconventionally. lipsrsealed
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by Nobody: 9:34pm On Jan 13, 2013
safeLove:
I hate hearing these rubbish about a man"getting it elsewhere". Have you seen a 9months pregnant woman before? Looks like something about to pop and you can't control your damn hormones? Instead you want to "get it elsewhere". Well,be my guest. After the baby comes we'll settle that score.

Its this kind of husband that will go on a skirt chasing rampage when the wife gives birth with the stwepid excuse that "she got fat".

Arrant madness. Isi mebie kwa unu!!

eassy na...its jst a nland topic
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by EfemenaXY: 9:56pm On Jan 13, 2013
It's all about individual preferences.

Different strokes for different folks, I'll say.

@Harddon - interesting concepts you've got here cheesy
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by HARDDON: 1:44am On Jan 14, 2013
Vikin:

You are not the first to refer to me as a guy! I forgive you!

And...

You shouldn't be the one to tell me to be civil after your listed steps of drilling a well unconventionally. lipsrsealed


Ƒoя once i was beginning to watch ma a55 closely cos of you ! ℓ☺ℓz . You had beta tick d (f) §☺̣̣̥̇ we all ĸпoω d genda taxonomy you blong. Or r Ʊ shy? Tomboy? Hehehe *sticks tongue out

Wow wonder woman?! Drilling a well unconventionally? You r mos def @ home with words aint chu?

Bsides, ma tactical sensors were constantly scanning tru to make sure kids gets lulled. D1ck turned jrod and d likes.

All steps were with an acute air of decorum you wud agree? Wink wink
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by HARDDON: 1:48am On Jan 14, 2013
Efemena_xy: It's all about individual preferences.

Different strokes for different folks, I'll say.

@Harddon - interesting concepts you've got here cheesy

Oh yea?

Ʈ♓ªƞƘ§

But hey, if you quote ♏ԑ anywhere else, I'd deny it , I'd deny you . ℓ☺ℓz
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by Nobody: 10:57pm On Jan 15, 2013
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by Nobody: 7:34am On Jan 16, 2013
I say he stops thinking with his Diiick and start thinking about the delivery of his child...I don't even think its healthy for a pregnant woman to be giving MouthAction that is jus disgusting...in case she swallows something the baby gets it too...some men are jus beyond disgusting and inconsiderate
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by Nobody: 9:41am On Jan 16, 2013
Nice thread! I ll implore the poster to try satisfy her man (in any simple way she can)! When he sees you re trying to do that: He ll help out in all ways so as not to hurt you or your baby. Men have feelings too.
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by Nobody: 9:55am On Jan 16, 2013
I'm about 5 months preg now,we have segZ like every 2 days at the minimum.I have needs too abeg and don't want a frustrated husband on my hands..

There are several positions that you can do if you just dont have the energy..lie by your side and let him exhaust himself..If naturally he's no good in bed and you've been faking or g.asms please invest in a solid vibr ator.Your life will never be the same.

There are other alternatives though,correct Hjob using a durex tingle lube while providing a visual stimulant..If u cannot give a Bj or dont want to risk getting your jaws locked,stick to Hjobs ,he will thank you later..

If a man is loving and helpful towards his pregnant wife,she won't be that stressed and would be more receptive to se x ual advances.

For those with low to zero libido,sorry sah..invest in vaseline and soap.
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by toygod2: 3:15am On Dec 14, 2013
tanx...i wil pass
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by Connoisseur(m): 8:01am On Dec 14, 2013
sanchez4eva: Lolz...lemme give you a hint...if the gynaecologist says its not okay when the woman is pregnant,ask the dentist if it is okay....do you understand?

badt guy
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by baralatie(m): 11:37am On Dec 14, 2013
Woman carry belle 4 nine months.that no be smal work.
D man dey cry say im wife no give am yansh!
Wetin the baby go talk!
Na wa o!
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by Dnockeror333(m): 6:25am On Sep 14, 2017


She maybe enduring the xtra large 16" pointed arrow when she hasn't conceived. Now d belly enter, it's a different ball game. Couple with the fact that he might take a very long time to arrive. grin

Pls, I beg all women that find themselves in this category, avoid intimacy.x.x. Until baby arrive, let the guy sort himself out Abeg!

I don't want your babies to have holes in their heads because of constant strafing.

Just my advise.

Hard don, I suspect you fall on this category, better look for alternative when that time comes.

I don talk my own finish cheesy

Oh no, striking & discret! Thats okay, HIV, AID or STD's from the external is more fatal than managing the home!

Give him a penal stroke, take hm up to dido temple, strike him frm ur front while sitting on the floor and he putting his bak to you, stradle his rake to go out into higher bluez!

You see, woman, its good to love him till even the emmerging whispers of death! Neva cn such ones forget the `sex machines'!

Lov u modaz.
Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by skressed1: 10:09am On Sep 16, 2017
This is hilarious. Some people do not have sex at all during a pregnancy. I'm sure the guy didn't die from abstinence from sex for a couple of months until the wife gave birth and recovered

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