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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by supereagle(m): 4:28am On Sep 23, 2017
adeniyisamuel59:Let me give my little medical advice:Tell him to stop taking anything sugary like carbonated drinks, soluble sugar etc, let him take muchwater especially in the early morning when he has not eating food; at least 50cl of water.Having said that, drugs can also be introduced to fix it up such as:1. VigRx2. Talafil3. sidnafil4. vigor capsule5. Rovigon.Thank me later and remember to invite me to naming ceremony [quote][/quote]
Don't use those drugs if he's on anti hypertensive, if you don't want him to die.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by totorimi: 4:30am On Sep 23, 2017
It is normal.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by IkpuMmadu: 4:46am On Sep 23, 2017
jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!

Lasting isn't the thing that gives you a child....do you want a child or do you want to act porn

If you want a child ...don't worry about him lasting
Worry about regular sex
Worry about health of his semen and your eggs
Worry about ovulation


That's all

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by IkpuMmadu: 4:48am On Sep 23, 2017
hooklover:
Ladies and problem haha. U Bleep long Bleep like I do attimes dry will complain of tiredness u Bleep short 30sec Bleep dey will complain.

Many married ladies are just sere to answer married so other ladies can respect dem.....

Their pussy is not been serviced as a wen due....

Marriage does not solve sex problem.
Variety of sex options is d spice of marriage.

Married ladies who Bleep outside are better wives and less burden to husband.... She is more happy from research..in [b]Wellington post... [/b]

Married ladies don't die on one dick.. Taste others but make sure u are not caught.....

You must be a Yoruba person to give this advise
I like it
Very sophisticated of you
Nice one

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Babyurgly1(f): 4:50am On Sep 23, 2017
U want to save d ego of someone who blames u for his mistakes? What are u? Poster d saviour? Hehehe!!! I laff in Swahili.
Ur husband doesn't have any problem, he is simply seeing another woman and doesn't want u anymore. Find a way to fix that. Goodluck.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by IkpuMmadu: 4:52am On Sep 23, 2017
Foxyn:
I bang my girlfriend without a Durex & sex booster yet, i last upto 30mins in which she always end up complaining though she loves it. Now ur husband last for 30sec and you're still complaining. Hmm.. Would really love to have sex with u.. At least to help u recover all the days you've wasted with a 30sec man

30 mins....you must be a talent...go and so porn

Next is are you up to 30
Are you married...
Do you have people your taking care of
Do you have bills your paying
Do you have salaries to pay
Do you have school fees to pay
Are you thinking when next you bring food in the table



If you think these...lasting even 5 min on top of a woman would be the last thing on your mind ....trust me

Me passed this stage years ago..you will remember

Men don't worry how many hours they last...boys do
Men have better things to worry about

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Peterosky(m): 5:04am On Sep 23, 2017
Kimkardashain:
your husband is seeing another woman.
dip deeper ma'am
.Darling, this advice or insinuation is very destructive and unnecessary please. I love you.

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by odaniel1(m): 5:12am On Sep 23, 2017
Kimkardashain:
your husband is seeing another woman. dip deeper ma'am
Just how jumpy is jumping into conclusions with women?..... Lol...she didt evn waste time!

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by defash8: 5:16am On Sep 23, 2017
You both need to see specialist. Try to know the emotional/work stress he is going through & offer solution if possible. Both of you need to engage in exercise & eat healthy (including fruits).
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by odaniel1(m): 5:16am On Sep 23, 2017
IamLEGEND1:
Any man that doesn't last up to a minute doesn't deserve to have an ego...
Next time he tries to blame you in front of family, fucking_destroy him.

As In, smash the fragile mofo to bits then walk back and forth on the pieces.
yeah like feed him the pieces too!..TF! Really? He shud kill himself because its entirely his fault.
PE (premature ejaculation) is no man's fault, it is as impromptu as a nosy mother-in-law
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by trumpcoat(m): 5:23am On Sep 23, 2017
thorpido:
How old is the baby now?First thing first,I think you should move back to the same room.

You need to both have a long discussion about your sex life.There something wrong and you need to address it.You need to find out from him if there's anything about you that is not making him desire you.You might need to work on that aspect(I'm not saying you are the reason for his behaviour).
He obviously has premature ejaculation issues but his ego won't let him address it.Do you have a family doctor you think you can speak to?If you have one,both of you should visit and you address it.If there's an elderly confidant that you know can talk about it to,you should speak to the person.

Stress might be a big factor in your hubby's life now,so you need to eliminate that.If that is not a problem,you may need to know if his attention is somewhere else.

Three years of marriage is too short for you as a couple to start having intimacy conundrum
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Caprigal: 5:29am On Sep 23, 2017
Its like every night the mods will go and bring out writing materials to concoct tales by moonlight to deceive nairalanders and draw traffic. This thread is one of such creations.
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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Olabodes: 5:38am On Sep 23, 2017
muller101:
am chairman of 2min man in my street and i dnt put the blame on my wife
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Olabodes: 5:39am On Sep 23, 2017
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muller101:
am chairman of 2min man in my street and i dnt put the blame on my wife
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Omadachi(m): 5:41am On Sep 23, 2017
Just let him know your concern.Find the right time to approach him about this.Every family has it own peculiar problem.Togethet you can put head together with understanding to solve it.

All the best as you take the bold step.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by correctguy101(m): 5:55am On Sep 23, 2017
hooklover:


Send d married lady coming to ur flat to my crib to play I play with them regularly..

I am used to their play.. If u don't know how to play d game I can assist..... I specialise in that area of play...
hope you can last forever on top her "matter" grin
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by correctguy101(m): 5:56am On Sep 23, 2017
Billyonaire:


The Cause of the man's sex problem is the same thing that makes him lie that his wife is the problem. He does not know how to communicate. He is governed by emotional immaturity. By the way, if your neighbor's wife play rough play with you, please do not touch her, especially if she is very beautiful. Just send me her number grin

hahaha, don't you ever get sated with some things. cheesy
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by methuael: 6:00am On Sep 23, 2017
Please visit a gynaecologist
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by knowhowk: 6:02am On Sep 23, 2017
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by zeepapa(m): 6:12am On Sep 23, 2017
u dnt ave to beg him joor,just inbox me lemme do it 4 u.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by hooklover: 6:13am On Sep 23, 2017
correctguy101:

hope you can last forever on top her "matter" grin

Na small thing.... I go die dere sef with enough gist set as I set fire dey go..
I go tell her stories of how I was able to make ladies like her happy with over 5yrs experience in servicing married ladies in ph...

She will hear stories and finally confirm her case is different ..

I will introduce her to d club she will hear testimonies of how I made married ladies happy in dere marriage....
I know Wat to tell dem.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by sisisioge: 6:19am On Sep 23, 2017
IkpuMmadu:


30 mins....you must be a talent...go and so porn

Next is are you up to 30
Are you married...
Do you have people your taking care of
Do you have bills your paying
Do you have salaries to pay
Do you have school fees to pay
Are you thinking when next you bring food in the table



If you think these...lasting even 5 min on top of a woman would be the last thing on your mind ....trust me

Me passed this stage years ago..you will remember

Men don't worry how many hours they last...boys do
Men have better things to worry about


He was lying...they are mostly mouthy sloobs
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Jonwesley(m): 6:20am On Sep 23, 2017
jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!

Lies, from the pit of hell. Ok, go the next round and tell us the result of his performance. Or was it only one round you guys do always? What's the performance before the first pregnancy please?
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Ten06(m): 6:21am On Sep 23, 2017
This type of behavior is always common with people who are hypertensive, please sit him down and discuss with him and advice him to go and see a doctor. He still love you but he is afraid his erection will fail him that is why he is avoiding you.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by EmmyDe25(m): 6:22am On Sep 23, 2017
CosmeticChemist:


Are you OK ?.. Looks like you need a mental evaluation.
I dont even understand what NL has turned into. That explains why i hardly come here again. Someone will come for advice. People will be here derailing saying shits.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Ishilove: 6:25am On Sep 23, 2017
Foxyn:
I bang my girlfriend without a Durex & sex booster yet, i last upto 30mins in which she always end up complaining though she loves it. Now ur husband last for 30sec and you're still complaining. Hmm.. Would really love to have sex with u.. At least to help u recover all the days you've wasted with a 30sec man
30 mins? It seems you don't have serious responsibilities.

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by blackie01(m): 6:29am On Sep 23, 2017
IkpuMmadu:


Lasting isn't the thing that gives you a child....do you want a child or do you want to act porn

If you want a child ...don't worry about him lasting
Worry about regular sex
Worry about health of his semen and your eggs
Worry about ovulation


That's all

So women don't deserve sexual satisfaction? A woman who doesn't have orgasm from her man will always give you attitude.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Kimkardashain(f): 6:32am On Sep 23, 2017
Peterosky:
.Darling, this advice or insinuation is very destructive and unnecessary please. I love you.
lol ok i admit i was very quick to type but if trully he's suffering from quick ejaculation, isn't marriage for better and for worse? why not tell ur wife and together you guys can seek the solution.

and 4 the othe guys that are busy showing their level of IQ, stay off my part.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Sike(m): 6:38am On Sep 23, 2017
But 30secs is way too small ooo

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