please help/advice me
here is my story please read to the end.
I was raised by my mum, I never knew who my Father was until my jss2 2008 that was when my father showed up to take responsibilities over me as Father.
Let me start by telling you my family background.
I come from a poor family, even my father used to talk to his mother, that she shouldn't have brought him into life in this kind of family. My late grandfather married two wives, my grandmother was the second wife and my dad was the first son to her mother and fifth son to his Father.
His half brothers hated him because of the portions of land his father shared to him when he was alive..
This is a family where the 3rd blood brother to my Dad rejected completely and left for Lagos (when I was not even born)..and up till today he not returned ..
My mum cared for me as a mother (God bless her) Until I was 17 years old, that was when I left to live with my Dad in port-harcout. My dad started sponsoring my education from my SS2 and He Swore with his life dat he will send me 2 d university and that I must be the first graduate in the family. I Loved my Dad so much, tho he didn't used to gve much as I always demanded bt he was always giving his best, I mean all he had.
He bought jamb for me in 2015 and I scored 244 in the exams but wasn't offered admission that year because the course I applied for that year was very competitive. My dad, gave me hope and promised that I must register again in 2016 and I must go to school.
My Father was a presiding elder in a Mount Zion Light House Full Gospel church in oyigbo, river state. He was a Tailor, was friendly with people. Everybody knew and loved him.
He got sick early 2016, it was like a malaria, typhoid.. The sickness did not put him down as at then.
So I registered and sat for 2016 jamb and scored 210 yet no admission.
It got worst earlier 2017 one month after I've registered for 2017 jamb.
He spent so much money both in hospitals and for herbs.

On March 2017 he left for village hoping he might find someone who might give him a good native treatment. So left me alone in port-harcout with 3000 naira, hoping will return in a week or two weeks time.
While he was still in the village I wrote my jamb and scored 211.
my school (uniport)p.utme form came out, my dad on sick bed sent me money to register for the exams which I did and passd the exams.
2months in the vllage, my dad did not called as usual, so I calld him after I have not seen his call for almost 2weeks and he told me that he can't even walk again and he was fighting to speak wit me , I knew from his voice. It changd totaly, I could hardly hear my Dad on phone. I didn't have transport to go to the village I would've gone there that week. But it took me almost a month to get money for transport that was after I meet the church and some of his friends, they gathered 7k for me which used 2k for my transport to village.
When got to the village I saw my Dad, I cried! I cried, I loved my father so much even though he was not a rich man but was always giving me all he had. I could hardly recognized my father, all the flesh on his face he had gone, was like a living skeleton.
His belly became big as if it was being pumped, and legs also. He couldn't walk, couldn't do anything for himself again..we spent all the money he had, sold everything in village to save my Dad but nothing worked out.
I was still with him in the village.
School wasn't really problem again as at that time. His Life was all I prayed for.
The last money we spent for his life was about 47k but nothing worked. that money was all we had left.
So after somedays with my father, I decided to visit my mom in uyo, not far from my village, when I told my dad about this he said to me" Utibe! you want to visit your mum??, go but come back on Friday, u hear??"(In a very slow and low voice).
So I left and spent 3days in my mums place. That Friday, I couldn't go back to my village. So I decided to call on Saturday. When I called someone picked up and say 'Utibe your father is dead, what are you still doing in uyo!"
I madt, I didn't have a dime with me ..so went and borrowed 200naira from someone and pay transport to my village.
Immediately I get to the I saw my grandmother, she cried, holding me tight, asking me if I will be able to bury her the way father would've done? That my father was her only hope..I consoled her, telling her I will do my best.
I couldn't even enter the room my father s corp was being embalm.
My dad died on 24th June 2017 and was buried on 26th since there was Money for mortuary. I cried that day, and wished my self death. What kind of family was I born into! Why did my mother even gave birth to me a'll.
Family that cannot pay mortuary bill for their brother?. I cried and cried and cried.. Nothing.
6days after my dad was buried, I left the village to ph. When I meet with the church and told them everything.

I wanted them to come and pray in my father's grave but the church said NO the they won't come. That we should've embalmed my father in the mortuary and inform the church. We begged and begged explaining that there was money, BT they refused coming. So I got angry and left the church and up till today I've not stepped my foot in that church again.
Please I Seriously need help.
Today I have gotten admission to study my dream course in university of port-harcout but no money to finance it..
Why is this life so unfair with me?? Is it my fault that I came to this world??
I went to a church today, and told the pastor all i have been through, that i want to go to school after which I asked for a financial support and all he said to me was that I should come next week
that he has someone that will give me work that will b giving me small small money, worst is I can't do hard jobs, if I carry any weight is equivalent to 20litter of water I will feel a sharp pain on my spine.

My dream is going to school, please someone should help me. or better still advice me on what to do..
I have been offered admission to study computer science and mathematics in university of port-harcout..
please spare my wack write ups. bless you all.

You have to take ur life into ur hands...You need to start a trade to sponsor ur self..Your daddy was a tailor did u learn d trade?
If u can learn a trade n work for ur money to help ur self in school then do it. But for now u have to beg for ur school fees first then find hand work at least u won't be at the mercy of others.May God help u with the right resources

[quote author=shammahyaro post=64186647][/quote] thank you very much sir.

Hmmmm.. Irony of Life. Some gots head but no cap, while others have cap but no head.

It's well bro. God will make a way where there seems to be no way. He'll definitely make a way for you..

take heart, life is full of up and down.. if you need better audience, you can please provide a Proof of admission, something to show your story is real. hopefully good people here will take it up from there.

Cc: Seun
lalasticlala
mynd44

Please help move to fp.

wow... stories like this make me count my blessings. @Miracle, my sincere condolence on your dad's demise, cant really say i understand how you feel but one thing i know is that nothing comes your way in life that you cannot handle with God, diligence and determination...
So if you are willing and believe, this can be a source of MOTIVATION to you NOW, and a source of INSPIRATION TOMMORROW the choice is your's.

"Challenge goes before success"

I think you need to inform people here when is your school resumption, the deadline for your fees payment and how much you really need to secure the admission. Also, provide some evidence of your admission.

Efewestern:
take heart, life is full of up and down.. if you need better audience, you can please provide a Proof of admission, something to show your story is real. hopefully good people here will take it up from there.

Cc: Seun
lalasticlala
mynd44

Please help move to fp.

yes sir I have proof

the deadline for school fee payment is 26th of this month.
please someone should help me.

Miracle121:


yes sir I have proof

Okay then snap and upload, tell us estimate of how much you really need, deadline etc. have you done your clearance / screening?

These days people re really scared of helping due to so much scam, so be patient when some people starts asking you some questions.

Miracle121:
the deadline for school fee payment is 26th of this month.

please someone should help me.

what's your name on that list, and admission letter corresponding to such name.. Good people here will surely help..

Efewestern:


Okay then snap and upload, tell us estimate of how much you really need, deadline etc. have you done your clearance / screening?

These days people re really scared of helping due to so much scam, so be patient when some people starts asking you some questions.

Sir, I have the acceptance fee which is 30000 but the school fee and accommodation fee is what I don't have.
sir the school for freshmen is 115000k. please you can help me with anything.

@ Miracle121 have seen it, please also state your school fees, after paying this you need money for upkeep, you still need to hustle, you can do some pity jobs like laundry to keep body and soul together.

cc: seun
lalasticlala
mynd44
Dominique

this dude needs more audience.. please help him out.

Miracle121:


Sir, I have the acceptance fee which is 30000 but the school fee and accommodation fee is what I don't have.
sir the school for freshmen is 115000k. please you can help me with anything.

115k, quite large, proceed with the acceptance and make sure you have your matric number, don't want to promise amount I won't send u later, but am following this thread and will definitely send the little I have.

we still need more good people willing to help. that aside you need to work too.

cc: fratermathy
Sanchez01
pragmatistm

Efewestern:


115k, quite large, proceed with the acceptance and make sure you have your matric number, don't want to promise amount I won't send u later, but am following this thread and will definitely send the little I have.

we still need more good people willing to help. that aside you need to work too.

cc: fratermathy
Sanchez01

thank you very much sir, I will pay the acceptance fee tomorrow. God bless You.

Miracle121:


thank you very much sir, I will pay the acceptance fee tomorrow. God bless You.

You just need to secure the admission , such things don't come easily, pay tomorrow and start your clearance, when you re done then one part is out.

you can continue with your studies anytime you want if you finish with the screening . so don't think much. may God strengthen you.

I also think you need to do some little thing to help settle some bills.. not every job requires you to carry a 30kg load.

pragmatistm:
I think you need to inform people here when is your school resumption, the deadline for your fees payment and how much you really need to secure the admission. Also, provide some evidence of your admission.

I have done that Sir

Efewestern:


You just need to secure the admission , such things don't come easily, pay tomorrow and start your clearance, when you re done then one part is out.

you can continue with your studies anytime you want if you finish with the screening . so don't think much. may God strengthen you.

I also think you need to do some little thing to help settle some bills.. not every job requires you to carry a 30kg load.

I will that sir. thank you very much

I pray God will send you a helper.

How can we authenticate your story?Have read lots of scam stories on this forum,have never fell a victim and wont want to.

We need more proof,more as in any other thing you think can make we believe you.

You can also post your bank details.

Can anyone in PH volunteer to meet this young man for further confirmation?

Efewestern:


115k, quite large, proceed with the acceptance and make sure you have your matric number, don't want to promise amount I won't send u later, but am following this thread and will definitely send the little I have.

we still need more good people willing to help. that aside you need to work too.

cc: fratermathy
Sanchez01
pragmatistm

May your pocket never run dry IJN

Efewestern:


115k, quite large, proceed with the acceptance and make sure you have your matric number, don't want to promise amount I won't send u later, but am following this thread and will definitely send the little I have.

we still need more good people willing to help. that aside you need to work too.

cc: fratermathy
Sanchez01
pragmatistm

Oniovo, sorry I couldn't respond to your mention with my other moniker. I got banned by Mynd44 for speaking ill about Buhari.

Something seems amiss about the OP's tale; his tale looks like a narrative. Interestingly, all his previous posts are hidden.

I totally align with singature2012.

Miracle121, kindly include your phone numbers, would call you.

Sanchez02:

Oniovo, sorry I couldn't respond to your mention with my other moniker. I got banned by Mynd44 for speaking ill about Buhari.

Something seems amiss about the OP's tale; his tale looks like a narrative. Interestingly, all his previous posts are hidden.

I totally align with singature2012.

Miracle121, kindly include your phone numbers, would call you.

Yes I agree with you.. we have met so many scammers here, I earlier told him to avail himself for more questions, do you reside in PH?

I also suspect why his earlier post were all hidden, hopefully he get some reasonable explanation for that.

Omamu'rio'ke oniovo.

Please I am not a scammer please, am telling the truth.
why my old post is not showing is because I was banned on the 31th December last year because I posted this story on a wrong section also as a comment, so I was banned for 6days. when the ban was lifted I couldn't see my old posts again.

please am saying the truth.

anyone that want to confirm if am telling the truth should call my mum with 09074032031( she is an Akwa ibomite, she doesn't speak English, but at least she can try) or my uncle, the elder brother to my mum,..08039108854 he can speak very well.

am in port-harcout, oyibo.
anyone can come to the compound am living and confirm everything..
my number is 08080009224.
thank you very much God bless you all.

How do you plan to pay for subsequent years ?


Sorry - I didn’t read the full story

Tolzeal:
How do you plan to pay for subsequent years ?


Sorry - I didn’t read the full story

sir I believe I can handle that once I've started school.
I have thought about all that, I believe God will se Me through.
the school fee for returning students is not as high as that of new students, it's 45000 per academic session.

Wow...Reading through and realized some of us Nigerians re still nice despite d way our image is portrayed outside... I'd really love to help but I'm still trying to stand my feet. Good luck in ur endeavours

please the Mods should help me push this to the front page please. am about paying the acceptance fee

Front page mbok

i liv in phc

Efewestern:
@ Miracle121 have seen it, please also state your school fees, after paying this you need money for upkeep, you still need to hustle, you can do some pity jobs like laundry to keep body and soul together.

cc: seun
lalasticlala
mynd44
Dominique

this dude needs more audience.. please help him out.

oga u r doing a grt job

heaven ll replenish uu