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Hmm...don't u think him eating ur pussy and ass is the cause of his bad breath? Anyways i 'm just saying


Advise him to stop eating u down there and seek for good medical help.

Goodluck



Meanwhile this a thread you created sometime last year. It seems ur marriage is heading for the rocks due to poor sexual life. I think you should talk to your mum about the issue...
https://www.nairaland.com/3695167/sexless-marriage

dingbang:
Hmm...don't u think him eating ur pussy and ass is the cause of his bad breath? Anyways i 'm just saying


Advise him to stop eating u down there and seek for good medical help.

Goodluck

Please let's not joke around here. He has always had a breath issue even before we became intimate.

missperky:
Please let's not joke around here. He has always had a breath issue even before we became intimate.

and all those years you didn't notice it that it would be a redflag ?

missperky:
I'm so tired of my husband. We been together for a total of 7 years (married for 2) . Throughout this time I've been telling him about his hallitosis (bad breath).
He would get angry that I dont want to kiss him but please how am I supposed to do this when his mouth is always smelling like latrine?
He is so tall and handsome with a great physique but his nonchalant attitude turns me off.
Our sex life is in the dumps although makes up for it by always eating my pzzy & a** and even though it turns me on, I hate the way he does it. Penetrative sex is wack.
He cant even fix things around the house.
All this makes it hard for me to look up to him with love & respect. We resent each other.

Please just one more chance. There is a solution for halitosis (bad breath) and sex issues. Why not try to get the solution for him while we hope that he cooperates?

At least you will know that you've done everything possible to make things work

Calm down ma'am , what else have you done to help him fix the bad breath , apart from telling him he has a bad breath .

If you love him enough you should have made research and you would have seen that there are some food supplements and natural ingredients you can add to his food to help him.Ginger is one of those things that can cure bad breath , funny enough ginger also helps boost libido, so it has dual function.Lime and lemon, oraansge would also help because of the citrus acid. (My apology in advance if you have tried to help him apart from just talking to him).

Telling somebody he has bad breath is a very sensitive thing , how do you put it to him ?

You are claiming his penetrative sex is wack , does sex have to be a one way street ?, you also dont have to just lie down and wait to be serviced ?.Learn how to give it to him too .

No offense but you sound like a nag ma'am , you sound like a person that complains about everything , but is not ready to make amends on her own part and try to make things work (My apologies if I am wrong , I am just typing based on the way you talk here)

He cant fix things in the house ? -> Get youtube videos for him , tell him "honey lets watch this together and fix it together "

Besides you shouldn't have used the word latrine , even though it actually smells like latrine .

The earlier people view marriage as partnership , the better for everyone , including the kids .

wheew I have never being so blunt on Nairaland before , I am sorry if you feel ofended , I just had to tell you the truth .

God bless you and bless your marriage .

dingbang:
and all those years you didn't notice it that it would be a redflag ?

I was blindly in love and so attracted to him. Thought it was a small issue that can be easily resolved. was clearly mistaken.

missperky:
I was blindly in love and so attracted to him. Thought it was a small issue that can be easily resolved. was clearly mistaken.

now I know love is never enough to power a marriage.. Its clear ur husband is not ready to salvage the situation.. The only advise I can give to you right now is carry your cross...

Donald3d:
Calm down ma'am , what else have you done to help him fix the bad breath , apart from telling him he has a bad breath .

If you love him enough you should have made research and you would have seen that there are some food supplements and natural ingredients you can add to his food to help him.Ginger is one of those things , funny enough ginger also helps boost libido. (My apology in advance if you have tried to help him apart from just talking to him).

Telling somebody he has bad breath is a very sensitive thing , how do you put it to him ?

You are claiming his penetrative sex is wax , does sex have to be a one way street ?, you also dont have to just lie down and waait to be serviced ?.Learn how to give it to him too .

No offense but you sound like a nag ma'am , you sound like a person that complains about everything , but is not ready to make amends on her own part and try to make things work (My apologies if I am wrong , I am just typing based on the way you talk here)

He cant fix things in the house ? -> Get youtube videoss for him , tell him honey leyts watch this together and fix it together

Besides you shouldn't have used the word latrine , even though it actually smells like latrine .

The earlier people view marriage as partnership , the better for everyone , including the kids .

wheew I have never being so blunt on Nairaland before , I am sorry if you feel ofended , I just had to tell you the truth .

God bless you and bless your marriage .

No offense taken. Yes ive watched myself evolve into something I never was (a nag) . and this is because Im so furstrated emotionally and sexually. Never enjoyed this marriage from day one. We are a popular couple amongst friends and keeping up a facade is taking its toll on me.

missperky:
No offense taken. Yes ive watched myself evolve into something I never was (a nag) . and this is because Im so furstrated emotionally and sexually. Never enjoyed this marriage from day one. We are a popular couple amongst friends and keeping up a facade is taking its toll on me.

Apart from this two issues , breath and sex , is he loving and caring in every other aspect ?

missperky:
I was blindly in love and so attracted to him. Thought it was a small issue that can be easily resolved. was clearly mistaken.

Oya divorce him na. Weiten you still they wait?

Slaye:
Oya divorce him na. Weiten you still they wait?

lol she can't divorce.. They live to please outsiders.

Oh dear! Luckily* they are issues that can be fixed directly and even subtly!

In addition to Donald3d 's advice which is apt, do free the man for a bit .

Don't discuss the issues for a while use other meyhods to help him like the diet , do some research. Buy mouthwash place in the car and all bathrooms. you use them maybe he will take a cue. Change his brush and brand of toothpaste.

As for se.x try and guide him to show what you like extend pre-intimacy that may make him last longer during penetration.

If all fails let his good side make up for the bad sides

Ginger every night b4 sleeping take four tea spoon of lemon.

Babes u must really get urself togeda...peoplez marriage has crashed due to irrelevant non chalant behaviours n attitude of married couples

Just get a mouth wash n he will b using it day n night after normal teeth brushing if u ask him in a loving manner

Sex is a 2 waything so u hv to stop expecting too much from him....provide Ur hubby wit gud fud lyk unripe plaintain porridege wit fruits like waterlemon cocumber gardeneggs wit
banana n Ur sex life will improve within 2 monthz

Lastly women r d home builder n if
u r wise u will Tank God daily n protect Ur home from spiritual vulturez...

Madam u honestly try. Dating him with his bad breathe, years back?

I had to break up with a guy after our first kiss. But u are married, u have to assist him to change his routine.

His breathe smelt like latrine, I just said in my mind, who is this guy eating? Who's Pussy is he devouring sef?
I just sent him a message, sorry I ain't interested anymore. He was perplexed asking why? Dialing my number endlessly, I couldn't tell him his breathe was bad, I lied and I said the feeling is not mutual

Lol. God forgive me

missperky:
I'm so tired of my husband. We been together for a total of 7 years (married for 2) . Throughout this time I've been telling him about his hallitosis (bad breath).
He would get angry that I dont want to kiss him but please how am I supposed to do this when his mouth is always smelling like latrine?
He is so tall and handsome with a great physique but his nonchalant attitude turns me off.
Our sex life is in the dumps although makes up for it by always eating my pzzy & a** and even though it turns me on, I hate the way he does it. Penetrative sex is wack.
He cant even fix things around the house.
All this makes it hard for me to look up to him with love & respect. We resent each other.

He is so tall and handsome with a great physique but his nonchalant attitude turns me off.


The above highlighted line is probably the main reason why u got married to him....Mistakes people make sha !!!

Godson201333:
He is so tall and handsome with a great physique but his nonchalant attitude turns me off.


The above highlighted line is probably the main reason why u got married to him....Mistakes people make sha !!!

So true

Some tall and handsome guys that have bad attitude or bad hygiene? They don't take to correction or to advice. They feel with their looks, they can have any woman who will put up with their rubbish. They hardly change for the better, until old age starts to clock and no woman by their side. Cause probably, they've married and divorced several times. Still they won't make their attitudes better.

She try.

Let thorpido coman answer you, cuz me I don't know what to say here.

Instead of u to look for solution and help him, u are complaining. If we hear ur Hubby's side of the story, I'm sure u have ur own issues too

He has bad breadth and all you've done is to tell him he has bad breadth?

Tell him to brush/wash his mouth (teeth and tongue) thoroughly, without hurting the gums. He can do this twice or 3 times daily. Emphasis on the word "tongue".

If he has a strong history of catarrh/cold, he should consider a permanent solution: Vitamin C (may be 1000mg/day) for a long timeframe will do. Also consider getting him a mouthwash (e.g. Listerine) and improve his diet.

You can't continue to do the same thing (nagging) and expect a different result. Consider improving your s e x life by changing the way you see things. S e x is not a one-way affair! May be he has less experience, don't judge him.

jashar:
Let thorpido coman answer you, cuz me I don't know what to say here.

Missperky,well,'tall and hansome'....….reason why you married him and overlooked some things.
Honestly if you came close to me and you had bad breath,I'll have my reservations.I'll help you work on it however.

Buy Colgate toothpaste and Listerine mouthwash.Encourage him to brush morning and last thing at night.Also make him gargle with the mouthwash morning and night.He could use that also before you make out so he smells nice.

Sex is a two way street.If your hubby isn't getting it,sometimes you have to lead.If he does something you like,tell him that is nice and you want more.If he's not getting it,show him how.
Change positions,find out what works better for you.You may have to ride him to get the pleasure you want.Communicate,don't just get angry and resent him.
I hope he listens and is open to change.

LMAO

he is eating your puzzy , his mouth is smelling , can't u see the correlation here ?

madam tell him to get a mouth wash and most importantly STOP eating your pussy,