₦airaland Forum

TheSonOfMark:
While I believe rape is a topical issue which shouldn't be swept beneath floor coverings and a significant number of men are perpetrators of the despicable act,

ibkayee:
Some guys have a disturbing sense of entitlement. It wasn't rape but there was one nutcase on here that had a meltdown and wanted to get a girl's nudes for turning him down for sex, never seen anything so pathetic in my life

lilmax:
clothes got nothing to do with rape, it's more of being moral

so any guy that tells you he rapes because of clothes is full of crap

OldBeer:
It is on this Nairaland that I knew that the vast majority of Nigerian men are potential rapists.
There are only very few decent ones here.
In fact when rape threads are taken to frontpage, I do not read past the first comment in order to preserve my sanity.
I just feel for women in this clime.

ibkayee:
Some guys have a disturbing sense of entitlement. It wasn't rape but there was one nutcase on here that had a meltdown and wanted to get a girl's nudes for turning him down for sex, never seen anything so pathetic in my life

chic2pimp:
Apostle Paul

ibkayee:
Lol I didn't say it please

chic2pimp:
Neither Did I ...Apostle nah joke I dey joke o . I fit send you IBK's nudes make we call am truce

NLmember:
Here's the original link with more stories
http://news.sky.com/story/amp/shocking-attitudes-to-rape-in-south-africa-10433820


[b] The most common theme in this is a sense of entitlement to women's bodies and an inability to empathize with women as human beings.
Men feel entitled to a woman & if a girl refuses them they see it as their right to use force.

Nigerian men are very guilty of this. I remember the big brother Naija 2017 scandal where Kemen crept into bed with Tboss while she was asleep and looked around to see if everyone was asleep, after checking for privacy, he started attempting to finger her vagina and she woke up immediately and turned away from him blocking his access to her private parts.
This was the same kemen who recommended ways to drug a drunk girl and rape her to his friends. Yet Nigerians consisting of males and females (with mental problems) showed him tremendous support when the scandal blew open and accused Tboss of seducing him with her beauty.


Worst part is that society enables this nonsense. Instead of putting more effort into sensitizing both males and females why rape is wrong, we see people telling women to cover up or blame themselves if they get raped.

Disgusting to say the least. [/b]

lilmax:
clothes got nothing to do with rape, it's more of being moral

so any guy that tells you he rapes because of clothes is full of crap

NLmember:
Yeah, a lot of guys and foolish idiot females still blame women for causing their rape because they dressed skimpy. Sad actually. I see it on Nairaland and Facebook, people advicing women to prevent rape by covering up.

OldBeer:
It is on this Nairaland that I knew that the vast majority of Nigerian men are potential rapists.
There are only very few decent ones here.
In fact when rape threads are taken to frontpage, I do not read past the first comment in order to preserve my sanity.
I just feel for women in this clime.

NLmember:
Na me pity them pass. From physical assault to molestation to infidelity of their husbands, they are blamed for everything. Anyway thats another topic entirely.

chic2pimp:
Neither Did I ...Apostle nah joke I dey joke o . I fit send you IBK's nudes make we call am truce

fredoooooo:
Sister Ibkayee and Pastor Chic2pimp God has been Good I guess ... eyin oluwa logo ...ogooooo!!!!!

cococandy:
At least 70 percent of the population on nairaland are rapists. (These includes all those who go "I don't support what he did but...). If you're starting your
Comment on a rape thread with something like that or similar, then you're one of those that I'm talking about.


In real life, I hope they are not though.
But on NL the type of things they type when a woman gets raped shows they internally empathize with the rapist rather than the victim.
What you type under cover of anonymity shows what you can do when you're in private or in a place where no one knows you.