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It is quite easy to love someone when everything is good with them; when they are comfortable and happy, but difficult to do same when they are shattered by ugly circumstances of life.

It is very easy to find people who scream the phrase "I love you" like they even know its meaning, yet difficult to find those who scream less but understand what love truly is.

Some people stop loving just because the chips are down. They just chicken out. Some suddenly resent you because you can no longer provide their amenities. And others walk out on you because they no longer have faith in you.

Don't live the victim.....Everything has a reason. There is so much strength and joy in you than you could ever realise.

Pay no attention to others' decisions; it is for their own good. But focus on yourself to find that joy, peace and strength deep inside of you. It's there, and you'll find it only if you seek it.

Don't ever live life depending on the decisions and choices other people make.

If they decide to leave you, then so be it. Just move the hell on. It hurts me when people cry and some become suicidal when they are broken-hearted. Yes it hurts, but you have to let go. No sane human should beg or cry for love, for love is a natural force. It's either someone loves you or they don't. If someone does not love you, shouldn't you go look for someone who does rather than take your own life? Or cry your eyes out?

Listen friend, eventually you'll realise that no one is worth your tears or your life.
You are your own happiness. Believe in your own Independence, and life shall be friendly to you.

Love, but love truly, and of course, without conditions.

Say no to #suicide

Oguegbe Christian C.

Is it your suicide?

Ajebusta:
Is it your suicide?

Is this the best you could say?

boborosky:
Is this the best you could say?

Yeahh... Let some people go

Ajebusta:
Yeahh... Let some people go

Lolz....you wicked o.

[quote author=boborosky post=62349530]It is quite easy to love someone when everything is good with them; when they are comfortable and happy, but difficult to do same when they are shattered by ugly circumstances of life.

It is very easy to find people who scream the phrase "I love you" like they even know its meaning, yet difficult to find those who scream less but understand what love truly is.

Some people stop loving just because the chips are down. They just chicken out. Some suddenly resent you because you can no longer provide their amenities. And others walk out on you because they no longer have faith in you.

Don't live the victim.....Everything has a reason. There is so much strength and joy in you than you could ever realise.

Pay no attention to others' decisions; it is for their own good. But focus on yourself to find that joy, peace and strength deep inside of you. It's there, and you'll find it only if you seek it.

Don't ever live life depending on the decisions and choices other people make.

If they decide to leave you, then so be it. Just move the hell on. It hurts me when people cry and some become suicidal when they are broken-hearted. Yes it hurts, but you have to let go. No sane human should beg or cry for love, for love is a natural force. It's either someone loves you or they don't. If someone does not love you, shouldn't you go look for someone who does rather than take your own life? Or cry your eyes out?

Listen friend, eventually you'll realise that no one is worth your tears or your life.
You are your own happiness. Believe in your own Independence, and life shall be friendly to you.

Love, but love truly, and of course, without conditions.

Say no to #suicide

Oguegbe Christian C.[/quote

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