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Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by delishpot: 4:20pm On Nov 23, 2017
He had a beloved wife before Maryam?
Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by lilfreezy: 4:24pm On Nov 23, 2017
madridguy:
This is one of the characteristic of a bad wife. She will send away everyone around you. From family to friends under the umbrella of don't let us allow third party.
You just described my brother's wife. Asin I don't even visit him anymore because of her wife. Very divisive woman

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Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by mofedamijo(m): 4:25pm On Nov 23, 2017
ANGER IS FOR A MOMENT,AND IT DESTROYS WHOEVER IT GRIPS FOR A LONG TIME,PATIENT NEVER DESTROYS IT RATHER SAVES YOU THE TROUBLE OF A LIFE TIME,WHEN URE ANGRY PLZ DONT TAKE UP A WEAPON,EXCEPT WHEN YOURE IN A CASE OF EMERGENCY....

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Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by delishpot: 4:26pm On Nov 23, 2017
nonut:

Killing a man while he was asleep, all because he cheated?
Funny enough, the guy is a Muslim.
Ain't Muslims allowed to marry at least four wives?
The biitch should be put down.

They are allowed. But he picked a girl who did not want to share. If a man wants to marry many wives he should marry a girl who is willing to share him as long as he doesn't deny her rights. There are many girls willing to share so long as they are taken care of..

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Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by HeroicMeastro: 4:26pm On Nov 23, 2017
dainformant:
Bilyamin Muhammed Bello, son of a former People’s Democratic Party (PDP) chairman, Bello Haliru Mohammed, was stabbed to death by his wife, Maryam Sanda. A friend of the deceased, Mustapha Dikko, has penned down touching message for his friend Bilyaminu, as today would have been his 36th birthday.

Mustapha Dikko, had earlier revealed to journalist how Maryam, daughter of a former Executive Director of Aso Savings, Hajiya Maimuna Aliyu Sanda, argued heavily with the deceased late Saturday evening after reportedly seeing message between him and another woman on his phone.

Below is what he shared on Facebook;

Today I would have called to say Happy birthday to you Bilya as you clock 36 but you are no longer with us

I am looking up and I trust you are looking down. Because I am insisting on smiles and not a single frown, I am trying so hard but these tears of pain keep flowing down my cheeks. Sitting down here thinking about you, thinking about life without you Bilya

I am in so much pain and I am so sorry for drifting apart when you wanted to marry Maryam, I wish I pressured you more not to, I tried but I should have tried harder I was angry with you at the moment and That was selfish so we left you all alone with this murderer.First she separated you from your beloved wife then she separated you from your family and friends

As I sit here pondering about what would have been if we had pressurised you,I feel guilty down my spine.My thoughts are these

If I had put so much pressure on you and succeeded in making you understand our point of view when you wanted to marry Maryam

1. You would have left her and probably this wouldn’t have happened.

2. As Number 1 didn’t happen,if we hadn’t drifted a little too apart when you married Maryam you would have confide in me,Usman,Abba or Bello about the harsh condition in your marriage And we would have adviced you accordingly and probably all this wouldn’t have happened.

Oh Bilya I am so sorry i am soo devastated by your demise I wish I could turn the hands of time but it’s too late
Maryam has finally separated you from this world completely.

I recall what you used to say back in the days “when I get married I am going to Submit to my wife totally I don’t like woman wahala let peace reign kawai” and we will call you names, Well you did let peace reign and she took advantage of it.

You will forever be in our heart body and soul. Insha Allah Alisha your daughter will hear the story of a great man called Bilya her father because you were a great man. #Justiceforbilya


Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2017/11/dikko-mustapha-pens-down-touching-message-for-his-friend-bilyaminu.html
He had some lapses in judgement and she took advantage of it. RIP bro
Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by smallsmall: 4:30pm On Nov 23, 2017
madridguy:
This is one of the characteristic of a bad wife. She will send away everyone around you. From family to friends under the umbrella of don't let us allow third party.

It is the standard practice of all psychos, especially wives who want to completely dominate their husband.

Once she alienates you and deprives you of any possible support, then she will strike.
I have a freind like that currently, who has been a bossom friend since we were in school over 30yrs ago but the moment he married this girl, all his friends suddenly became strangers to him and the wife ensured that she instigates animosity between him and his friends.


Now, like the poster of this thread, we are al lwatching from afar because we know that this will not likely end well but what can we do?
We cant force ourselves on him because he is a grown adult and if he cant develop the sense to see what the woman, his wife is doing to him, then all we can do is continue to pray for him.

Men/Husband in such situation are just like the proverbial Dog that would not listen to the hunter's whistle.....until it is too late

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Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by smallsmall: 4:32pm On Nov 23, 2017
delishpot:


They are allowed. But he picked a girl who did not want to share. If a man wants to marry many wives he should marry a girl who is willing to share him as long as he doesn't deny her rights. There are many girls willing to share so long as they are taken care of..

But she was aware, before they got married, that he is a Muslim and would at one point or the other, marry a second wife.
Again, she was not his first wife, if you read the story from his closest friends properly
Read the quote below. undecided undecided

I am in so much pain and I am so sorry for drifting apart when you wanted to marry Maryam, I wish I pressured you more not to, I tried but I should have tried harder I was angry with you at the moment and That was selfish so we left you all alone with this murderer.
First she separated you from your beloved wife, then she separated you from your family and friends..

She is just a Killer, a psychologically depraved one for that matter.

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Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by davillian(m): 4:34pm On Nov 23, 2017
madridguy:
This is one of the characteristic of a bad wife. She will send away everyone around you. From family to friends under the umbrella of don't let us allow third party.
She is a lioness first she separate her target b4 she goes for the kill
Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by delishpot: 4:38pm On Nov 23, 2017
smallsmall:


But she was aware, before they got married, that he is a Muslim and would at one point or the other, marry a second wife.
Again, she was not his first wife, if you read the story from his closest friends properly
Read the quote below. undecided undecided



She is just a Killer, a psychologically depraved one for that matter.

I agree with you about her being a killer and she should be punished to the maximum for her crime. That is domestic violence at its peak. No excuse even if he wasn't a Muslim she had no right to take his life. She for jejely leave am for his mama and walk away of she couldn't cope.
Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by drealnamdy(m): 4:39pm On Nov 23, 2017
Woe be tide that lady dt dares to touch my fone.. She will be found d at back of the trunk of her car close to her village angry
That's why i alwys insist on security lock n finger print to access fones..apart from been stolen or lost.another main one is women going through ur fone... Its deadly cos these ladies are psychos out there with dangerous mindsets.. Jst look at how he lost his life.. kaii cry

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Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by delishpot: 4:40pm On Nov 23, 2017
drealnamdy:
Woe be tide that lady dt dares to touch my fone.. She will be found d at back of the trunk of her car close to her village angry

........When phone I more important than marriage
Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by Larasisi(f): 4:42pm On Nov 23, 2017
Rubbiish:

Very true
Very true statement. Most of such women are diabolical and the husband who give in to their enchantment will eventually end up as a victim.
Men in this situation its time to confide in a friend for help.
Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by sniperr007(m): 4:47pm On Nov 23, 2017
zoaroster:
Too bad, but I think the guy lacked good judgment. Even if you made a mistake in marrying when you cnt get peace u should hv ran away or better ran bck to ur separated friends or even to ur former wife. Why did u remain there untill she killed u

Do u know what he did to provoke his wife to that level?

There is always a reason for every action.
Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by Rubbiish(m): 4:49pm On Nov 23, 2017
Larasisi:

Very true statement. Most of such women are diabolical and the husband who give in to their enchantment will eventually end up as a victim.
Men in this situation its time to confide in a friend for help.
Hmmm
Such heavy truth coming from a lady?
Are u a lady or a man hiding behind a female moniker...
Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by drealnamdy(m): 4:49pm On Nov 23, 2017
sniperr007:


Do u know what he did to provoke his wife to that level?

There is always a reason for every action.






Fvck whatever be the reason... Maybe if it happened to ur direct relative, u wld have a different opinion... Anuofia..don't even justify this act... angry

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Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by alan056: 4:50pm On Nov 23, 2017
Macgreat:
smiley

When the devil want to destroy a man he separate him from his brethren.


But with wallpapers and wall panels installed. . . your life is safe


Lol, nice tactic
Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by Rubbiish(m): 4:51pm On Nov 23, 2017
sniperr007:


Do u know what he did to provoke his wife to that level?

There is always a reason for every action.
You are a lady...true or false? cheesy
Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by missyb08(f): 5:03pm On Nov 23, 2017
One needs to run away from jealous lovers that poses as a threat to him/her.
Nah so she just waste fine bobo. Kai!
Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by Nobody: 5:03pm On Nov 23, 2017
dainformant:
cc; lalasticlala
you can do better than this now
Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by stilldoingokay(f): 5:03pm On Nov 23, 2017
na who I go believe na, the woman friends said the man got what he deserve, that he is a chronic cheat.


and the man friend is saying otherwise.

who is lieying na.
Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by aspirebig: 5:06pm On Nov 23, 2017
fuckerstard:
If you see woman and poisonous snake, break her head first then let the snake go free.

It's a curse we can't do without them.

When you see a guy that cuts off his friends and family totally for bae, thread carefully around them.


You mean woman from a certain tribe/region or all women?
Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by stilldoingokay(f): 5:16pm On Nov 23, 2017
delishpot:


They are allowed. But he picked a girl who did not want to share. If a man wants to marry many wives he should marry a girl who is willing to share him as long as he doesn't deny her rights. There are many girls willing to share so long as they are taken care of..


thanks for this really,
some people think a Muslim woman, doesn't have the right to decide when he comes to polygamous,


that isn't true, Islamically, if a man want a second wife he need his wife permission,


but some Muslim men have abuse it.

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Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by nonut: 5:17pm On Nov 23, 2017
delishpot:


They are allowed. But he picked a girl who did not want to share. If a man wants to marry many wives he should marry a girl who is willing to share him as long as he doesn't deny her rights. There are many girls willing to share so long as they are taken care of..
According to the story, she's the second wife. Go figure!
Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by delishpot: 5:18pm On Nov 23, 2017
nonut:

According to the story, she's the second wife. Go figure!


Doesnt mean she wants someone else after her. She prolly wants to be the baby wife. Go figure.



stilldoingokay:



thanks for this really,
some people think a Muslim woman, doesn't have the right to decide when he comes to polygamous,


that isn't true, Islamically, if a man want a second wife he need his wife permission,


but some Muslim men have abuse it.


To be honest, I do not know that part about the Islamic process but I do know that not all women want to share their men. Some are like what ever, as long as you keep your other wives away from me and you have time for me. While some will say NO way!

Religion/Tradition forcing women to accept rival wives doesn't change the genetic or psychological programming of human nature.

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Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by Fourwinds: 5:28pm On Nov 23, 2017
stilldoingokay:
na who I go believe na, the woman friends said the man got what he deserve, that he is a chronic cheat.


and the man friend is saying otherwise.

who is lieying na.
even though he is a cheat does that warrant killing?
Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by djoe21(m): 5:35pm On Nov 23, 2017
stilldoingokay:
na who I go believe na, the woman friends said the man got what he deserve, that he is a chronic cheat.


and the man friend is saying otherwise.

who is lieying na.

Even if he is a chronic cheat, do you take his life? undecided
Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by stilldoingokay(f): 5:37pm On Nov 23, 2017
Fourwinds:
even though he is a cheat does that warrant killing?


NOPE, nobody should kill anybody, nobody should take a live they cannot created.


and I don't think the man was stab while at sleep,

cause the hole thing happened in the sitting room.
Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by Fourwinds: 5:44pm On Nov 23, 2017
stilldoingokay:



NOPE, nobody should kill anybody, nobody should take a live they cannot created.


and I don't think the man was stab while at sleep,

cause the hole thing happened in the sitting room.
now if it happened in the sitting room .,can you tell who held the knife first?
Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by omooba969(m): 5:44pm On Nov 23, 2017
sniperr007:


Do u know what he did to provoke his wife to that level?

There is always a reason for every action.

How do you justify the lady's action? undecided
Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by LadySarah: 5:47pm On Nov 23, 2017
Macgreat:
smiley

When the devil want to destroy a man he separate him from his brethren.


But with wallpapers and wall panels installed. . . your life is safe

Nna are you sure cos we r just recovering from thebarbecue guy

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Re: Mustapha Dikko, Friend Of Bilyamin Muhammed Bello: "Maryam Sanda Separated Us" by omooba969(m): 5:47pm On Nov 23, 2017
stilldoingokay:



NOPE, nobody should kill anybody, nobody should take a live they cannot created.


and I don't think the man was stab while at sleep,

cause the hole thing happened in the sitting room.

I want to believe the woman staged that living room as crime scene, remember it's reported that she had mopped the crime scene before the police got there.

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