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| How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by hotgirl1000(op): 9:46pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
I have completely lost faith in God, so please do not tell me about Jesus I am young only 23 and my siblings 19. I also have an autistic sister age 22 |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by XINZ: 9:49pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
Are you that girl who's always asking us if her breasts are big enough?  |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by hotgirl1000(op): 9:50pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
XINZ:thats not the issue, can you please reply something serious 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by Artistree: 9:51pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
This is Farida, I wonder why you always create new monikers for your lamentation |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by Nobody: 9:52pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
I'm sure her death is over 5 or 6 months now because I can remember the threads you created with your former account. My advice is "pick up your pieces and move on with life. Work hard and become somebody in life. Now, you are responsible for the care of your siblings. Take care of them like your own kids because you are the MOTHER" 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by XINZ: 9:53pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
hotgirl1000:You wanna read things that'll make you feel better. No one owes you nothing, if you can't preserve your own life then you don't deserve to have it in the first place! |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by delishpot: 9:53pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
OP you stated in one of your topic that you wanted to do runs and you are 24, how you come take become 23 here? To think that I took the case personal sha- |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by delishpot: 9:55pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
XINZ:Have you lost a parent or a loved one? My guess is no that is why you are being careless with your comment 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by hotgirl1000(op): 9:56pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
yes, it is I Farida in real life I am strong but here I come here and lament I feel so down. i miss her so much, i feel ashamed and sad.. and angry. |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by hotgirl1000(op): 9:57pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
delishpot:  |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by XINZ: 9:57pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
delishpot:If you've lost half the loved the loved ones I've lost, you'd start seeing things from my perspective. That's not the case anyway, the OP is known to seek attention this way hence my response. |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by delishpot: 9:59pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
XINZ:I get you. She is trolling ba? let me check her other posts |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by XINZ: 10:00pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
delishpot:You won't see much since she's on a new sobriquet. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by hotgirl1000(op): 10:02pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
XINZ:i am not an attention seeker i am being genuine i wanted to become a prostitute as the prayers i prayed before for progress was never answered so i thought let me try runs and who have you lost - did your parents die? |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by AntiWailer: 10:05pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
hotgirl1000:Just pick up and move on. She will smile when u are a success. Sorrry about your loss. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by XINZ: 10:06pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
hotgirl1000:You're an attention seeker but it's okay if it makes you feel better. You think you're having it hard in London? Why not come back to Nigeria so you can see what actual suffering looks like! People don't have to DIE before you loose em' |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by hotgirl1000(op): 10:07pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
i have been to nigeria many times i know how tough it is but my mother is dead my life has lost its sweetness even if i achieve the world what is the point when my mother is dead? is your mother alive? XINZ: |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by XINZ: 10:13pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
hotgirl1000:What's the point, really. Why not just join her since you were born to live your life for the glorification of your mother, simply join her  Yes she's alive, but it ain't gat shiit to do with you or your mom. |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by hotgirl1000(op): 10:16pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
XINZ:it has. because you are enjoying your mother whilst mine is decomposing 6 feet under as we speak no matter what challenges life brings you, the love of your mother makes everything ok- mine is gone. my life if not for the fact of my siblings and dad, does not seem worth living |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by BiafranBushBoy: 10:25pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
Mtchewwwwwwwwe |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by nnamdiosu(m): 11:19pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
hotgirl1000:Hello dear.... I feel.your pain. U just need to grieve. Don't hold your emotions back. Express them out...then slowly you'll start getting better. I'm here if u need a shoulder to cry on or talk too OK. Its gonna be all right |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by Impulse80(m): 11:54pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
hotgirl1000:Listen ma'am, i won't tell you that everything will be alright because it won't. So live with the pain and learn to use it. If you lose your will to live then you'll be useless to everyone around you. My dad died when I was 13 and my mum died two years later. We had to grieve and move on, not dwell on it. I saw your other thread on becoming a call girl, my advice is simple -- agbachaa oso agua mile. |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by Pureheart91(m): 12:52am On Jan 28, 2018 |
My dear, One way or the other, we'll have lost someone and something so dear to us. Indeed it's "he that wears the shoe knows where it aches", albeit, you should know that world we leave in isnt a bed of all roses where u get to eat ur cake and have it. Everyone feels pained, betrayed and downcasted; yet it's the way you handle yours that makes u different. Need I say that success most atimes is built from failure, sorrow and pains;it still boils down to the way u decide to channel your emotions. Do you know been a call girl is one of the hardest things a lady can be, as it's affects her physically, emotionally and mentally. Instead of using ur youthful energy in becoming one, please look and search within you their must be something you are really good at doing. Finally, the demise of ur mum shouldn't be urs too, remember u have sisters to look after, would mum be happy if u decide to end ur life or become a prostitute. A word is enough for you. Have a cheerful night |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by hotgirl1000(op): 1:19am On Jan 28, 2018 |
WHAT does dat lurvly igbo mean? ok, how old r u now Impulse80: |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by Impulse80(m): 3:30am On Jan 28, 2018 |
hotgirl1000:The things I said happened 15 years ago. At least you're in a saner country. It's a proverb, it means there's a consequence for every action that you take. |
| Re: How Do I Cope With The Loss Of My Mother by hotgirl1000(op): 10:28am On Jan 28, 2018 |
how did u cope are you male or female how does it affect you today, your sisters - omugwo, childbirth, graduation etc Impulse80: |
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