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Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by cindybaby22(f): 12:40pm On Dec 04, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!
you sir are truly misguided! read your holy book again, it is filled with REVENGE KILLING, but yet you see nothing wrong with it. bloody hypocrite!
Please take the holy book out of your stupidity
U re not making sense
Even the lady was crying in court, covering her face in shame. Here u are defending her undecided
Nothing justify killing your hubby, except they make attempt on your life, not for cheating

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Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by fellownigerianz(m): 12:41pm On Dec 04, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


true.... but then again, if life was that simple there would be no divorces etc



does it really matter?! these people decided to react the way THEY saw fit (whether RIGHT or WRONG in your eyes).... but let it be clear that you cant expect someone to "always" act proper when someone is doing them WRONG.



sadly, this is where our views differ.... you have NO RIGHT to cheat on that person, if you've told her you would be faithful to them. the minute you do, is the moment you have put your self in arm's way....as you certainly CANNOT decide how mad people should react in such instance (you can only expect their wrath)



mad men/women who cant control themselves that on the slightest sight of bootays/tittays (or dick/money) they lose their mind, should NOT be in a r/ship, let alone marriage...and thats how it REALLY should be.

you seem to take so much interest and pains to justify the very ACT. So both men and women should start stabbing their partners to dead if they CHEAT or SUSPECT they did! I hope we don't read about yours here someday!

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Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by Donjazzy12(m): 12:45pm On Dec 04, 2017
Wisdomkosi:
Written by Wisdom Nwedene

Recent studies have shown that many young guys are afraid of getting married these days just because of the increased rate which women stab their husband to death. Just of a recent, a woman was accused of stabbing her husband to death in Abuja because she suspected that her husband is cheating on her. Well, in this my article I try to highlight what a husband should do in case he suspects that her wife is trying to take laws into her hands.

1) Avoid unnecessary arguments : This is not the best time to argue with your wife since she is not happy with you probably she thinks you are cheating on her. Just keep quiet and avoid exchanging words with each other as she may attack you with anything around her because she is totally angry.

2) Don't stay close to any sharp objects : Avoid going close to where something like bottles, knife, etc because she may likely raise it and hit you at that moment. Steer clear from where all types of sharp objects are in order to be at a safer side.


3) Call your close friend : If it is possible to call your close friend to settle the dispute amicably, please kindly do that in order for the problem not to escalate.


4) Leave the house : This is very important if you have called your close friend but she doesn't want to listen. Why can't you just follow that your friend to his house at that moment pending when her mind will calm down then come back?

5)Avoid cheating in relationship : Well, there is no smoke without fire, I think before your partner will accuse you of cheating on her, she may have monitored or discovered that you are into another lady which is painful. So, avoid cheating of any kind but if you are tired of her, why can't you save each other the stress of quarreling everyday and separate for sometime in order for you not to be by your partner.

You can add yours below

(Wisdom Nwedene is a blogger, writer and newspaper editor. Contact : Nwedenewisdom@gmail.com)

You just normalized domestic violence against men by this thrash you wrote here. So men should avoid being stabbed but no single word of condemnation to women who stab their husbands.

Women stab weak men like you.

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Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by Donjazzy12(m): 12:46pm On Dec 04, 2017
tosyne2much:
I agree with you bro.

A woman does not just pick up a knife and stab her husband without showing aggressive tendencies in the past. Such a thing usually start from verbal abuse before it graduates into domestic violence

Yeah
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by onehouse(m): 12:56pm On Dec 04, 2017
In view of the unfortunate killing of this young man by his wife by stabbing for cheating, i would like to proffer the following advise to my brothers:

Keep 2 phones- 1 for not to be brought home but kept in the boot of the car downstairs.

Develop the habit of deleting as you read. It will save your life.

Take your wife for mental check up regularly

Save your girlfriends number with your mothers name. It's a major repellent.

Change your password daily.

Never marry a quiet woman. The ones that will scream and slap will never kill you.

Never pretend to be faithful. Let them catch you once in a while. It's training and will prepare them.

Lock up all the knives in your house and let her sign a register stating what she needs them for and allocate time frame for usage.

Regulate the usage of rat poison and other chemicals In the house. Make sure her mother taste your good before eating.

Regulate and supervise her relationship with her mother. That would cut off supply chain for arms.

Date secondary school girls they are not very needy and will not send texts at night

Sleep with your body ensconced in armour and borrow or buy okada helmet to protect the head

Have a sit down with your wife and discuss possible methods of your death on the event of her catching you. This is to ensure a painless transition

When choosing a girlfriend go for the most beautiful and exotic that you can find. Since it is now a matter of life and death chop better so your death would be justified

Finally, update your will on a daily cos you will surely be caught...���

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Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by newslifeop: 1:02pm On Dec 04, 2017
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Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by tosyne2much(m): 1:08pm On Dec 04, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!
you sir are truly misguided! read your holy book again, it is filled with REVENGE KILLING, but yet you see nothing wrong with it. bloody hypocrite!
Baba, all these your arguments no just make sense jawe. Why would you be justifying murder? undecided

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Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by lovethchioma(f): 1:14pm On Dec 04, 2017
tosyne2much:
It's not a trait that easily leave people so avoiding such people is the best thing to do b since your life is at stake with such people.


BTW, how have you been Chioma?
I dey ooo. You don turn big boy come forget my side na.smiley
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by tosyne2much(m): 1:16pm On Dec 04, 2017
lovethchioma:
I dey ooo. You don turn big boy come forget my side na.smiley
Ahn ahn.. Big boy ke? cheesy


Lost your contact that was why you haven't heard from me for a long time and you sef no even bother hail me.. Oga oooo
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by lovethchioma(f): 1:26pm On Dec 04, 2017
tosyne2much:
Ahn ahn.. Big boy ke? cheesy


Lost your contact that was why you haven't heard from me for a long time and you sef no even bother hail me.. Oga oooo
Yes ke.. I was told I need to even fill form before I can reach you ni grin


I also lost your contact o. My phone was stolen...
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by tosyne2much(m): 1:28pm On Dec 04, 2017
lovethchioma:
Yes ke.. I was told I need to even fill form before I can reach you ni grin


I also lost your contact o. My phone was stolen...
Form ko undertaking ni cheesy


Don't worry I will send you a mail
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by kishbee41(m): 1:32pm On Dec 04, 2017
my guy i no fit sit down see her with knife come dey form gentleman naw,make i run or beg,why naw,she has a knife then its a war,i have to protect myself,life is too short but sweet,the way i go smash her head God oh God
tosyne2much:
[/b] You this guy sha cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy [/i]
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by tosyne2much(m): 1:53pm On Dec 04, 2017
kishbee41:
my guy i no fit sit down see her with knife come dey form gentleman naw,make i run or beg,why naw,she has a knife then its a war,i have to protect myself,life is too short but sweet,the way i go smash her head God oh God
I understand bro cheesy
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by alklas(m): 2:13pm On Dec 04, 2017
Some women wicked sha
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by Anusiemgood(m): 2:59pm On Dec 04, 2017
They know born that woman well..I will kill her if she tries to do any nonsense in my house.
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by ubunja(m): 3:06pm On Dec 04, 2017
nairanaira12:


Your orientation will change when you get older
im in my 30s

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Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by lovethchioma(f): 3:28pm On Dec 04, 2017
tosyne2much:
Form ko undertaking ni cheesy

Don't worry I will send you a mail
alright
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by sholajigga(m): 4:36pm On Dec 04, 2017
Lexusgs430:


So because I go on regular test drives, I deserve a knife down my throat ?

I tire ooo. Can’t a man just test drive for just testing sakes.
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by Eddy2cute(m): 4:40pm On Dec 04, 2017
tosyne2much:
So quick? cheesy
yes ooo my broda no time to wait 4 stabbing
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by Lexusgs430: 4:41pm On Dec 04, 2017
sholajigga:


I tire ooo. Can’t a man just test drive for just testing sakes.

I wonder o........ Can't a man test drive in peace and not end up slashed into pieces?
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by Casmir14(f): 5:22pm On Dec 04, 2017
Desyner:
Some of them did things in the past that toughen them up . . . Like joining bad gang. I trace most of these violent back to that.
Some are into drugs too.
Your such a clown
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:54pm On Dec 04, 2017
Rubbiish:

Oga stop sounding f00lish...
Advise like yours misled that woman into doing sth irrational & now she is suffering in prison for it, while u here spewing trash...
The only right thing for any person to do his cheating partner is to divorce him or her, anything short of that is f00lishness....

the ones spewing trash are all you deluded people who actually think a cheating man deserve a divorce, because thats what YOU deluded people think is the "right" way to handle cheating. ARRANT NONSENSE! there are NO right way to handle a wrong act, NONE! everyone can decide what they should do in that instance, and mad people have the right to decide to kill that cheating motherfukcer. but hey, here is a bloody clue: just dont cheat and you will be good!
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:55pm On Dec 04, 2017
tosyne2much:
Baba, all these your arguments no just make sense jawe. Why would you be justifying murder? undecided

when holy books are justifying murder, do you see anything wrong with them?! bro, dont be an hypocrite.

cindybaby22:

Please take the holy book out of your stupidity
U re not making sense
Even the lady was crying in court, covering her face in shame. Here u are defending her undecided
Nothing justify killing your hubby, except they make attempt on your life, not for cheating

you are indeed clueless about the bible... i suggest you read what is the punishment in the bible for marrying a woman who is not a virgin.

now, whether you believe her crocodile tears or not is your problem, i certainly dont care. at the end of the day, thats what this mad woman thought was RIGHT at the time.

Rubbiish:

Does the bible recommend killing as a solution to cheating??

i am talking about revenge killing, which there are many instance in the holy book....whether for cheating or anything else, the bible is ok with revenge killing.
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by Desyner: 6:43pm On Dec 04, 2017
Casmir14:
Your such a clown
? ? Clown how?
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by MichaelBlake40: 7:29pm On Dec 04, 2017
tosyne2much:
Baba, all these your arguments no just make sense jawe. Why would you be justifying murder? undecided
The way some people will be calling bible 'Jewish book', 'stupid book' u will wonder who is being brainwashed
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by MichaelBlake40: 7:38pm On Dec 04, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


when holy books are justifying murder, do you see anything wrong with them?! bro, dont be an hypocrite.



you are indeed clueless about the bible... i suggest you read what is the punishment in the bible for marrying a woman who is not a virgin.

now, whether you believe her crocodile tears or not is your problem, i certainly dont care. at the end of the day, thats what this mad woman thought was RIGHT at the time.



i am talking about revenge killing, which there are many instance in the holy book....whether for cheating or anything else, the bible is ok with revenge killing.
Obviously you haven't read the Bible az a whole(in its entire context)
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by sholajigga(m): 9:31pm On Dec 04, 2017
Lexusgs430:


I wonder o........ Can't a man test drive in peace and not end up slashed into pieces?

Even bible talk am say man shall not live by bread alone.
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by sholajigga(m): 9:37pm On Dec 04, 2017
So, because your man cheats, that gives you the effrontery to slash or stab him abi?


Men are polygamous in nature, and if your man cheats on you it’s a norm because before him it has always been like that.

Instead of you to find a better way to look hot for your man so that he won’t go out looking for Caro, you’re busy contemplating whether to slash his throat or stab him.

Aunty your place in hell fire na duplex o. Continue!

My fellow sabi men, every woman that’ll kill you before your time will not cross your path IJN.

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Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by Lexusgs430: 9:51pm On Dec 04, 2017
sholajigga:


Even bible talk am say man shall not live by bread alone.

Why eat only apples, when other fruits are available?

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Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by sholajigga(m): 9:59pm On Dec 04, 2017
Lexusgs430:


Why eat only apples, when other fruits are available?


No be lie Baba.
Re: How To Avoid Being Stabbed To Death By Your Wife By Wisdom Nwedene by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:35pm On Dec 04, 2017
MichaelBlake40:

Obviously you haven't read the Bible az a whole(in its entire context)

bro, dont let me SCHOOL you about all the atrocities that the bible DEMAND of you people, that you choose to selfishly disregard.... your god is a murderous god that would demand that you KILL anyone (man, woman or child) that does not abide by "some' of his doctrines.

but hey, if you need any proof, just feast your eyes on the below verses and tell me if that is any better...

MURDER/INFANTICIDE IS OK
- If a man have a stubborn and rebellious son, which will not obey the voice of his father, or the voice of his mother, and that, when they have chastened him, will not hearken unto them: Then shall his father and his mother lay hold on him, and bring him out unto the elders of his city, and unto the gate of his place; And they shall say unto the elders of his city, This our son is stubborn and rebellious, he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton, and a drunkard. And all the men of his city shall stone him with stones, that he die. Deuteronomy 21:18-21

STONING OF NON VIRGNS
- If, however, the charge is true and no proof of the young woman’s virginity can be found, 21 she shall be brought to the door of her father’s house and there the men of her town shall stone her to death. She has done an outrageous thing in Israel by being promiscuous while still in her father’s house. You must purge the evil from among you. Deuteronomy 22: 20-21

CURSE YOUR PARENTS, YOU DIE
- anyone who curses their father or mother is to be put to death. Because they have cursed their father or mother, their blood will be on their own head. Leviticus 20:9

MURDER FOR BESTIALITY
- If a man has sex with an animal, he must be put to death, and the animal must be killed. Leviticus 20:15

OK TO THROW KIDS ONTO WALLS
- Happy is the one who seizes your infants and dashes them against the rocks. Psalm 137:9

but then again, here is what else your holy book mention that you are quick to pretend you didnt see...

SLAVERY IS OK
- You may purchase male or female slaves from among the foreigners who live among you. You may also purchase the children of such resident foreigners, including those who have been born in your land. You may treat them as your property, passing them on to your children as a permanent inheritance. You may treat your slaves like this, but the people of Israel, your relatives, must never be treated this way. Leviticus 25:44-46

CANNIBALISM IS OK
- If in spite of this you still do not listen to me but continue to be hostile toward me, then in my anger I will be hostile toward you, and I myself will punish you for your sins seven times over. You will eat the flesh of your sons and the flesh of your daughters. Leviticus 26:27-30

- I will make them eat the flesh of their sons and daughters, and they will eat one another’s flesh because their enemies will press the siege so hard against them to destroy them. Jeremiah 19:9

RAPE IS OK SO LONG AS YOU MARRY YOUR VICTIM
- If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and they are discovered, he shall pay her father fifty shekels of silver. He must marry the young woman, for he has violated her. He can never divorce her as long as he lives.
Deuteronomy 22:28-29

BANG YOUR CHILDLESS BROTHER'S WIFE
- Moses wrote for us that if a man’s brother dies and leaves a wife but no children, the man must marry the widow and raise up offspring for his brother. Mark 12:19

WEARING OF CLOTHING MADE OUT OF DIFFERENT MATERIAL
- Do not wear clothing woven of two kinds of material. Leviticus 19:19

YOU SIN WITH YOUR ARM; LEG OR EYE, YOU CUT IT OFF
- If your hand causes you to stumble, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life maimed than with two hands to go into hell, where the fire never goes out. And if your foot causes you to stumble, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life crippled than to have two feet and be thrown into hell. And if your eye causes you to stumble, pluck it out. It is better for you to enter the kingdom of God with one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into hell. Mark 9:43

SOMEONE STEALS FROM YOU, GIVE HIM MORE
- And if anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well. Mathew 5:40

NEVER GETTING A ROUND HAIRCUT OR CUTTING YOUR BEARD
- Do not cut the hair at the sides of your head or clip off the edges of your beard.. Leviticus 19:27

A BASTARD CAN NEVER EVER BE A CHRISTIAN
- No one born of a forbidden marriage (bastard) nor any of their descendants may enter the assembly of the Lord, not even in the tenth generation. Deuteronomy 23:2

WOMEN CANNOT TEACH MEN
- I permit no woman to teach or have authority over men; she is to keep silent. Timothy 2:11

WOMAN TOUCH ANOTHER MAN'S DIKC, CUT OFF HER HAND
- When men fight with one another, and the wife of the one draws near to rescue her husband from the hand of him who is beating him, and puts out her hand and seizes him by the private parts, then you shall cut off her hand. Deuteronomy 25:11-12

WOMEN UNCLEAN WHILE MENSTRUATING
- When a woman has a discharge, if her discharge in her body is blood, she shall continue in her menstrual impurity for seven days; and whoever touches her shall be unclean until evening. Everything also on which she lies during her menstrual impurity shall be unclean, and everything on which she sits shall be unclean. Leviticus 15: 19-20.

LOOKING AT A WOMAN IN LUST IS A SIN
- But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. (Matthew 5:28)

CIRCUMCISED MEN CANNOT BE CHRISTIAN
- No one who has been emasculated by crushing or cutting may enter the assembly of the Lord. Deuteronomy 23:1

SHARE ALL YOUR POSSESSIONS
- Anyone who has two shirts should share with the one who has none, and anyone who has food should do the same. Luke 3:11

WOMEN MUST PRAY WITH THEIR HEADS COVERED AND NEVER SHAVE THEIR HEAD
- But every woman who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head—it is the same as having her head shaved. 1 Corinthians 11:5

you either take your holy book for ALL its worth or nothing, but dont be an hypocrite...

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