Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

itsmeurLady:


First, anybody can say he can take care of a child but when the main thing come, they will chicken out. Secondly,who told you once she aborts, she's gone to the dogs U ppl way of analyzing things is creepy. If Man na God, people for don die finish! Do u kno how many ppl don abort and they are still living their life? Not trying to support the act but don't try to condemn it either. Even married women abort. It's better to do wat ur power reach than to pretend because of what people will say. Hypocrites will always find something to talk

livinbygrace:



My dear ,I am not an hypocrite but talking from personal experience and I believe at my age I am like a father to the op.How I wish I never took such decision when I was in that stage.I stand by my words ,Abortion is not the solution as it comes with regrets later in life.

itsmeurLady:


First, anybody can say he can take care of a child but when the main thing come, they will chicken out. Secondly,who told you once she aborts, she's gone to the dogs U ppl way of analyzing things is creepy. If Man na God, people for don die finish! Do u kno how many ppl don abort and they are still living their life? Not trying to support the act but don't try to condemn it either. Even married women abort. It's better to do wat ur power reach than to pretend because of what people will say. Hypocrites will always find something to talk

nigeriancritic1:

You neglected your duty in pointing to her the danger of having a sexual relationship before WAEC. You have failed her and as well she failed herself. Your sister is on the way to become if not already a trainee olosho and animashaun

Shawnnn01:


Will you help take care of the child or you think Nigeria is Yankee. I beg keep quiet. Do you have any idea how many single mothers are on NL regretting not aborting unwanted pregnancy. What will a 16 year do with a child ? Abi you think say child na pet?

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

Eshence:
well i guess abortion should be the solution, take her to a good clinic the earlier the better no talk say i no tell u ooo everybody is forming holy holy now! if u have not committed​ abortion before or pregnant a lady and den make her commit abortion raise up ur hands......

MaziOmenuko:


Before I clicked on this topic I swore someone would mention that the baby could be a future president and I wasn't disappointed. Have you ever see a country without a president because the person that was supposed to be the president was aborted prior to birth? The argument of future president doesn't hold water at all. Stop blackmailing people to keep unwanted pregnancies just because u are looking for a future president. If the future president is aborted, someone else will certainly take his place.

He could grow up to be an armed robber, a con artist and a liability to the society as well due to disfubctional home and upbringing.

@op, if your sis and her bf insist on not aborting, there's nothing u can do about it. You can't force someone to abort so let her be. If she wants to give birh as a teenager, she wouldn't be the first.

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

gregyboy:


old story if d child die or aborted pple don finish for d earth to bcum predident

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

TEAMvido:

did you or didn't you read the part where he said his sis is too young to give birth ....
use your head pls....

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

Skipuru:
. I left them since 2014 now I'm going crazy. I want to poison her self.

Ioannes:


Sorry about your situation.

Here's my take;

1. At 22,.you are No longer a boy.

2. What If you were shown that If your sister aborted she will lose her womb and never have kids again, would you still advise her to go for the abortion?

3. It seems you're more worried about what people will say than what's best for your sister.

4. Please encourage her to give birth to the baby. She wasn't raped. The sex was consensual.

5. As a matter of fact abortion is murder. Do you want to have that on your conscience?

6. The man has agreed to take responsibility.

7. She can always go back to school after nursing the baby, But she can't unabort the baby.

nigeriancritic1:

With technology like phone you dont need to be in ph. Since you know this is a possibility you should have warned her regularly through calls on why she should keep her thighs together. You are not worthy of a big brother.

nigeriancritic1:

You neglected your duty in pointing to her the danger of having a sexual relationship before WAEC. You have failed her and as well she failed herself. Your sister is on the way to become if not already a trainee olosho and animashaun

nigeriancritic1:

You neglected your duty in pointing to her the danger of having a sexual relationship before WAEC. You have failed her and as well she failed herself. Your sister is on the way to become if not already a trainee olosho and animashaun

nigeriancritic1:

With technology like phone you dont need to be in ph. Since you know this is a possibility you should have warned her regularly through calls on why she should keep her thighs together. You are not worthy of a big brother.

nigeriancritic1:

You neglected your duty in pointing to her the danger of having a sexual relationship before WAEC. You have failed her and as well she failed herself. Your sister is on the way to become if not already a trainee olosho and animashaun

danieljessy:
keep kwayet Oga n face your own children,if u have nothing reasonable to say.
A child that will go wayward will surely do,no matter how many lectures n scolding u throw at her.

I feel pity for this young man

Skipuru:
. Just go with your advice because if I should follow the way you're talking Na to enter ph go mess her up.

nigeriancritic1:

You neglected your duty in pointing to her the danger of having a sexual relationship before WAEC. You have failed her and as well she failed herself. Your sister is on the way to become if not already a trainee olosho and animashaun