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Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by bionixs: 3:06pm On Feb 15, 2018
Ahmed0336:
Nawa o, these days marriages are as scary as hell.
serious matter
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by Odianose13(m): 3:08pm On Feb 15, 2018
FluidQueen:
.... dumb, Silly man with a lot of misplaced priorities.

You were simply a vegetable in the family.
You were a liability.
You didn't pay rent
Never cared for your kids.
Your wife assisted your broke ass all through. And instead of showing her love and respect, you still disrespected her. Isi ewu!


Thankfully she'd divorce you and your children would despise you for not being a part of their life. I hope she wins child Custody too.

The Unbelievable part of this scenario is that such men would still claim to be the HEAD of the family? Hogwash!

Are you through? Thank you for your opinion. Let me challenge your comment.

What of a wife sleeping with other men? Will you call that responsible? The wife never denied sleeping with other men. And Yes, the man never denied being helped by his wife - he said she earned more than he did.

Plus, a man who begs for custody of his children so he trains them well in this scenario is not as irresponsible as you paint him to be.

If you feel that helping your husband grow financially makes him irresponsible, then you are selfish.

If the man says he doesn’t wanna give money to an adulterous woman as he will be seen to support her adultery and hence be punished dearly for it with death - he respect his tradition! As a Christian or Muslim, don’t u respect ur doctrines? Then why won’t he respect his culture? Ask the Esans, they have this tradition too.

Giving an adulterous woman custody of kids is the wrongest action to take. The future of those children is more than financial sponsors but more of responsible guardians which those kids will never have.

Please do not rush into conclusion as it affects ur gender, wrong of you my dear, wrong.

Peace!

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Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by Moinoni123(m): 3:10pm On Feb 15, 2018
OrientDailyNews:


https://orientdailynews.com.ng/news/give-wife-money-man-tells/



man must have been a "science student" in his school days or he would easily pass for a science student. Lol
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by farous(m): 3:11pm On Feb 15, 2018
so if a woman starts dating and sleeping with another man while still with her husband and finally the way the man used to fvck her or shower her with money and she now elope with the new man or the new man paid for accommodation for her and gave her an order that she should divorce the poor husband so that they can remarry,my question is,should court grant such woman the custody of the children so that she,the children and the new man(husband) start living together and abandoned the former poor husband to stay alone.Please i need to be enlightened.
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by Botane: 3:11pm On Feb 15, 2018
What a messy marriage, I pity the children
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by uprightman(m): 3:11pm On Feb 15, 2018
pautex:
AFTER READING THE EPISTLE, I DID NOT COME ACROSS WHERE HE MENTION HE WILL DIE IF HE GIVES MONEY TO HIS WIFE undecided
Are you not with your glasses?
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by Bonjoro: 3:12pm On Feb 15, 2018
biggerboyc:
Please if anyone is looking for roommate in Lagos I have someone who wants to pair or cheap room. Contact me through my signature

U no get work ni?
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by FluidQueen(f): 3:14pm On Feb 15, 2018
Odianose13:


Are you through? Thank you for your opinion. Let me challenge your comment.

What of a wife sleeping with other men? Will you call that responsible? The wife never denied sleeping with other men. And Yes, the man never denied being helped by his wife - he said she earned more than he did.

Plus, a man who begs for custody of his children so he trains them well in this scenario is not as irresponsible as you paint him to be.

If you feel that helping your husband growakes him irresponsible, then you are selfish.
infidelity in marriage is irresponsible, regardless of whichever stereotype one belongs to.

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Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by Bengazy82(m): 3:16pm On Feb 15, 2018
pautex:
AFTER READING THE EPISTLE, I DID NOT COME ACROSS WHERE HE MENTION HE WILL DIE IF HE GIVES MONEY TO HIS WIFE undecided
read again
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by ttaluko(m): 3:17pm On Feb 15, 2018
Na them sabi
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by centboy123456(m): 3:18pm On Feb 15, 2018
Ahmed0336:
Nawa o, these days marriages are as scary as hell.


bro marriage na sacm
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by Icon79(m): 3:18pm On Feb 15, 2018
Huh?? Understandest thou what thou readest

“In my tradition, if a woman marries another husband legally or illegally and the former husband still gives her money for the welfare of the children, he will die and I am not ready to die now,” he said.


O pari

pautex:
AFTER READING THE EPISTLE, I DID NOT COME ACROSS WHERE HE MENTION HE WILL DIE IF HE GIVES MONEY TO HIS WIFE undecided
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by marvin904(m): 3:19pm On Feb 15, 2018
FluidQueen:
infidelity in marriage is irresponsible, regardless of whichever stereotype one belongs to.




so you just decided to close your eyes to the woman infidelity...
and bash the man.. undecided undecided
it speaks alot about who you are
and from your former post you where saying the man was broke..
buh it seems you also turned a blind eye when he said he was willing to take care of them

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Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by RexTramadol1: 3:22pm On Feb 15, 2018
In a way that man is related to Don Jazzy ( don't ask me how).



I was even waiting to see sth like ritual.


Shioor!
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by FluidQueen(f): 3:22pm On Feb 15, 2018
marvin904:





so you just decided to close your eyes to the woman infidelity...
and bash the man.. undecided undecided
it speaks alot about who you are
because I have the autonomy to choose whoever I want to Criticize. smiley


The man didn't tick any of my boxes. The woman, however, ticked a lot.
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by Ghostmode2two(m): 3:24pm On Feb 15, 2018
This man don do science but not Olamide science
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by wellmax(m): 3:30pm On Feb 15, 2018
pautex:
AFTER READING THE EPISTLE, I DID NOT COME ACROSS WHERE HE MENTION HE WILL DIE IF HE GIVES MONEY TO HIS WIFE undecided

Its obvious you can read, but you cannot comprehend.

read again, this time slowly
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by demoBaba: 3:32pm On Feb 15, 2018
pautex:
AFTER READING THE EPISTLE, I DID NOT COME ACROSS WHERE HE MENTION HE WILL DIE IF HE GIVES MONEY TO HIS WIFE undecided



Read again boiiiiiiii
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by Marvis4real(f): 3:33pm On Feb 15, 2018
pautex:
AFTER READING THE EPISTLE, I DID NOT COME ACROSS WHERE HE MENTION HE WILL DIE IF HE GIVES MONEY TO HIS WIFE undecided
Read again especially the down part " A 55-year-old fashion designer, Stephen Enebeli, told an Igando Customary Court in
Lagos on Thursday that he would die if he gave money to his wife for the upkeep of
the family. Enebeli said this when he responded to a divorce petition by his wife, Eunice, alleging
lack of care for his children. “I stopped giving her money for feeding and school fees of our children when she
started living with another man. “In my tradition, if a woman marries another husband legally or illegally and the
former husband still gives her money for the welfare of the children, he will die and I
am not ready to die now,” he said."
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by marvin904(m): 3:36pm On Feb 15, 2018
FluidQueen:
because I have the autonomy to choose whoever I want to Criticize. smiley


The man didn't tick any of my boxes. The woman, however, ticked a lot.



a woman that drove her husband out of their home to be with another man..
ticks your box..
oh my lord undecided undecided
i shake my head for you
one of the biggest crime i see here is the man not earning more than the woman
and worst of the dude still loves hes wife..
instead of you to just pray they resolve their difference and get their home in place
your here saying God knows what
you dont know what it means to be in a broken home i i wont blame you sha

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Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by wacoj(m): 3:37pm On Feb 15, 2018
pautex:
AFTER READING THE EPISTLE, I DID NOT COME ACROSS WHERE HE MENTION HE WILL DIE IF HE GIVES MONEY TO HIS WIFE undecided

Did you really read it? shocked
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by Eddodoh(m): 3:37pm On Feb 15, 2018
givan:
Idoma; guess correct.. Funny superstition still persist in communities below the Benue river.
Lol! Wetin Idoma do?
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by BeingFrank(m): 3:42pm On Feb 15, 2018
The Jazz Wey Give HAm The Money Get Shark Teeth. Just Imagine. Wealth Without Peace.
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by Nobody: 3:47pm On Feb 15, 2018
pautex:
AFTER READING THE EPISTLE, I DID NOT COME ACROSS WHERE HE MENTION HE WILL DIE IF HE GIVES MONEY TO HIS WIFE undecided
PLEASE READ AGAIN!!!
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by Bigval5: 3:51pm On Feb 15, 2018
pautex:
AFTER READING THE EPISTLE, I DID NOT COME ACROSS WHERE HE MENTION HE WILL DIE IF HE GIVES MONEY TO HIS WIFE undecided


You no get eye be that o
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by obialinaeze(m): 3:52pm On Feb 15, 2018
FluidQueen:
.... dumb, Silly man with a lot of misplaced priorities.

You were simply a vegetable in the family.
You were a liability.
You didn't pay rent
Never cared for your kids.
Your wife assisted your broke ass all through. And instead of showing her love and respect, you still disrespected her. Isi ewu!
That does not negate the fact that he is there father.

Thankfully she'd divorce you and your children would despise you for not being a part of their life. I hope she wins child Custody too.

The Unbelievable part of this scenario is that such men would still claim to be the HEAD of the family? Hogwash!
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by darlenese(f): 4:02pm On Feb 15, 2018
pautex:
AFTER READING THE EPISTLE, I DID NOT COME ACROSS WHERE HE MENTION HE WILL DIE IF HE GIVES MONEY TO HIS WIFE undecided
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by Lordsview(m): 4:10pm On Feb 15, 2018
pautex:
AFTER READING THE EPISTLE, I DID NOT COME ACROSS WHERE HE MENTION HE WILL DIE IF HE GIVES MONEY TO HIS WIFE undecided
[left][/left][b][/b]check the opening paragraph
Re: "I Will Die, If I Give My Wife Money" - Man Tells Lagos Court by SantaDomino(m): 4:12pm On Feb 15, 2018
Take a bow ma'am.. Your comment just won you a front seat at the Grammy Awards ceremony slated on the 31st of this month. 9ice one!

FluidQueen:
.... dumb, Silly man with a lot of misplaced priorities.

You were simply a vegetable in the family.
You were a liability.
You didn't pay rent
Never cared for your kids.
Your wife assisted your broke ass all through. And instead of showing her love and respect, you still disrespected her. Isi ewu!


Thankfully she'd divorce you and your children would despise you for not being a part of their life. I hope she wins child Custody too.

The Unbelievable part of this scenario is that such men would still claim to be the HEAD of the family? Hogwash!

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