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Is This Normal? by Ceccylia(op): 11:55pm On Jan 06, 2016
To all the mothers/fathers in the house,I want to know if this is normal.
I went to visit one of my church members in the house during the festive period.
She's like a big sister to me,married with kids(3) all boys.She called the boys to come and say hi and when they were about leaving she said to them,boys come n kiss mummy. To my surprise they all kissed her,mouth to mouth o.It took the last born like 1 minutes before he stopped kissing he's mum.I was shocked.
She saw it in me that I was surprise and she just said Arugbo ara ni mofi biwon jokingly. Ejo eyin abiamo,nje o normal?
Re: Is This Normal? by herboshedhe(f): 12:02am On Jan 07, 2016
grin angry grin
Re: Is This Normal? by Ceccylia(op): 12:31am On Jan 07, 2016
herboshedhe:
grin angry grin
What is funny Madam?
Re: Is This Normal? by sdeensquare(m): 12:57am On Jan 07, 2016
u should av asks for kisses too



u knw sey something no normal

u still dey ask[color=#000099][/color] grin
Re: Is This Normal? by Exponental(m): 6:52am On Jan 07, 2016
A peck would have been perfect.
Re: Is This Normal? by lilmax(m): 7:04am On Jan 07, 2016
Smh,when she's 80 na that time you go know whether it's normal

Come and kiss mummy huh
Re: Is This Normal? by Nobody: 7:14am On Jan 07, 2016
Its normal. She's building up a good mindset for them abt women and how they'll handle their wives in future. The benifit isn't now its when they grow and become men.

That's d way I wanna relate with my daughters too when I marry.
Re: Is This Normal? by Ceccylia(op): 10:44am On Jan 07, 2016
[quote author=RadicallyBlunt post=41733713]Its normal. She's building up a good mindset for them abt women and how they'll handle their wives in future. The benifit isn't now its when they grow and become men.

That's d way I wanna relate with my daughters too when I marry. [/quot Are you for real?
Re: Is This Normal? by Nobody: 11:36am On Jan 07, 2016
Mind your business. Tojubolé
Re: Is This Normal? by Nobody: 11:37am On Jan 07, 2016
Ceccylia:
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Yeah absolutely. My mother was d exact reverse of the lady described in d op. Hers is flogging with nailed plank to bleeding point and starving me for days as punishment. I was only a little boy at tender age and children are fond of mistakes. She was a perfectionist. No one ever seem to get it right b4 her. If not for d repect of a mother sha but I'm not proud of some of her actions and they remain fresh in my memory.
Re: Is This Normal? by Nobody: 1:09pm On Jan 07, 2016
That's a loving mother. I'm surprised that the op is surprised with this level of intimacy. undecided
Re: Is This Normal? by Ceccylia(op): 2:37pm On Jan 07, 2016
RadicallyBlunt:
Yeah absolutely. My mother was d exact reverse of the lady described in d op. Hers is flogging with nailed plank to bleeding point and starving me for days as punishment. I was only a little boy at tender age and children are fond of mistakes. She was a perfectionist. No one ever seem to get it right b4 her. If not for d repect of a mother sha but I'm not proud of some of her actions and they remain fresh in my memory.
Ehyah,sorry about that.
Pls forgive ur mum.
Re: Is This Normal? by austine4real(m): 4:58pm On Jan 07, 2016
U didnt ask 4 ur own y?
Re: Is This Normal? by Ceccylia(op): 5:44pm On Jan 07, 2016
Joavid:
Mind your business. Tojubolé
I know your type,you sha want to comment
Re: Is This Normal? by Pidggin(f): 8:20pm On Jan 07, 2016
No, it's not normal, but what can you do about it?
Re: Is This Normal? by Adesiji77: 6:56am On Jul 07, 2016
Ceccylia:
To all the mothers/fathers in the house,I want to know if this is normal.
I went to visit one of my church members in the house during the festive period.
She's like a big sister to me,married with kids(3) all boys.She called the boys to come and say hi and when they were about leaving she said to them,boys come n kiss mummy. To my surprise they all kissed her,mouth to mouth o.It took the last born like 1 minutes before he stopped kissing he's mum.I was shocked.
She saw it in me that I was surprise and she just said Arugbo ara ni mofi biwon jokingly. Ejo eyin abiamo,nje o normal?
The "mouth to mouth" get as e be o... lipsrsealed

Ishilove, how you see am?
Re: Is This Normal? by Bigsteveg(m): 10:01pm On Sep 07, 2017
Ceccylia:
To all the mothers/fathers in the house,I want to know if this is normal.
I went to visit one of my church members in the house during the festive period.
She's like a big sister to me,married with kids(3) all boys.She called the boys to come and say hi and when they were about leaving she said to them,boys come n kiss mummy. To my surprise they all kissed her,mouth to mouth o.It took the last born like 1 minutes before he stopped kissing he's mum.I was shocked.
She saw it in me that I was surprise and she just said Arugbo ara ni mofi biwon jokingly. Ejo eyin abiamo,nje o normal?
It happens, I think it's how we think of it that matters. She is just showing them love. Iya awon boiz
By the way, nice pics. U look beautiful. I'll like to know you more.
Re: Is This Normal? by Ceccylia(op): 2:18am On Sep 08, 2017
Bigsteveg:
It happens, I think it's how we think of it that matters. She is just showing them love. Iya awon boiz
By the way, nice pics. U look beautiful. I'll like to know you more.
Lol, thank u for the compliment �
Re: Is This Normal? by ImFortress(m): 10:20pm On Oct 12, 2017
RadicallyBlunt:
Yeah absolutely. My mother was d exact reverse of the lady described in d op. Hers is flogging with nailed plank to bleeding point and starving me for days as punishment. I was only a little boy at tender age and children are fond of mistakes. She was a perfectionist. No one ever seem to get it right b4 her. If not for d repect of a mother sha but I'm not proud of some of her actions and they remain fresh in my memory.
And you had to say this in public. What a shame
Re: Is This Normal? by Afam4eva(m): 3:10am On Oct 13, 2017
That behavior is not normal but that doesn't mean that it is somehow morally wrong. It's a foreign culture that some of our people have inculcated. To each his own.
Re: Is This Normal? by Diamond23(f): 6:17am On Oct 13, 2017
[color=#770077][/color]It's not normal, a peck would v been beta. This absurd character from parents sometimes is because of too much watching E!,Zee world, telemound and imitating celebrities.
Re: Is This Normal? by ImFortress(m): 11:46am On Oct 13, 2017
Diamond23:
[color=#770077][/color]It's not normal, a peck would v been beta. This absurd character from parents sometimes is because of too much watching E!,Zee world, telemound and imitating celebrities.
On point
Re: Is This Normal? by Nobody: 8:57am On Dec 16, 2017
ImFortress:
And you had to say this in public. What a shame
If you don't know how to comprehend points, you have no business replying
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