nigeriancritic1:

With technology like phone you dont need to be in ph. Since you know this is a possibility you should have warned her regularly through calls on why she should keep her thighs together. You are not worthy of a big brother.

nigeriancritic1:

Are you trying to throw away the knife after it has cut through and inflicted damage. Rise up to it,the latest uncle in town!

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

Skipuru:


Those kids are the reason I choose to hustle but thank God say Na only one girl.

WaffenSS:


Don't let your hustle blind you from the antics of your siblings.

She's 16, by all indices she's a minor, and sorry to say it but your entire family failed her yet you're all passing the buck to her and the asshole who knocked her up.

The scary thing is not just that she's preggers at 16, but the fact that she's having unprotected sex.

If you care about her, make her safety your biggest hustle.

Meanwhile where was your mum in all of this mess?

EmpressT:
Hey mr. Don't try anything funny to abort the pregnancy for your little sister. I once got an abortion and I know what the hell I went through as if I want to die. I have realized my mistakes in the past and I have learnt my lesson in the hard way. Thank God that I did not give up the ghost in the process. Pls my dear, let your sister be and let this be a lesson to her. But for the guy who impregnated her and decided to take her as a wife, dnt marry her off cos she is too young to understand what marriage is all about. If you really want the best for her, let her have the baby and then continue to sponsor her education. I hope this helps..

yungEX:
My guy she's the person with child... Take am easy with her, point out to her the kind thing she's entering into by deciding to keep the child as regards her education . At the end of the day it's her choice that matters. If na me na to abort am sha

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

EmpressT:
And one last thing, try to engage her in any vocational work that can fetch money to take responsibility for the child. Let her begin to carry her cross from there. Thanks.

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

FrankGiel:
U went though hell because 1. It was done by a quack 2. U were far into the pregnancy.. (Above 2 months)

FrankGiel:
U went though hell because 1. It was done by a quack 2. U were far into the pregnancy.. (Above 2 months)

chineduemmao:
@ skipuru.
guy am so sorry man, ur sis was decieved. De truth is no legal doctor would abort a baby in 9ja, wat if u go quack and ur sis dies or worse? I advice u to stop thinking about de shame now so u can concetrate, ur sis still has a future bro. de worse tin dat would happen 2 her is getting married to dat pedophile if he is ready 2 tak responsibility den he should b sending money 2 her, ur sis is still very young we cant afford 2 lock up her potentials in a careless marriage she has to be made 2 understand dis. She must complete her education she has to.

FrankGiel:
Vocation??

EmpressT:
Never about two months mr

EmpressT:
Aww.. Too much oyinbo abi?

Fadiga24:
Let her abort the baby, if she gives birth at 16 years she has practically wasted away her destiny.

FrankGiel:
Not true

Skipuru:




Bro don't even blame y mom because that girl is stubborn though I will allow her to suffer.

FrankGiel:

Above or about 2 months?? Ur statement is confusing

itsmeurLady:
Skipuru, first of all your name sounds funny, sounds like shuperu (don't kno if u kno dat song by koker) or more like skipping rope

Anywayz back to the matter, you are amazing, don't let anyone on this forum talk u down, u tried ur best as an elder bro... See it's not abt callin her up and down and warning her, pikin wey wan spoil go spoil! Leave all this NL hypocrites, na their way. My bro is just like you, all he does is hustle to make us comfortable and never for once has he advised me on sexual issues or relationships but still it was never a yardstick for me to misbehave. it was God's intervention tho, Thanks to the Holy Spirit. The best thing u can Give to your sister is the Word of God and Prayers Right now Cs the decision is hers to make but just be supportive. BUT der are some support u shld not give. For example, enquire if the guy is comfortable enough to raise the child, you don't need a man stressing your sis later and blaming her for trapping him

Secondly, your sister is too young to make decisions at this her age, wat does she kno? Na only love love, she kno which is normal at her age. So pls u ppl shld meet as a family and talk things out, don't involve her. On the other hand, Child delivery is not for the faint hearted, not trying to scare you, she is young, so they might say plenty things,no body can give you any candid advice here. Just go on ur kneels and pray and ask God for direction Cs he's the only one that never goes wrong. If you have to abort to save her future, then go ahead not give birth to a child and u can not take care of it properly then ppl will na be seeing the child as Ogbanje. Leave all this religious fanatics and talk sense into that your sister but don't be too harsh make she no go kill herself. She needs to go back to school, she still has a long way to go. I lost my immediate elder brother because he went into family way at a young age, d pressure was too much for him. My experience tho, not trying to scare you! Death will be far from your Case IJN.

Last Option, your parents can decide to take care of the child for her like it's their own while she goes to school like nothing ever happened. Just tell Mumsi say she don get new pikin. Final words::: Pray! Pray! Pray! God wants to hear your voice, if you don't invite him to step into this your situation, he will not step into it. So invite him. If you need to talk to someone, you can call me, pm me ... you are doing Great as a brother, don't accept anything less!!!

FrankGiel:

Lol.. When the young girl has a future ahead.. Why let a pregnancy bug her down.. Why settle for a vocation when she can go to the university??

itsmeurLady:
Skipuru, first of all your name sounds funny, sounds like shuperu (don't kno if u kno dat song by koker) or more like skipping rope

Anywayz back to the matter, you are amazing, don't let anyone on this forum talk u down, u tried ur best as an elder bro... See it's not abt callin her up and down and warning her, pikin wey wan spoil go spoil! Leave all this NL hypocrites, na their way. My bro is just like you, all he does is hustle to make us comfortable and never for once has he advised me on sexual issues or relationships but still it was never a yardstick for me to misbehave. it was God's intervention tho, Thanks to the Holy Spirit. The best thing u can Give to your sister is the Word of God and Prayers Right now Cs the decision is hers to make but just be supportive. BUT der are some support u shld not give. For example, enquire if the guy is comfortable enough to raise the child, you don't need a man stressing your sis later and blaming her for trapping him

Secondly, your sister is too young to make decisions at this her age, wat does she kno? Na only love love, she kno which is normal at her age. So pls u ppl shld meet as a family and talk things out, don't involve her. On the other hand, Child delivery is not for the faint hearted, not trying to scare you, she is young, so they might say plenty things,no body can give you any candid advice here. Just go on ur kneels and pray and ask God for direction Cs he's the only one that never goes wrong. If you have to abort to save her future, then go ahead not give birth to a child and u can not take care of it properly then ppl will na be seeing the child as Ogbanje. Leave all this religious fanatics and talk sense into that your sister but don't be too harsh make she no go kill herself. She needs to go back to school, she still has a long way to go. I lost my immediate elder brother because he went into family way at a young age, d pressure was too much for him. My experience tho, not trying to scare you! Death will be far from your Case IJN.

Last Option, your parents can decide to take care of the child for her like it's their own while she goes to school like nothing ever happened. Just tell Mumsi say she don get new pikin. Final words::: Pray! Pray! Pray! God wants to hear your voice, if you don't invite him to step into this your situation, he will not step into it. So invite him. If you need to talk to someone, you can call me, pm me ... you are doing Great as a brother, don't accept anything less!!!

Antina:
I beg of you, don't abort for her, she may be giving birth to a future president, who knows. And since the guy promised full responsibility of your sister, please let her be.

I know she would be happy someday she gave birth earlier!!.

FrankGiel:

Best advise ....

nigeriancritic1:

You neglected your duty in pointing to her the danger of having a sexual relationship before WAEC. You have failed her and as well she failed herself. Your sister is on the way to become if not already a trainee olosho and animashaun