error4040:


Bro dont Fall for that scam, that's a nigga hiding under a woman skirt

BlowJobs:
ITS OFFICIAL!!!!!!!!!...

LADY K will now be known as Mrs K...

This time yesterday morning, i was so nervous.

it is 5:25am right now. Waking up in our hotel room this morning, i keep smiling watching her sleep, her hair coiled over her face and her 'backside" positioned so that when she farts, the diffusion starts right from my side of the bed . Well, i signed up for this. I haven't seen changes right now except this round, golden looking metal on one of my left hand-fingers closest to the left pinkie finger.

Life is good .

I have a plane to catch later in the evening.. short trip (pics definitely)

YungJo207:

Pidgin if you see this am still expecting that cheat you did for your 9mobile that gives you Soo much airtime

Bro you Also fell for this Scam ?
Lwkmd!
if That 200k Airtime na real Make my phone stop de Browse.
I swear by the Old Gods and the New ones

error4040:


Bro dont Fall for that scam, that's a nigga hiding under a woman skirt

digitalheadline:

We applied as a family the first time. The consular only granted my dad visa (The elderly are easily granted visa) and denied myself and my siblings (Stating we do not have strong ties back home). I took up the challenge after going through this thread and Yes!!! I re-applied within a month because it was my first time then and I wasn't experienced and was kinda scared.
Nothing changed in my documents, the only thing that changed was me. A new me, a more experienced me, full of boldness and ready to question the consular for rejecting me visa and a better way to present my story for him to see reasons why I should be granted visa. It worked!!!

digitalheadline:

We applied as a family the first time. The consular only granted my dad visa (The elderly are easily granted visa) and denied myself and my siblings (Stating we do not have strong ties back home). I took up the challenge after going through this thread and Yes!!! I re-applied within a month because it was my first time then and I wasn't experienced and was kinda scared.
Nothing changed in my documents, the only thing that changed was me. A new me, a more experienced me, full of boldness and ready to question the consular for rejecting me visa and a better way to present my story for him to see reasons why I should be granted visa. It worked!!!

Fish123:
Hello bro,how are you doing
have been trying to connect you on whatsapp but to no avail

error4040:

Bro you Also fell for this Scam ?
Lwkmd!
if That 200k Airtime na real Make my phone stop de Browse.
I swear by the Old Gods and the New ones

BlowJobs:
Sometimes, i even spend time waiting on the elevator deciding which floor i want to go. You gotta be smart too. No use another person work kill yourself.

Regardless, i am a good employee.i do my work. I get things done.what i don't like is doing another person's work. If i complete mine fast enough, I'll be sent to help another person out. But these othee people don't want to work, they take smoke breaks every hour for 5-10 mins then chats about unimportant things. I don't smoke so i believe i deserve my "elevator" breaks too.

BlowJobs:


kind of. She is a better "reader" than i am. She doesn't wait to get things done. Remember the immigration forms from USCIS, she filled it out the next day. She called my dad for some family information when i wasn't replying her text.

She always wants to do things as quick as possible. She reads a novel while i play FIFA . When she sleeps, i have learned not to wake her up. She gets really angry/grumpy if her sleep gets disrupted.

I am a laid back person, if it doesn't involve school or grade or employment or work, i take my time to do it. if you have lived in the Caribbean for a while you will easily be laid back, "No rush" kind of person

bigtt76:
Oga, we know say you get a new you.... The question is what were you asked the first time that made them not issue you the visa and what were you asked this time around and what was your answer that swayed them to issue you the visa this time around!

People here may have similar issues and gain from you not all these 'a new me and bolder me'. If some guys wen bold pass you go there go de do bragado, you nor Sabi say na Marines dem go use arrange dem? Abeg break am down dooo.

samhay:



You know what?

I'll say Congratulations to you, u must be a very lucky guy cos it hard to believe

digitalheadline:

Really hard to believe...I just narrated the whole event.

digitalheadline:

...Ok after the first interview, we decided to come up with a new strategy using my dad as a the focal person. My sister wrote a notarized letter to the consular stating some issues with dad's health and why he can't travel alone and would require assistance and that she needs him to be here as he has been her pillar of support. fast forward to the whole process and arrived window 8
Me: Goodmorning and happy thanksgiving
Vo: Thank you, can I get your passport please
Me: Passed my passport and sister's passport to him
Vo: How are you related?
Me: We are siblings
Vo: where are you visiting in America
Me: Minnesota
Vo: why do you want to visit Minnesota
Me: For my sister's graduation next month
Vo: What do you do?
Me: I work with blah blah and my sister also responded
Vo: Are you married?
Me: Yes (Una sabi nau) then continued with stories about my wife. Where she works, how long she has been working with them and I also stated that she is heavy and due by February and I can't miss the delivery for anything in the world. My sister also told her story
Vo: That's nice congratulations
Me: Thank you
Vo: Starts to type as if he was typing a project work.
Vo: Have you applied for a visa recently
Me: Yes. Myself and my family
Vo: Why were you rejected
Me: I sincerely don't know why I have a promising career here, I am married and I am moving up the ladder of my career in good pace, I have a stable income and I will be responsible for my expenses.
Vo: Continued with his typing and brought out the blue paper... Unfortunately you do not meet the requirements
Me: Hold on please. Brought out the letter and presented it to the consular. While he was reading the letter myself and my sister appealed to him to see reason why he has to grant even if it's just one of us so we can assist dad to make the trip.
Vo: After he was done reading, looked at us, smiled and said I would consider this. Picked up our passports re-scanned it and started typing again
Me: I was already dancing within me and Thanking God for the boldness
Vo: After he was done typing, he brought out the white paper, circled the address for pickup and said we will be contacted my mail or via the phone number we provided.
Me: Thank you so much for granting us our family wish.
Started leaving and plenty congratulations followed With settlements attached...Lol
Sounds so unreal but this was my experience.
*** [b][/b]Hope it safe typing this because I never pick up my passport oooh

erictus:


guy. oya edit that thing up there its not healthy for prospective travellers and u aswell if USA NIV see ur transcript. hope u know they are on nairaland.

bigtt76:
This is much better and it is very safe too since they don't know your Nairaland affiliations. Pardon me asking, Why did you not submit the notarized letter together with the application forms or initially when you got to Embassy? Why wait?

I faced the same issue after having been denied of my UK visa some few years back as a result some inconsistency with my bank account. I was naive then, I had been allowing friends deposit into my account and I do a fund transfer for them. So the UK High Commission people saw cash inflows into my account which I did not acknowledge as a source of income for me or why it was there in my statement.

Anyway, I was denied and fast forward to about 3 years later when I needed to go for my graduation and other family visits, I made sure prior to this new application, I stopped all deposits not my salary to the account and presented it with well documented 'story' of my earnings and why my previous application was rejected.

I got a 1 year visa and I enjoyed every bit of my trip back then. I wish you and your family a very wonderful trip and safe delivery to your wife too.

Pidgin2:


Sorry for the poor reception you were given, unfortunately you fell into wrong hands. Any Nigerian you see on this thread is likely to be a crook, trying to look for desperate means to travel. (I have to say this in pidgin to help his ministry becos whity go surely get access to im Nairaland ID) wetin u expect OP to talk na? For sure im go tell u say im love am but for im heart im know wetin im dey do and why im dey do am make I no spoil im show


Move over to another forum e.g. family, culture, literature etc you will see more friendly folks there. Hope I've been able to help.

MsNgo40:


Not only did he have his green card (which was several years ago)...but he never intended to stay in America...
So yes...I confirmed it!
Thanks for asking.

lionlee216:



God bless you bro. Keep on the project in naija.. Oyinbo head dey touch big time and there are not really second chance in their dictionary.... Pls love her. As for her boss fingering her brain, i would have seriously warned her boss to stay away from my marriage.

Owols:
For real, i would feel like that if i was her.
you can't live in the property you just bought in Nigeria, if you said it's for your parents i would be ok.
Nigerians living in the US have a fantasy of having properties back home, i wonder why? Probably a place for them to stay when they visit Nigeria,
any ways home is home always.

BJ, pls buy a house and America, it will help her feel better.

samhay:



How easy is it to set 1 up?

whyteone:
Congrats on your new property.Should you wish to develop that property of yours,you might wanna check this thread out.It's content might be of interest.
https://www.nairaland.com/4122226/captivating-architectural-designs

Bede2u:
boss. I like you. Congrats on ur successes so far. More power to ur elbow.

Am in Qatar now. Earning good pay as a Safety personel. However qatar is a hot, muslim country and even tho its fast developing, there are still mega restrictions and lack of openness and most jobs here are in construction cos its a developing nation. If Construction finish? Then no more work. I cant be here when that happens. I need to move and it has to be U.S cos no matter the country I move to, if its not U.s, i wont feel settled. And by move i mean move to u.s forever. No more coming back to Naija. Raise american family, live and die in america.

What are my options. How best can i come to u.s. Am late 20s, single, bsc holder, smart have about 2mil naira in savings so far. Wanna move from qatar latest 2020.

Thanks in anticipation and congrats again

bigtt76:
You owe no one explanation bro. They don't understand what it takes to be in an inter-racial relationship.

digitalheadline:

Congratulations BJ, wish you all the blessings that comes with getting married. I have been a silent reader since inception and I have truly gained so much experience from your thread. Through reading your thread, I have gone to register for GRE and I have also learnt that self confidence and believe is all it takes to make anything happen. Thanks a lot bro because you have changed perspective to several things.
Most importantly, I applied for B1/B2 visa last month along side my Dad and my other siblings and we were rejected but my dad was granted visa. I took up the challenge and re-applied for myself and my younger sister after first experience at the embassy and lots of hours going through the thread. There was no available date for interview again both in Lagos and Abuja so I called the embassy through someone's help to get us a date and fortunately, we got scheduled for today 9:30am.
To cut the long epistle short, I was solid strong inside of me to go all out and convince the consular on reason why I have to be granted a visa. After much questions and debate, MYSELF AND MY SISTER WAS GRANTED A VISA!!!!....I am just so happy right now.
Thank you BJ and every other person that has advised, suggested and rebuked certain actions. I am a beneficiary of your wisdom...God Bless you all...

BlowJobs:
Back, Earned my 80$ from my first job today. I leave for work at 5pm for my 2nd job. it just 3mins past 12pm so i get enough time to relax before then

Frenzy007:
Are people still much outside by midnight.

BlowJobs:


YES!!!!... i am happy for you bro.. You see what i was saying. OLD people dey get visa for embassy. E no matter what their reason is. I have heard about a 72years old go to embassy and say "he just want to visit america before he die", dem knack am visa.

If young guy try am, dem go just dey laff am during him interview.

Now bro, you need to plan it well from now, come to yankee on the reason you got your visa, look around and go back naija. Then, you can use your visa again.

you have more options now, i'll suggest you look into F1 visa, your B1/B2 makes your F1 a lot more easier now. However, if that isn't your route, I will also not discourage you from other benefits your B1/B2 gives you. If you're not married yet (i really don't know your situation), maybe it is time to consider other reasons to choose your "bae" wisely.

Don't let no one decieve you, everyone marries for benefits: christain sisters wants a "prayerful, god fearing" brother, Slay queen wants a rich guy, normal naija girls wants a tall, dark, sexy, educated guy.

It isn't a bad thing if you add "american" to your own requirement. . Just make sure "love" comes first and find what works for you.

digitalheadline:


Thanks always BJ. You sure pass to be a good mentor. Quick question, can i apply for the F1 visa while I still have my B1/B2 active or after it has expired?

BlowJobs:


Me sef, i don dey think am. wetin i wan use am do?

That property dey really major place. I think i should be able to flip it for about 5mil or more in the nearest future if i no wan develop am. The problem be say we no sure if Naira will appreciate against dollar (7kUSD can be 5 million naira in future but lets be optimistic)