₦airaland Forum

Bede2u:
true bro. But many indians where born in this country. Even tho they still have indian passports, its actually possible and often seen for a man to live and die in the gulf region.... expecially other arabs and indians

sirhamilton:
Bad advice spotted Sir BJ, permission to pull the trigger

sirhamilton:
Bad advice spotted Sir BJ, permission to pull the trigger

Josh4wod:
Alright
Didn't really care
Not trying to be insultive, just my mind.

MsNgo40:
No....lol.
You did care or u wouldn't have asked.
No problem in that.
I'm not upset.
But if u read further, I explained that he schooled in the U.S. (and met my late mother).
He never had any intention of staying in the US..but the war was occurring and he was kind of unable to return to Nigeria at that time.
He was stranded...so to speak.
During the course of that time (and being a healthy and young heterosexual male)...he met and fell in love with my mother.
However, he already had his green card 2 years before marrying my mother.

Josh4wod:
That's cool
Love that, you have got a lovely Dad.
But to be sincere I wasn't expecting an answer.
Love your reply

Nig4Greatness:
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@BJ
Now am forced to say this,i think it's high time you manned up and take charge of your home.you need to stop this your MS K said this,she said that,she wants this,she wants that...it's obvious she's the one calling the shots here and it's a big aberration that should never be allowed to linger on.this is how it starts and before you know it,you won't have any inputs whatsoever in the running of the house if care is not taking.
So be strong as men is seen to provide leadership in the home.
All the best

BlowJobs:
Oh yeah, people dey psrty at night. You know d kain oyinbo party .

And lots of ladies trying to get laid.and the guys too. I see more ladies tho.

BlowJobs:
. Thank you for the advise. But you got the picture wrong. Pigin dey hard ti explain everything sometimes. If i say Mrs K said this or that. What i actually "Mrs K suggested that" or "Mrs K's opinion is"

She's calling no short. I think i have to elaborate better the kind of person she is (maybe on some other post) and the kind of person i am.

Also i want you to know that here is not like naija. Everyone has an opinion, even kids. America is a very opinionated country, you can't disregard other person's opinion just becuase you want to "take charge". Regardless, she listens to me and take my advise 99% of the time. That's why we have been able to work on our issues.

Let me write the direct transcript of our conversation lile i remembered it

Mrs K: (on Amazon looking for a winter jacket)Babe i like this one, should i buy it?

Me: (checks computer sees price) chineke!!, 189$?. No!, e too cost. I think you can get it cheaper on cyber Monday. Why not wait or check eBay. you have to buy a size larger though.

Mrs K: it's not that expensive you know. Besides, its a brand name. And why a size larger?

Me:So it fits next year, you know, just incase we got preg

Mrs k: i actually been reading about that and post baby fats. I really think we should change our diet to include more vegetables and healthy options. It's for our own good and also the baby. I need your support about it. You know i can't do it on my own. Think about it as you finally getting the six packs.

Me: with all the food wey you chop sef, you no even change. I'd have to think about it. Make a list of things we need to cut out of our groceries and the list of the healthy options. Let's see what we need to improve on

Mrs K: (Making a list) (first on list, Pizza)

Me: (saw pizza). No, not pizza. You can decide not to eat pizza.

Mrs K: (makes the list without pizza). I'm gonna buy you baby books for xmas (while giggling uncontrollably).

Me: (stares at her)

Mrs K: c'mon, its cute. It gets you prepared mentally.(still laughing)

*Notification comes up on her Facebook*

Conversation changes to getting an oil change , back to winter jacket, to the amount of points i have on Jet blue airline, to spending xmas in New york.

BlowJobs:
. Thank you for the advise. But you got the picture wrong. Pigin dey hard ti explain everything sometimes. If i say Mrs K said this or that. What i actually "Mrs K suggested that" or "Mrs K's opinion is"

She's calling no short. I think i have to elaborate better the kind of person she is (maybe on some other post) and the kind of person i am.

Also i want you to know that here is not like naija. Everyone has an opinion, even kids. America is a very opinionated country, you can't disregard other person's opinion just becuase you want to "take charge". Regardless, she listens to me and take my advise 99% of the time. That's why we have been able to work on our issues.

Let me write the direct transcript of our conversation lile i remembered it

Mrs K: (on Amazon looking for a winter jacket)Babe i like this one, should i buy it?

Me: (checks computer sees price) chineke!!, 189$?. No!, e too cost. I think you can get it cheaper on cyber Monday. Why not wait or check eBay. you have to buy a size larger though.

Mrs K: it's not that expensive you know. Besides, its a brand name. And why a size larger?

Me:So it fits next year, you know, just incase we got preg

Mrs k: i actually been reading about that and post baby fats. I really think we should change our diet to include more vegetables and healthy options. It's for our own good and also the baby. I need your support about it. You know i can't do it on my own. Think about it as you finally getting the six packs.

Me: with all the food wey you chop sef, you no even change. I'd have to think about it. Make a list of things we need to cut out of our groceries and the list of the healthy options. Let's see what we need to improve on

Mrs K: (Making a list) (first on list, Pizza)

Me: (saw pizza). No, not pizza. You can decide not to eat pizza.

Mrs K: (makes the list without pizza). I'm gonna buy you baby books for xmas (while giggling uncontrollably).

Me: (stares at her)

Mrs K: c'mon, its cute. It gets you prepared mentally.(still laughing)

*Notification comes up on her Facebook*

Conversation changes to getting an oil change , back to winter jacket, to the amount of points i have on Jet blue airline, to spending xmas in New york.....

abimbolar:
Ahan, why you stop na bros, I was enjoying the convo.
Abeg continue o

abimbolar:
Ahan, why you stop na bros, I was enjoying the convo.
Abeg continue o

Nig4Greatness:
@BJ, big congratulations on your wedding...thankfully it has come and gone now,you can now focus your mind on things that matters....making your marriage works cos from some of your posts recently,it's obvious you would need extra efforts to keep your marriage going..I said this because irrespective of where you married from,no woman would like that you said happened (investments back home) and would be happy,remember you once said her colleague has been trying to turn her against you,it won't stop there just because you are now married,so pls do more to solidify your relationship.
Secondly,I would advise you focus more on investing where your family is at this time so you don't let the woman start attaching any truthful approach to what she has been hearing.
I work in the XYZ,(if you know what that means),Pls know today that any investments you do anywhere on the surface of this earth equally belongs to her if not entirely,so invest wisely.(hopefully I get to talk privately with you soon).
In all,you just entering a new chapter in your life which can have an adverse effect on what comes out of your life in the US,so all your thoughts,deeds and prayers would have to center on how to make your family succeed and not that wild feelings either of you can just wake up one day and decides to take a walk
.it's not gonna be your portion IJN...it may not end well..pls take heed.
It's well with you.

lionlee216:
Hmmm, deep words esp @ it may not end well when either of you wakes up one day and decided to end it when there are kids.. it simply means CHILD SUPPORT.

Like you ad, it won't be his portion IJN

samhay:
Presently not based in Naija, dough learnt how to barb and wen I got here, I saw its different just like u just said, so Afta work I try to hang out in a salon behind my house just to learn aw to barb long oyinbo hair too. So I just wanted to knw if 1 has to start paying some levies b4 startin and all sorts

BlowJobs:
Oh yeah, people dey psrty at night. You know d kain oyinbo party .

And lots of ladies trying to get laid.and the guys too. I see more ladies tho.

Owols:
see this guy. I beg stay in your lane. This is how you people destroy homes.
BJ, pls run your home as you pls.

samhay:
African man spotted


This is 2017

So because he includes what his wife does means he can't control his house?

Mr Mugabe

JamesReacher:
God punish u, person dey respect him wife opinion u dey misyarn. Get enlightened!! Blowjobs resemble mumu guy for ur eye?? No let me vex o

sirhamilton:
Bad advice spotted Sir BJ, permission to pull the trigger

Electroweb:
So how do you differentiate between real ladies and transgenders?

YungChorus:
Women can make sexual advances towards you and you say no and turn them down. If you flip the script, you can be sued for sexual Harassment.

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Also, don't let no one intimidate you

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They ask dumb questions

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Can you throw more light to these quotes from your post. Thank you.

BlowJobs:
For transgenders, it is obvious a lot of time. And most will let you know they are trans. Also, lots of trans move with each other (likes attracts). So, maybe if you attract trans, you need to check yourself

bigtt76:
Happy Thanksgiving Day to you and yours. Enjoy every bit and please share the photos as usual

BlowJobs:
Happy Thanksgiving to you too. Unfortunately, we ain't doing anything for thanksgiving.

I INSTRUCTED my wife few days ago (yeah, i am taking charge . actually laughing typing this) to work on Thanksgiving IF her work will be open.
Her family wants us to come over for thanksgiving but i am really tired of seeing their faces every time and laughing to white people's jokes like it was really funny and they trying too hard not to offend me all the time. I believe they should be tired of seeing my face too. I just need a break. So, i told her to work today (she's also really tired of going back home)

Also, the pay is double today being an holiday so it has something to do with money too. . i like us having enough money

PS: was invited by some folks over for thanksgiving, not sure i'll be going. but if i did go, i'll share pictures.

Permit me to ask, What are you thankful for this year?

BlowJobs:
Happy Thanksgiving to you too. Unfortunately, we ain't doing anything for thanksgiving.

I INSTRUCTED my wife few days ago (yeah, i am taking charge . actually laughing typing this) to work on Thanksgiving IF her work will be open.
Her family wants us to come over for thanksgiving but i am really tired of seeing their faces every time and laughing to white people's jokes like it was really funny and they trying too hard not to offend me all the time. I believe they should be tired of seeing my face too. I just need a break. So, i told her to work today (she's also really tired of going back home)

Also, the pay is double today being an holiday so it has something to do with money too. . i like us having enough money

PS: was invited by some folks over for thanksgiving, not sure i'll be going. but if i did go, i'll share pictures.

Permit me to ask, What are you thankful for this year?

BlowJobs:
Don't pull the trigger.... YET

BlowJobs:
.. Later in the day, i'll talk a bit more about Guy M and him wahalah

error4040:
Still expecting this Update tho


thanks

BlowJobs:
Don't do it yet. it sounds like a sudden surge of cash. Register your business. Make it official with documentation evidence. Wait a while, make transactions with your account. build a healthy account balance, travel to some neighboring countries for leisure (if you can. Traveling is education) then apply. That way, you have a Higher chance.

BlowJobs:
Happy Thanksgiving everyone.
Healthy food is good. Lol.

Boring but good.