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sway112:
try to spend time with her, a woman can react to something in another way ... take her out ...tell her you love her after every prayer ...Tell her that you are feeling the good effect of her prayers ....you know ...cook up something

what if she is naira lander and she is also seeing all these write ups.... Just saying though

Wrongchoice come and continue, I know you just wants to share your experience, not seeking for advice cause I know all advice up there won't help...that's what today women are, only for God to help in not making a wrong choice

ReneeNuttall:
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Thanks lolz

Flexy2009:
what if she is naira lander and she is also seeing all these write ups.... Just saying though

Na bad thing I talk.... Mbok if u are the wife make u allow oga sleep ooo

sway112:
Thanks lolz

I no even sabi wetin I type sef.All the same ywc.

wrongchoice:
I opened this new account to narrate my ordeal on how my marriage got to a near collapse now. i want people to learn from my experience, so, i will be getting different topics on this account how we got to this stage.

We stay in a room and parlor. I work in private firm and she works in a private secondary school as a teacher. We are blessed with a child.
When we got married 3 years ago, we used to pray together at least every morning and night but latter I had to stop praying with her for the following reasons;

1..Her prayer is mostly about attacking people most especially people that are close to me both male and female. Sometimes she would pray so that some will have accident ,some to run mad and all those kind of prayers . Even my boss at work inclusive for making me to stay beyond working hours sometimes .This irritates me a lot and so much against my belive on how to pray.

2..She curse more than a winch though under the seal of Jesus name and blood. This doesn’t make her different from a wicked herbalist in my own view.

3..And lastly, I later stopped praying with her when She would always wake up around 12 am to pray and fire till around 3 am .she will wake up again around 5 am preparing for the office.

4…Sometimes she would talk from 12am till 4am. I will wake up and sleep and still wake again to find her still talking on irrelevant.
She can do this for days. I do enjoy my sleep at best if she starts by 3 or 4. I have told her the effects of this on me.it always make me inactive in the office. It got to a stage I was not feeling fine without any physical sign. I had to go to the hospital for test and nothing was diagnosed. I knew I needed rest . Meanwhile, I am a kind of person that love thanking God for who I am and I love interceding for people around.
I told her and warned her to limit the hours so that I can have a good rest but she won’t listen instead she took it to another level each day. She was doing it as if I was against Christ or have a devil in me she wants to chase away with prayer.
Due to this, I later started having nightmares on almost on daily bases. I later started sleeping in the sitting room. Sometimes she would come and start singing and praying again. She forced me to tell a family friend and they told her the effects it may have on me again. So she stopped coming to the sitting room to pray again.

Funny enough, I am always sleeping fine in the sitting room and its now 6 months and I am enjoying it . To make it worst our bedroom is like a shrine to me now. I only enter, change my cloth after bath or change to house ware after work then retire to the sitting room till the following morning. In the last 6 months I don’t think I have spent up to five mints in the bedroom.
This is just one out of 100 things happing in my home which I will be sharing one after the other here for people to learn most especially people that want to marry. Presently, the home is about finally collapsing.

Next is write will be on the two major things I learnt from my marriage .

I am now afraid of marriage

fabiano09:
bro your wife is clinically bipolar, these signs are the early onset symptoms,just do a little research, you are in for a ride bro,

Bipolar!
Really!!! Jst frm this hx suggesting (persecutory) delusion?
Me really don't think so.
Simply put, Bipolar disorder consists of Depression alternating with Mania wc is obviously not the case here.

salt1:
What spiritual battle is she fighting? How can you defend this?
The married woman should care about how to please her husband otherwise she's displeasing God.
I have zero tolerance for fanatics. They make Christianity an eccentric religion. Where did Jesus or His apostles teach that a wife should be waking her husband up every night screaming at imaginary enemies?
This young man is s*x- starved and care- starved. If he backs out of the marriage, she will still blame imaginary enemies.
Please op, send for her family. I'm handling a similar case and the woman has developed a fullblown psychiatric problem. Please act fast. If she can still be reasoned with, good. Otherwise take her to the nearest psychiatric hospital. Show her what I wrote.
She needs help because she may degenerate and become violent

My Brother, you just said the right thing.. check out the OPs recent post on front page... The wife is now violent just like you predicted..

wrongchoice:
I opened this new account to narrate my ordeal on how my marriage got to a near collapse now. i want people to learn from my experience, so, i will be getting different topics on this account how we got to this stage.

We stay in a room and parlor. I work in private firm and she works in a private secondary school as a teacher. We are blessed with a child.
When we got married 3 years ago, we used to pray together at least every morning and night but latter I had to stop praying with her for the following reasons;

1..Her prayer is mostly about attacking people most especially people that are close to me both male and female. Sometimes she would pray so that some will have accident ,some to run mad and all those kind of prayers . Even my boss at work inclusive for making me to stay beyond working hours sometimes .This irritates me a lot and so much against my belive on how to pray.

2..She curse more than a winch though under the seal of Jesus name and blood. This doesn’t make her different from a wicked herbalist in my own view.

3..And lastly, I later stopped praying with her when She would always wake up around 12 am to pray and fire till around 3 am .she will wake up again around 5 am preparing for the office.

4…Sometimes she would talk from 12am till 4am. I will wake up and sleep and still wake again to find her still talking on irrelevant.
She can do this for days. I do enjoy my sleep at best if she starts by 3 or 4. I have told her the effects of this on me.it always make me inactive in the office. It got to a stage I was not feeling fine without any physical sign. I had to go to the hospital for test and nothing was diagnosed. I knew I needed rest . Meanwhile, I am a kind of person that love thanking God for who I am and I love interceding for people around.
I told her and warned her to limit the hours so that I can have a good rest but she won’t listen instead she took it to another level each day. She was doing it as if I was against Christ or have a devil in me she wants to chase away with prayer.
Due to this, I later started having nightmares on almost on daily bases. I later started sleeping in the sitting room. Sometimes she would come and start singing and praying again. She forced me to tell a family friend and they told her the effects it may have on me again. So she stopped coming to the sitting room to pray again.

Funny enough, I am always sleeping fine in the sitting room and its now 6 months and I am enjoying it . To make it worst our bedroom is like a shrine to me now. I only enter, change my cloth after bath or change to house ware after work then retire to the sitting room till the following morning. In the last 6 months I don’t think I have spent up to five mints in the bedroom.
This is just one out of 100 things happing in my home which I will be sharing one after the other here for people to learn most especially people that want to marry. Presently, the home is about finally collapsing.

Next is write will be on the two major things I learnt from my marriage .

Take that child and walk away but before then try to video all her attacks both verbal and physical ..then make comments that will trap her 100%

The damage that woman will do on that child will haunt you .your family is there,they can take of the child for you whilst you visit frequently ...
I had a neighbour like that,we the neighbours suffered in her hands too ..the only conclusion was that she was mentally disturbed .the husband walked out on her .he just packed out and re married

My greatest pain was seeing jiw she dealt with the daughter it was so devastating .. Ideally hated the woman
The day she tried us ..hmmmm ....that is story for another day

David160:
I am now afraid of marriage

Make I deepen your fear. Google divorce diaries ..real stories of divorcees you go just fear this thing permanently coupled withbfhe devastating increase in divorce

wrongchoice:
I opened this new account to narrate my ordeal on how my marriage got to a near collapse now. i want people to learn from my experience, so, i will be getting different topics on this account how we got to this stage.

We stay in a room and parlor. I work in private firm and she works in a private secondary school as a teacher. We are blessed with a child.
When we got married 3 years ago, we used to pray together at least every morning and night but latter I had to stop praying with her for the following reasons;

1..Her prayer is mostly about attacking people most especially people that are close to me both male and female. Sometimes she would pray so that some will have accident ,some to run mad and all those kind of prayers . Even my boss at work inclusive for making me to stay beyond working hours sometimes .This irritates me a lot and so much against my belive on how to pray.

2..She curse more than a winch though under the seal of Jesus name and blood. This doesn’t make her different from a wicked herbalist in my own view.

3..And lastly, I later stopped praying with her when She would always wake up around 12 am to pray and fire till around 3 am .she will wake up again around 5 am preparing for the office.

4…Sometimes she would talk from 12am till 4am. I will wake up and sleep and still wake again to find her still talking on irrelevant.
She can do this for days. I do enjoy my sleep at best if she starts by 3 or 4. I have told her the effects of this on me.it always make me inactive in the office. It got to a stage I was not feeling fine without any physical sign. I had to go to the hospital for test and nothing was diagnosed. I knew I needed rest . Meanwhile, I am a kind of person that love thanking God for who I am and I love interceding for people around.
I told her and warned her to limit the hours so that I can have a good rest but she won’t listen instead she took it to another level each day. She was doing it as if I was against Christ or have a devil in me she wants to chase away with prayer.
Due to this, I later started having nightmares on almost on daily bases. I later started sleeping in the sitting room. Sometimes she would come and start singing and praying again. She forced me to tell a family friend and they told her the effects it may have on me again. So she stopped coming to the sitting room to pray again.

Funny enough, I am always sleeping fine in the sitting room and its now 6 months and I am enjoying it . To make it worst our bedroom is like a shrine to me now. I only enter, change my cloth after bath or change to house ware after work then retire to the sitting room till the following morning. In the last 6 months I don’t think I have spent up to five mints in the bedroom.
This is just one out of 100 things happing in my home which I will be sharing one after the other here for people to learn most especially people that want to marry. Presently, the home is about finally collapsing.

Next is write will be on the two major things I learnt from my marriage .

OP sorry to say but your wife needs help.
And she needs it fast.
If you waste time she could became dangerous and could,kill herself, you, or the baby.
Take her to a psychiatric hospital think they have Dr that can handle this @d early stage.

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All these kids that have not tasted marriage or those that are lucky to have good wives are spewing rubbish. I pray God blesses you guys with such a wife and you will know what's up.
Separate from her ASAP. Divorce will follow later. Just move!
Where are these terrible women coming from these days sef?

Oga, the solution to your problem is very simple



Stop working


Become a house husband and see how she will praise the Lord for victory

nikky2012:
My mum is a member of mfm, Who truly forget after prayer there is a marriage to care for , my mum frustrated my dad to his grave, the poor man died last week and she became a happy widow. Bros be wise n shine ur eyes.coz my dad once told me she needs to go for a brain test

That's so painful. Especially, when it's coming from a member of the family. In cases like this, I'm sure you wouldn't allow what happened to your Dad happen to you?

kmcutez:
She might even end up killing the husband while he's asleep. I pity the OP.

I can relate to this. I used to know a woman whose case started like this, she ended up sending the man 6ft below the earth crust. I will the OP could see from the eyes of others who have witnessed this same very experience and heed to their advice.

kenzindax:
I feel you really need more talking with her. please what's d name of d church she attends.

I am guessing Mountain of Thunder Fire Them Church

This kind of matter is of various version this days.

If this getting very difficult for you to manage

just talk to her parents, and pray always.

romanusgab:
This kind of matter is of various version this days.

If this getting very difficult for you to manage

just talk to her parents, and pray always.

He married the evil witch psyco

@OP, I've a few questions to ask you,
1. When exactly did you notice this behavior of hers?

2. Has she always been like this before marriage?

3. Did she go through a lot of stress during the delivery process?

A lot of people don't know about post partum depression, it affects a lot of women, and when not properly managed can escalate to something else.
Oh please you loved your wife that was why you married her, don't listen to the advice of some people asking you to send her away.

The best thing you can do is to help her out, remember you took a vow to be there for her, only you can help her

I've seen a lot of this case.
I'll be awaiting your reply